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@suzannemays-hornung9015 4 күн бұрын
Hi, thank you for your wonderful story on your adoption & the information. I have finished foster care In Maryland 7 months. With All the mandated licencing-etc I want to adopt two 17 yr old sisters on the photo listing with Heart Gallery. They are in another state. Could you please direct me if I would need an agency and do All their requirements or a home study with agency towards adoption? Or your view would really be so welcomed and appreciated! Thank you & God Bless
@steffanyaye 4 күн бұрын
Thank you for your great question, and congrats on completing the foster care licensing process, that is a very time-consuming task. You need to get a home study done either by your foster care licensing agency or a private child placement agency. You will need to find one who is willing to help you submit your home study to the Heart Gallery and be willing to attend a best-interest staffing on your behalf. Check with your foster care licensing agency first to see if they can help you with this process.
@mocabusinessservices6172 22 күн бұрын
What's your favorite activity to do during open adoption get-togethers?
@mocabusinessservices6172 Ай бұрын
What strategies have you found most effective for self-networking in the adoption process? Share your experiences!
@mocabusinessservices6172 Ай бұрын
Did I miss anything? Something you would want to add to the list?
@mocabusinessservices6172 2 ай бұрын
What factors do you consider most important when selecting an adoption agency for your adoption journey?
@mocabusinessservices6172 2 ай бұрын
What factors influenced your decision when choosing between a licensed agency and an individual social worker for your home study process, and how do you think this choice impacted your overall adoption journey?
@NathanStric 2 ай бұрын
I still go through it I was told by mom that my dad that ive known isn't my natural dad but adopted me when I was three I was told in 2020 at age twenty-nine i felt like i was a bit old being told
@steffanyaye 2 ай бұрын
That sounds like a hard situation to be put in.
@NathanStric 2 ай бұрын
@steffanyaye yes it is hard for sure, I have wave flashes time to time
@fortitude1082 3 ай бұрын
She Keeps saying open adoption and no secrets......this still goes on. Adoption should be last resort.
@steffanyaye 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for your thoughts.
@mocabusinessservices6172 3 ай бұрын
Ever come across any wild myths about adoption in general? How have they shaped your views on adoption? Let's chat about it-share your thoughts and stories!
@mocabusinessservices6172 3 ай бұрын
What role do you believe adoption agencies should play in supporting both adopting families and expecting mothers throughout the adoption process? Share your thoughts and experiences-have you encountered challenges or found invaluable support from adoption agencies?
@mocabusinessservices6172 4 ай бұрын
What steps can families take to navigate these differences effectively and ensure a smooth finalization process? Share your thoughts and experiences below!
@mocabusinessservices6172 4 ай бұрын
How can open communication and honesty contribute to a successful home study experience? Share your thoughts and strategies below!
@justinelliott4087 5 ай бұрын
What types of questions should we ask at the staffing?
@steffanyaye 5 ай бұрын
Great question! The hopeful adoptive families are generally not present for this (we were not present for our daughters). The people present for the staffing are the staff who have worked with the child and your home study social worker is there to represent you. In addition, it is usually the staff who work with the child that is doing all the asking of questions about the hopeful adoptive family, not the other way around.
@justinelliott4087 5 ай бұрын
@@steffanyayethank you!
@mocabusinessservices6172 5 ай бұрын
In the video, Steffany highlights three essential qualities of an adoption professional: quickness in response, compassion, and knowledge. Reflecting on your own experiences or aspirations in adoption, which of these qualities do you consider the most important? Share your thoughts and insights below!
@mocabusinessservices6172 5 ай бұрын
Reflecting on your own values and experiences, what do you believe are the key factors that contribute to a successful adoption match? How can prospective adoptive parents ensure they are prepared to meet the unique needs of a child from foster care? Share your thoughts and insights below!
@mocabusinessservices6172 6 ай бұрын
What were some unexpected costs or fees that surprised you during your adoption journey?
@mocabusinessservices6172 6 ай бұрын
Reflecting on the journey of bringing your child home - what was the most helpful advice or support you received during those early days? Share with us in the comments!
@mocabusinessservices6172 7 ай бұрын
What’s your biggest challenge or success story when applying for adoption grants? Share your experiences below to help others along the way!
@mocabusinessservices6172 7 ай бұрын
What’s the most surprising thing you’ve learned or experienced during your own adoption journey while navigate the home study process? Share your insights!
@Jquest27 7 ай бұрын
If the tax redit is not refundable, how is it beneficial?Refundable, so we're in the process of adopting twins that are scheduled to be here april first
@steffanyaye 7 ай бұрын
Two things, there is a bill introduced right now that is trying to get the adoption tax credit to be refundable again. So hopefully that gets passed. The current tax credit is spread out over five years.
