Dude, if you are going to stop every 15 seconds to ask questions like Google isn't right in front of you. This reaction was painful.

She grew up like we all do…..😑

Ok, if you're going to enter this world you need some background. J. Mayer was 32, she 19. This song, Would've, Could've, Should've and dear John chronicle her relationship. Whether you take her side or not HE has no right to play twisted games with an inexperienced young girl. From a psychological point of view. He shattered her. Do the song Dear John last, because she wrote it when she turned 32. Same age as he was when he trifled with her.

My tears ricochet long ponds is about her old record label not a guy

Exile is amazing long pond

❤

you can top me

you need to be silenced

This guys annoying!! We want to know about the reliability

not many videos since this... did it get resolved ?

im so glad this guy doesn’t make reaction videos anymore

If she is not part of catching up with friends, there is already something wrong with the relationship.

He took his much younger girlfriend to a dinner where she knew no one and ignored her. It is not complicated who is the bad guy here. Then he gaslighted her. It is textbook toxic behaviour.

Clever.

These are around 25k 30 k low mileage in the bay area now, so now the S is a big bang for the buck.

she also talks about unaliving herself and losing emotional control in a relationship which i can relate to

For me it's the fact that he's a songwriter and didn't pay attention to half the story told in the lyrics.

“Hmm. It’s like an off tune violin or harmonica in the back that’s very distracting. It’s very low. I’m sure most of you wouldn’t even catch it.” Dude! High horse much?? You need to step down because you’re not doing a great job here. You think we haven’t listened to this at least a dozen times EACH?? Your first listen and you’ve disrespected “most of” the people listening!! FFS. Listen to yourself. After the fight scene that broke most of us… “yeah, that’s great. Just saying sorry. Yeah. Just great.” SHE IS ONLY 20/21 and he is 30! IT IS NOT OK! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

It is TWO murders. Este was killed by the husband. The husband was killed in retaliation by Taylor, Este’s best friend. I don’t think you understand this at all. You’re getting caught up in the minute details that are not that deep. This song is all fictional. Her best friends in real life are Ryan Reynolds and Blake Lively. They now have 4 children but Taylor has put 3 names in her music. (Cardigan, Betty, August, No Body No Crime). James, Este and Betty.

J Steezy.. how can I reach you? Insta?

OMG you suck. You can't NOT read/listen to the lyrics

He is a condescending asshole, she’s a young, vulnerable girl, 10+years his junior. She didn’t know any of his “cool”, older friends, and he completely ignores her all evening, drops her hand,ffs, rude to the point of ignorance. And that you don’t get it says a lot about you and that you don’t understand people’s vulnerability. You also obviously don’t know that some refrigerators have glass doors! 🙄

Scooter Braun was her manager for 13 years but with the lawsuit it was 15 years. He has her past (the masters) frozen behind glass (in showcases) but she still has herself. ❤ I’ve heard that Karlie Kloss (who became a great friend) was also represented by Scooter and she was telling Scooter secrets about Taylor. So the twin sister (people said they looked alike) stabbed her in the back.

Songs dont have to be “correct” to be good. It’s representing a feeling we can have at the time. Like a revenge song…I don’t condone revenge, but I can certainly relate to feeling the desire for revenge.

This song healed some part of me

what is bro yapping about

Let’s all live in the 90s again

As a 63 year old grandmother, this song, having gone through childhood abuse, hits hard. I never told any of my friends at school, so this makes me so emotional. Peace ya'll. Be kind.

My guess is the out of tune violin is representing the first crack in the glass, that’s the turning point in their relationship.

The dishwashing scene screams gaslighting to me.

Apart from your annoying, I'm too good for this attitude, I find your reaction impossible to watch, because your interrupt the music frequently but never back up a little to appreciate the flow.

So, the song is 10 minutes long (the short film is slightly longer), but your reaction is nearly 40 minutes... I think you should have listened more. You stepped on some of the most iconic lyrics... I read in the comments that you thought you may have missed any reference to their age difference in the song, and you were definitely talking over the lyric "You said if we had been closer in age maybe it would have been fine, and that made me want to die..." You might have a perspective, but is it really worth almost 4 times what the original material is?? I mean, the comment about the refrigerator being left open? Come on, that was such a beautiful line, and your thought was about leaving the door open. Ugh.

If you enjoy Taylor Swift and appreciate her art, you are a swiftie. You don't need to know her cats' names or pick out all the Easter eggs in the Look What You Made Me Do music video to be a fan. You just need to like Taylor Swift. (:

Mate, your spoiled.

Got to judge the whole not one piece.

UR SO HANDSOME I NEED UR INSTA 💀💀💀💀

He has zero right to be upset during that argument. He had no legs to stand on there. If they are hanging out with HIS friends that she don't know, it's HIS job to introduce her to them and keep her involved in the conversation. These are people who she's never met, they are all about a decade older than her so she can't relate to them, and he's the only one there that knows her. She was trying to get involved by taking his hand, and he completely dismissed her by dropping her hand. This tells us that he doesn't really care about her or care about her enough to keep her involved with everyone. He was the only one who made her feel comfortable, and then he acted like a completely different person - like she didn't matter at all. If he wanted to do that, hang out with them when she's not there. Don't make her feel alone in a room full of people. Then when they argued about it, he doubled down on his stupidity by dismissing her again and gaslighting her by saying he didn't even notice dropping her hand and saying she's the selfish one because she just wanted the only person who knows/supposedly cares about her to notice her occasionally. All he had to do was hold her hand, or put his arm around her, or be courteous enough to occasionally involve her in the conversation. Then he ended it by invalidating her feelings about what happened and gave a half-assed apology just to stop the arguing. Not actually resolving anything. I would also say that men and women are equally emotional and logical. Both of which are not mutually exclusive things. She had both logic and emotion in her argument, while he lacked both in his argument. It's also worth noting that this is about when Taylor dated Jake Gyllenhaal. She was 20 and he was 29. He was MUCH older (and should have been much more mature) and broke up with her saying it was at least partly due to their age difference. He knew she was young when they started dating, and now over a decade later, he's still dating girls that age. The point of the video is that they were so close in their relationship. She called themselves twin flames. But after they broke up, he was telling people that it wasn't a big deal - that it was just a fling/only 3 months. She was showing us that while it was short, it was deep. He mailed her things back except for her scarf, which he was later found by paparazzi wearing it out. He never said that he loved her/that they were in love until 3 months after they broke up when he was trying to get back together. But she knew it was over for good when he didn't show up to her 21st birthday. There is so much info in this one song/era in her life, but these are at least the biggest bullet points. Hope this helps!

Noooope. That whole gaslighting argument did not "play out just fine".

It’s nice to get a professional opinion on a song we love so much. T. Y.

He’s gaslighting hee.

The difference about the fight scene is she wasn’t upset that he was upset but he got upset that she was upset with him. That’s the difference. She wasn’t feeling understood and he just blew it off like it was nothing. That sorry scene was suppose to be that. That he didn’t care and said sorry to shut her up and end the fight. That scene is just brutal.

I make these myself, man is it hard to compete with a store like target lol what did that bag cost ya and how many grams was in it? Takes almost 3 days to run a full cycle in my freeze dryer

this is a great song thats a slide guitar, I had one. One younger guy giggled during this and another guy wanted to shoot himself

Please update more reactions on this channel. Really love your perspectives here! Hope to see u come back, mate!

i like that you interpret this song with a positive spin as well.

Just subscribed😂

How are u doing? Love your content became a new follower. Where’s the podcast? I didn’t find it here

This is YOUR channel. If you feel inclined to showcase harmonies, do it!!! Legit.