My loctician joined my microlocs, i want to cry so bad Someone help me Give me advice
@astoldbymeso16 сағат бұрын
I'm so sorry. They combined it without your consent? I would say go back and ask to uncombine them especially since you didn't ask for that OR if this just happened in your last retie, you can uncombine them yourself. It will take a lot of effort & patience. Hopefully they only combined a few and not a lot.
@dbrown33823 күн бұрын
You did an amazing job ❤ I don’t think I could do that if I tried.
@astoldbymeso16 сағат бұрын
Thank you! You can absolutely do this. It's just time and patience
@NaturallyDanaD5 күн бұрын
I'm guilty of all except the bonnet. I do wear my bonnet religiously. I also started my Locs with a two strand twist at home. I see a loctian for reties, she usually fix any bunching she see. But after seeing this, I will braid and band. I will also not go swimming with it loose 😢 this video was just for me. I too have been going rouge and doing my own thang.
@astoldbymeso16 сағат бұрын
Must be nice to have a loctician that fixes your bunches as they go 😭
@Jds6301116 күн бұрын
I’m glad you asked questions!! You are paying for a service! Maintain your locks girl!!
@astoldbymeso16 сағат бұрын
Right? For the future, if anyone looks at me funny for asking questions, I'm leaving immediately 😒 because as a professional, education is your job.
@Jds6301116 күн бұрын
Such a great video! I am currently doing my DIY Locs and I am nervous for the journey but much more prepared. Thank you for posting 🙏🏾
@astoldbymeso12 күн бұрын
No need to be nervous, you're gonna do great!
@sarahiwuchukwu780819 күн бұрын
Nah, she is already looking at your scslp and hair when she reties off she cares about her clients she would tell you.
@rachelrachele7Ай бұрын
You’ve lived my exact journey. I have Microlocs, I installed them myself. I don’t know what the heck I’m doing but at the same time, I’ve had issues with the loctician. Sigh……. Now I’ve just decided to keep doing them on my own, no matter how they look.
@astoldbymeso26 күн бұрын
I know how you feel. I'm sure you're doing amazing!
@rachelrachele7Ай бұрын
I’ve felt the sameee way about my new Microlocs. This video has been super comforting and helpful. Still not sure what I am doing but I feel hopeful now!😊
@astoldbymeso26 күн бұрын
If it makes you feel better, I'm also not sure what I'm doing and it's been a year. We're all really just winging it 😂
@karenbotsh6358Ай бұрын
I just got my second perfect derma peel today, first was 4 weeks ago. So far I’ve had great results, I would say about a 70% improvement in my hyperpigmentation
@astoldbymesoАй бұрын
That's amazing! My skin was smooth and appeared brighter but it's been months now so it doesn't quite look the same.
@relatableblackgirlАй бұрын
I had locs with extensions for a year now and just by watching this video i feel like im doing everything wrong 😭
@astoldbymesoАй бұрын
I'm sure you're fine lol I don't know how much different it is maintaining regular vs extensions
@felareed8251Ай бұрын
GREAT VLOG (: THANKS
@astoldbymeso16 сағат бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@txLALAАй бұрын
Your locs look good. I fortunately found a good loctician. She has combined at 10 of my locs, which is frustrating, but I don’t want to do my own reties. I had stopped braiding and banding at 7-8 months, but now I’m back to braiding and banding due to slippage.
@astoldbymesoАй бұрын
Wait, she combined without your permission? 👀 Please say she didn't because I'm about to be upset on your behalf.
@astoldbymesoАй бұрын
Recorded this in February and here I am posting it 5 months later lmao. Anyway, enjoy!
@Riya-js1tcАй бұрын
u got a cute dimple
@astoldbymesoАй бұрын
Lol thank you!
@jessicaflemister4825Ай бұрын
I had locs and was lazy but also experiencing depression so I wasn’t consistent with my retwists a couple months and it showed. Cut them and now 6 months later I’m looking at micro locs. That you for your honesty it really is helpful. Also, I was today years old when I found out the dry cleaner doesn’t automatically clean. And my big mid 30s age maybe should’ve known too. lol at least now we do!