@jenniferh189 8 ай бұрын
one thing to remember is that some of our adopted kids have families that don’t want to meet them. it’s not that i don’t want to acknowledge little girl’s birth family..:i wish her birth parents were open to a meeting someday. they have made it clear that this is not an option. It’s hard
@steffanyaye 8 ай бұрын
You are right that is hard. I am sad that is not an option.
@adoption-beyond 8 ай бұрын
How can prospective adoptive families and expecting parents actively contribute to fostering transparency in adoption processes, and what role do ethical standards and regulations play in ensuring a positive experience for all parties involved?
@adoption-beyond 8 ай бұрын
What factors do you believe are most crucial for expecting parents when choosing an adoptive family? How might emotional readiness, financial stability, extended family support, educational plans, and childcare arrangements influence their decision?
@adoption-beyond 8 ай бұрын
What are your thoughts on disrupting birth order in adoption, based on your own experiences or perspectives? How do you believe it impacts the dynamics within the family, especially considering the role of the oldest child?
@adoption-beyond 8 ай бұрын
Expecting moms, what factors are most important to you when choosing an adoptive family? Share your thoughts and experiences below!
@mari80900 8 ай бұрын
Thank you for this topic. Red flags are sometimes hard to see.
@steffanyaye 8 ай бұрын
Oh good, I am so glad you liked the video.
@ella5319 8 ай бұрын
My adopted son could talk to me anytime he felt like it, but I didn't bring it up to him because why should i remind him he is adopted, he knows that since he was five years old.
@steffanyaye 8 ай бұрын
A lot of adoptees have expressed that they didn't feel like they could talk to their adoptive families about their adoption, because it was never discussed by their parents first as they grew up, so they took that to mean it was an off-limit topic.
@ella5319 8 ай бұрын
@@steffanyaye These statements maybe true, but it's not that easy in real life to smile, and give him the support he needed from me because it waa important to him , but we adopted our son at five month's, and he was a happy child. I during his childhood I would forget he was adopted, then when I did think about it I became very nervous. You see we are their mothers that went through all the ups and downs taking care of a child. They are our pride and joy, but some how the birth mother is what they have wanted see, wanted to find out about her family. I am going to say something I am not proud of, it seems to me that writers, media people glorify the birth mother, focus on their reunion and now the adoptee is full filled, now his life is completed . This is all he ever wanted. My job is done now he is with his real mother...but my heart is broke into pieces.
@mehir2003 8 ай бұрын
Can I adopt from palestine ?
@mari80900 9 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing. Your videos are so helpful!
@steffanyaye 9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your kind words. They came at such a perfect time, I am getting ready to sit down and record some more videos today!! Let me know if there is anything in particular you would like to learn about.
@adoption-beyond 9 ай бұрын
What are some specific warning signs or red flags you believe others should be most cautious of when researching and selecting an adoption agency to work with?
@adoption-beyond 9 ай бұрын
What do you believe are the most critical services that an adoption agency should provide, and why do you consider them essential?
@adoption-beyond 9 ай бұрын
Can you share a personal story or experience about how supporting a loved one through adoption has impacted your life or the life of someone close to you?
@adoption-beyond 9 ай бұрын
What are some common doubts or fears you've personally encountered or heard about from others when considering adoption, and how have you or they addressed these concerns?
@mari80900 10 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing . My daughter has experienced 3 failed adoptions and is still on her journey, this journey gives us hope.
@adoption-beyond 10 ай бұрын
Oh, I am so sad to hear your daughter has experienced this 3 times. I am glad the video gives you hope!
@mocabusinessservices6172 10 ай бұрын
What aspect of creating an adoption profile do you find most challenging? Share your thoughts and strategies for making a compelling and authentic adoption profile.
@mocabusinessservices6172 10 ай бұрын
What factors do you think families should consider when choosing the country from which to adopt? How might cultural, logistical, and legal differences impact the adoption process and the child's experience of being adopted?
@mocabusinessservices6172 10 ай бұрын
What are some additional bonding techniques or strategies that you believe can be effective in building a strong connection between adoptive parents and their newly adopted child, beyond the ones mentioned in the video? Share your thoughts and experiences!
@mocabusinessservices6172 10 ай бұрын
Of the four key ways to prepare for adopting a child mentioned in the video (basic needs, travel needs, financial needs, and emotional needs), which one do you think is the most challenging to address, and why? How do you plan to overcome these challenges on your adoption journey, or what advice would you offer to others facing similar hurdles?
@mocabusinessservices6172 10 ай бұрын
What do you think are the most significant factors that lead to adoption restrictions in various countries, and how can international adoption policies be improved to ensure more children find loving homes?
@lukebarry1213 Жыл бұрын
"Promosm"
@andyoscilow6671 Жыл бұрын
May I share this video on my adoption website?
@steffanyaye Жыл бұрын
What is your adoption website?
