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@Dr.BanksOmale
@Dr.BanksOmale Күн бұрын
Nigerian men are just loving, hard working, kind, cheerful givers. That's how we are everywhere. We are providers! We are responsible!
@bridgettekekana4639
@bridgettekekana4639 3 күн бұрын
Brief note, encouraging students especially females to "just study in varsity" hardly works. Between stepping into your identity, competition within friend groups, social media, daddy issues, climate change, environmental issues yoooh, ausi Lebo, it's alot! Alot of people encourage students to find a partner while still in varsity, but when you look around campus especially with married lecturers dating students, it almost makes you give in on love and just go with the masses for older men
@bridgettekekana4639
@bridgettekekana4639 3 күн бұрын
It's a messy world 😂
@danga55gan
@danga55gan 5 күн бұрын
Western culture has eroded traditional values
@annieojuro-anuonye7203
@annieojuro-anuonye7203 5 күн бұрын
I am a single mom of 2 kids for 2 men… i still feel weight of my last break up with my last baby’s father that its hard for me to coparent with him after attempts for us to get to an understanding failed… I would appreciate if there are suggestions on how to lead my situation… love the show
@MissCombs1511
@MissCombs1511 6 күн бұрын
Aus Lebo.. the part about polygamy, I disagree from personal experience: A woman allowing for polygamy does not mean it curbs cheating. Cheating is about a lot more than getting to 100% by combining 2 women. He will continue to cheat to fill the hole, even temporarily, that exists. Cheating is about cheating.
@MissCombs1511
@MissCombs1511 6 күн бұрын
I think we should buy a billboard and write: FOUNDATION IS EVERYTHING!!!
@GeorgeMasibuko-y8j
@GeorgeMasibuko-y8j 8 күн бұрын
Nigerians date fun girls and single moms. Regular girls don't mess with them. And when a Nigerian man hits on a SA woman, he spends his money and time trying to justify himself. And trashing South Africans. Most jollofinas get turned out and become self hating because most of them are single moms or working girls
@NobleCare
@NobleCare 10 күн бұрын
So true. Its important for women to also have a vision for themselves as wives and moms. Shuuu so deep
@Ologun1
@Ologun1 11 күн бұрын
This is big in Africa and the Diaspora and why certain Girls are blowing up on Social Media
@Octavia-iw3ky
@Octavia-iw3ky 13 күн бұрын
I'm happy my father never put us through that by having children outside his marriage and even after his divorce with mom. That is not a pleasant situation for children either. This step step issue is nonsense
@mlondolozimbikwana
@mlondolozimbikwana 14 күн бұрын
Hi Lebo, please keep up the good spirit. But I can't help noticing that you are kid yourself, perhaps if you study SA history, you would quickly realize that these satanic activities were very seldom pre- 1994. But OfCourse you were not born yet,
@glantedavid9728
@glantedavid9728 14 күн бұрын
Congratulations. You look 25 .
@bapbap22
@bapbap22 15 күн бұрын
Lebo, can you speak on spiritual protection or discernment
@bapbap22
@bapbap22 15 күн бұрын
Women are using spiritual warfare because they are low quality. If they were high quality, they wouldn’t need magick to keep a man
@bapbap22
@bapbap22 15 күн бұрын
My spirit team are always standing on guard. In the Deep South of america, this moti you’re talking about, we call this root work
@ronnymavimbela2329
@ronnymavimbela2329 16 күн бұрын
Precisely
@SelebaloMakafane
@SelebaloMakafane 16 күн бұрын
You married and change your name and again cheat..that's grazy you underrate your man l c
@MicheleFeinler
@MicheleFeinler 18 күн бұрын
Excuse me please, should I disturb you, Ms. Lebo! I thank you so much for your explanation! I thank you for reading my message! I greet you kindly from Germany! Michele.
@MicheleFeinler
@MicheleFeinler 18 күн бұрын
Excuse me please, should I disturb you, Ms. Lebo! I thank you so much for your explanation! I thank you for reading my message! Michele from Germany.
@TalkswithLebo
@TalkswithLebo 18 күн бұрын
Thank you Michelle 😇
@MissCombs1511
@MissCombs1511 25 күн бұрын
Louder please! It's not what one thinks it is! Besides, at work we find a lot out about ourselves and our skills, or a platform to discover that you are actually a great leader. Some environments even teach you some things you will need in that same marriage e.g. conflict resolution. If you're interested in learning about you..
@MissCombs1511
@MissCombs1511 25 күн бұрын
🤔🤔 yazi that's true? I didn't think about people being jealous of your POTENTIAL! Lightbulb moment.
@TalkswithLebo
@TalkswithLebo 25 күн бұрын
😇😇😇
@MissCombs1511
@MissCombs1511 27 күн бұрын
Offramp a bit: South African native languages are FIRE! You sound amazing ladies. Back to regular programming: we are at pandemic levels of GBV and other forms of abuse. We need healthy combining of the families where if the men hear of GBV, the brothers or uncles intervene in the same way. Abuse of women will be ended by good men.
@LebohangMmihi
@LebohangMmihi 28 күн бұрын
What kind of hair costs 500k. With that kind of money he's basically sharing his income with her, what is she giving him in return for her to get that kind over money.
@MissCombs1511
@MissCombs1511 Ай бұрын
Give them some grace please Lebo 🙏🏾 I am also just learning to call people etc. I realise it'a a flaw and I am the "go to" person for a lot of my people. Please just tell us, we're probably unaware and it's not personal.
@theechosen_
@theechosen_ 26 күн бұрын
There's grace when you told them they never share but still they don't change , but if it's only me who always shares it's pointless because it shows they don't trust me.
@MissCombs1511
@MissCombs1511 25 күн бұрын
@@theechosen_ Eish 🫣🫣 there's no arguing that part.
