Where is the free call at?

And the solutions?

Thank you . Your right I’m all grown up 😅an still need help so thank you for this insight

How many times do you want me to say sorry. Do you want blood.

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Like you get a sinkhole under your foundation.

Great video shame about the long ads!

Excellent video. Excellent analysis of the problem at hand. It seems this is happening en mass, leading too a rise in “promiscuity” and what’s essentially a vicious societal cycle.

The government will probably imprison or kill me as a loose end assuming they've finally mustered up the courage to do so

This is why I feel like everyone should be taught to heal before getting into serious relationships, marriage and especially kids. I’m glad that the person being talked about has healed but I think a lot of additional wounds to others can be prevented by being self aware and knowing how common it is to become emotionally abusive in the situation. Its an explanation not an excuse for sure 😊❤

Is there a reading list for this?!

They enjoy rubbing their "fantastic" fraudulent life in your face and everyones face. They do it to everyone they are involved with eventually.

My Mother is the narc & my older sister is her mirror image. Ive had zero contact with them for 6 years & Ive never been happier. Ive taken to checking out the obituaries in their location, in the hope that I see either of their names.

It's why the homeless look lazy They're not lazy really, they're just coping with extreme PTSD the best they can

Thank you for this video 💙 I've experienced this. Another KZfaqr, the Crappy Childhood Fairy, spoke about this and mentioned Underearners Anonymous. I looked into it and attended a few meetings over the phone. I think literally everyone else I encountered in UA has a history of narcissistic abuse. It needs to be talked about more; money issues make it more difficult to leave and stay out of toxic environments.

Great 👍🏻

I treat my narcissistic elderly parent as if she is already gone. I won't miss her. But I miss my late father who she emotionally butchered in front of me for years.

Already grieved a relationship that never existed, so, their physical death is meaningless.

When a narcissist dies in the family, the "Golden Child" takes their place.

Not every narcissist had an abusive upbringing. Meghan Markle is just one example of that. Her Mom wasn’t always there & her father overcompensated for that, spoiling her rotten. My older narcissistic sister loved being an only child & never wanted a sibling. So, she decided early on, to try her best to make my life hell. My childhood wasn’t a lot of fun, but I didn’t hurt others because of that. The saying, “ Hurt people hurt other people “, doesn’t always apply to a narcissistic personality disorder. I find the videos of HG Tudor, to be very effective at explaining what a narcissist is & that the supreme move on the victim’s part to go No Contact is the ONLY way to rid yourself of a narcissist, when you can. I kicked my narcissist sister to the curb almost 10 years ago, after my 90 year old Mom died. My Mom was her enabler & covert narcissist. Since then my life with my husband has improved 1000%.

They never keep their promises. Instead they are hooks.

You need a more professional microphone. Your sound is terrible muffled and garbled. Just trying to help you.

No child deserves to be abused. 😡

The co-worker complainer is very toxic. It pulls the work environment down fast. I’ve prayed for the Lords peace to return to keep a fight from breaking out after that co-worker came in so toxic. It worked, but he needs help!

Mam can you give me job of any kind that will help you and also will help to increase my skills

I saw my neighbors right next to our fence looking towards my yard. I called out to see what was happening and they ignored me. So then I asked if everything was ok and they ignored me. So I walked over to see what was up. Said hello. Asked what was up and they ignored me. I saw they were picking up trash. Their dog had tore my trash up through the fence. So I moved it. They continued to ignore me. I said something along the lines of a narration. I think they took it as an apology but by then they had already offended me. They said “ it’s fine” I said, “ I know it’s fine. It was your dog that tore up my trash.” And then I told them I was offended by their “ shyness” and walked away. This really shouldn’t bother me. But I am bothered. And maybe it was my fault they tore up my trash. My dogs don’t tear it up. And their dogs seem to all the time. I think a lot of what offended me was the embarrassment I felt for being ignored. So here I am. Trying to understand why they would ignore me and how to get over it.

you are describing my life most days

What happens when you feel relief when the narc dies, but you have to be around family who is sad? I don’t have any guilt at all, just relief! I can breathe!

