This is a lovely retirement community where I live many years and don’t know any of my neighbors and don’t feel the desire to know them. Just talk with some Dog walkers when I take my rescued boy out, and that is pretty much it.
@selvakumarselvakumar627417 сағат бұрын
But, why are taking 17 minutes of each Viewer ?
@RadhaKrishnaManchikanti18 сағат бұрын
Well Planned For solitary Life After Losing One Of The Spouses.The Sons Are Not At All Reliable. More Over They Will Seize All The Properties and Desert You in Your Old Age. It is Better Join Paid OldAge Homes.
@user-ri4wb7gd7g18 сағат бұрын
A good reminder indeed. Thanks.
@lamour201118 сағат бұрын
Grow old healthy it's my goal. May God help me doing it,in Jesus'name Amen 💖🙏
@lamour201118 сағат бұрын
Thank you Sir for d info. May God bless you ❤
@milagroslim441718 сағат бұрын
Amen
@mohammedanakorath883319 сағат бұрын
Natural and biological rule is having children if they are biologically fit.
@jackiemcadams672721 сағат бұрын
Jamie and Rich and Max are you busy today J M???!
@Lonewolf1961-s9zКүн бұрын
This explains a lot about the way my wife feels. I guess I am different. Still have my best friend from 8th grade. We talk once a week at least. Live 1,000 miles apart. We both value our friendship. I keep in touch with other friends as well. Visiting them at least once a year when I go back home.
@user-si9he9qt4hКүн бұрын
I worked in EU in menial jobs and managed to put my daughter to school till she finished uni and masters. My husband and I got divorced so from that time I was alone then I got sick with both feet. When the specialists said that I would be bedridden it scared me so much that I went back to my old home town in asia. I reseached and found a way to walk again and decided to turn our house into a transient house for travellers, also put another property under airbnb. I run my small business and it keeps me busy at 66. I don't rely on my daughter infact lately she asked me help to buy her appartment in Brussels and its ok just some thousands thats it.
@cecilysharrock678Күн бұрын
Q1qRiyaz Ahmed man proposes God disposes.
@rajkumarjotsinghani1729Күн бұрын
Very well explained. Life is really challenging after the death of spouse. Sweet memories , unfulfilled desires & dreams constantly remind you. Void remains unfulfilled. I lost my wife on 15.05.2021 during 2nd wave of covid when I was 67. I am still struggling after 3 years. I have full support of daughter & her family. Loss of spouse at advancing age cannot be filled only one can try to adjust to realities & reconcile.
@Truthseeker371Күн бұрын
The problem is most of people don't keep friendship for a long time. The children have the own life. Like-minded people are rare.
@BuddhaZenWishdomКүн бұрын
You’re right; maintaining long-term friendships can be challenging, and it’s true that children often lead their own lives, which can create distance. Finding like-minded people who share your values and interests can be rare but rewarding. Cultivating and nurturing genuine relationships takes effort, and sometimes it involves being open to new experiences and connections. Even if like-minded people are hard to find, cherishing the quality relationships you do have and focusing on personal fulfillment can help create a sense of connection and satisfaction.
@nightlightabcdКүн бұрын
I can hardly believe that America is on the verge of becoming a fascist country with a treasonous fascist dictator that has immunity from past, present and future crimes! How can this happen?!! I would much rather be alone than associate with Republicans!
@nightlightabcdКүн бұрын
I can hardly believe that the US is on the verge of becoming a fascist country with a fascist dictator in my life time!! Even those that are guilty of staging a failed coup to overturn the election, and still not held accountable, and now Trump states that if he wins the 24 election, he will be a dictator from day one and that the 24 election will be the last open election and the Republicans are pushing their Project 2024 that will gut this country!! How can this happen?!!
@BuddhaZenWishdomКүн бұрын
It's understandable to feel deeply concerned about political developments, especially when they seem to threaten democratic principles. The situation you describe reflects a serious and complex set of issues involving accountability, political rhetoric, and the future of democratic processes. In a democracy, it's crucial to remain vigilant, informed, and engaged. Staying updated on current events, supporting institutions that uphold democratic values, and participating in the electoral process can all contribute to safeguarding democracy. It's also important to engage in discussions and advocate for the principles you believe in. History has shown that democratic systems can face significant challenges, but they can also be resilient. The collective effort of informed and active citizens plays a key role in shaping the future of any nation.
