It's because domestic violence can easily CAUSE poverty. Isolating the woman and keeping her from working, kills her independence, and cuts their income in half. Then every time he puts her in the hospital it's another $10-50K in hospital bills. Court expenses, custody court... another $20-50k easy. It can easily bankrupt people...

Its really hard turning in your abuser , when you know in their right mind they would never hurt you. Meth made him do it, its hard being a Christian cause were trained to forgive. Not sure if i will find the strength to testify. It 3 days now after im in fla and my eye is swelling up ? Days later weird.

My abuser was stalking me. I had a male friend pick me up. I saw him and he followed us. Stupidly I came home thinking I could deescalate the matter. Now I'm sitting here with a broken rib and marks on my throat from him putting me in a chokehold. This time I gave the video footage to the police. At this point I'd rather be dead than abused again.

Thank you. I need to find a way to get my family member watch this, but her phone is not very safe. I could read it to her over the phone?

The nuclear family was created to give power to men who otherwise wouldn't have any power.

I would love to talk to you right now abd fucking tell you off!

I do not see the resources for the academic articles that the speaker was going to provided (mentioned right near the end of the interview). Where are they posted?

i found this happening to me, i started forgetting a lot about the relationship. I then started to keep notes in my phone of the hurtful things he had done and then when things got worse I began writing a letter I wasn't going to send to him about the very major things he had done to me. I left him a while ago I still read it to remind myself why I don't miss him

Judging by the comments most men ARE violent abusers...when you survive domestic abuse it's hard to belive there are "good" men in the world. For most of us "good men" are a myth we hear women talk about all the time. Laura Richards wanted a domestic abusers register and men decided to NOT do it. This seems to indicate that most men are NOT good

No one cares about women who are stalked. These webinars are a waste of time and money.

Because they want to steal homes and ruin beautiful families .😔N.H. corrupt.

I just got out of an abusive situation where my ex-partner used coercive control. So many of the methods you listed were used by him. I had no privacy, he tried to isolate me from family and friends, he used cameras in the house to spy on me, tried to convince to take nudes (I didn’t because I had a feeling he would use it for revenge), wanted to always see my phone, made me share my location, etc. He said that if I didn’t have anything to hide, I should be ok with it all. I’m glad I’m out.

Having watched an estate and trust, and tax attorneys plan for a divorce. PreNuptual Agreements, only.

On the topic of unfounded CPS cases, some abusive fathers weaponized CPS just like they do the court. Repeated reports and investigations will be called to try and establish a paper trail and wear down the mother. My abuser called CPS once because I had my son get the free school lunch instead of a Lunchable.

This happened to me while serving in the military and it was all swept under the rug. Maybe they have changed, but I doubt it. If I had to do over again I would report to the local police and not military police. I was pretty much made fun of by everyone. He was not punished and went on to strangle another female soldier and still walks free today. Insanity.

This is excellent information! Thank you. I will follow up.

☝️ Y’all forgot the whole topic of abusive stepparents and how the risk to kids of homocide is way higher by a step parent than a biological parent. ☝️ Step parents trying to replace biological parent and making disparaging remarks about parent. ☝️ LETS TALK TIPS ON HOW TO PROTECT OUR KIDS TRULY AND ACTUALLY BC MY PROBLEM IS THAT ALL THE THJNGS MY DAUGHTER HAS TOLD ME IN CONFIDENCE SHE IS ALSO TERRIFIED OF THE STEP MOM AND HER DAD FINDING OUT SHE “TOLD ON THEM” IUT IF FEAR OF PUNISHEMENT AND CONSEQUENCES TO HER THAT SHE IS GUARANTEED TO FACE ONCE SHES BACK HOME. This is the worst! The court process is so long and there is not a single REAL organization that actually protects children by believing them ahead of time- like before the child has to tell the whole truth and testify in court or to a judge and all that other crap. It’s unfortunate that there isn’t a safe place at all for children to go and say: I don’t feel safe at home and I need help right now. And then the help starts from the moment they speak those words even before they go through all the detailed allegations of harm and abuse. imagine what that would do for our youth and how it would empower them to advocate for themselves.