I don't understand how or why a person would continue to look for happiness in the SAME place that caused them so much pain. If you are SO traumatized by sexual abuse, it would be more logical to want to AVOID sex! If the abuse made you feel shame , then once YOU are in control of your body, WHY CHOOSE to compulsively do this ?

My husband was a covert Narccisist. I wasn't able to be there when he died. It has taken 3 years for me to be able to get my anger and grief and confussion not consume me.

Amen ❤ 🌞

this was very painful to watch. wish i could skype with you to help me heal

She is very attractive ❤

You’re beautiful

I don’t expect anything from anyone except when they sign a contract. I don’t need anything from anyone unless I can’t figure it out and I ask for help. My behaviour is by my own definition on this spectrum as I am almost completely counter-dependant as I really don’t need anyone’s help for 90% of the time and will take more time before I ask for help because I try to solve my own problem until it is ultimately impossible without help. Then I ask. It’s not unhealthy as I do accept and am greatful for help and teachings from others but I take a loooooong time of problem solving before I realise I can’t do it alone.

This is the single most annoying habit. My wife complains constantly, what bothers me alot is her constant need for help. Believe me I do the bulk of the chores inside and out. I do them and move on...but it just encourages her constant complaints Truly, she is lazy, imo....she asks for things easily done for herself but will try to get me to do them. I don't know what to do about this. It simply uses up my extremely limited free time. Kids are adult, she doesn't work .

That’s me . Thank you

I'm off, I'm broke, distanced in my 2nd marriage, bi-polar, uneasy, now divorced again.

Thank you for sharing, Sarah. Your story was inspirational and your advice was practical. In my case, I don’t attract narcissists because my parents shamed me so bad that I feel impaired when it comes to entering into or attracting a relationship. Narcissistic abuse truly is destructive and does impact every area of my life. Does healing one part, like money trauma, heal the other parts like a domino effect?

I always worry if I said the wrong thing after hitting send and then worrying about being ghosted. It's the worst when ghosting actually happens and the fear is validated...

most parents fail in many ways, everyday at parenting. remember pregnant couples saying, "I'm not ready but I'll learn on the way" this is pure disrespect to the child and a lack if care for the child's future. this is the main reason for neglected children, most parents have children because they think they want it, they deserve it, its vanity and selfishness. ignorant parents to be, im ashamed of you all.

My Narcissistic Husband/ I Moved To St Croix USVI In 2015. MY 3rd Child/Son Passed Away 2/2016 In Texas, My Stepdaughter I Raised, Gave Birth To My Only GrandSon 6/2016 My Husband Stayed Behind In Louisiana To Help/Enable His Daughter. I Had to Return to STX ALONE And Would Fly Back n Forth To Visit Every 6 Months We Would Talk Several Times A Day BUT I BELIEVED His Lies/Excuses For 4 1/2 YEARS!! When He FINALLY CAME BACK TO STX/& HIS WIFE! NOV 2020 I Had Built Up A Cleaning Biz, Had Friends, Support System FINALLY... BUT, Within 2 Wks I Lost A Major Job ---$800 Monthly!!! I Lost MANY Other Clients Also! DUE TO HIS BEHAVIOR At My JobSite/ Condo Complex. Then My Landlord & FRIEND Of 5 YRS Asked Me/US To Find Another Place To Live! Due To The Drama/ Fighting/Arguments We Brought To Her Property. So I Went From Rent $700 To $1200 monthly Then I Had $4200 In Savings...But Spent All Supporting Him For 6 Months! When He Left May 2021 W A PROMISE TO RETURN on Aug 8th/Our 24YR Anniversary... WELL HE PASSED AWAY IN LOUISIANA AUG 3 2021/FROM ""CONTRACTED"" COVID!!! His Last Words To Me When I Called The Hosp. "F U WHY DID YOU BLOCK ME AND CHANGE YOUR PHONE #!!! Because I WOKE UP N WENT NO CONTACT 1 Month Earlier! Ive Healed But Its Still VERY Emotional At Times! I GRIEVE BUT I'M ALSO RELIEVED!!! SO NOW "I" CAN HEAL! AND REBUILD!!❤

So we'll put ❤

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I'm ready to connect. This has to end 😊

Very inspiring. Thank you ❤

It's so haaaard being codependant. This is really good.

