Why is it that Chinese and Western thoughts are different? For the same issue, Western thought proposes that we select our parents after mutual discussions in order to learn lessons to ascend, to emphasize the enjoyment of life and learning. Chinese thought proposes that we select the parents unilaterally to repay or to demand repayment, and experience suffering, and there is rarely the emphasis of enjoyment of happiness. So which is the actual truth? Nobody can actually say as there is no absolute truth in spirituality. Only human proposals have absolutes.