Gosh this is accurate

I had a couple negative experiences with relationships. When I brought up how my ex was making me feel once, he told me I was the common denominator in all my failed relationships. 😅 I wanna say I'm a better judge of character now.

Yes I am, and I'm unsure of what to do😢

My husband is so far up his mommy's ass I'm getting a divorce

Isto sranje. Drugo pakovanje.

Greetings Glory to God

AMEeN Very blessfull message Thank you jesus christ ❤️

Mine convinced me that the phone was bugged and there were cameras and listening devices all around the apartment. It took me moving halfway across a very large state before I could even begin to start healing and I’m still working on that more than 2 decades later.

Stay strong and get help where you can 😢

I understand completely. You stated well how it feels to lose yourself to narcissistic abuse.

I was used to other narcissists already and I had to be hurt worse to see

He let you know he is always better than you, you are nobody, you dont even know who you really are. What?..where was he the day you was born ..how do you survived with out him. They act if they are youre teacher ..

When you says to someone else what he said you get the voice out of youre head

We need good correction from GOOD people not from the council from the ungodly

It escalates untill 💥BOOM 💥 take your dam time years of time to see how these people truly are... because you won't know untill married to them and when that happens your SCREWED

AMEeN Very nice message bless

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Good to see this Always your fault, never his fault, you feeling guilty...o my run gal 😮❤

No, a court wouldn't just give a mother custody, if she said she didn't want them.. That's not how courts work, they are unbiased honest.

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Some Narcs face no abuse, but we're spoiled.

Sam Vaknin put it like this: Narcs = decide to give love to themselves, codependents = decide to give love to others.

Bless u x

I know very well how you feel about it , Dad can’t win this game without support of the government .

yup mental wards are the place that picks up those humans involuntary voluntary prison law hates a profitable buisness

Im sorry... are you me? This sounds exactly like my mum, and that's really scary...

When men talk about mothers being awarded automatic custody, this is what we are talking about.

Heh, Judges *sips coffee*

Thank you, i needed to hear this today.

Yeah my dad's the narcissist who had every other weekend visitation and barely ever picked us up. I can still see my little brother sitting on the front steps with his backpack for hours, having to tell him he's not coming and to get inside bc it was dark out. Some people shouldnt be allowed to be parents.

Bless You.. That is soooooo messed up. 🙏💖✨💯

sad kids shouldnt be used as bargaining chips.

The courts still don't recognize narcissist the judge and juries have to be educated on narcissism

Or they just try to take them away completely to hurt you more so that you have to beg them to see the children

Every word reflects my experience. I was so naive. I’m handing it over to God because this level of darkness is beyond my comprehension.

Get OUT!!

so real. my dad fought for full custody, suceeded, and my very broke mom had to pay child support. guess who ended up living full time with mom not long after? guess who still had to pay that child support because it's cheaper than sorting out the legals while living paycheck to paycheck? outstanding isn't it 🤣 periodically he would kidnap me. then after a couple days/weeks of me not "cooperating" and falling depressed, he would send me back to my real parent. he stealthed my mom btw. that's why i exist. please use multiple forms of BC.

Lost your message but your eyes are amazing

my ex was trying to do this, i never got pregnant (honestly thank god) and within a year he had brought into our home seven pets. mind you we didn't have all seven at the same time (except my first baby that was with me through it all and was with me until he took his last breath, long after my ex was gone) he just kept bringing home pet after pet, which he did not help take care of, or actively ruined the work i was doing with them. at the time i walked away i had three cats, and had no where to go. but i figured it out and one cat went to a known friend and the other two cats were with me for 10 years until they had to be put down, and i was there in the end. he wanted to destroy me, and tie me to him but it didn't work.

Absolutely. My son is 6. I have finally figured this fact out!

You must know my Mother!

Because women are awarded the kids 92% of the time and our society shows the results of that.

NARRASSTIC just someone who don't know how feel Is all.

My first husband held me for 13 years and used our 3 children over my head until I finally couldn't take any more.

This is exactly life that I had with my ex-husband, absolute narcissist, I had three children with him because I was roped into the idea that he really wanted a family and loved me, I don’t regret my children, they are the best gift I’ve ever had and will ever have, but I regret my ex-husband, and all that he did to me, he is still trying to manipulate and use everything against me that he can because of who he is, and who he will always be

Thats why Gods were created, so that we don't think we are Gods like your brother

That’s what they (narcs) are: professional victims that refuse to accept any accountability or responsibility

What’s crazy is that they will focus on the toxic family side & ignore their own family needs. We in the same boat

I’m so sorry 💔

AMEeN Glory to God