Some lessons need to be learnt by yourself, you need to live it to understand. But yeah they will take advice from other people because for some reason our children hold us so highly they cant see we may have been through similar things. Parenting isnt easy, my oldest will take my advie at 10 but i assume that is going to change.
@Mental.Health.MeriendaАй бұрын
Definitely true! Especially about parenting being hard!
@dianalorani1910Ай бұрын
That's literally kids lol but wait till literally anyone else says the same thing.....suddenly they listen
@Mental.Health.MeriendaАй бұрын
So true!
@fatbones4life252Ай бұрын
You’re still explaining gaslighting as if it’s just a manipulative, deceitful person trying to avoid accountability and using the tactic to stay under the radar. Instead of the intentional strategy to drive a person crazy that the original definition infers.
@Mental.Health.MeriendaАй бұрын
Yes! The original definition dating back to the 1940’s movie refers to a very dark, psychological abuse that isn’t often portrayed in current times.
@fatbones4life252Ай бұрын
@@Mental.Health.Meriendathanks for responding. Thing is, the term was coined based on the phenomenon. So if what we are describing has changed why wouldn’t the word? I feel like that’s exactly how we got to the point we need to address misused terms in the first place.
@darcyjeanske821Ай бұрын
Realize that he never said this! This was 💯 a publicity stunt. Period. He's still garbage in my book.
@luxyj47282 ай бұрын
Im just tried of everything under the sun being a catch all for everything.. oh i twitch my finger its my adhd... oh i blink fast adhd... oh i sleep loud adhd like bruh yall all dont have adhd
@Mental.Health.Merienda2 ай бұрын
Yep, there’s definitely a lot of misinformation out there about ADHD!
@chimereballard96092 ай бұрын
He took his son with him when he went to cheat on the mom, completely unacceptable, very f’ed up! What parent does something like that????!!!
@lesleymbuyikayembe75532 ай бұрын
...and what.... we should feel sorry for him.?💁🏾
@thewallflower74832 ай бұрын
He is a Scorpio he most definitely got abuse as a kid.. where do you think these things stem from??
@Mental.Health.Merienda2 ай бұрын
Abuse can be a learned behavior. Some people witness it in their own families growing up, which sends the message to them from a young age that it's ok to do. Others learn it from society- friends, their environment, pop culture- throughout their adult lives. However, just because someone witnesses abuse, DOES NOT mean they will or have to become abusers themselves.
@michelevankeuren96042 ай бұрын
Diddy is a criminal. Probably NEVER abused. His Dad was in organized crime. Whatever!! No excuses. Man up. Face the music & do your time. Since he likes drugging others, doing freak offs & recording it all he’ll LOVE prison.
@Mental.Health.Merienda2 ай бұрын
It's hard to know where it came from in his case, but yes, definitely even if he was abused that is NEVER an excuse to become an abuser yourself.
@ps3gamertagc0212972 ай бұрын
Diddy is awful and sidenote most people in therapy and psychology are actually patient 1 they're usually more broken
@adelineleon51682 ай бұрын
We’ll take the 🐻 for 500, Alex!
@simoneholder56322 ай бұрын
That’s the Illuminated mentally. If you do one good deed it excuses all the bad things you’ve done. That’s why you see all these charities and them always publicizing everything they do something “good” or “ charitable.” But things they work like that and once the masses start waking up we will overthrow them. Blessings
@Mental.Health.Merienda2 ай бұрын
Yes, the good does not cancel out the bad. Everyone has to put in the true work it takes to be better.
@sweetlyevil1872 ай бұрын
I felt like he knew he couldn’t be charged with the Cassie situation but he needs to make it seem like he is no longer a threat to others so if they find anything else out he may still have some semblance of a chance to wiggle out of it.
@Apocalyptiseptical2 ай бұрын
Horrible
@Mental.Health.Merienda2 ай бұрын
Agreed :(
@JP-sg1xb2 ай бұрын
She's correct. His statement was all about saving his image..and signaling that he was so messed up in the past, but he has repented and he is not a bad person anymore. If not for the reaction to his public assault video, he wouldn't say this.
