Another good one! Sometimes we are too focused on what we don’t have as opposed to fully enjoying and being present in the current season we are living in.
@shapingtheculturepodcast49992 күн бұрын
@@kelliat absolutely!!
@desiraines2 күн бұрын
I needed this EXACT word TODAY…thank you, sir.
@shapingtheculturepodcast49992 күн бұрын
@@desiraines praise God! You're very welcome.
@Eye_said2 күн бұрын
I look forward to your message every week, and I can honestly say God has spoke to me through your messages without failing. God bless you!
@shapingtheculturepodcast49992 күн бұрын
So encouraged to hear that! Thank you so much for tuning in! God bless you!
@SilkySmooth023 күн бұрын
Ummm, you will need to be soft and/or kind sometimes but ...... please keep the crying to a minimum. If she sees you cry too much MOST women will think you are weak and DEFINITELY wont respect you.
@bluewhite36715 күн бұрын
“Are we on podcast or is this a therapy session……..?”😊 powerful words from both of you🙏
@shapingtheculturepodcast49995 күн бұрын
@@bluewhite3671 🤣🤣
@andreadunnavant35347 күн бұрын
Whew, this spoke to me. Thank you for being the mouthpiece. ❤️🩹🙏🏼😌
@jonathanruboneka9 күн бұрын
Sacrifice, Responsibility, Bare burdens, Leadership, LOVE
@shapingtheculturepodcast49999 күн бұрын
Good stuff!!
@tiffanyagyarko62959 күн бұрын
great episode!
@shapingtheculturepodcast49999 күн бұрын
🙏🏾🙏🏾
@sherranballoons74559 күн бұрын
Here!!! First time watching. I dd subscribe.❤
@shapingtheculturepodcast49999 күн бұрын
Appreciate you!
@NowStopandThink11 күн бұрын
How about you try a Biblical culture? You can't go wrong there! "You shall have no other gods before Me" said the One, True God
@jesiahguerrero703012 күн бұрын
Hebrews 10:10, is considered our fruits of being sanctified are a process.
@215foreal13 күн бұрын
Define whiteness
@li.kethia.S14 күн бұрын
🔥🔥
@xaviersmith63614 күн бұрын
Only Black people feel that white people are superior or supreme... Smh
@YordanosTesfaye-i6i15 күн бұрын
Wow this is very Insightful! Absolutely Loved it!
@YordanosTesfaye-i6i15 күн бұрын
Really need a part two to talk about that number two though lol
@shapingtheculturepodcast499915 күн бұрын
@@YordanosTesfaye-i6i 🙏🏾🙏🏾
@MsAFS115 күн бұрын
Praise God for Dr. Lyons. Such a wealth of wisdom. I can't wait to receive my copy of the book
@shapingtheculturepodcast499915 күн бұрын
@@MsAFS1 absolutely!!
@deekemi15 күн бұрын
This interview was such an interesting watch! So many things Dr Sarita vocalises from the experience and perspective of black Christian women. I am black British born but could still relate to her viewpoints from a Black American perspective. I will be buying the book 👏
@shapingtheculturepodcast499915 күн бұрын
@@deekemi glad to hear it resonated with you!
@angiecocoa715 күн бұрын
Sometimes the church benefits from the break backing of black women and if we let them rest it would cost us, life would get real inconvenient. BARSSS 🗣🗣🗣
@shapingtheculturepodcast499915 күн бұрын
🔥🔥🔥
@DrCJR415 күн бұрын
Can’t wait to read Church Girl!
@shapingtheculturepodcast499915 күн бұрын
YES!!
@DrCJR415 күн бұрын
This is so good!
@Heaven_ly86315 күн бұрын
wow! This is really amazing conversation.
@shapingtheculturepodcast499915 күн бұрын
Thank you!!
@InspiredUno16 күн бұрын
Soooo good!!!🎉🎉🎉
@lexijco116 күн бұрын
I’m so glad you had Dr. Sarita on, she is such a well of wisdom! Her comments on the enemy wanting to block us from healing resonated with me as I often pray for healing in the body of Christ so that we can be more effective.
@shapingtheculturepodcast499916 күн бұрын
It was a real treat having her on!
@Theencouragementbar16 күн бұрын
My goodness. That’s all I could say as I watched this episode. So many gems, practical tools, and reallllllll. Especially about creating structures to cover things when resting and spiritual warfare in relation to healing. So good I had to get the book!
@shapingtheculturepodcast499916 күн бұрын
Yay!! You preordered her book!! Yeah she was dropping gems!
