Silly why woman had to run after the Man very silly and man the one the problem

Sir test the waters with yo momma there is no room for disrespect we can both be single

It is all over for me. She rejected me 12 to 15 years ago. I continue to live with her because I can’t see the benefits in a divorce either, though to be frank, I considered it long and hard. Now at 70 I still stay rejected but at peace with myself and don’t want the disease of sexual desire to return to my mind. The apparatus won’t even work.

Thank you!

You are a wise man.

What if we already have a baby together. I want to be married. I think about giving him an ultimatum…

Thank you for this video, the Lord led me here. God bless you

Thank you so much this is exactly the counsel I needed. God bless you 🙏🏽🙏🏽

ty & God bless!

Great information but if you could just speak a little faster would be great. People don’t have much time and we’ve become accustomed to speed attention deficit.

What of my husband calls me a liar when I say I was at work or shopping or blames me when he makes mistakes even though I try to ignore it. I think the marijuana confuses him - but its crazy . Im into Jesus and try to show love and he keeps making it worse. 😢

That's a valid point. The relationship needs fuel, nourishment and nurturing to thrive. I can see how some people neglect that... which can lead to resentment or anger when you feel other things are more important than you A woman doesn't have to water herself down... just make sure your partner is also just as important to you as your career

Thank you for this video. My husband is a man’s man, and struggles with my will and sense of purpose. I am passionate, he is quiet. He often feels berated by me when I am trying to explain how I feel. I am trying to understand how to communicate without crying or yelling. As a woman it’s difficult. Please pray for my marriage, thank you.

BS give them love!!! Stay away far away from

What if he had done it multiple times

My wife and I have had sex 1 time in 2 years. She is 34 and I’m 43. It’s driving me crazy, but this video shook me to the core. We are separated now, due to me losing my mind and yelling at her, demanding her to do things. I spit on the ground in front of her and called her a fat b@tch before I left to stay at my parents house for 3 weeks. She wants to go to marriage counseling now though and I don’t want to mess this up because she said this is my chance, if I mess up once more it’s a divorce. We have 2 sons and they are hurt by all this, aged 7 and 2. I pray to God that I can mend my own insane way of thinking and acting. I don’t want to relive the past but if my wife brings up the past I’ll just “turn to dust” and listen, from my heart.

Thank you, you really have helped me 🤍

Make a video about what husbands need to do as well

Thank you I’m newly engaged and have never been married before but this is def some wisdom❤

Sounds like they have nothing in common

proverbs 21:9. 1st timothy 2:12-16.

Because theyre narcistic and entitlement to view woman as sex objects rather than humans

One person can't make a Marriage work and when you are in it for years it also mess up the Children when they have to see all that's happening

I have listened to the first few signs and have a question right away. Are you saying that in every situation in the marriage up to and including adultery, a man shall correct his behavior to make his wife like him more? Would that cause a wife to despise a husband for not having a self respect?

Ok Tried to not respond in a negative way to her nagging. Now she cheated with some other dad from school and wants to leave. What do I do? I guess showing some more backbone might have helped...

Thank you so much Paul

Looks like doormat to me

You’re right. Thank you!

Hmm, it’s dumbfounding how many KZfaq videos bias this subject as the husband is not doing enough or not doing things just right to keep their wife interested, attracted and engaged. Believe me, as a man married 35 years to the same lovely woman, wives have plenty of things they need to improve on too.

What do you suggest for a couple that has one spouse that's had traumatic young adult sexual assault that never sought any healing for it, and now in marriage the issue is preventing intimacy of any kind? And there are other issues too, like occasional deception and undermining of roles and responsibilities?

Mine doesn't hate me. He definitely has a distain for me that is becoming more obvious each year.

I watched this as the wife in this relationship, and this is really good. It gave me insight into why I am feeling what I feel when he expresses his anger toward me.

Men rush to anger more, which is emotional.

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Amen ! Thank you sir for sharing your thoughts .

And what do I do when he yells at me every time I make the smallest mistake? When he gets drunk constantly and then refuses to listen to the things he did once he's sober? When he demands that I get a job, yet he knows I'm physically and emotionally disabled and my particular condition prevents me from even driving, let alone working? When he comes home from work every single day and locks himself in his little man cave until it's time for bed? Only comes out to tell me what to cook him, then refuses to even eat with me? What do I do then? Please tell me. 😟

I feel hopeful after the universe sent you to me 😊. Thank you for your creations. I’ve been struggling with how I react to my husbands anger and frustration. This has been since the beginning of our relationship. You are speaking my language when it comes to the heart and transmuting with love. This is exactly what I want to do, however, I can’t seem to get past the initial onslaught of emotion when it’s happening. Like that scene in Moana when she’s trying to break past the reef. Part of the problem is how I feel I’ve been awful to myself for staying in the situation. The work I’ve done on myself made me realize it was a pattern brought on by my chaotic and traumatic upbringing. Our relationship and my current situation is literally the embodiment of it. I’m angry at myself for doing this and i struggle moving past it. And I basically equate him and his behavior with my tormentors from that time. So, I’ve defined him (just realized this while typing). I say to myself he’s just like them a lot (just fully realized that, too). I can’t stay in that space anymore and I don’t want to. How do I start that? What is the step that gets me past the reef?

Why can’t men give us love and happiness?? Why are we as women always giving til we can’t give anymore?

My wife works full time and says she wants to find a part time job.

Great video! Thanks a lot! That's Wagner from Brazil.

Love the video. Do you think this is possible in longer marriages, when people have become very familiar with each other?

The PROBLEM with this argument is that she HAS 24 hour access to my phone, knows all the logons to my social media and views every message i send. I always try reassuring her but nothing happens

His mother made his life hell just for spending time with me (I was just a girlfriend with 12 years history as friends first). We survived only 1 year of a relationship because she kept having tantrums whenever she knew he was with me. He couldn't cope and broke things off. Are there any tips on how to get him back? I do love him unconditionally, but I guess it seems he doesn't love me as much :(

What if his nagging is unreasonable and mean?

So you’re telling me because she’s not satisfied for whatever reason now she turns around and emotionally abuses you by ignoring you yeah that makes a whole Lotta sense

i love when u say : more loving even if my spouse irritable, because these are what i face in my marriage now, i have refinanced my debt to a more cheaper interest product, but still that isnt enough

these are really great advice, u really make it paul, Thank u so much. May God bless u. just a week ago my wife complain " that for this one year she been struggling for our sort of finance. and admitted for why she so cold for me😢

I feel like is very based on men's needs. I don't see a 10 things every husband needs to do for his wife.

I disagree. Anything worth doing takes hard work and effort. Marriage is hard work. All relationships take work. It won’t always be amazing but that’s the beauty of marriage. It’s two imperfect people loving each other enough to invest into something worthwhile. You will never be happy if you think marriage will always be amazing. That’s why the divorce rate is so high! People just give up the minute it things get hard.

Had high hopes from this video but lost me when he says he doesn't meet men in person. Obviously this person wishes he was a female and hates men.