@nightlightabcdКүн бұрын
@@BuddhaZenWishdom - Agreed, but both fascism and Communism used free speech, well funded propaganda and democracy to take over their countries!
@gracequarcoo8197Күн бұрын
Pls go straight to the points
@lesliedavid-kg8pcКүн бұрын
Sun. Sleep. Fresh Oxygen. Non sedentary life style are crucial to healthy living.😅
@Ahimbisibwe-kk5hyКүн бұрын
Nobody cares.
@veronicagonsalves5856Күн бұрын
U take me for ass
@sreelathapolavarpu8055Күн бұрын
Very selfish son and daughter in law... What she did is right.. We should not help such children..
@eprohodaКүн бұрын
total outstanding , Buddha! ))
@zhugeliang3905Күн бұрын
This is outrageous. The son and daughter-in-law are such losers. Stop helping them and stop giving them money.
@SUJAMUKКүн бұрын
My beloved husband, my only companion passed away. My memories can never be past. l have to live with it. But this video will inspire me and motivate me to live again and accomplish things l enjoyed with his encouragement. I don't know how l can overcome occasional break downs. It's not going to be easy. However, l have started realising the positive side of solitude and l am ok with my own company. Thank you. Mrs Mukherjee from India.
@BuddhaZenWishdomКүн бұрын
Mrs. Mukherjee, I’m truly sorry for your loss. It's touching to hear how you’re finding strength and motivation from the memories of your husband. Acknowledging your occasional breakdowns is important, and it's a testament to your resilience that you're embracing solitude in a positive way. Remember, it’s okay to grieve and to take things one step at a time.
@SUJAMUKКүн бұрын
@@BuddhaZenWishdom Thank you for your reply.
@seekertruth72Күн бұрын
dont depend on any one. Dont give all money to any one
@ginnyazcona85292 күн бұрын
Habe children. Very important. You will be happy bit gibe them all your live.
@BuddhaZenWishdomКүн бұрын
You are so kind
@yttean982 күн бұрын
you forget to mention what happened at the end of the story, "What His Sons Found After His Death Shocked Everyone!"
@NoMoreTears642 күн бұрын
I have a friend I talk to everyday. Other than that, I am most often alone. Thats ok because I dont have to put up with the drama of realizing someone has lied to me, is fake, or condescending. My cats are great company. They offer pure and simple companionship. Its enough.
@BuddhaZenWishdomКүн бұрын
It sounds like you’ve found a good balance in your life, cherishing the simplicity and honesty of your companionship with your cats. It’s great that you have a friend to talk to regularly, and it’s understandable to prefer the peace of solitude over dealing with difficult interactions. Embracing what brings you comfort and joy is a wonderful way to navigate your days.
@bikeyoshiro2 күн бұрын
Don’t confuse being alone with being isolated. You must be alone as long as you are healthy( exercise and food take in) and able to help yourself both physically and mentally.
@user-xk4zq5mr1g2 күн бұрын
please get to the point
@JillLawton-zt8me2 күн бұрын
Thank you for this. I’m 78 and this was so helpful. It reminded me of something that was popular a while ago. It ended with him saying trust me on the sun cream. I have never forgotten that and use sun cream every day.
@BuddhaZenWishdomКүн бұрын
I’m glad the advice resonated with you! Using sun cream daily is such a smart and important habit for protecting your skin. It’s great to hear that this piece of advice has stayed with you and become part of your routine. If you have any more questions or need further assistance, feel free to ask!
@zhugeliang39052 күн бұрын
Yes, don't be too nice.
@josephineseymour92663 күн бұрын
Excellent?!truly real / you cannot rely on nobody but prayers are powerful . Amen 👍
@myrianvalenzuela91993 күн бұрын
This is exactly what happen to my sister and brother in law. His son from his first marriage was able to get alarge amount of money from my brother in law, they mortgage their house to give to the son. Now, the son is ignoring him keeping distance and not talking to him. Now, he's already 84 yrs old, he has no money, he returned to being a brick contractor in Australia and still he and my sister have to pay the mortgage at their old age. You can not really trust younger generations nowadays.
