My partner is narcissistic but I am thinking probebly not full blown… I think he is semi aware… I don’t want to leave a comment but I can honestly say I feel he has a secret fantasy and this might be it. At the same time he doesn’t fit a lot of the descriptions.

Dude you are the shiznit!

My only complaint is WHY am I only JUST now finding your channel!!??

Absolutely true

All true .

That is so tru an these people are so inhumane if only they could feel what they have done to u

I’ve give my trust yes because you fall into someone that’s not a crime . If later on I found out who this persons is .Now it’s my turn to think .

Yes I have boundaries big time . I said I’m observing people and I’m giving people chance then my decisions won’t be altered when it’s given .

What's the best revenge after they took away everything and disposed you and you found out of all cheating and lies that they denied constantly

Get away from the narcissist for good.

So he physically hit me two times at the end. Then he runs around telling people it was my fault the relationship ended. When I bring up the Sheriff’s report they seem surprised lol

I wish I'd seen this video 50 years ago. I barely remember who I was before the narcissist.

I have someone doing this to me now. It's crazy and scary. I'm literally trying to hold myself back because he copies everything I do. Yesterday he overheard me saying numbers, gaving no idea what i was even saying, but none the less he went golfing because he thought I was talking about golf!! Planning my exit strategie.smh

I like that coat and a cigar, it's cool

Wow!!! This Makes so much sense. I've been deprived for a long time now. But he also isn't happy unless he's yelling or degrading especially if I rebel against what he asks. My whole life I always respect things asked of me but I sometimes don't listen when I'm told to do something that sounds unjust to me.

Thank you Kevin for sharing your wisdom ! I'm new here and I'm disovering your interesting channel. I'm living with a covert narcissistic religious mother and 4 flying monkey sisters after the death of my father. I really struggle now because I'm jobless and I have no financial indepence. They really destroyed my nervous system so I don't feel safe at all like I'm on a war. COULD you PLEASE give us a practical way to not over react and be agressive when they are attacking and provoking me until I find my way so far from them?

I'm 56 and stopped speaking to mine several years ago. Both of my parents were narcissists. That's probably why they were married under 5 years, but I was stick with them until 18. I moved iut of my Dad's house the day I turned 18. He has passed now so no longer an issue.

It's demonic , do not stay with anyone who NOT showing U love affection and wanting to have sex with u. That's is who maniacs believes.

I am from India (Christian) and belong to the region where Christianity is mocked...My fiance and his mother (Christians) they both are manipulative, liars... I am having such a confused relationship with them..... Marriage has been fixed for November, venue and caterers some advance has been given..... I tried a lot to explain my mother and my relatives that who they are, but everyone got me wrong.....I am not comfortable even talking to fiance and his mother.....Some of my relatives know that marriage has been kept for november and they are non- Christians....I don't want that they moke Jesus.... Because of this relationship if they come to know that I am not continuing.....I will be 29 (age) in november and in our society this age is like girls should get married....and about me I got engaged in May and all this happened..... really narcissists are devil sent people who do not only attack heart but also mind, soul, spirit everything.....nothing is much painer than this😢 I know Jesus has a great plan for my life

WOW! This was the medicine I needed and the words I needed to hear! Thank you!

I didn’t expect to be in a Sunday bible study when I clicked on this video!

Hmmm... I wonder if that would count towards a manipulative woman taking care of an old man until he died? The old man gave the house to her in his will!! The family was mad and went to court to get the house back!! The family lost! People who are her friends think she was wonderful for taking care of this old man. I think she took advantage of the situation for her own gain!!

Thanks so much, I needed this as I"m about to take that leap -- hard, but necessary!! And although the family has not acknowledged, seen or value my matriculation, I know they'll feel it when I'm good. This is exactly what I needed tonight!!🙄😪😥🥺😳😆😆😇😇🙏

Truly????

Right ON !!!! THANKS. BRAKING TRAUMA BONDS. CHANGE LIVING ENVIRONMENTS, AGES OF PEOPLE. UNABLE TO FIND LOW LOW LOW RENTAL INCOME $$$$$$ should HAVES.

Cause of FIBROMYALGIA SYNDROME SYMPTOMS, TO NOTE.

Very interesting information: EMOTIONAL ABUSÈ. TENSION. WITH EMPLOYERS. MANIPULATORS. 😮😢😮??????

what about the main one fibromylagia?

Am i in a relationship with a narcissist if i give up my boundaries?

Natathevies is the best

Yep like kids

Demons are real, you have to starve them of what they want

Narcs are their way or hell to pay

Second time listening to this video. Good to be reminded of I have all 4 criteria. I need to lay low. I'm in a Narc environment by community Lay low

I listen to most of your videos and the topics are all mind blowing and so much important messages about a lot of questions that was bothering my mind for a long time .

This is why I pray as I hike regularly. In silence and movement God speaks.

Absolutely ! DIL......was a ticking time bomb for 11 years, a rollercoaster ride. All of us walked on eggshells just to keep the peace......and for whom ? HER !!! Ridiculous we let this go on for this long. FINALLY.............Finally............she decided one day to walk out on son, all the while blaming him for crazy stuff. faliled parenting, failed marriage........to keep the peace still, he remains moot for daughter, so they can keep an open line of communication. She reaches out to us with wild accusations, we do not respond to her at all. I blocked her, daughter blocked her, husband as well. She has burnt the bridge that should have been burnt long ago. Verbal abuse to all of us through the years. EVERYTHING is EVERYONE else's fault. DONE AND DONE...........All of us are finding our Peace, without her drama. She is going to have to find her Peace on her own. We have tried.

Brilliant!! ❤❤❤

I just had a mini stroke I reached beyond what I can handle. I have DID and Stockholm Syndrome complex PTSD and Agraphobia from constant neglect thrn violent rage. Inrock mysrlf everyday in distress. It can kill you literally. There is a second fact no one cares and makes excuses or shames you for the abuse. 😢 Sorry I'm just validating you and getting my pain out Thank for your video !!

When speaking boundaries, there is a particular way of doing it. You tell them that if they continue in a particular way, towards you, that you will no longer participate, then you mean what you say.

I get it. Women - women are the worst. Fake friend you then somehow you foil their plan and they ghost you / vanish. What were they after ? You said they are the only ones who do this - the narc cover comes out. Limit exposure

Depleted, dizzy, hard to drive. Be very discerning about social settings. Stay away from excess narcs… recover at will. Thanks K!

💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯. On point brother i had my nex and his parents Trifecta. They would turn up at any time I stopped taking on the phone or in person there son my ex hated me for it, so I only had to put up with his abuse'

big microphone... just about as your head?

I was not married to my sexless-narc-ex...but one of his reasons for not having sex was ED....mind you, we only dated 1 1/2 years and in the beginning that was not a problem but all the sudden it was in the last 6 months of our relationship. I had asked him time and time again, verbally and in an email to please be more intimate. These requests were dismissed. However....he said to me, "Well, be prepared, someday I will wake up in the middle of the night with a boner!!" So he was basically telling me, it was going to be at his discretion and timing. Your last point was spot on!!! I told him, I'm not playing his games anymore and left. No contact and I have not felt this good, mentally, in a long time! Thank God I finally woke up!

They cheat anyway

How do you deal with it by ignoring when it's your colleague,i can't distance myself if i have to work with them

So many women are going gay now. Women look at more gay porn than hetro. And when they do look at men it is gay dudes ! 😂😂😂

Sadly, it can be narcissistic grown Children. 😢