You can’t just cut it off so easily when you have kids.

I want to scream! I can’t believe it’s over. I don’t even know who I am without her

Breakup day 6. 😓 hurts! Gotta give up hope. You described my discard to a tee!

I need to get my own place. It's hard being around her

Amazing 👏 ❤

I didn't know it but what I thought were boundaries are walls. I have a very sweet husband. Five years. Great guy. However, hearing the same words again, why is this making you angry? Why are u snapping at me? You're being defensive, you're not listening, you're making associations to your past, etc. it is beginning to ruin this relationship. I've had too many. I decided to figure out how to not be defensive and found your video. It's made me realize that I am detaching emotionally and building walls and I am going to try to put this into practice. Thanks.

Perfect timing mahalo for the different perspectives realistic and simple to comprehend

Day #1 for me and am mot even bothered ,am not losing any sleep over him

#2 lol - i recently got that and it took me a few days to process and react emotionally. It hurt.

Im so hurt my hubby left me with 5 kids😢😢 nd this is just my first week

I just yesterday faced the beginning of the end of 7 year relationship . The conversation was calm With her but I get the message that she believes it’s the end . I am calm but boy I am hurting . I suggested a joint counselling as an option as we both said we both have things to out right . Whether this happens I do not know . I could do with talking to you but I see this presentation is year old so whether you are still around i do not know . Can you help me ? I am in uk . I am 65 .

4years down the drain 2 kids later & fresh after having to have a forced abortion & I need to get over him asap.

Thank you I heal instantly after years and years of chasing my ex, yesterday she came along with her boyfriend to see our son I got hurt so bad, but after watching this podcast I feel healed.

Amazing stuff.

I would like to get a video from you guys on Narcissistic Abuse breakup where the victim is so confused with cognitive dissonance and the discard.

How can someone become a complete stranger after being so close for 5 years.. it hurts so much

what can you do ? if you have two kids ???

Its my 3rd day and its hurting and breaking me but im trying to be positive and praying most of the time ....

How to get over a breakup where you have zero closure and she changed in literally 2 days?

You both are awesome ❤ looking forward to hear from you guys talking about romantic relationship with mental illness people.

This is a very good one. You both nailed it. Keep up the good works. Love and light 🙏✨❤️🇵🇭 please tell us about how to handle people with mental illness in a love relationship? looking forward to it. God bless you ❤️🙏

It's a different case in my part. The one that I love for almost 6 years of dating with someone who is suffering from mental illness 😢 and all i do is to understand and patience and love. Tough, right?

Love the three versions😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂soooofunny

Love dispensary😂

I love the humour 😅you guys just cheered me up... going through a breakup im looking to move out but its difficult

Thank you for this, there where so many memories and so many good times that I’ll never forget. It hurts so much and I feel so defeated and empty.

I guess we’re all on day 2 of the breakup… I think mine hurts the most because he was a walking green flag and I was healing & kind of broken so I think he eventually started to feel that. He went from wanting to marry me to feeling unsure & the rejection I think hurts the most. Replaying all of the perfect memories and sweetness from him just breaks my heart to pieces… I decided to break my rule & move in with him even though I wanted to wait until marriage- so moving out was a tear fest once we merged. Never again will I do that.

Its been a week since everything came to an end, the anxiety, depression, anger, and suicide thoughts have been a roller coaster, what made it more difficult is having bipolar 1 disorder. I thought I had deleted all my social media accounts, pictures, phone numbers, and emails and ran into a photo of her in my gallery it feels like I relapsed but im pushing foward, determined to make the changes and learn everything that i need to change to become a better person for myself first and my future partner.

8plus years. He never wanted to talk. It was just arguing. He could never see his flaws. He would just start yelling. Very controlling and has massive anger issues. But I still loved him. I was addicted to him. I can’t even see myself with him long term. But yet I can’t move on. I don’t get it. But is time to move on.

