i was going to date a woman with 5 kids the oldest being 20 but i decided against it

I like her plus the 5 kids… but it’s hard to get passed the fact she got dumped in 5 times. An me, im not the biggest dude in the world if you smell what im stepping in. But we cool though. Beggar’s can’t be choosers but i ain’t beggin. One day at a time ig

I'm a single mom, it was my choice, and I can say I have respect for both of them. She is respectable because she is willing to share herself and her child with this man. She is communicative, honest, and loving. He's respectable because he can get past being scared (because most of the reasons ppl give for not dating a woman with kids is fear based). He is willing to man up, do what he has to do as a man, and is brave to deal with this. You can stay a bachelor for life, being scared to commit to anything or anyone, and have nothing of true value when you're old or you can be a grown up who had a real life where you gained awesome life lessons and raised an awesome legacy (whether the legacy is all purely yours or not). All that I'm saying ppl is too grow up. Think about women who have kids, they broke the relationship off from the father because he wasn't good for the kids (but tricked the woman into thinking he was good, but revealed he was awful after he learned she was pregnant), think of the women that lost her BF or husband, think of the woman who had a guy just randomly decide to walk out of the child's life. You all are being very childish to say to just not date a large portion of the world lol. Most women (and men have children) it's just that women are the ones that still choose to be in their child/children's lives. Most ppl that don't have children don't have them because they are scared, are not good with money, are gay, or just choose to not have a legacy. Not saying anything is wrong with dating ppl without kids, but that percentage of the world is very small.

I have two shaved sides but my mom does my hair since I’ve gotten my shaved sides….it looks difficult to me I tried and bald myself when I was tried to use the clipper so I had to razor blade the rest to match. :/ I’ve had my shaved sides for 8 years and my locs for 5 years. Sadly I’m thinking about growing it out just a little since I want more locs for more styles but I definitely can’t see myself without the shaved sides so idk…

Can we get more tips about when you don’t have any kids ?

She so smart wigs are crazy my momma told me shave it twice and I promise your edges are gonna grow bck. Edges are hella important I love this look I love repair wig damage with style. U can easily stand out

I jus shaved mine nd I love it I look like Megan good with my heart shaped head. Wish I would've done it sooner

Thank you!! You are too adorable!!! Edges save lives!!!!

Ask yourself why am I with this woman and what does she bring to the table. Well, let me help you out. She brings one or two baby daddy's. She brings extra cost to you because she can't afford to split dates. Her children may have school events where you have to deal with the daddy or daddy's. There's a level of respect for the kids so there will be no running around the crib naked. Their not yours so disciplining the children may be a hassle due to them running back to their daddy with false accusations. Just don't do it! Don't be a Beta Male provider.

In russian we call this woman, woman with trailer😂 So , when sombody will ask you if you il take woman with kids, you can tell them , i dont have driver licence for trailer😅

Expectations/responsibilities with no authority. She wants you to co-parent when the baby daddy isn’t around but you best not assume authority. Those are her kids not yours. Like others said, guys, don’t bother. It’s a selfless position. No authority, dealing with an ex for life, and their family, kids that don’t respect you, cause she doesn’t, financially responsible, and everything else. Date a woman with kids once they leave. You not then do you have a chance. There is a reason why lions kill the young of another lion. They will not raise the young of another.

Tip: DONT DO IT MEN

the rain boot analogy was on the nose, def gotta know what kind of weather you are entering as far as dealing with the other parent

Her dude is an ultimate beta

Giving Dave Chappelle

Y’all ain’t say cudda like I cudda went but I said fuck it . “Coulda” could have

I almost thought this was donte young 😂

Fellas, if you’re gonna date a woman with kids, you have to be careful. Just because a woman broke up with her baby daddy, doesn’t mean he broke up with her. Something to think about.

Thanks for this vid!

Unless your seriously into her don’t do it

Beautiful

Rules for men dating a woman with kids. DON'T!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Tip number 1: don’t

If people practice ignorance in their spare time I wonder what the actual significance of the things in their life they take seriously are.

Sis! When I say you’re a life saver, honeyyyy! 7+ years locked and baby this new growth is about 3 months old! I have searched and watched and scrolled through so many videos to help me style my hair (because it’s not a strong area for me). You came through and right on time! 🙌🏾✊🏾😊 Thank you so much! Keep making videos for people with hair like me…and you! God bless you, suga!

Tip 1-5 Don't do it.

Omg! I'm so glad I found this video, your side is just like mine!! He did an Amazing job

only a chump takes on the role of raising another mans seed - dont do it

Waste of money

Y’all Gota start bac YouTubing 💪💯

A "decent" grade of hair... what's an undecent grade? 🧐

I love your poetry!! I’m gonna try this hair style too 💗

how do you maintain the side shave? what number guard do you use? I'm curious. I have a shaved side as well. What products do you use on your sides and etc?

Some of the words were misspelled but great video.

How old are you guys!

Best tip, don’t date women with kids……simple

Thanks for the tips

This video has been helpful to me thanks

This has been held ok for me

👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍the same way I feel about my wife to be and I have one my self

What point in life do you have to be at to date a chick with kids as a childless man 🤔🤦🏾‍♂️😱

Just don't date ppl with kids if you don't have any

TIP! If you're childless don't date single parents. Your life will be easier and happier.

There are no tips just headache. If you're swnk there are over a billion people who r also single with no kids!

Bruh I died when y’all said y’all not alcoholics and then inserted that clip where Amanda said I’m ok🤣🤣🤣 y’all are so cute together! I love black love😍

Don’t do it fellas

Love it

Y'all are a good looking couple love the locks! Subscribed i like the energy😊

Aweosme I find this video, i'm thinking about it. Feels freaken scary tho So much parenting stuff I dont know about

I haven't even finished watching your video. However, I love your energy.