@astoldbymesoАй бұрын
Thanks for watching! I hope you're doing much better now 🫶🏾 I think we all just learned this but they actually clean, just not with water 😂
@lindabradley1929Ай бұрын
7/10/24 Braidloc❤
@KeliLaingRealEstateАй бұрын
So helpful. My installation is Tuesday
@astoldbymesoАй бұрын
I hope you love your install 🙌🏾
@KeliLaingRealEstateАй бұрын
@@astoldbymeso I chickened out for Tuesday lol. But got my life together and ended up having them installed the following Saturday. I love them. I cannot believe I did it but I did and now I’m so happy
@astoldbymeso23 күн бұрын
👏🏾 So proud of you! I hope you continue to love them at every phase! ❤️
@TheMamaGreenАй бұрын
Thank you for sharing, love! I watched your video when you shared you are restarting your micrlocs. They look good! I've had a few not so positive experiences with locticians at the start of my journey so I retied my hair myself for maybe 8 months. By the grace of god, a friend introduced me to my current loctician who I now see regularly for my reties.
@astoldbymesoАй бұрын
Omg!!! I watched you when you first installed yours! I can't seem to catch a break with locticians and I'm learning that the self-retie life is just not for me but we'll see what happens. Thank you for watching! ❤️
@doreenbibby7941Ай бұрын
I don’t know who your dealing with but if who does your loc retie should say something thing to you and should assess your hair because that is just good customer service and will ensure your patronage. When they give you the ex sample like u got run because it’s just a matter of time before something happens and makes u feel comfortable.
@astoldbymeso16 сағат бұрын
Yep!!!
@PinkkChristineАй бұрын
Nahhh that locticion sounds bogus. I would not be going there anymore
@astoldbymesoАй бұрын
Guess what? I ran to another one, and another one after that...all disappointing 😭
@PinkkChristineАй бұрын
@@astoldbymesooh no I’m so sorry 😭
@SkyeIDАй бұрын
I'm 5 days into my loc journey, and I have no intention of seeing a loctician. Humans have been locking their hair for thousands of years, and I doubt that the ancient people of India had locticians. But getting back to the 21st Century, I can use KZfaq University and learn how to maintain my hair myself.
@astoldbymesoАй бұрын
I get it. I think the biggest issue rn is people just don't have the time anymore and depending on how small your locs are, it can be very labor intensive.
@KekemiyhАй бұрын
How do you reloc, do you use the interlock method?
@astoldbymesoАй бұрын
Yes! I interlock!
@TheRLSLifeАй бұрын
Thank you for sharing! Recently DIY my microlocs and just want to get them to that matured stage with the least amount of complications. 🤦🏾♀️
@astoldbymesoАй бұрын
I get it! Good luck! 🤞🏾
@urssya951Ай бұрын
I think if you call yourself a "loctician" you should be able to do with or without a grid. C'mon, you wanna get paid like one, do the work like one.🤷🏾♀️ Period!
@astoldbymesoАй бұрын
I think all their clients have sisterlocks and grids so they don't want to bother with me 🤷🏿♀️
@seedfulthoughts5956Ай бұрын
Awesome tips! I'm looking forward to restarting my locs🥰
@astoldbymesoАй бұрын
You got this!
@jscreationsbyjbАй бұрын
Welp looka there...I just learned something new too! I had know idea they don't wash (unless requested) at the cleaners 😮😊
@yourfavoriteoompaloompa1392 ай бұрын
For tip 1, braid and band during wash day or outside of wash day too?
@astoldbymesoАй бұрын
I only do it for wash day!
@astoldbymeso2 ай бұрын
Update: I've gotten a lot of comments and now I know it's not normal for a loctician to not make sure the rest of your hair is good outside of reties! Y'all I've been bamboozled by these people and I want to fight 😭 since posting this video, I've experienced 2 more locticians and I'm ready to write a book called "Surviving loctician trauma" 😭
@nataliedominique-cp6zmАй бұрын
Good idea, write the book
@rachelrachele7Ай бұрын
Write the book😂
@kiahall-dunn21622 ай бұрын
How did you comb your locs out? I want to comb mine out for that same reason
@astoldbymeso2 ай бұрын
I just took a tiny rat tail comb, conditioner, water, and combed it out for weeks. I'm loc'd back up though! ☺️
@ktrinbean2 ай бұрын
If my dry clean doesn’t include wash 🧐 we might have a problem.
@astoldbymeso2 ай бұрын
😂😂 technically it's washed, just not with water
@meadowly11792 ай бұрын
I just got mine done today
@astoldbymeso2 ай бұрын
How exciting! 🥺
@AureliaShantelle2 ай бұрын
Literally same with me, my Loctician was doing reties ONLY . I didn’t have a healthy set of sister locks & didn’t even know until I moved states & went to get a consult before my next retie ….. I didn’t have time to comb mine out so I literally cut my locs off 🥴
@astoldbymeso2 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry this happened to you. Was the person an official sisterlock consultant?