Break your thinking n triggers.. move away..delete..block

We live in the same building. How do I Cold Turkey him?

seriously It's been 2 month and a side from trying to get over a relationship. I am feeling so resentful because he a abandoned me with the child, he also knew in the very beginning that, I didn't want to raise children out of a family setting and also didn't wat to be a single mother. I feel like the devil just used him with cause hurt and ruin me yet at the same time there is our son. His father hid so many things from me like other children he had out of other relationships that I found out later and what makes me recent him the most because I think he never loved me, he also cheated on me for 3years and later on moved on with his lover.

But how about when children are involved. because the most difficult thing is to keep communicating to someone who left you and you want to forget for the sake of the child. because my husband walked out of our relationship after 7years of our lives together and he moved on with his love immediately. He does not even bother about the child but because I am not financially stable. I have keep communication with this guy because of school fees and that is the only thing he is helping me and the child with.

I feel you so appreciative to see this video.

6 years.. I feel pitty for myself and my best years I invested. Now 35 having to go out dating in this trash pool on dating apps.. I can't even imagine sleeping next to someone else. I am so so sad.

this should be Christian marriage, too

What if I don’t fell that sense of security about my partner’s financial responsibility, because of the experiences I have had with him ?? Should I reconsider that relationship??

My bf wants kids n I don't How to find a solution to it Should we move apart Only one year has passed since we have started dating

My husband packed and left the home as he was angry after being found out for cheating. I stopped talking to him for months now. We have been married a long time and have 3 amazing adult sons. They have good values and have cut ties with their dad. I did not tell them to but they did. I think it's the end of the road for us as he hates us now.

My god your voices are sooo sooothing! It’s asmr and PBS COMBINED

It's so hard to stop the craving to reconnect with your ex

This is so me in our family. Everything boils down to deciding over fitting in or honoring who you are. It sucks when you see others not rocking the boat bc they don't want to not being liked. kicked.

4. 20 This is me right now. 😢

Telling someone to stop having feelings for someone isn’t even possible. 😕 They might say they will stay away but in reality you just made it more taboo… they will continue seeing that person regardless. That’s why this is dangerous to monogamous relationships. You are sharing energy and fluids with other people and you’re not going to have feelings for them?? That’s just ridiculous in my opinion. Unless it’s like a one in done thing… you just don’t sleep with the same person. That’s probably the only way to keep this model honest.

Unconditional love does exist. It's called a dog.

If my son steal or rob a bank, the goverment will punish him.

Really good.

I would give my right great toe to have an hour to speak with you guys. Could you wonderful gentleman do a podcast on: broken trust ie: one day you go home and your told “ we need to live separately … your space and my space… “ then told only for 1 yr.. then told well there are couples that live separate for years.. after living together for 3 yrs… then being ignored for days only getting “sorry long day going to bed” as a text reply at 1;00 … for WEEKS! Then saying they are coming over and showing up 7/10 hr later REPEATEDLY… then avoiding any conversations … then being told basically anything and everything negative that you encompass: 1) lazy- bc you stopped doing ALLLL of the cooking cleaning, daily house items mowing bc he has 2 teenage kids that ONLY wash the dishes they clean… and bring food for the dad but not for me whom lives there as well… 2) thief: he misplaced items would find them days later but of course I hid them or stole them … to gaslight 3)mooching- bc he asked me to live with him and I asked REPEATEDLY if he wanted money for rent and was told no AND I could stop working even… so no amount was told but gave between 300-700 a month depending on paychecks AND bought things for the home, groceries, paid bills cooked cleaned did home repairs … but after 3 yrs… I was mooching I was a roommate that didn’t pay… oh and “lent” several $$$ k bought carpet new door etc and NEVER asked for the money back… 4) not empathetic to kid kids: bc I groomed the dog bc it sheds and I am the only one that brushed or vaccines so … short hair so it’s not hair everywhere … but the kids did not want that so I was harming them by not listening to there emotional needs… I could keep going but how can you get someone to see their side … oh yes I am leaving the relationship …

I really need this information. You guys help me understand few things I was struggling with. I followed the channel

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