@Mental.Health.Merienda2 ай бұрын
Sadly, it does seem like he made this statement after the public outcry in response to the video, which makes it seem very insincere.
@xoxoSINNERxoxo2 ай бұрын
Perfect explanation!
@Mental.Health.Merienda2 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@christinechavez18762 ай бұрын
I'm not sticking up for Diddy, but all you are doing is armchair quarterback.
@fabbourdage13562 ай бұрын
His just a pervert with money...
@ticker19632 ай бұрын
So true, he’s just trying to save himself as any abuser wants to do once they are caught, his words mean nothing.
@Mental.Health.Merienda2 ай бұрын
Sadly, it does seem like he made this statement after the public outcry in response to the video, which makes it seem very insincere.
@paulrodriguez47502 ай бұрын
The "medical professionals" have been wrong my whole life... " experts" are being proven wrong ev day... what about that vax yall
@coolhandtruth62602 ай бұрын
No, sis, no. The feminist movement destroyed the Western world. Stats don't lie.
@windchimesilo96232 ай бұрын
Hes very correct in women being lied to most in modern times. We simply live in a time where women have every choice, even to abort unborn, and are rewarded/praised for it, even if its due to a baby seen as an inconvenience due to the mothers irresponsibility. The truth is, there are grey areas where women who have careers are happy. However, the happiest women you meet are the ones who are married with children and a complete family. Its very apparent in todays scoeity.
@lindywinn24472 ай бұрын
Mental Health experts are the worst. They are so woke and FoS. This guy is giving a speech in a very conservative Catholic School where he is an alumni. Get over your crap because you’re one of the causes of the problem.
@NcowAloverZI2 ай бұрын
If you’re a guy here imagine your daughter who just worked her ass off to get into a good school and graduated with good grades and is exited about whatever they’re doing, medicine, business, whatever! And you take her to her college graduation and this dude tells her that’s she or other girls are probably more exited for marriage! What the fuck, would you let a women tell your sons there ACTUALLY, REALLY, more exited to x,y,x manly thing then what they’ve just spend so much time energy and money doing??
@Mental.Health.Merienda2 ай бұрын
Yes! There's nothing wrong with women valuing domestic life over career or vice versa, it's the context in which these statements were made.
@NcowAloverZI2 ай бұрын
“I would venture to guess most of you are most excited about your marriage” you graduate at 21-22, probably still dating… imagine being a women excited about your career in your 20’s, working 4 plus years and debt for a degree and this guy just says I bet your more excited for your marriage then your scientific, artistic or business contribution. Sure for some women but lots of men are also more excited about marriage and kids! Lucky I’m a man so people don’t say strange out of place stuff to me at my graduation
@Mental.Health.Merienda2 ай бұрын
Thank you for pointing out this double standard!
@Ad0akes2 ай бұрын
They will grow old with regret,then probably die alone .
@Mental.Health.Merienda2 ай бұрын
We're actually both happily married! You should check out our videos on relationships and marriage! That might be helpful too! Thanks!
@craigbenjamin1962 ай бұрын
The one thing when got older, u miss the most important thing in your life,, raising a child with loving another man.
@clayk47532 ай бұрын
Every woman who has a successful career and no family regrets it when they’re 60 and dying alone with cats
@Mental.Health.Merienda2 ай бұрын
We actually consider ourselves more dog people than cat people, but we don't judge others' choices- you should try it! It may really help improve your quality of life. On that note, check out our video on loneliness, that might be helpful too!
@allenmorton61712 ай бұрын
Yes Bro. Yes.
@francotinsley82932 ай бұрын
He’s based and people aren’t liking that he’s right
@lm-nu1gi2 ай бұрын
There is nothing wrong with wanting a family and nothing wrong with wanting just a career but everything wrong with a man telling women what they should want
@Mental.Health.Merienda2 ай бұрын
100%!!
