this video is essential

Hello Alonso, how wonderful that you are realising so many big and small things so early in life. The journey that you are on, a medley of spirtualism and materialism, is going to be most mirthful experience for you.

I think you are right ❤

Can I edit for you for free rn cuz I don't have a debit card 💀

Hey man just found your channel today, really enjoyed the vid so I'ma subscribe to you,💪Here to suport! I completely agree with you trying to make everything perfect is so energy draining, I've recently started uploading on yt, and yeah sometimes i don't want to post that video cause i'm afraid it's not up to standards!😁Best of luck in your journey, let's keep growing!🚀

Hes backkk or just one post?

Everything is relative I can tell you being addicted to self improvement videos is a hell of a lot better for the mind and brain than being addicted to porn..one is cocaine the other bubble gum

Self- improvement Gurus are like drug dealers that make you addicted to getting high all the time. Only that the high is caused by your own dopamine release. Also, they rarely give you any concrete steps on how to accomplish improvement. If they do, you gotta give them money for it. But can they guarantee the results? Of course not! Everyone is built differently. What will happen is they will put the blame on you

On point bro! 👍 I spent huge amount of my time watching alot of self-improvement contents but then I still feel unaccomplished, i suddenly realized that I lack on implementation n I think its time to put in work! ✨

Hi bro please reply me ♥️😥🥲🥹

Hi bro can I talk to you?

It's true, we've all got stuck in that "infotainment" trap. At least listen to them on a walk or something so you're being active whilst listening to them.

this needs more views🔥

Ok. I needed this rn. Goodbye all social media apps and this time... I will also delete KZfaq this time !! (As I did that several times but without having the courage to delete KZfaq...) No excuses... I thought to me... How will I do without listening music on KZfaq. I have Spotify but not everything is on it... And when I began to delete all the apps, I saw.... KZfaq music. And now I was sure of it. I'm gonna delete KZfaq. I received enought help from outisde. Enought tips and tricks. Now the work has to be done to my side. I hope It'll work on my computer too. Wish me good luck ! Thx bro. Lezgo get back my life !!! Figjtingu !!! 💪💪💪✨✨✨

I can relate. I watched many self-help videos and i just ended up procrastrinating anyway. Nice video :)

Common pattern: Don’t watch self improvement Don’t get me wrong

I agree with you, you definitely don't want to spend too much time just consuming without actually DOING the things you're learning. Personal development is a never ending cycle between "stage 1" and "stage 2". Like you said though, you don't want to spend too much time in "Stage 1", so you can actually do the necessary work to develop. Good video! Keep at it. Peace.

thats not the "gurus" mistake, thats the mistake of consumers, stop defaming them , better Ideas has genuinely helped me , and it would be my mistake if i dont implement the advice not the youtuber's, i would rename the title to "watching self improvement is not enough", you dont have to "stop" self improvement just limit it

true ...implementation is everything. ..

Very nice and enlightening topic. Most people of which I have been a part do this because watching such videos is easier and helps fool ourselves that we are doing something productive.

real

Subbed, this is a gem

Nah, I'm gonna continue watching them since they've helped me tremendously, and given me some new life changing perspectives and ideas!

this video is essential, people tend to forget that the most important is to put all this thing in practice. Everything you said is correct

Keep grinding ma man !

16:00 - Even I wanted to cry hearing this. Welled up there. Very honest and emotive. Total respect to you. Most people will feel a little of this at some point in their lives. Going through financial stresses right now, so I can relate to everything you have said. I know the gym gives great relief but also concerned about the cost and if I would be using it as a distraction or avoidance. Working outside your home also is a brilliant tip as it makes you break the habits that distract you (like KZfaq etc), forces you to get up, dressed and interact with others. You could do your appointment setting out of the home, like in a coworking space, so you get out and see others. Environment can be so influential in inspiring our moods. Lovely video - well done for doing it.

