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@cal1believer 16 сағат бұрын
Someone random i dont even know reached out to me on messenger and we talked for a bit and he sent me this video iv been pushing it off since last night and iv fornicated alot since then but i like this video, i really like it.
@atm1425K 19 сағат бұрын
Social Media is Porn. My husband dark side that I do not know.
@EvaSanchez-m3f 20 сағат бұрын
Is it safe when you are married and found spouse cheating to have sex again
@evabistuergimenez522 23 сағат бұрын
Thank you Dr. Weiss for all your videos, I watched almost all of them but I can't find a video where you talk about what the partners of sex addicts who fight for their marriage should do when their spouses lie about doing their "work " ( therapy and 12 steps group support)just to keep us around to use us as sex outlets while they continue to act out? and if we complain about it they end up discarding us and replacing us with a new supply? I know there are more women like me who can relate to this.
@THISISGorgeousKnight-sy2cx Күн бұрын
TODAY'S WORLD DO YOU NEED TO MARRY A MALE THAT SAYS HE'S A CHRISTIAN ? I FIND IT THAT MALES SUPPOSED TO BE CHRISTIANS DO SEX LESS MARRIAGE , MOST ARE PLAIN EVIL
@tonydays6673 Күн бұрын
IN TODAY'S WORLD NEVER GET MARRIED ESPECIALLY TO PEOPLE WHO SAY THEY ARE CHRISTIANITY
@smmathstopper712 Күн бұрын
Thank you sir Hearing your class was like applying medicine on my mental wounds..
@smmathstopper712 Күн бұрын
Sir how can I over come this condition
@pigslovecarrots9653 Күн бұрын
I edged to this violently while finishing Elden ring dlc naked
@Cunningstuntz Күн бұрын
Thanks for the ADD,,,, AS I ADVERTISEMENT geees😮
@MonstroseCandy Күн бұрын
When I found out he was watching it again I got up and walked to the bathroom to cry. I ended up walking back out of the bathroom and talking with him about it and he lied to me once again. He ended up telling me the truth once he realized I didn’t believe him and wasn’t going to. When he told me the truth it was like my world crashed down right in front of me and I had no idea it was going on for the last 7/8 months. For a few days after I found out I kept waking up crying and once that was over I started feeling empty inside and I still feel this way, I found out earlier in the month and I forgive him and we have blocked the site and other sites but I can’t help but feel this pain when I look at him.
@AromaX11 Күн бұрын
Disloyalty of any nature is absolutely devastating…
@sweatyba11s77 Күн бұрын
Third day inna row i beat 3 times. I got issues😂
@donaldyoung6607 Күн бұрын
I’ve been in a sexless marriage for over 18 years one time a year don’t cut it but I’m the bad guy when I get hateful and yes I’ve helped around the house and done everything I know to do it still don’t help I’m to the point now I don’t even care and yes I do feel worthless and have lost hope but if I mention it I’m the bad guy
@JustMe-pw1iw Күн бұрын
I was addicted to masturbate. For 2 years since i stopped, i cant sleep, i have very painful electric shocks in all my body. 2 years of no fap but withdrawals are hard af. I have masturbated since 7 yo daily (multiple times) untill 17. Now i m 19. Please help me it sso painful. I cant continue my studies almost. Neurologists and psychiatrics dont know what s my diagnostic but i told them that this is a masturbating withdrawal... Help me pleeease!!!
@user-nm6td9wb7t Күн бұрын
Thank God Dr.
@JustMe-pw1iw 2 күн бұрын
I cant sleep, i have electric shocks in all my body. 2 years of no fap but withdrawals are hard af. I have masturbated since 7 yo daily (multiple times) untill 17. Now i m 19. Please help me it sso painful. I cant continue my studies almost. Neurologs and pshihiatrics dont know what s my diagnostic but i told them that this is a masturbating withdrawal.
@jamieivan8991 2 күн бұрын
This guy is full of crap … he’s an adulterer and part of the mega church feel good liars … God is Holy .. he’s not crying over your problem .. you need to go to His word and get his wisdom and then grow the heck up!!!
@debbiepeterson6829 2 күн бұрын
Because thats all they think about 24/7.
@Polly1589 2 күн бұрын
I moved countries for him, we were already engaged, then got married half year later, then he broke up with me 2 months after and I was basically forced to go back to my homecountry and was homeless. I have other stories to tell from what people did to me, sometimes it is hard to get my mind around what people do to each other. At least I can say, that I never betrayed someone and I'm an honest person.
@janetsadeghi1501 2 күн бұрын
For all of those attacking him - he's obviously referring to those people that decided to forgive an affair. Obviously, many people wouldn't, so this video is not for them.