@mmiles575916 күн бұрын
Whew! This is so good.
@shapingtheculturepodcast499916 күн бұрын
🙏🏾
@wayNAY8716 күн бұрын
“The hurt and the healing are all in the house.” 🔥🔥🔥my goodness. I will purchase this book. So much power in this interview.
@shapingtheculturepodcast499916 күн бұрын
That was a word!
@niaborn495219 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for this conversation and the wisdom that you all imparted. It’s extremely needed, and I’m grateful that it showed up on my feed🙏🏽
@shapingtheculturepodcast499919 күн бұрын
Appreciate you! 🙌🏾
@heykanhey20 күн бұрын
True!! Or you don’t realize it until you are surrounded by other women who grew up with Great Fathers. The sadness of what you miss hits real hard!
@georgialenny626520 күн бұрын
Nothing but truth here. I realised I was my own man much later in life. It's tiring.
@siamanimoi619320 күн бұрын
So true!!!! My father died when I was 9 it hurt then but it hurts much more now! Especially realising how important it is to have a father as a woman in this world that we live in.
@dominiquepressley879920 күн бұрын
I just had this convo with my boyfeiend
@kikigeeu2be20 күн бұрын
This is 💯
@portiabutler2020 күн бұрын
So true
@priscillanieto332220 күн бұрын
Spot on. Although my dad was around and abusive. So I struggle to submit to my husband fully, even though in my heart I know my husband is gentle, kind, slow to anger, and is nothing like my father. A "present" father can be just as damaging.
@leliadan216720 күн бұрын
If that is what she learned for not having a father figure than she is good because everyone woman should learn to protect themselves, and take care of one self. I see nothing wrong, its usually society make you feel that you are missing something or money problems.
@beepboop946420 күн бұрын
I think what she's actually saying (speaking from experience) it's nearly impossible for me to ask for help. My current partner has been with me through 2 broken legs in a year plus helping me move my unwell mother whose house had become a disaster due to her illness. He literally said that I would basically rather die than actually ask for help. A mild over exaggeration but not far enough off. Definitely was an eye opener. Being independent is great and he loves me for it but not when it jepordizes important things and relationships.
@ZovaBe20 күн бұрын
She explained this exceptionally well. I'm tired of black women being told they're too masculine. It's the result of the trauma of not having a dad. I have a dad, my parents are still together but he was absent in the sense that he wasn't emotional. He only spoke to me when he was yelling, which was all the time. I come from a west African family and I wanted to be white so bad when I'd go over my friends house and see how playful and nice their dads were to them. Honestly to this day I still wish I was raised white.
@oliviasamanthashaw2320 күн бұрын
I can relate to this!! 💯
@taniamulhall237820 күн бұрын
I agree. Only difference is when you fall in love with Jesus, He makes submission for us ladies so much more easier.
@gayleneville535420 күн бұрын
My father was in the house but a narcissist pos ! Abusive... but I had a big brother who was 11 months older so I did have him to protect me ! He was that father figure when it came to teaching me and protecting ❤ God rest his soul he was killed march 22 I nolonger have that ! Nor his daughter or mine ! Well my kiddo does have her dad which I absolutely love it's childhood trauma I truly wanted to break !❤
@gayleneville535420 күн бұрын
Factssss
@jitterbug959521 күн бұрын
Spot on. In many respects I was controlling and the leader of the house. My husband did very little because I automatically did everything. My mom was a single mother of 8 so she never slowed down. In my marriage I had to learn to communicate with my husband a lot and to let go of a lot so he could take over. This gradually allowed me to feel safe and protected and so loved. It's an incredible dynamic that I'm very fortunate to be able to give to our kiddos.
@arlee830821 күн бұрын
Here I thought marriage was a partnership.....
@rebeccag468220 күн бұрын
Married 9 years here. No, it’s not a partnership. It’s a marriage. There’s no better word to describe this relationship other than the word “marriage”. It is its own unique and beautiful union with unique and beautiful dynamics . Using words like “partnership” to equate it to really fails to express what marriage really is. Yes, in marriage there are inherent roles between the man and woman. These roles should never be confused or conflated with the word “value” because both are equal in value and worth. Yet, there are still roles and thank God for them because then both the man and the woman in a marriage can live peacefully and lovingly with one another, not usurping the natural roles each were destined to fulfill. Issues in marriage arise when either spouse try to usurp those roles.
@rebeccag468220 күн бұрын
Designed *
@arlee830820 күн бұрын
@@rebeccag4682 Sorry I offended your very narrow point of view by using the wrong adjective. Bless you heart 😅