I've been the only recognized 'father' figure and Dadda to a child for five years. Bio-mom still has custody but now we're in court due to her potent mental health crisis to determine my defacto parentage rights or a 'third-party' caregiver. After five years as a diligent father, mentor, friend, in ALL ways of stepping up as the dad/father with 'Overt consent' (never implied or tacit) but with ALL permission by the bio-mom, I've been banished by her. Emotional bonding, money, investments, living space, holidays, daycare transport, medical appts, on and on etc, etc. Haven't seen my child for three and a half months since raising him from 3-mos to five years old. Tragic. Agonizing. But myself and another co-parent meet EVERY element of the defacto parentage statute. I'll end with this - like family or divorce court, defacto rulings should only be based on 'win win' scenarios for all parties, blood or not. Not a 'win/lose' as criminal or tort civil court. And ofc, what is always in the best interest of the child. I wish anyone about to fight for their rights to be recognized as a valuable human being in a child's life, success and peace of mind. What an awful road this can truly be. Love to all. A'ho.

I'm Pro Se. My judge in NY, my ex's lawyer in NY, and her lawyer in Florida all don't understand how the UCCJEA works. It's incredibly frustrating. Ex is literally trying use the UCCJEA to support her unlawful relocation.

Her answer is wrong. The UCCJEA specify states that the original state sies maintain continuing, exclusive jurisdiction. That's the main purpose of the UCCJEA, to stop one parent from taking the child to another state for favorable jurisdiction or a new forum.

I'm going through this right now. it's hard, and I'm kinda lost. I miss my daughter. I've raised her since 5 months old to 6 years old.

I love you Vonda Bailey and thank you for this wonderful video Holly!

Shit wish I could just pay 170 im paying my bm rent stupid h e don't even work now she was a stay home mom befor the devorce and still gets to be one thats f ed up

Can’t abusers w mental issues just finesse their way around these psychotherapists ? Mine has been ordered to do this but he’s a great charmer and manipulator. Everyone at the supervised visitation center thought he was an angel and he still continued to abuse my little one.

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Fraud

Sounds like the state in inflating the obligations so they get a cut

They take a percent of what you owe, multiply it by f and u, and subtract bills

Alienation is a real thing! Living this right now with my son and his estranged wife. It is the most terrible thing I’ve ever experienced.

What if a watergun was discussed.

Is it in the court papers.

What if the mother was targeted because she stuck her hand in a bag to eat her lunch

What if a woman was targeted because the man had a capias but not the woman didn't have a capias.

What if noone was in jail cause they wasn't. What if a lie was told because a parent because of Facebook

What if noone was in jail cause they wasn't.

Are you talking about criminal court but not family court.

Yes, Jefferson city does kidnap children

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Consider getting together with Niles Illich with Scott Palmer in Dallas, we filed a similar petition although the TSC would not consider the petition after 3 months

Have u seen this? kzfaq.info/get/bejne/ot90ia16v7-Vcqc.htmlsi=IpsFdeNApt3Hl92b Stalder violated everything in my case from not being served to no extension for temporary protective order that was issued for 90 days and no formal being served ontop of everything else that went on in court hearing and stalders sporadic threatening words and just crazy. Zero investigation, zero evidence, all rights were violated and stalder is sanctioned in my case by the state commission. Now she is managing attorney of avda to f everyone’s rights over again for people who had stalder and lets say their ex’s goes to avda for false accusations again. Stalder deserves jail and lifetime ban of practicing law.

Then no need for you bottom feeder making money off the children how about having the courts pay your fee You break the father

What if you are still paying back paynin child support for 3 children who are adults

I keep seeing a bunch of women in the family court lawyers judges I'm seeing the majority their women so you already know nothing is the benefit the man everything's the benefit the woman to benefit the state so they use women to incentivize them to be bum b****** and to let the man pay for everything

I was in an emotional relationship for 14 years, with the spouses cycles every 18-21 months, had a stroke in Jan 21, left me by myself for 2 1/2 years to recover. Then claims she's lonely. Divorce in the making.

Has anyone ever wondered why child support is demanded even with two parents who have no problem taking care of the child in a 50/50 parenting plan. Single fathers simply have to not consent. Take care of your kids in private. The child support agency is a collection company. Collecting a debt that you never signed up for. Keep it simple take care of your kids in private.