Great lighting and background music but you contradict it with your manic speech and overediting out all the thinking and breathing spaces. Viewers need time to process what you have said. The setting is very cinematic and would support the theme of the depression. Also develop your vocabulary to where you are not constantly swearing at your viewers because you lack an array of adjectives others that 'f#@&ing'. It's immature and KZfaq will not promote it. Read their latest guidelines.

Get rid of the phallic symbol (microphone) And stop swearing. KZfaq will suppress any videos with swearing. Maybe stick with one accent instead of 5.😂😂

Great video. Well done. Shame you aren't getting the revenue from the adverts yet

At the first half of the video I thought this is wrong because I had that ego where I thought I'm better than anyone else but after watching the full video I realised that I was also being stuck in stage 1 and not implementing the things I learnt from it. Thanks for reminding me, hope this video help others too and I hope your channel grows.

This is so true!!! ❤

He's right. If you're too busy watching self improvement videos but aren't taking action to level up then what's the point.

very interesting story. thank you for being here and giving this speech i would say my situation but i just hate it soo

Fucking love this video dude….relate to you 100%

21:50 timestamp for after the "god and religion " topic

Rule number one (my father taught me) "NEVER watch tv, unless your doing what they are doing, WHILE you watch it." I've been in martial arts for 20 plus years and one of the reasons I was so good, is all of the men my age grew up with Dragon Ball z. Some of my friends would go to the dojo or Boxing Club after the episode. I was training during the episode, and went to the dojo as well. The problem is not, for example, workout KZfaq videos. The problem is, are you working out with them or dick watching? For an adult example, I learned how to fix the sink in one day. By clicking the KZfaq video, and immediately grabbing my tools and walking towards the sink in to due what he was saying.

I Completely disagree.

Better Ideas is legit tho, very different from the standard no fap gurus. He once said, you can watch all these videos but it doesn't mean anything if you don't take action.

Bruh I swear you are exactly me its crazy Its prob because you are Infj like me Also you said you believe in God. So are you Christian?

Agreed bro 🤝 but i just watched 1 or 2 😅

Gotta give u credit for opening up about this. I went through something similar to this very recently lol one thing I learned was to freakin never make someone else a motivation make yourself your motivation. Because u deserve happiness and all the desires of your heart yk. When u make someone else your motivation u r giving them the power even if it’s someone u love. By helping yourself you’re helping the ones u love as well. Another thing I learned was also to look at what I am doing and figure out if it’s something I actually want to do or if it’s something I am doing because of what I get out of it 💸. I felt miserable trying so many different business models cus I was doing it for the wrong reasons and I didn’t even like it. I felt u with the KZfaq thing as well I freakin love making content, in the past I put it on hold cus I felt like I had to focus on my business and stuff. But making content made me really happy, I woke up thinking about it. I realized I could do both and it was the best decision I ever made. Anyways, I took away a lot from this video and I am so glad u r in a better place and u genuinely look happy as well🔥

Don't worry bro. Im in the same boat rn but im gonna make it out.

Dude is posting a self-improvement video on a channel where he tells about self-improvement, to tell you not to watch self-improvement videos. Genius.

I'm glad you're back on youtube. it's nice that you recorded such a video because just as you felt better watching other people's tiktoks, your video can help others. I don't know about your marketing company but continue with your passion for recording on youtube because you are doing it well

Actually better ideas channel is great, he always tell people what they have to do

Im your 100 subscriber bruv!

this is my recent observation too. my man start uploading more videos!!

I don’t know wtf am I going to do or watch now… I quit Facebook Instagram tiktok even Netflix cuz people on KZfaq told me by quitting it will help me mentally and become more productive..I try to listen to audiobooks,podcast,Ted talk,self improvement now someone tell me those video are bullshit😭😭😭😭😭

Yes, I totally agree with you, I have watched so many self help videos and it only adds anxiety in my life.

Love you bro