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Exactly

Some people are simply uncomfortable to have a high contact with opppsite sex people. It's not so difficult to understand. I goes for men and women.

@@robb00 That feeling of being uncomfortable is something that needs to be overcome when training martial arts. And, tbh, that applies to far more than just training with the opposite sex. If you are truly learning to fight, you will find yourself in many situations that make you feel uncomfortable. If you can't get past those and overcome that feeling within, you will never succeed.

@@judosailor610 It's not true at all. It depends all on your kind of discomfort and what your goal is. If your goal is competing, you don't need of opposite sex to be successful. A great friend of mine, a guy who does muay thai and doesn't train with women, is a high level competitor. At my gym there are also women only classes and there we have a female purple belt who doesn't train with men. She is a very good athlete who obtained great success at competitions. But most people are not competitors they are only hobbists who want to do a combat sport just for fun. Some of these people don't want to face discomfort, they only look for a hobby to have fun and forget their troubles for few hours with. Live and let live. If you want to train with everyone, great! If you are uncomfortable and you want to try and overcome your discomfort great! If you are uncomfortable and you want to do only what make you comfortable, great too! It's your journey, do what you make you feel happy. Nobody should feel forced to do something against their will.

@@robb00 so, first of all, it is absolutely true and without doubt that in order to learn how to fight you have to overcome a lot of things that make you feel uncomfortable or that you're scared to do. From the first time you spar, to the first time you get punched in the face, to the first time you get submitted, to the first time you feel that incredible pressure and pain of someone doing knee on belly and you just want to give up because it's so uncomfortable. You have to learn how to overcome those things and be comfortable in those situations that used to make you uncomfortable. That's indisputable. Now that said, I guess you're right, you can overcome all those other things and probably learn how to fight without ever rolling, sparring or training with someone of the opposite sex. However, in my opinion, that's still problematic. It may be natural to have that fear or to feel uncomfortable when you're new. And of course if you have some past trauma, that may also contribute to it. But you're doing your training partners and yourself a disservice if you never work through that and get past it and overcome it. At least that's my opinion.

Thank you!

This makes my heart smile. I'm a fairly new beginner in BJJ.. so I love seeing this!❤

So damn rude

u need to be put behind bars and never ever see sunlight again

Absolutely gross! And rude.

@@Thatoneje 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😆😅

Afaik boob control is perfectly legal.

I feel you, you need to switch out the obsession for another obsession 😂

I appreciate the comment! Good luck starting your business!

I didn’t quit, but just gym homeless at the moment and training only a few times a month!

@@MayaNazareth curioius if you have injuiries from training

In my humble opinion (coming up on 2 years training) I don't think you have anything to worry about. The culture of jiu jitsu promotes everyone being a good training partner to help each other improve at jiu jitsu. Anyone serious about showing up to train is there for that reason, not to flirt or date. It would be SUPER weird for anyone to try to exploit the physical proximity that happens during training to try to 'make something happen' with their training partner and I can't see it being reciprocated. Most likely it would get reported.

​@@NextScamdemicLol, you don't need to start shagging on the matts to hook up with a training partner. Her guy already cheated on her before, so that's a perfectly rational concern.