What happens when he is a she?

Yes... and it's really hard to find a way out

3 years ago I was strangled by my ex and ever since I’ve never been able to turn my neck, will it always be the same? I can’t even turn my head.

I have stalkers on my phone and internet at home and they treat me like a slave

the one thing i seriously love about this guy’s book is that he DOESNT BLAME THE MOTHER! i am a child of an abusive relationship, both physical and mental, and everyone always blames my mom! but it’s not her fault, she did the best she could, i think. everyone always says “she let him put his hands on her kids,” and then assigns all the blame to her, ignoring that he’s the one who hit them in the first place. it’s so difficult to leave. i sympathise so much with all women and mothers who have experienced/ are experiencing domestic violence.

Until a certain point Ibelieved that they needed to be educated on domestic violence specifically cluster b personality disorders. I stood with Anna when she was trying to get the resolution past back in 2017. Which is now SB 331 Piques law which will never help as many children and mothers as we could if we just help these accountable. It also won’t help the ones still suffering now or have recently been taken from the protective mother who was coerced into reunification therapy and the kind that they made me present to the to go to, and forced back into the hands of our abuser. And all of these mental health professionals know exactly what they are doing, too guess what I recorded all of our sessions and conversations of the clinic with those mental health professionals as well, right of mine was taken away willingly and joyfully because these sick individuals working together love to see people suffer and besides, it’s their livelihood.

my question for those all in this video do you still believe this? What do you now side with the fact that the family court system is not under educated and is 100% corrupt? 🙏🏼💜

something else that I have learned is how corrupt CPS is I mean they were always known to be the ones you never wanna call however, it’s worse. They (along with family court) oh the biggest child 🚦 in our nation and get $40,000 for every trial, they take away from the parents and then not just taking them away and custody cases. They’re taking them away from that that love each other and their children or babies from hospitals.

@domesticsheltersorg putting in any more laws into place is all going to be worse for DV in court my judge used this against me. And I know this was filmed two years ago, and I don’t know where your stance is now however we all know now who want to make the change that they know exactly what they are doing and that it is designed to harm mothers and her children. that they are operating illegally and they only way to stop. It is to file massive amount of federal lawsuits and bring National attention is billboards in every single city across 🇺🇸 not to mention a new focus from every advocate on just holding all of these judicial monsters and everybody else, including our exes and everybody else that co-conspires with them ACCOUNTABLE not only financially, but also with prosecution- which would include everybody who touches the case and harms and targets the protective mother And subsequently her children.

Can you please make another with just words? I would like this information but I can't read it,lettering is too small. Thank you.

@45:00 dom vio by proxy

Cloned phones. 9 of them. Apps on app store,ability to copy phone. Every detail! Home computers think my phone is only copy. Nightmare insues.

never let the kids near the abuser again!

You forgot weaponized against targeted parent

I read your book

They will use vehicles to threaten you by driving recklessly and mine always screamed at me in truck and intentionally drove us into a deep ditch we had to get towed out my arm was black and blue many screaming insults punishments Im safe i left thank you for your dedication I grew up with DV in my home

I had been strangled while heavily under the influence, underage. I really have no clue how long I was “out” for. I didn’t even know that I could’ve died falling asleep after that. Is it too late to get evaluated for any trauma my brain is/has experienced? This happened roughly 5 years ago…

Is it still possible to receive a certificate for this webinar? Thank u

My son has a toddler-my granddaughter, whom I got to be part of her life for over a year, and love her so much only to be estranged by my son, whom left the state without even a goodbye, has broken me. 💔 My grief is so heavy some days that I’m not sure I’m going to make it. I don’t know if I have any rights, but I wish I did. 😢

Amazing! So complete and deep. Thank you.

False.

This is not true! Stop making people believe this please. How many of those people have animals is the question I would like to know? I am in Nashville, Tennessee, and nobody will take me. They want me to shelter my pets or adopt them out to someone else. This is a lie you were making it seem like you get to keep your pet with you and that is false. You still lose your animal. #katiecampbell #redrover

Notice the suttle ways they interfere with what you're trying to comment

any time i try to enter controversial imfo, KZfaq scrambles it!

i was blocked by youtube, recently from speaking out as a woman of color who was sexually abused as a child. When i tried to imfo, youtube would'nt let me enter it!.

oh my god thank you so much, my best friend has been telling me recently that her dad mentally abuses her..thank you so much i didnt know what to say and this helped me so much.