@kutencreative3 ай бұрын
I’ve got all of the above. Not the frizz but uneven, holes, there’s too small, thinning in certain spots. I just want to do a new set.
@astoldbymeso2 ай бұрын
Do you think combining them might help the size and thinning? Go have a professional look at your hair first!
@maricelathomas15913 ай бұрын
Being upset about questions is so weird! You dodged a red flag
@astoldbymeso3 ай бұрын
Like, that was crazy to me. I guess they assume that if I ask a lot of questions, I might be problem client.
@maricelathomas15913 ай бұрын
@@astoldbymesosounds like they anticipate causing problems then lol.
@bolatitoakintola46793 ай бұрын
It seems most Loctician feel they are doing their client a favour
@astoldbymeso2 ай бұрын
Which is craaazy, like I'm literally paying you!
@lasisiazeez3833 ай бұрын
Please do we have to braid and band before bed or just on wash days?
@astoldbymeso3 ай бұрын
Personally, I only braid and band before washing
@lasisiazeez3833 ай бұрын
At what stage should it start to braid and band please, I just started mine now for 4 days ago
@astoldbymeso3 ай бұрын
You should probably start when you first install your locs but don't stress if you didn't!
@fifiesforte3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this video... I intend to lock my hair before the end of this year. This was so informative. Thank you ❤
@astoldbymeso3 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching! ❤️
@sbriep67633 ай бұрын
You had a bad loction...how can she not tell you she can see your hair. That is bad practice smh. She did not have to start your locs to give you advice.
@KK-itiswell3 ай бұрын
I listened to you because I enjoy your grammar and how you express yourself … ok bye bye loctician 1, 2 on to the 3rd. 😊 wishing you well P on my 6 month mark - sisterlocks.. learnt a lot
@astoldbymeso3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much! I'm not moving on to another loctician because I'm scared 😮💨 Congrats on 6 months!
@EbiereFavour3 ай бұрын
The dry cleaning story is just dumb. She's just trying to justify what she's doing and that's wrong.
@astoldbymeso2 ай бұрын
Now I know it was just a tactic to get more money out of me. I finally walked away from her 😔
@sandyseonduru33993 ай бұрын
My hands were in my hair when you started with number 5. Its not easy yooh😂
@astoldbymeso3 ай бұрын
Ngl my hands are still in my hair A LOT! When I'm not busy, I put on my bonnet to keep myself from playing with it.
@sandyseonduru33993 ай бұрын
I have 4c hair, and started my locs with braids but they still unraveled.
@astoldbymeso3 ай бұрын
I think some people are luckier than others 😩 I've only experienced unraveling at my edges, no where else
@LatoyaJoyce20913 ай бұрын
Looove this video, soooo informative. Thanks for sharing!!
@astoldbymeso3 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching! ❤️
@ms.b.18334 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing! I was wondering what was the difference between the two.
@MonicaBasey4 ай бұрын
Thank you for this! I was doing it all wrong
@astoldbymeso4 ай бұрын
Happy to help! There's no one way to do it, it's whatever work best for you
@melissadominguez78404 ай бұрын
Thank you for your advice. I’m newly loc yeasterday . You should have seen how fast i got up to get my bonet and band my hair.
@astoldbymeso4 ай бұрын
😂 the bonnet is essential!
@palomabispo95484 ай бұрын
Wise words❤
@SoftNSweet984 ай бұрын
I started my journey on Aug 2nd ❤. I mostly do my own reties 🤗
@astoldbymeso4 ай бұрын
That's amazing! Do you know how many you have?
@Sexyy4life4 ай бұрын
Question: why didn’t you have a loctician start your locs?
@astoldbymeso4 ай бұрын
Great question! Have you seen the cost of these things? I would have had to pay about $1500-1700 for my installation.
@Sexyy4life4 ай бұрын
@@astoldbymeso woooowww I only paid $500 for mine. I get it now! 😂
@astoldbymeso4 ай бұрын
Must be nice 😩
@SkyeIDАй бұрын
@@astoldbymeso $1700 is over twice my rent! And would they still make someone like me with a small frohawk pay that amount?
@astoldbymesoАй бұрын
@sexyy4life it depends on how long your hair is and density. You might pay significantly less for a frohawk