Sheesh!

I recently had my best friend misinterpret something I said in a way that would never have even occurred to me. I meant something as a joke and they took it as a deep insult. Suddenly, this person was enraged, screaming epithets at me and going for my core being. I had inadvertently triggered something very damaged, irrational and filled with hate. I did apologize, but the apology was thrown aside as insincere. Everything I said was considered a lie. Again, I had uncovered something very raw and vicious in this person. It was so bad that I was physically scared of this person and I went home that night afraid to sleep. Later, I wrote a letter to this friend saying I was now afraid of them and had never encountered such rage before. In past circumstances with this friend, I had seen him go from friend to enemy in 1 day. He would ghost people and throw them overboard. I should have been warned that my turn would come, but we had been very good friends for 4 years. But now he has blocked me totally and I am actually going through a grieving process, while he has undoubtedly moved on to someone else who will eventually "betray" or disappoint him, resulting in another vicious rage. I fear for his girlfriend's safety, but there's nothing I can do. My body is shaking and I feel slightly unwell from this. My right ear has been ringing loudly for a couple weeks since this happened (unconscious jaw tightening?). Trust me, dealing with true rage is not as easy as you make it in this video.

Polite doubt !! such a wonderful concept !

You had me at we've all been there while being yt 😂😂😂

This channel is amazing!!! The videos are short enough for my tiny attention span!

Thanks David!

Im showing this before I start the class 👍🏼👍🏼

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This has been the advice that I have been looking for. Thank you.

This a great advice. I’m wonder what to do when I try to ask these questions in a non confrontational tone and being met with defensiveness. As in the person is already perceiving that I am trying to correct them by asking about their sources or by stating what I read. Thanks!

This is so insightful video. Thank you

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what a waste of time

Only talk about politics when making fun of it.

Make a video on, how “white” people can stop being racist.

This is hilarious

There is an elderly man who usually brings his Android phone to me so that I help him concerning a particular setting. Disappointedly, he is never thankful but ride. yells at me and speaks condescendingly to me when he needs my help. How do I stop tolerating such nonsense and respect myself in that regard?

If we don't bite our tongue to certain people it could get us hurt or worse. Try saying what you want to say while locked up or to your boss. Go ahead and let's see how far that gets you

Wow, this was really interesting and informative. Great video! -Triciti Thao

This was a really well conducted experiment! I really enjoy watching your guys content! -Triciti Thao

This video was actually in fact relate-able and accurate to how I felt in school when answering questions. Great job on portraying an accurate representation of peer pressure! -Triciti Thao

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I would like to add some feedback to this insight. I can absolutely appreciate what you are saying here. Ideally, this would be very awesome and would disarm the person from being so aggressive and or defensive. In practice, it often upsets the person receiving this question. Others often take this as patronizing and diminishing their lived experiences. Even when asked earnestly, I would advise against using this particular phrase as it does often place them into a situation to explain what is potentially an irrational argument and that often leads to heavy opposition. If someone wants to use this phrase, I would recommend using it when it is likely the argument is not one from emotion. If the other side's opinion is anecdotal or rooted in fact, or misinterpretation of fact, they have more likelihood to respond positively to this. I hope this opinion helps some others in their quest to listen to others.

idk pain of bitting ur tongue feels so good

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Narcissist will get a kick out of this. I don't see this working for me with most.

Just don't care if nobody touches me words don't break me cus i know who am i .

First thing you missed.. DEFINE politics. Then ask about it. Otherwise, you really won't know what everyone's answers relate to.

Jesus christ, what a load of arse kissing!

that was helpful advice i'm suprised not much people noticed

Thank you for sharing. Craig

I love your format - straight to the point and short - great job! I m realizing how i’ve been applying those practices naturally 😊

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If you slap someone in the face, aren't you responsible for their emotional reaction? Yes, you are. The problem with the approach suggested in this video is that some people see the world through an amplified lens. Especially in the case of BPD. Hence any minor thing will feel like a slap in the face, which makes them convicted that you are guilty for their emotional reaction.

They will get more upset at such condescending remarks. Sounds like being fecetious.

I love this story and hope to apply that lesson to my life and to the people around me.

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Nothing helps if they just walk away angry……..

Easy to say, hard to do… I am not sure I can remember to use any of these when someone is angry at me at my face…

Thank you so much!

The worst part is its almost always subtle

This is such a incredible program that change life of people who never thought they can change. It's very inspired.

This is golden but more elaboration needed

Im dealing with this now and know 2 others that are too. I have been called out of my name twice. I addressed it and now she has tagged another higher up to try to take me down every time I disagree with her. And where's my boss, quiet, because he doesn't like this type of stuff. Where is the president, quiet. Its ok, I have a track record of success and I have receipts on the incidents that have happened. All truths will be exposed 1 way or another because there are atleast 2 other people with similar stories.

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