The worst 9 years of my life. And I couldn't get out because no one could understand me. People did not believe in what I was going through, because I would always go back. And it was always worse. And worse, I lost so many good opportunities, happiness, laughs, all the good things in life just to plaease this man. I did it for us, our family and I always believed that he would change, and he did, for the worst. Until I decided to divorce and stand by my decision, and if it was not for God I would not be alive today. I remember begging Jehovah for my life, I remember seeing my life ending and I couldn't even do anything no more, I remember all the tears falling down my face, and only thinking about my kids. If I die, who will take care of them? What will my family do? How will they cope? How will my children cope? I was so stuck in pain and his beating that I literally couldn't move. I was dying.... I was being killed by someone I loved woth my whole heart. And as he was beating me, he was calling me all the horrible names, saying the most horrible things, I was hurting so much. I just remember looking up the ceilings and thinking about my life... and tears falling down with no stop. This man was killing me, then I remember saying to God I don't want to die. Is it fair that I have to die just because I want to end a realationship that is not good for me? I begged God to save me and I promised him that I would separate from him. And all of sudden, he stopped beating me. Then he was yelling at me and accusing me of so many lies, and I was finally able to cry loud then, I went silent. Did not say a word just cried in my heart I gained all the courage from God to call the cops and he is finally in prison. When I see women being beating to death, I cry for them because I could be just another one. But God had mercy. God gave me a new beginning with my 2 kids. I cry now but of anger, how did I allow all of this to happen to me. I am healing, fighting for me and my 2 kids. We are doing OK, God is my saviour and I will forever be greatful. Do not wait for the worst because you may not come out alive. Just leave, you do not deserve this. Sorry for any mistakes English is not my mother language

Bravissimi ottima interpretazione che tristezza pensare che ogni giorno ci sono donne che sibiscono queste violenze o peggio vengono uccise ci vorrebbero più aiuti per queste donne e chi denuncia deve essere supportata in ogni momento 😡certo che anche la legge dovrebbe fare la sua parte 😢

Ma i sottotitoli? Faceva fatica?

Even if the people of this earth don't love you YAUSHUA loves you. HE LOVES YOU. You've already won. I used to get so upset because I didn't think that anybody loved me but now I know I'm loved.

Carcelero

Cute house

Can't leave because I'm disabled from him and now a captive. He took everything from me. He will stalk and harass or maybe hurt me also if I tried

How this 'film' has garnered 2.9 million views and 23k comments is beyond me. The acting was terrible, the sound quality was poor, and the storyline was generic and shallow. It failed to develop beyond the well-known aspects of domestic violence. The film should have delved into intricate details to truly capture the complexities of domestic violence. Instead, the director merely skimmed the surface, which feels like a slap in the face to those who experience this regularly.

Why no subtitles 😭😭😭 I can't hear a thing. Also the girl is freaking gorgeous 🥺🥺😭😭 also, guys like him are the reason I would never date men again if it happened to go something wrong with my long term partner now. I'm bi in any way, so well..

wtf did I just watch?💀💀

I didn't understand what happened in this movie. Other than she is married to a brutal POS, I did not understand the interaction or what the argument was about.

need subtitles. Can't hear or understand what is said.

That’s stupid if she can still love an asshole like that

Maybe it the way they love each other. They're humans.

Psicopatica anche lei, dopo aver subito violenza dal marito mostro, si guarda allo specchio e dice "Ti amo", bel modo di amarsi,rimanere in casa ad aspettarlo e farsi picchiare di nuovo, quando ha tutto il tempo e lo spazio per scappare.

(WOMENS LIVES MATTER) Women are People Women are Living Women are Breathing Women have a Spirit Women are Human Beings Women have Hope and Dreams Just like men... Women don’t deserve being hunted like animals, and sexually assaulted. Women are NOT trash Women are NOT disposable Why, Why! are women being treated like trash and abused and sexually assaulted. Without Women men would not exist Hurting Women is NOT SEXY Any man who thinks treating women like trash and to hurt women like this, may they rot in Hell. Respect, Care, show Kindness towards Women Author, Advocate for Humanity, Jason Sandifer, Michigan, 3/10/2022, 4/25/2022 4/27/2022

that's not love at all that's domestic to violence hope Snyder

Yes, it is for your own good

me dio escalofríos

These men are nothing but cowards try to prove that they are the big I am & yet can't stand up to another man she must leave him otherwise she will loose her life

A family member was in relationship much like this. She stayed with him until her death at the age of 44 from cancer while he was still being abusive. He remarried 6 months later and treats her like a queen!

YOU CAN BEARLY HEAR THIS!!! I HAVE HEADPHONES IN AT 56 AND STILL CANT HEAR IT!!