@Kermondale 2 күн бұрын
Last Night I "slipped" /Acted-out ;Felt disgusted With my self
@missddly 2 күн бұрын
Thank you Dr. Weiss for all the knowledge, research, and wisdom. I have watched many videos and have learned a lot from you. Thank you for your ministry and work to help many people, especially Christians who need understanding. I would like to kindly make a suggestion to your videos. 1) tape from the waist up 2) Please don't laugh at the beginning of the video on such a serious topic.
@jayrey7 2 күн бұрын
Damn 30 years that's awesome. 😂 wow.
@marialuna7540 2 күн бұрын
He has chronic masterbation issues forgets we haven't had sex for a month and tells me that I always want sex turns me away that hurts like a knife in my gut even if he doesn't want sex from me and I told him that at least we can have intimacy and he won't
@marialuna7540 2 күн бұрын
My boyfriend is
@GulomjonAbduraximov-cq5bx 2 күн бұрын
Please help medoc
@DrDougWeiss Күн бұрын
If you need help and support, you can get with a therapist to help you break free. You can do so locally or contact our office at 719-278-3708 to book an appointment with a certified counselor. You can also check out our masturbation addiction recovery playlist here on KZfaq that gives helpful tips and insights: kzfaq.info/sun/PLoQAJVqvxAfgQo7lsqeZqISUX5kXz5_4l For other resources, there's the Final Freedom ebook and 101 Freedom Exercises workbook that provides useful information and guidance on navigating your way towards freedom: www.drdougweiss.com/product/final-freedom-ebook/ www.drdougweiss.com/product/sex-addiction-101-freedom-exercises-ebook/
@GulomjonAbduraximov-cq5bx Күн бұрын
Please reply my email
@kj4119 2 күн бұрын
How do I incorporate this into our marriage when we're separated? It's been over a year and he's just now starting recovery so it could be another year or so before we're able to live under the same roof.
@DrDougWeiss 2 күн бұрын
You can start to do the dailies over the phone or in person now to increase these skills.
@your_name_here2158 2 күн бұрын
Dr Weiss, I have a question I have noticed a trend in the Christian Church lately, specifically the conservative christian church. Often it seems the women are in charge of the sex and frequency within marriages. Now being theologically opposed to feminism and the like, I find this sinful, usurping the rightful position. I know many men who live in a sexless marriage (as defined by statistics) and also who might be active with their spouse only once a week or something. It is my observation that this is sinful on the part of the wives. Paul gives us this on the topic: "For the wife does not rule over her own body, but the husband does; likewise the husband does not rule over his own body, but the wife does. Do not refuse one another except perhaps by agreement for a time, that you may devote youselves to prayer, but then come together again , lest Satan tempt you through lack of self control." See 1Cor. The way I interpret that is sexual annorexia is a sin on par with porn use. Now I am single currently, but I am a theologian and student of ethics and I have come to the conclusion of the following: When one has object sex (i.e. porn) they reinforce a neural pathway that leads them to seek that out again. Even if they think it's wrong or wicked, they will overlook this due to the way the pathway is established. It is hard to leave it and could be seen as a chemical addiction. Let us apply that elsewhere: If a man and his wife both are very regular in their intimacy, and each try to please eachother learning their partner's sexual love language...etc. and do so everyday for example. This reinforces the neural pathway of their relationship. Theoretically a sexual addiction to your partner could be intentionally developed. Then the pathway would actually help foster a better relationship. Now in closing here: When it comes to sex in marriage, the church seems to have adopted an Original Sin/Ascetic view that forgoing it is the holy or mature thing to do. Yet in effect, this is them calling what God created good a bad thing. The modern purity culture is ruining christian sexual health and it should be spoken out against by someone who can do something. You actually have credentials my friend, Your words will go further than my own ever will. So I ask you, for my future sake as well as for all of humanity, help convince people that desiring frequent sex is not wrong. Sincerely, YNH
@Supacool_KennyCash 3 күн бұрын
Thank you! I didn’t know what was wrong with me
@user-jw1bl4hq9j 3 күн бұрын
So basically what I understood is this …..MEN CAN NOT SEE ANYTHING ELSE BUT SEX ……THIS ITSELF ITS TROUBLING ….
@DrDougWeiss 2 күн бұрын
While sexualizing is a common thing among men, not all men do this. There are many men who are honorable in the way they view and act toward women. In the end, it's a choice they make to sexualize or not to do so. They can also be healed from sexualization if they are willing and put in the necessary work.
