I have a really crazy scenario with a girl from work. She was in a relationship when we met. Then she broke up and we got into some serious flirting. I tried to get her to come out with me, but she kept saying that she needed to get home to her daughter after work, & weekends were tied taking care of family. So we kept flirting. One day I got pissed as I found out she was now in a relationship on Facebook. She told me that it's a guy she was in a relationship with before, who was around fixing cars at her place, for her housemate, so they didn't need to date, to get to know each other. I've ordered that we both tone the flirting down, which is happening. And she was flirting heavy at the start of their relationship. Since then, we get along, but now she's been promoted, and guess who's now my boss? Haha! Yep, she is. Now we have to interact a lot more, everyday. A long story, but we're both in a position where it would be hard to get another job, & we don't want to either. I go round in circles. Sometimes I feel deeply in love and get hurt, sometimes I'm doing fine. I am doing stuff in my life. I am also dating other girls, not just sitting there. It's a mad world. Any positive ideas are welcome. @thejoshspeaks love your positive vibes about a tough subject, that's a help in itself. Thanks.

Don't count the days make them count

man it sucsk tbh....i moved into a hostel in diffrent district for my studies..compared to others who went abroad or diff state..ik mine aint nthng as compared to yalls..but dk man i jst miss my family more..especially my mom....i have seen her strugglng for both mine and my brothers ed but..i have a fear dat ...what if she is gone forever? wht if i cnt make her happy before that comes? she hasnt done thngs which exictes her or for instance..travellng around the country or state...i jst want her to be happy and do thngs that rly makes her alive...and what if somethng happens to her b4 i can give her that deservd lyf? dis constant fear is buggng me alot and i have cried for like 2 days( its been only 2 days away frm home)..idc if im alone here...i can manage dat..but still being apart frm ur mom who has been with u for 18 yrs ..it hurts alot + dis constant fear which i said earlier.....i really really hope i could give her deserved lyf b4 smthng happens to me or her

IMO it's possible to stay friends it just takes a few things to get used too

you’ve been helping me since middle school bro. just wanna say thank you 🙏

My mom is a butt I can't get phone bc oh no you will get a virus not old enough

I just block them out of my life never accept a friendzone fellas it makes you look and seem weak and that is how she will treat you like her other simp push over friends who got friendzone by her! Show her you can can move on with or without her.

A girl smiles at me in work does that mean she wants to get to know me mor

NO I DONT WANT TO PAY YOU ANY MONEY FOR EXTRA VIDEO SUBSCRIPTIONS TO YOURE CHANNEL or books as they ask on other chanels dealing with dating

I’ve never felt more worthless in my life

Great advice. One of my biggest issues is impatience. I want the boxes checked quick so I can decide if I want to stay in it or get out of it. I feel more pressure now esp since I'm getting older. I feel pressured to find that person to check boxes faster.

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When he said "boxes" he meant "standards" but he forgot what if those boxes are red flags and she ticks even just one of them, it's still a huge red flag and just one can make a huge difference😅

Josh my friend thinks that he can curse and do whatever he wants and shows little to no feeling when doing something with me and I always have to text him to do something he never texts me first. what should I do?

I'm 15 and its very overwhelming i don't know where I'm gonna live i won't have one home I'm kinda scared and very sad

Not even scorpion curses and he from hell

You literally put into words what I've been feeling for the past months... "How would they know that if you guys became friends again you would honestly JUST be their friend" Unfortunately I was the one who rejected someone and not just anyone, he was one of my closest friends and ever since he confessed his feelings and I rejected him everything fell apart. I haven't talked to him other than 2 times because this sentence describes what I've been thinking ever since. He says that he would be ok being friends but I can't stop questioning if it would actually be true. I know I shouldn't be avoiding him but I just don't know how to handle any of this at all.

I got rejected as well, after that i said whatever. A king does not belong wih a peasant.

I know with me it depends on the type of smile. I don't smile much so if you get a sustained smile out of me, there's a 99.5% chance I like you, the smile I have when I'm into a guy is what I call a daydreamy smile, where I forget to swallow my saliva and eventually develop a cute little lisp (actually I sound like Sid the Sloth when that happens, but let's pretend it's cute), the other kind of smile, the excited smile is when I'm so happy about something I'm smiling or we're talking about a topic I like. But as I said, I'm not much of a smiler so another way to know I'm into you is if I make a lot of eye contact with you and if I flip quickly between talking up a hurricane and just saying "yeah" over and over again. And if I forget to swallow my saliva for a few minutes. Maybe the reason I'm still single is the saliva thing, haha. Or maybe it's the fact I live in overalls and am 5'1", I've been told I look cute in the way a little kid or a puppy is.