Interesting. Ticks a lot of boxes.

He thinks I'm complaining. But is it complaint when he decided to tell me in 2021 he wanted a second wife. He traumatized or son with his porn and talking to other online women. He then blows every dollar I ever saw invested in or 21 years he blew since 2017 half a billion dollars but finalized the remaining in 2021 over 9 months emptied our retirement. I've been a steady at home wife mother he encouraged me his mother is a full blown narcissist . He sent me this video after walking me with his hand at 3 am cuz he loves his drugs and stays up all night. I asked about bed he took it as an invite. I figured I'd try to help him understand why I'm still hurting cuz he's very good at belittling and making feel I react to harshly. I'm a first born cancer woman. I'm independent loving caring was abused as a child alot. Trust in men very hard. He's controlled financially everything I was comfortable. We dated 8 years before I was trying to break it off permanently.. he didn't want to lose me and I really felt he was amazing mom had me sign a prenup. He recently claimed when I told him mom was to greedy I WANTED divorce After his total disrespect and hurting me show how very little he VALUED our life together. To give back ground I did chest on him he's using that as justification for his actions that completely made me feel unloved un-valued and basically unempathic to breaking me. I was confused when we met thought I was Bi we were swinger dating and first 4 years of marriage. He hurt his back became addicted to pain pills. I wanted to levee him in 2015, we were married July 4th 2003, only complaint that I had was lack of sex of ANY kind didn't even noticed me half the time since year 2006 . In the beginning I worried about his back he fuss a lot. But we were still swinger acting til 2010 by then all evidence was gone second child was born. Sex was well not in my favor we'll say. I didn't have sex outside reg. Or often or in any kind of schedule. No boyfriend no in love crap. Still had a broken belief love sex were separated. We moved in 2017 my mom died. His narcissist mother who forced our into a house BEFORE we married so it was legally his prenup agreement style six months pregnant mind you was living his his recently passed grandmother's home the house his divorce parents had. No reason to rush us out other then to control money. Understanding his THINKING I'm nagging. No I'm seeing no love lost after he blew $200K 2016 on tripling his pill habits. Sex almost nullified. Moved to granny house 2016-2017. Mother in laws takes 13 year house payments for taxes on granny's house she keeps in HER NAME so again I get no value out of it is not "his" see this money game I've dealt with for 21 years? We still got one got 4 years left.i been physically abused grabbed by the throat numerous times trying to get him to hold accountability for giving away or invested wealth to turned out to be scammers.not even women. I tried to stop him tried to keep saying I love you. he moved out until he learned he Could lose moms house cuz prenup was greedy no child support no alimony. 21 years. He came home I had high hopes now I got no hope he wants to be right not hear how hurt I am or help me deal with it rather make himself the victim yes I cheated on him. And I have changed and see how I hurt him i recognize it and FEEL retaliated on. Still here 50 no work experience of a high paying career. He's bad winner. Since he got covid 2019 3 weeks fever.... he's be a complete stranger to the man i knew BEFORE he got sick. On a odd side note he told me twice between 2016 and 2019 he heard feom Jesus or God they told him he'd died with the next 3-10 years. 6 months after he survived covid (still uncharacteristically unemployed) I got a message about walk-in beings. Like I said this isn't the loving caring adorable man. He's always right a n d I'm wrong for asking for accountability. We WONT MENTION why today's fight cis hot as it is cuz it's his true trigger issue and his gaslight of how he justifies physically abusing me. I am not denying I verbally try my damnest to hold him accountable for why my trust is gone my desire is gone and abuse harassness challenges unlocking my love forc this stranger. Again I'm sorry and I was wrong for my actions long long ago. But this daily unaccountable and abuse push back he thinks this video is valid and I can see his point I also politely disagree. Thank you for anyone who bothers to read and give a 2 cent care for a grieving wife

Needed this. Thanks Sarah