Nobody has the right to calculate this the iceberg goes deeper than a simplified explanation I’m a parent that pays child support but yet I’m responsible to get my children and the 50/50 percent but when I have my children I still pay child support while the custodial parent don’t how is that right I get so much taken out of each check which makes it a challenge to meet my needs to honor this 50/50 why isn’t it calculated to see how much I’m still buying my kids things they need while the other party just receives payment there has to be a reform

Thank you for this!! We’re in NY state and have been trying for years to get my fiancées ex wife evaluated, she has an extensive medical history and has gotten more volatile over the years. She is a covert narcissist based on a 1000 hours of my own research so she plays the victim and super mom roll in public so well we have a real challenge ahead of us! I hope our and her history speaks for itself but since we can’t afford a lawyer we are doing most of the work for our public defender so this was very helpful. It’s terrible even though she cheated on Stefan (my fiancée) NY is a no fault state so not only did he leave the house in a trust for the kids she was able to stay in the house and he also has to pay $540/week in alimony and child support! It doesn’t leave much even though we both work good jobs full time. I’m really wondering the approx cost of this evaluation even though it’s absolutely necessary I’m afraid we won’t be able to swing it. Is there any instances where the court can order it and they help cover the cost? Or is it all out of pocket? Thanks! -Brianna

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Thank you for your discussion. Now only if the state will handle all child abuse on the criminal side with proper procedure and clear and convincing evidence.

You cited my case. It was this very reason I had to appeal. Lacking affidavit and no standing. Had to appeal!

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Unfortunately my wife has had to deal with court every year her ex husband tries a new narrative. There is an amicus that only seems to meet with her ex and it’s all the same tricks. The is an abundance of evidence in many forms but it’s so rhetorical that no one looks at it. Tons of examples of hypocrisy. Impossible to co parent. I see my kids let down by their biological father and his physical abuse as well as emotional and mental abuse. However I have seem this person kick his 10 year old in the hip and leave a softball shaped bruise. When confronted he said yes he did “put a foot in his ass” and would do that whenever he felt like it. When she showed the amicus she actually made excuses for him when he clearly admitted to it. She also mentioned “she had to report any abuse” so she had the hip x rayed and Dr made a call to CPS and it’s determined to be “isolated incident” how ever now there about 10 or 12 more things from the past that he denied that dont seem isolated. We truly want to co parent and move forward but it’s not us constantly creating new reasons to go to court. I feel for the kids the most. Child want people to listen to them but no one has so far so they now seem to be shut off from themselves.

This information is very important. Thank you for sharing it!

PEACE to the Bihm Family...both sides

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An excellent discussion of the critical issue of standing in non-parental custody petitions and the crucial errors that attorneys and judges frequently make. Even though this discussion and her excellent book focus primarily on Texas law, this should be required material for judges, attorneys, and third-party custody litigants in every state.

I have a question: I have a child support case against my son Dad in the state of Louisiana but he now live in Beaumont Texas so do I need to contact the state of Texas since he doesn’t pay his child support in the state of Louisiana?? He lied and told the judge he don’t have a job but I recently found out he has a Business in the State of Texas

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This was a very helpful, insightful, informative video. Excellent.

Greetings.. how do I stop Child support from garnishing my paycheck when I already prepaid all of it and court order has been fully satisfied?

Thanks

can cps my daughter passed away CPS is denying me visitations with the children and i am the grandfather it's been a year since my daughter passed away but CPS doesn't tell me nothing or anything with the children are

I’m in appeal now waiting for a response from DFPS on the 27th asked for a 20 day ext waiting still can you help my case is complex My husband shot me and I lost my leg found out I was pregnant and when I got out the hospital I left with our first child to Texas called the detective in Alabama and he called both PDs and was successful in Bell County DFPS took my child and called me a flight risk bc I was leaving Texas then took my 2nd without a court order based off lies and false documents I have evidence of everything they never returned my two children we both were clean at birth DFPS instead gave my children to the man that shot me sister

I would like to hire your services. Harris county domestic relations office case worker Maria Elena Villalva, LMSW falsified child custody evaluation studies to take my children away. Completely falsified to take father away from children lives to exploit our children.

And when they make the non parent.. into a parent ? lol a third one..😮

Is VA disability counted towards your income?

There is an amicus attorney Assigned to my case I’ve talked to her once , I sent her my information all the contempt charges against my ex, my ex has alienated my daughter and son I haven’t seen them in over 2 years they had a court date hearing without me I got no notification of the hearing so they proceeded with out me , I requested a court transcript of that hearing they had without me, my ex lied in her testimony and I can prove she lied, my court date is on April 11th I don’t know what to do?