@randomvideoshere6540 Жыл бұрын
Woah, how did this video get on my timeline? I was looking to do foster to adopt a few years ago. Then I met the man who became my ex husband and he told me to pause a little with the foster care and things. Then I got a domestic violence battery conviction and I have up thinking I wouldn't qualify for it anymore
@steffanyaye Жыл бұрын
I would recommend talking to a local agency in your area and discussing your situation in more detail. They will be able to advise on whether you would still qualify or not.
@randomvideoshere6540 Жыл бұрын
@steffanyaye the agent told me I still could. All I had to do was write my statement of events to them. I will follow up on that in the near future
@emilybyers629 Жыл бұрын
Exactly. I grew up always knowing!
@steffanyaye Жыл бұрын
I am so glad to hear you always knew!!
@adoption-beyond Жыл бұрын
Have you done any adoption outreach during your adoption journey?
@steffanyaye Жыл бұрын
How did you prepare for your home study interview?
@exploitthechildless1510 Жыл бұрын
What is your definition of persistence? We been waiting over 10 years and have experienced four failed adoptions. We are now being told that we are too old and have too many failed adoptions. It also appears that their are hundreds if not thousands of couples in our same situation. Our agencies blames COVID, birth rates, and lack of adoption situations. When do we need to be persistence and when do we need to push our agencies to find a valid match for us?
@steffanyaye Жыл бұрын
That is awful to hear how much you have gone through in order to add a child to your family. As an agency, we did experience a decline in adoptions during COVID as the birth rate did decline during this time. We encourage our families to work with more than one adoption professional at a time to increase their odds of an opportunity to adopt.
@exploitthechildless1510 Жыл бұрын
@@steffanyaye So how many agencies? We are already working with four agencies, three attorneys, and a consultant.
@steffanyaye Жыл бұрын
@@exploitthechildless1510 We have our families do a total of three adoption professionals. It sounds like you definitely doing more than that.
@exploitthechildless1510 Жыл бұрын
What does your agency do to prevent failed adoptions? I have to question if adoption situations presented by the agency are real or just a way for a expectant mother to cover her hospital delivery costs. I also don't understand how an adoption agency determines if an expectant mother is committed to her adoption plan. Especially, if the agency does not get proof of pregnancy or the expectant mother's legal name.
@steffanyaye Жыл бұрын
We learn all we can about an expecting mom before we begin working with her. We want to make sure we are the right fit for her and her adoption plan. We get proof of pregnancy along with social and medical history information, in addition, we only work with moms in KS or MO so we are able to meet with them in person. An adoptive family should not be on the hook for a mom's delivery cost if she decides to parent her child.
@exploitthechildless1510 Жыл бұрын
@@steffanyaye So what protections are in place for proof of pregnancy? We had one criminal purchase proof of pregnancy from the receptionist at an OB/GYN. The agency in this case stated that they were not an law enforcement agency. And how do you get reimbursed for delivery costs at the hospital? We were required to pay upfront for these expenses.
@steffanyaye Жыл бұрын
@@exploitthechildless1510 We obtain medical records from the doctor's office directly. I have heard of a lot of ways proof of pregnancies can be falsified, but never to that degree!! I think I have heard it all, but then something like this comes along and makes me so sad. We don't have our families pay anything upfront for delivery, so I am unsure how you would go about getting those back.
@mari80900 Жыл бұрын
Thank you and Amen!
@steffanyaye Жыл бұрын
I am so glad you watched the video, I appreciate the comment!
@mari80900 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing this wonderful journey with us.
@ShadesOfGrey22 Жыл бұрын
I was total opposite. I knew if I held him and fed him and just bonded even more with him he would have came home and as a mother of 2 who knew she couldn’t do it again, that was something I could not risk. I would have brought him home realized exactly the same, except I would never give him up then. In my mind also, it would not have been fair to him. To me, I bonded with him for 9 months already. His mother did not get that time. Bonding is very powerful for both baby and mom. In my mind I was doing what was best for both of them to have a good chance for them to bond. I needed that. So she got to hold him, she was there to meet him. She got the skin to skin and the time in the hospital, not me. She got all the firsts I got to experience with my first two. She got to experience everything short of having him herself. I guess for me I needed to see that he would be ok with her. He did not need to bond with me anymore and I did not need to get in the way of them doing so. A lot of people did not agree with me and said I would regret not bonding with him. But I think that I did the best thing to lessen the separation and for him to “forget” me for now. That was in 2021. I did see them all together before my husband and I left. I did not speak for the longest time. For fear he would hear me and I would ruin everything I just did. He heard me for 9 months. He was in her arms sleeping, when I spoke and he perked up. I almost lost it, but then he fell back into her arms and that was that fast asleep. He knew, but it was more like oh there’s that voice I been hearing. Like a friend that never left and was always around. That’s when I knew they would be ok ❤