@elg27022 ай бұрын
you guys profit off insecure lonely women… obviously you want them to be as dissociated from a well adjusted life as the veil of feminism lets you. Neither of you should be “mental health experts” you have subconscious (MONEY, CLOUT) motivating reasons that are not constructive for your “clients” and are completely disregarding physiological science
@lavgreeen2 ай бұрын
Some women don’t want children, it’s not for everyone. Dolly’s happy w/out children and been married nearly 60 yrs.(for example)
@Mental.Health.Merienda2 ай бұрын
Great example! Dolly's such an inspiration.
@Trthsker242 ай бұрын
I don't follow football, so who is this speaker?He is extremely well spoken
@aroundtheblocktwice2 ай бұрын
A woman a mental health expert!? Ha ha laughable
@lavgreeen2 ай бұрын
Men telling women what makes them happy also laughable
@aroundtheblocktwice2 ай бұрын
@@lavgreeen anyone telling anyone what makes them happy is idiotic, just not as much as a woman being a mental health professional lol
@zomby2472 ай бұрын
“No bro….no”. Now c’mere kitties!
@Mental.Health.Merienda2 ай бұрын
We actually consider ourselves more dog people than cat people, but we don't judge others' choices- you should try it! It may really help improve your quality of life. On that note, check out our video on loneliness, that might be helpful too!
@Jong8532 ай бұрын
“Mental health” means nothing if you are spiritually dead, my sisters. It’s like the Padawan who uses the force to become a dark Sith Lord. I can see it in your face, you people are miserable. Your label as an expert does nothing but lead people to destruction and death.
@noranicolea59772 ай бұрын
Those miserable women at the end are as sad as they are lonely
@lavgreeen2 ай бұрын
How do you know? Every woman doesn’t want to have children.
@Mental.Health.Merienda2 ай бұрын
We're actually both happily married! You should check out our videos on relationships and marriage! That might be helpful too!
@woogz812 ай бұрын
Of course the women in this video look absolutely MISERABLE!!!! They wish they had families, but instead, they're past their prime and will never understand what he's saying 🤡🤡🤡🤡
@Mental.Health.Merienda2 ай бұрын
We're actually happily married to wonderful husbands, but we don't judge the choices of others who choose not to be. You should try it! Also, check out our video on relationship red flags- that might be helpful too!
@woogz812 ай бұрын
@Mental.Health.Merienda you said a whole lot of words, but didn't say nothing!! 🤡🤡🤡
@BenjaminTheHorn2 ай бұрын
He’s correct. The exceptions don’t make the rule.
@JOECURR14882 ай бұрын
Right.
@AleksandarIvanov692 ай бұрын
Experts? In what? Maladaptive coping mechanisms for their own trauma?
@Mental.Health.Merienda2 ай бұрын
Experts in clinical neuropsychology and social work/child development, respectively, with a combined 20+ years of post-graduate training and independent practice. Thanks for your question!
@JennieBanks2 ай бұрын
Sit down what a jerk
@user-ej2mn8mw4z2 ай бұрын
Says the miserable, single, liberal feminist.
@bigcola692 ай бұрын
And that is the reason why a lot of women need to fulfill their greatest rolls in life which is a mother and a wife but either one can go first cuz they are highly respected in this world versus you being a versus you being a working woman or boss babe independent woman bull crap
@Mental.Health.Merienda2 ай бұрын
We prefer boss babe. Actually, DR. boss babe for Dr. Adeline.
@terrytownsend67172 ай бұрын
Those two ladies are unlikely to find husbands😂😂😂😂
@lavgreeen2 ай бұрын
You don’t know, some ppl don’t want children.
@Mental.Health.Merienda2 ай бұрын
We're actually happily married to wonderful husbands who respect our opinions and ambitions. To learn more about healthy relationships, check out our relationship series! Enjoy!
@thepitpatrol2 ай бұрын
Spot on sir. Well done!
@scumbagsteve71372 ай бұрын
Lori is a 304
@DanielLopez-el7nf2 ай бұрын
Relax, it doesn't matter what he says. Who cares.
@digginup91302 ай бұрын
Yes absolutely right.
@jjgonz982 ай бұрын
Basically what I am hearing is that the women absolutely do not want to be a wife and have children of their own and would rather be independent while living a miserable life full of regret when they get older. If you’re telling me those delusional women are not going to bring kids just like them in this world then I am all for it.