@samuelbrown7831 2 күн бұрын
Very troubling
@thevlach2818 3 күн бұрын
Damn is it just me or are these instances that happened to me with my exes controlled how I've been since, cause literally have lost all my game. I feel retarded cause of all the trauma at times I'm non functional. It comes and goes but does tend to cause me trouble in life as I can't hold down anything jobs, friendships, relationship's. I'm alone in life
@AlaciaEdwards 3 күн бұрын
My husband had a physical affair a long time ago. We were married for 41 years. It wasn't until after he died that I found out that he had given his heart to literally hundreds of people - but not to me. It was like an emotional affair. For me, it was a 1000 times more difficult to deal with than the physical affair ever was. I knew the physical affair was a testosterone thing more than anything else. But...to give your HEART to everyone but your own wife? I've been dealing with huge brain problems for 2 and 1/2 years. It took place after he died and I discovered everything. I'm finally starting to get better. I do brain exercises every day for one hour...to re-establish healthy neural pathways in my brain...which also strengthens the vagus nerve that's damaged as a result of the betrayal/trauma that's taken place. The vagus nerve acts like a communication highway between the brain and the rest of the body. When it is damaged, communication can't take place effectively and health suffers severely. The machine that Dr. Weiss refers to sounds amazing. I would encourage anybody to look into that if possible. For financial reasons, I can't...but I hope you can.
@lyesterday 3 күн бұрын
Why did my husband choose porn over me? He lied about porn for our whole marriage and time I knew him. We even went to celebrate recovery and church and youth group . Why did he lie about it.
@DrDougWeiss 2 күн бұрын
I'm so sorry that you've been experiencing this in your marriage. It is common for addicts of any kind to lie about their addictions: be it food, porn, working, drinking, etc. This is part of their immaturity due to the addiction. Know that you have no fault in this and shouldn't blame yourself for it. If you need help and support, you can contact our office at 719-278-3708 to get booked with one of our compassionate therapists. We also have a few helpful resources that would provide further insight and understanding on the matter. When You Marry a Child, Don’t Expect a Man Right Away: www.drdougweiss.com/product/when-you-marry-a-child-dont-expect-a-man-video-download/ Why Men Lie: www.drdougweiss.com/product/why-men-lie-video-download/
@lyesterday 2 күн бұрын
@@DrDougWeiss thank you so much. I've been doing your Bible app study and it's been helping
@montana5904 3 күн бұрын
I’ve caught him watching porn a few times while I was in the house especially late nights but does it count when he’s searching social media for body images to stare at, or (what he does most) looks for real life women in public with skin showing and goes home to re-enacts it onto me? Is that a thing or is that just something I keep thinking he does. He’s always ready right when we get home and he gets in such a gaze sometimes the woman sees him looking and has enough time to give me a saddened look cause I’m right beside him with my kids but her body is his only concern.😔 he’s even working nonstop now cause he picked a full time job and I can just tell that he’s relapsed cause I’m constantly coerced into sex but neglected all day long everyday for the few hours he’s home at night before going to bed and when we have the weekend with the family he plays fortnite with his brother that he’s obsessively competitive with to the point they talk all day long bragging or debating. it’s just more than he ever talks to me. His life kinda revolves around competing with his brother and women’s bodies, or when he’s home it’s all about drugs, spending or video games. He’s convinced me we don’t have money like that but buys expensive things from time to time. I can’t see his bank account so I’m always worried. He’s always been in denial of having an addiction but my old therapist diagnosed me as a spouse of an addict from the ptsd I had but he sabotaged that relationship so I really don’t know what kind he is and how serious it is.
@DrDougWeiss 3 күн бұрын
To answer your first question, yes, the things that you’ve listed that he has been doing (the porn, the looking at body images on social media, checking out real life women, and reenacting porn stuff with you) are common behaviors of sex addiction. What he is doing is pursuing object sex instead of relational sex. You can watch this KZfaq video that explains the differences between relational sex and object sex, along with this video on why men look at porn here: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/oJOIdrJmutK-hXU.html kzfaq.info/get/bejne/n9mgqphits7ecX0.htmlsi=A3kNDkK6o9xHMvGn Based on some of the other things that you have mentioned, there might also be intimacy anorexia involved, which is the active withholding of spiritual, emotional, and sexual intimacy from a spouse. Check out intimacyanorexia.com and see if this applies to you. Regardless, his pornography is having a severe impact on your marriage. I’m sad to hear that this is happening to you and the neglect that you’ve experienced. The partner betrayal trauma that you have from this is real. I would consider getting healing and support for yourself so that you don’t have to face this alone. You can contact our office at 719-278-3708 to book an appointment with one of our certified therapists who will walk with you through this. You can also join our free Facebook Partners group for community support as well. facebook.com/groups/partnersofsa Our therapists are also trained in sex addiction recovery and can work with your husband if he is willing to get help. However, understand that if he doesn’t believe he needs help, he won’t seek change. If that is the case, things will stay the same and may get worse over time. For resources, you would most likely find the Partners: Healing From His Addiction book validating as it has personal testimonies of others in similar situations and provides guidance on how to move forward toward healing. The Partners Recovery Guide workbook has helpful exercises you can check out too. www.drdougweiss.com/product/partners-healing-ebook/ www.drdougweiss.com/product/partners-recovery-guide-ebook/ Regarding the PTSD you mentioned, there's the Partner Betrayal Trauma book (and perhaps the accompanying workbook), which contains statistics and greater insight into the betrayal trauma that partners experience. www.drdougweiss.com/product/partner-betrayal-trauma-ebook/ www.drdougweiss.com/product/partner-betrayal-trauma-workbook-ebook/ You might also find the DVD “Why Do I Stay” helpful: www.drdougweiss.com/product/why-do-i-stay-video-download/
@user-nm6td9wb7t 3 күн бұрын
So true,we are in an insane world. Lord have mercy on us all.without God we just can't make it.