Everyone who has experienced or is currently experiencing DV, works closely with DV victims, wants to understand DV from an outside perspective needs to watch this. Thank you for putting facts to the experience and backing all of it up with concrete research. I am a survivor of DV and this video could not have been more helpful. #protectsurvivors #stopdomesticabuse #domesticabusesurvivor

It's too bad the question wasn't answered regarding DV Victims finding Attys who understand they've been totally decimated & have zero fiscal resources so then in fact when law enforcement & DAs fail to recognize, fail to enforce, or aren't at all educated or seasoned; victims are abandoned and end up trying to defend themselves in a no win losing battle. Without advocates who "know" someone that will listen & engage the appropriate points of contact; victims remain oppressed & endangered. Stuck in a bureaucratic black hole. Perpetrators remain emboldened. Law Enforcement remains complacent, DAs remain stealth.

I wish i had found this video in 2011 when my Family Court Nightmare first started!

My ex wont stop ringing my family obsessively even my counsellor. Nearly broke collarbone 2 years of emotional and financial abuse followed. Hed ring 10 times if i was on a call . He rang my counsellor repeatedly. Had a blank stare. Never smiled with his eyes. Constantly criticised went through facebook feed. Rang and badgered them about their mental health. He was about to hit again. I do have anorexia but i did not deserve the way i was treated. The counsellor had to block him allong with my brother. Tried to call of his mothers phone today just shy a month from the break up. I think he is unhinged. I do not want to be with him anymore and i dont have to. I will look into advocacy thing and see about the guards should he show up. I do think he could kill. Hes not right.

Prepare yourself for a reckoning!⚰️ Child support enforcement is peonage and human trafficking and forced Labor and deprivation of rights they should turn themselves in now before they face 20 years with no immunity we the people know about your lies. Blessing vs. freestone. 42 USC 666, 45 CFR 301.1 and 45 CFR 302.34, 18 USC 228 is UNCONSTITUTIONAL, 18 USC 1581, 42 USC 1994,, child support is considered a debt, no one can force you to labor under threat of incarceration. Non CUSTODIAL is eligible for a 42 USC 1983 under 28 USC 1331 Jurisdiction due to butz vs. economu United States vs. Lee independent capacity for the contractors under the CFR the oath of office violations, due process rights must be protected. Embezzlement, racketeering, impersonating public official due to color of law and independent private capacity, separation of powers violation, oath of office violation, unauthorized bond production, human trafficking, false imprisonment, coercive incarceration, economic duress, economic oppression, destruction of documentation in regards to peonage, denial of constitutional provisions, conspiracy to interfere with civil rights, abuse of authority, denial of proper warrant, denial of reasonable defense, due process violation, nature and cause violation, treason against Americans, genocide against humanity, apartheid, deprivation of rights under color of law, malicious prosecution, bribery, graft, failure to protect and act,gang stalking, gang pressing, forgery, kidnapping, enticement into slavery, involuntary servitude, debt bondage, human trafficking in regards to peonage, financial gain from peonage, 18 USC 401 contempt cannot apply to unlawful or illegal orders, Robbery, unlawful search and seizure, 28 USC 1443 the state does not have jurisdiction, 18 USC 514 fictitious debt or obligations, abusive debt collection, false advertising on behalf of a government agency due to the propaganda on all your IV-D websites, acting as an agent for a foreign principal, opperating statutes without a bond, misprison of felony, malpractice, extortion, 25 CFR 11.301, 10 CFR 1049.5 fraud on the court, and abuse of legal process. Marbury vs. Madison. What's that you called us again, obligors? Persons owing a debt? If we're obligors you are criminals and slavers. We vs. Tyranny. #Nomore2024

allot if info. thank you

The children end up abusing their mother. Get up to speed on this one