@littleblackbook91: you couldn't have broken this down better. This is a complete science that ppl don't understand.

The old guy Emmanuel is dodgy... drop him.

i hope he gets the help he needs and get off the drugs.

OMG, Jasmine's mum is crazy! She is so control freak and what she was wearing at the wedding! Is she a joke or the Bride 😂😅😂

Lol, the way you sing, I'm the beginning. I didn't believe it either. Who baby is that? Jk

Trudy is losing herself in this relationship....

I do not like the flavour in these products, to me it does not taste authentic. Jamaica Valley seasoning is lovely.

The way you say "kang" cracks me up 🙂

Jasmine's Mom flew from the Philippines to meet Bobby. I presume she lives in the Philippines. Jasmine knows how to set boundaries. We saw that when she told her Mom, she's not going to tell her every single argument she and Bobby would have IF they are married because Bobby is going to be the father of her children.

My goodness! My generation has failed us! Imagine Uncle had to be schooled by the younger generation by trying to pass off Wodemaya's jokes on Miss Trudy! Keep dancing around the question & defending Maya's actions! Don't get me wrong, I love Maya & Miss Trudy, but both need counseling. I love this little talk from you, younger folks... Keep on bringing good content with good critical thinking!!!

Man this is soooooo fire

No reasonable Ghanaian man would treat a lady like this. Am a Ghanaian 🇬🇭 and have never seen or heard a Ghanaian man treat a woman like this. Maybe he learnt that childish behavior from somewhere😢 shame on you

Whew this is fire.....whats the whole 12 point list i need the whole list

The situation not triggered rose happened, live they were doing a skit, and he made a joke something along the lines of dating a single mom is not getting a woman out of discount or shopping at the thrift store and ever since then they've been fighting and she's been shaming him about everything we all witnessed

He actually is having an evil laugh

I ain’t paying for no flight to go meet a man😂 Maybe cause i was raised by a man! I have met a Ghanaian man that is exactly like that. Kept tasting me and i was so over it. Went on a date with the next guy who wore his emotions on a sleeve and he saw us out. His ego was damaged cause he saw me being treated well.

I ain’t paying for no flight to go meet a man😂 Maybe cause i was raised by a man! I have met a Ghanaian man that is exactly like that. Kept tasting me and i was so over it. Went on a date with the next guy who wore his emotions on a sleeve and he saw us out. His ego was damaged cause he saw me being treated well.

Wisdom

Your first video was very insightful and we learnt a lot from it. Can this 3rd one be the last for the sake of the young couple's mental health and relationship? Nana, we are just pleading with you 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾.

I think that as she has grown in her entrepreneurial capacity that she has gained more self confidence and she’s able to speak her mind. Previously she was a fan and now she’s a wife. She will eventually tire of catering to his ego and insecurities. If she gets counseling and heals her lack of a mother issues then there will be major consequences. Her healing will reflect even more his fears. She’s so genuinely happy and good that he does not feel worthy of her goodness and loyalty. He’s suffered so much due to poverty that he can’t believe that he’s found the love of his life. That gives him unconditional love. He will eventually do something that permanently damages his relationship with her. I pray they get help before that happens. Also never forget that he has a team that surrounds him that he’s loyal to and trusts. If she speaks against them then they may work to assist in the destruction of his relationship. They may also have insecurities that she triggers. They may be afraid of loosing their place in his life. They may be afraid of loosing their control over him to her. This happens often.

OK, BUT WHAT'S YOUR PROBLEM???? YOU WANT THE GIRL??

I watched the other two segments before I saw this one. The Singapore incident is not cute!!! If you want me to fly to meet you at a location, You!!!! Pay for the ticket. WTH!!! She chased him and now she will be forever chasing him. She started something that will never be stopped. Boy bye.

Wow this was very Educational about relationships Woda Maya behaviour and possible others which are not aware of their behaviour towards there marriage. I like how you analyse the Attachment theory so interesting.

He’s immature and very emotionally abusive. Trudy should leave this man child alone. Trudy also has “pick me” tendencies and her anxious attachment style and fear of abandonment makes her want him more. She failed all the tests when she didn’t choose herself. He’s not a red flag. He’s a red carpet. Red Sea. My heart aches for her.

Grief has different stages. This is denial still. It is okay to identify gaps but until she sees it for herself, the status quo remains.

Agree with everything you said KOJO. Leah and Liv are very aggressive frfr and if it was Serena or Jana the whole internet would have lost there ish. Hate how the reunion spent so much time on Kendall/Nicole and that Liv/Leah/Andrea clip and didn't give much air time to Serena and Kordell

He should've just found himself a compatible Ghanaian woman

I remembered seeing this interview and I was like this was not okay.

Great analysis

Married at first sight Mzansi seems to be available on showmax only

Kojo you’re a great interviewer. Love how you match the energy ❤

Thank goodness Freddie said, "No". He dogged a bullet.

Why are you busy over analysing someone 's marriage?

That's what therapists are for. This is not for everyone's ears let alone a national/international audience. Let's learn from this and get wisdom y'all!

Leave Wode Maya alone. Ms. Trudy talks too much. She's not innocent in all these. They dated for three years. What's all this nonsense about?

I do not like this testing game, if you’re not man enough leave me alone 😢

You need to stop this. Playing with people’s marriage for views. You need to stay out of their marriage.

LEAVE THE MAN ALONE, HE HASN’T DONE ANYTHING BAD TO HER AND SHE IS NOT AS INNOCENT AS SHE MAKES IT OUT TO BE. FIRST SHE COMPLAINS, SHE MISSES KENYA, SHE MISSES HER FAMILY, SHE MISSES HER COUNTRY’S FOOD, AND WHEN SHE GOT THE CHANCE TO TRAVEL, SHE DECIDED TO GO TO ZIMBABWE. SO MY QUESTION IS IF SHE MISSES HER COUNTRY SO MUCH WHY DID SHE NOT GO TO HER COUNTRY INSTEAD? Evil people wishing for these people’s marriage to fail, y’all don’t care about her so stop pretending.

Catherine treated Freddie so bad until she heard that he has a house…. And even though he said he wanted a prenup…. She lost it but still wanted to go get married…

I cant believe people are so bothered about people's private lives. Are people on KZfaq so jobless? Check the log in your eyes snf and leave that couple alone. All she did was to grant an interview and being honest

Jasmine sounded just like her mom when she approached Ollie. Immediately when her mom started talking I could see the correlation. When they get into a disagreement he may very well find himself on the receiving end of that same behavior from Jasmine

You talk 👄 so much it gives me headache.

This has nothing to do with a Lie. Nicole cannot Outright say that she cannot date a man who spreads his cheeks. No straight girl wants that. But in today's Climate, she can easily be called a Homophobe. This went over alot of People's heads.

Just checking ✔️ @Miss Trudy's reaction when @Wode Maya said he provoke's Trudy to spice the relationship says all about this relationship! Baby girl you and can do better than @Wode Maya

When you are married u need to put your partner first which seems not to be happening. They need to start traveling together to be able to spend time together.

*Clicks follow*

Very selfish of him 😢

Wode Maya is an annoying joke! An emotional sucker and abuser! His level of immaturity and insensitivity does not accredit him to be in a marriage, not especially to a woman of Trudy's type. Miss Trudy, it's okay to walk away if things are not aligning. You are a wonderful young lady, you deserve better! Hugs 🫂

I call my mom, girl, when I'm greeting her.

But i think all this are necessary because Trudy herself she is not complaining abd she is happy married here your busy with someone relationship does it make sense