@elethumatu
@elethumatu Ай бұрын
exactly they never think we will ever leave... it's always the case and now a person retaliates
@dollyxavieraambrose4864
@dollyxavieraambrose4864 Ай бұрын
Well my husband told me that he makes money to ensure I'm okay even though I have my own job, so I feel that most Nigerian men rate human beings above material things. The wife is more valued than money not the money more than women and my husband is more important than every dime I have too. Because at the end of the day, he his family my family are the most important asset I have not the money. I can always make money, but I can't bring my husband back if I put money over him and vise versa
@mzekenamanjearistokasi6832
@mzekenamanjearistokasi6832 Ай бұрын
This ghostly relationship was doomed from the get go.
@MissCombs1511
@MissCombs1511 Ай бұрын
Please share your email addie
@TalkswithLebo
@TalkswithLebo Ай бұрын
@MissCombs1511
@MissCombs1511 Ай бұрын
We need to talk!!!! May I email you, please?
@tranquilsoothingsounds3334
@tranquilsoothingsounds3334 Ай бұрын
Having children out of wedlock will always be problematic and has no solution. God knew this and that’s why he created marriage and nuclear family and doesn’t condone sex before marriage . It is the best way to avoid all these problems. No baby mamas , baby daddy drama . no soul ties. marriage is likely to last because there is no comparison to anything previous partners etc . Children grow up more stable and balanced human beings.
@user-hy9oc5wd2n
@user-hy9oc5wd2n Ай бұрын
U are an old soul How old are u my sister if u don't mind disclosing it
@nokuthulamntambo4980
@nokuthulamntambo4980 Ай бұрын
So informative! Thank you for highlighting the importance of Modimo le Badimo
@kganthipinkuna3392
@kganthipinkuna3392 Ай бұрын
@BeekaytheDeejay
@BeekaytheDeejay Ай бұрын
Good day Lebo. Love your work. Keep it up. Be Blessed and Be a Blessing to others.
@heromaseko5811
@heromaseko5811 Ай бұрын
If you don't mind me asking this question... The source of this so called spirituality information that you're currently sharing come from where or who...? And what in the case of a woman refusing a man access to the child for years? And how many men out there living well and large while they rejected their children... Give people proper information, which can be verified....
@TalkswithLebo
@TalkswithLebo Ай бұрын
You are questioning the source of my spirituality because I'm not dressed in a pastors robe and nor a prophet's uniform, otherwise you wouldn't ask what you are asking. So I'm not not going to explain the unexplainable to you! 2. Those who have been denied access may or may not be affected if they inform their ancestors what is happening with regards to their kids. Most of you see material things and assume men are doing well, but not worry about the emotional and spiritual aspect of their lives. How many successful men are roaming clubs, Unmarried, changing women for reasons that can't be explained? The depression and all other ailments they go through, are caused by those things. Even if they were not doing well or have rejected their kids, they wouldn't tell you, but will come to people like myself to try and find out what is happening. You were triggered by something in this post and perhaps you are one of the people who have rejected their kids or denied access. Either way, you still need to look inward and sort yourself out and not approach you life using a general approach which has nothing to do with you.
@pholososello1299
@pholososello1299 Ай бұрын
You're spot on. Under no circumstances should a man neglect his own flash
@tranquilsoothingsounds3334
@tranquilsoothingsounds3334 Ай бұрын
So it means the starting point to solve this problem and stop this cycle should be dealing with hypergamy . It is the root cause causing an imbalance in dating scene . Everything else seems to be reactionary from all the affected parties. But I have to admit it is easier said than done, especially in this era of competition on social media being so rife.
@kganthipinkuna3392
@kganthipinkuna3392 Ай бұрын
Tjooo You said a mouthful &❤❤😂😂😂😂😂😂
@TalkswithLebo
@TalkswithLebo Ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️
@kenyattamufumbey.4785
@kenyattamufumbey.4785 Ай бұрын
American men aren't giving no money up unless women are doing for him. We call it tricking and simping over here.
@queen_indig_abor
@queen_indig_abor Ай бұрын
Lv your earrings!!
@madmire
@madmire Ай бұрын
For real 😂😂😂😂😂😂 that’s why homies get 3 wives
@derekrendo4128
@derekrendo4128 Ай бұрын
❤❤on point
@Chosen1-561
@Chosen1-561 Ай бұрын
He needs Jesus
@Chosen1-561
@Chosen1-561 Ай бұрын
Your skin is flawless
@dineomolapo9934
@dineomolapo9934 Ай бұрын
If you go to a place and don't see woman looking something is wrong....😂😂😂😂 They are the first to know everything new 🤣🤣🤣 wig\clothing\ Men \ style ❤😂 sooo Nigerian are new in town nothing special in the 90 s Mozambiquans were the newest in town they even say the grow 4\5 with a tree🤣🤣🤷
@spiritsrejoice9857
@spiritsrejoice9857 Ай бұрын
Totally agree...one's door should never be be too ajar...for all and sundry...luv your themes...always❤
@NobleCare
@NobleCare Ай бұрын
And some of us just don't have our dad's around so we definitely just go in blindly lol. Sad life
@TalkswithLebo
@TalkswithLebo Ай бұрын
Sending hugs🤗
@NobleCare
@NobleCare Ай бұрын
@@TalkswithLebo thank you! ❤ I'm so glad I found salvation, and through it God is healing me, the journey feels long but I definitely find peace in Christ
@bleizeem6439
@bleizeem6439 Ай бұрын
A lot of those women who fell 4 nigerians r now out herr making videos abouts how their Nigerian boyfriends put a snake in them or used them 4 rituals
@lindiwemasiteng8002
@lindiwemasiteng8002 Ай бұрын
I need to whatsapp you my story