I finally got away 20 years ago. It didn’t start horrible, scary, demeaning. He was loving, caring, playful, gentle, supportive. Then so very slowly began the control . So sneaky & sly you don’t even see it. Then, the put downs on a bad day..flowers & dinner to apologize. Then the put downs become shoves, shoves become slaps, slaps become..well you already know. Even begin blaming yourself with “ well if I made it the way he wanted” or “I should have asked before doing the wash” or “ I should’ve just told my mom to call earlier in the day”. You really don’t see it coming. Then it’s almost too late.

Abusive people never change. The fear and hatred in their heart carries on and tortured the innocence from their past nevwr leaves their mind and continue ti live rent free. That's why im happy for being single

He is a bada... she must leave him alone .😏🌲

Este tipo de criaturas são narcisistas, merecem acabar na solidão .

She was DEAD right to give herself support to get through the evening,at the start of the video!! He makes her SO uncomfortable,bullying her like that!! He should have just been reported to the police IMMEDIATELY!! The best part,was her listening to the music of the Jewellery box,in order to calm her down,and take her mind off the domestic abuse she is getting,as a lovely,happy reminder of her happy childhood in which she had,BEFORE moving away and leaving all that,now living with him. Fantastic video made,10/10.

Totally unacceptable!

Oh, look! Another example of post-feminist 'all-women-are-always-victims' bullshit. Yeah. We menfolks need to be talked down and blamed all day. That's what we like so much in women.

Lo dico invece....ma come cavolo fai a farti trattare così? una volta...la seconda ti faccio diventare concime per le piante!

The one thing I wish this film covered is how domestic violence affects disabled folks. I'm a witness to domestic violence, and I am not able to see. I was abused till the age of 22, until I made my escape,, and moved to Ohio from Massachusetts.

I NEVER, NEVER!!! would stay one more minute. This is a real bastard.

I took this for awhile until it brought out the monster in me. Try me now!

She also seems to have no idea what the guy went through during the day to put food on the table or pay for the house and things they have .

She had to put ice on her face not make up . This is how things always get worse because these women never do the right thing.

Watching this Bastard slapping punching and smacking his Woman in the face multiple times putting a very large bruise on her face made me very angry and sad

Wear Those Bruises Like A Badge of Honor When You Walk Out that Door 🚪

For the not really familiar or whatever with domestic violence i really liked this film because i think it kinda showed The cycle of the abuse, the abuser may act lovingly, build trust, and even manipulate the partner in the beginning this is the Honeymoon stage. Once time progresses the abuser will act nicely but then tension builds up and the abuse will happen sometimes after they may manipulate and act lovingly, apologize, promise to never do it again and then act lovingly for a while.. Then the tension builds up again and the abuse starts again and the process repeats, sometimes (please do educate me and correct me if i am wrong about anything) the abuser even gaslights their victim about their (the abusers) actions or the victim might have something holding them back from leaving. (Or the abuser might blame the victim saying the abuse would not happen if they didn't do something "wrong" or just blame the victim) Maybe the fear and threats of the abuser, or divorce and maybe losing custody, or financial issues etc. "My *name* left after getting hit once! We need more people like them!" I saw this comment over and over again, honestly good for them but that is not the reality for most cases and it is quite ignorant. Please get educated, if you're gonna be ignorant okay then get educated and don't be anymore.

It's easy for someone to criticize. But knowing myself, I would put up for a while but start planning my escape immediately. Death is better than living in a prison and laying in bed with a psychopath and torturer.

My brother always said if any man ever put their hands on me and my sister's they would have to deal with him

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Abuse can also be silence. Withdrawal of affection. Sending to Coventry. Isolation…… actually not raising his voice , not touching you…… a different kind of abuse, but abuse just the same…. Controlling the money, even money you have been out to work to earn………

Взять бы дубинки и барашка, до смерти

6:53 looked like a crime scene

To those that say in a very caring way choose wisely.. Many victims get to know them and their families for at least a couple of years before they marry etc. The true character of the abuser shows later.

'VIOLENCE IS A DARK CONTRAST TO WHAT SO MANY OF US STILL BELIEVE IN-LOVE 💥

This was so tough to watch!

Covert narcs are the worst, they are wonderful and gentlemanly in public, but devils incarnate in private, insulting demeaning, withholding affection, verbally emotionally abusive, sexually playing your emotions then letting you down, manipulative, greedy with money, stingy, sowing intrigues and lies, home wreakers even of their own.

Narc husbands are devils incarnate, they do evil things under d appearance of good for public accolades. They hear mass daily, have long sad face when they pray but they have evil ways in private...

When she slammed those mushrooms down after telling herself a positive prompt, I said out loud: I KNOW