@BuddhaZenWishdomКүн бұрын
I'm really sorry to hear about your brother-in-law's situation. It’s disheartening when family dynamics lead to such outcomes, especially when trust and financial support are involved. The reality is that sometimes, people can act in ways that lead to unintended consequences, and it’s challenging when that impacts loved ones later in life. It’s a tough reminder of the importance of careful financial planning and the need to protect one’s own interests, especially as we age. Hopefully, your brother-in-law and sister can find a way to navigate their current challenges and gain some relief. If they need support or advice on managing their situation, there might be resources available to help them through this difficult time.
@devanathanananthachari65703 күн бұрын
Inspite of Spondylitis of the Neck @ 78 I walk 30mts per day.... No issues
@dilbagsinghpaul49263 күн бұрын
Misleading n depressing
@tammyfitzgerald53363 күн бұрын
Stay walking ❤❤🎉🎉
@ElenaTan-ex6rk3 күн бұрын
😂enjoy life, as it is a gift from the creator, Jehovah..❤
@ElenaTan-ex6rk3 күн бұрын
Children think only of themselves....no caring for their parents at all... sad to say, but its really true..
@tammyfitzgerald53363 күн бұрын
Learning to release them yet never forget them is the dream 💭 love and live every days as it’s my last day ❤
@BrotherDaoLe3 күн бұрын
So true ❤❤❤thanks for your valuable advice,you are blessed 😇
@ElenaTan-ex6rk3 күн бұрын
Yes, it's really hurting... but it's really happening.. Take care of yourself and Trust our Heavnly Father, Jehovah to give us the strength to go on and not relying on others for help.. Or else, you be just disappointed..After all, obligations given , then time for self care and take care of ourselves and yourselves.. and do good to others without any expectation in return..in doing so, you feel good inside and make our Heavenly Father God happy too..as the joy of Jehovah is our strength...
@BuddhaZenWishdomКүн бұрын
Your perspective is both uplifting and wise. Relying on faith and focusing on self-care can indeed provide strength and resilience. By doing good for others without expecting anything in return, you enrich your own life and uphold the values that bring inner peace. It’s a powerful way to navigate life’s challenges and find fulfillment. Take care of yourself, and may your faith continue to guide and sustain you.
@a.s.k31493 күн бұрын
God will arrange everything for us when we live for Him in our life. Love God and love our neighbours, Jesus said. In our old age, God is our Father who love us and will take of us.
@marystackpole1183 күн бұрын
Thank you!! I appreciate this info!!!♥️
@BuddhaZenWishdomКүн бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@lindasargeant3 күн бұрын
Hi am 77 still work 8hrs a day 5 days a week walk 5 miles a.day cook and.clean house live on my own
@edennis85783 күн бұрын
Grandpa shouldn't have promised the house to the first child who got married; by doing so, he created rivalry and bad feelings between his children and resentment against him. Then he kept changing the terms! He should have promised the house to whoever moved in with him and took care of him for the rest of his life, and stuck to the promise. Instead, he acted on unspoken expectations that his children would take care of him, and didn't express those expectations for many decades, until after he had created many resentments between his children and himself and among his children by his own actions. I agree with him that he shouldn't feel obligated to leave his property to unfilial children, but he set himself up for it.
@BuddhaZenWishdomКүн бұрын
Clear communication and setting expectations upfront can indeed prevent many issues and misunderstandings. Ensuring that everyone is on the same page about important decisions, especially involving family and property, helps to minimize resentment and maintain healthy relationships. Your insights reflect a thoughtful approach to handling complex family dynamics and can be valuable in navigating similar situations.
@fashehc3 күн бұрын
A comment and a question: 1. My husband told me to give up my job and stay home, take care of the kids, etc. I said no. I would stay on working as long as I felt happy doing so. I stayed on for 37 years and got a pension for my old age. I knew about ungrateful and unfilial kids that would make a sacrifice on my part not end well should I leave my job. Sure enough, one child bowed out of our lives altogether. We haven't heard from him in 5 years, since he was 50 years old. The other child is more than making up for the unfilial one. My answer is to disinherit the unfilial child. In this day of instant communication, there is no way one can't get in contact with another. A 1 minute explanation on his silence would have helped. 2. Why do you use stock videos on airports and such for this story?
@BuddhaZenWishdomКүн бұрын
It sounds like you made a thoughtful decision to continue working, which not only provided you with financial security but also helped you avoid potential regrets. Your experience with the estranged child is understandably painful, and your decision to disinherit them reflects a logical response to their lack of communication and consideration.
@rohinieweerasinghe1693 күн бұрын
More than 100% reasonable, don't leave anything for ungrateful children.