@standleyustina 3 күн бұрын
Does it come with the workbook for 99.00, or do i need to add this in addition to the order? I didn't understand i was doing this to my husband and totally neglected my husband. But i love him. i don't understand how i could do this to him for the last 20 years. I am a horrible person. I hope i can turn this around.
@DrDougWeiss 3 күн бұрын
The course includes both the video and the workbook together. You can get either the physical copy or the digital download of it: www.drdougweiss.com/product/helping-my-spouse-heal-from-my-intimacy-anorexia-dvd-course/ www.drdougweiss.com/product/helping-my-spouse-heal-from-my-intimacy-anorexia-video-course-download/
@BattaCham 4 күн бұрын
Bro i got sent this what even is this
@BattaCham 4 күн бұрын
What even is that ??
@vintagegirl68 4 күн бұрын
Support is the most important, not talking about friends, professional help is needed. My friends meant well but made things way worse. Cereset helps as well.
@moinakram7319 4 күн бұрын
Thanks for the knowledge and information keep sharing good for humanity love and respect from Pakistan
@johnnychason4472 4 күн бұрын
MEDICAL SCIENCE HAS PROVEN THAT IF MEN DONT MASTURBAIT THEY GET PROSTATE CANCER. SO ENJOY YOUR FUTURE PROSTATE CANCER SIR. NOT ME.
@johnnychason4472 4 күн бұрын
MEDICAL SCIENCE HAS PROVEN THAT IF MEN DONT MASTURBAIT THEY GET PROSTATE CANCER. SO ENJOY YOUR FUTURE PROSTATE CANCER SIR. NOT ME.
@sannevanputten9630 4 күн бұрын
the first one. my boyfriend is addicted. in our first courtship i found out that he was addicted, my heart shattered. i questioned myself, "so i was never good enough???" i thought all the time, i broke up with him, we randomly started talking again, and i was DECEIVED, i thought he changed, he PROMISED ME. i promised him i would never give up on him again, now later in our second courtship we took, he has cheated on me 4 times now. by jerking off at other women, i never told anyone about this
@ZebedayoSikolia 4 күн бұрын
Which food you can eat if you have already done this
@amyjohns1103 4 күн бұрын
This happened to me. I have no insurance so i cant afford to go to counseling. Any suggestions?
@DrDougWeiss 4 күн бұрын
We have a video download called "Secrets After the Funeral" that goes in-depth on this topic that would be helpful to watch: www.drdougweiss.com/product/secrets-after-the-funeral-download/ You could also find a friend, mentor, or a trustworthy and honest person to confide in and have them support you through the process with you or join a local community group for support.
@noreenramsammy8385 4 күн бұрын
Not why men cheat...All men cheat so women should realize that by now.
@11superlife 5 күн бұрын
Some of you miss the entire point of this video.
@sadguru1969 5 күн бұрын
The world needs more of sex education and less of work related stress ! This world has goten upside down with industrialisation and capitalism !
@kellyatkinson4899 5 күн бұрын
Hi I know of a person's male partner who watches porn sites alot. He denies it and intimidates her by name calling. Wot help can I get to help both them
@DrDougWeiss 4 күн бұрын
Our counseling center offers a lot of resources and services that the two of them can utilize. The wife can call us at 719-278-3708 to make an appointment with one of our certified therapists to help her get the healing and support that she needs. We also have a free Partners Facebook community group that she can join. facebook.com/groups/partnersofsa For materials, she would find the Partner Betrayal Trauma ebook and workbook helpful for validating her betrayal trauma and guidance for healing. www.drdougweiss.com/product/partner-betrayal-trauma-ebook/ www.drdougweiss.com/product/partner-betrayal-trauma-workbook-ebook/ Regarding the husband's sex/porn addiction, our therapists are also trained in sex addiction recovery and can work with him toward recovery if he is willing. Additionally, he can also visit sexaddict.com for a host of sex addiction recovery resources that would be helpful. However, if he is unwilling and refuses to get help, things will stay the same.