No man wants to take a woman with a high body count serious. The only ones that takes them serious are suckers who don’t have any options 😂

I simply say, "Wait Put your glasses back On, I may be the etong guy your asking it to" !?😅 Or something like, "You can Clearly Do better, I'm not worth it for you..." 😊

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Im so in love with jamal musiala i found myself learning deustch so i can move to germany go to his match and hope he notices me i know im just a average girl he won't even look at once still im so delulu 😭😭

My crush likes my enemy 😢💔 And I don’t want to be anything like her

From a red pill perspective I would add college.

Great advice Josh. I received similar advice before. Thank you.

No I am not gonna do it, no, I said nooo!

Im 13 and not allowed to play games 😢😞 please help!

😂😂😂 Keep telling yourself that buddy…

Bros just mad he cant get a girl

I did those things and now I have a phone

So, my crush and me both like eachother but... we're not dating yet. And this year, we're not in the same class. And there's my best friend she talks to him a lot. Like A LOT. And, I can't help it but feel jealous. I just don't want to lose him. He's one of the person who I really trust..

I don’t think I’ve ever been rejected before. However, she told me tonight she wanted to let me go. 2 perfect dates, 1 month great talking. - she said to respect her wishes. Damn. - that’s another level. 😂

I always had a feeling deep down that there was way more to it than confidence. There is such a thing as OVERconfidence, such as "If I say/do X to 100 people, 98 of them may turn me down, but 2 just might click with me." Well, most who try won't even get ONE! Most of it is factors beyond the person's control, that no amount of confidence can change.

I have never talked to this guy but the first time I saw him I felt a deep attraction towards him and he found out that I like him and I dont know how to just start talking to him sins he doesnt know me and now its weird and embaresing wen ever I walk past him ,wat should I do I dont want to be rejected?

Sometimes dating somebody the same age isn’t an option Like most of the times guys/girls whoever your attracted to are often immature and childish when your younger And when your younger sometimes you’d rather just wanna be with somebody who’s more mature then being a complete mess When your a younger person like 18-19 going in your 20s you’d rather be with somebody older because most guys/girls sometimes aren’t mature enough as you want them to be or you just fall for people who’s older because your so easy to fall in love and that’s ok I don’t like dating guys younger because they don’t fully respect woman and can’t respect me as a person and aren’t fully mature enough for me to be with and I tend to fall just for whoever regardless the age like 20-30 for me it’s just the appeal and the attraction and that they have manners

Simp behavior right here. She was just making that excuse because she didn’t expect you to fit her crazy criteria. However, if it wasn’t an excuse, that’s even worse, it was an ick. If it was an ick, that’s beyond major red flag 🚩. That shows she wants to dictate your life, from the way you dress to the way you conduct yourself. Also, I saw in the comments, why hang out with her after that? You were just validating her behavior.

This feels very slanted toward anti-man. Claiming the guy was ‘obsessed’ and ‘intimidated’ by her body count just makes him look like a petty human. You leave out key details. Was there relationship monogamous? Was she just increasing her body count and he felt to do the same? Body count is a major red flag for me that shows attention seeking behavior, narcissism, toxic femininity, and lack of trust.

this didnt really help me much but its cool that this guy is trying. ive been with my boyfriend for 1.5 years and it started as just a friendship in middle school. if anybody cares, i just advice you to be honest with them and not to move too quick before you're ready. also, i know theres pressure to be in a relationship but try not to settle. i hope i helped at least some one ♥️

Im moving away today,dont think ill make new friends cuz nobody has my type of humor,their humor is broken,twisted and stupid,unfunny

Thank you for the tips it really helped me

From a 32 year old dad who always struggled to fit in, and is now helping to transition his son to a new school: thank you. You’ve helped to refine my talking points with my little man. To the other kids commenting that they’re scared of a new school: I was too! I had to switch multiple times throughout grade school, middle school, and high school. But each time, I grew a bit more. Developed more courage, and made great friends along the way. The best advice I can give is this: be kind, and you’ll attract kind people. Good luck everyone!

This very race against India. What India do against you my dear? Why you say this four modi? My colour good colour. All colour good colour.

i never thought id be here

Josh can you give me a best tip becuz tomorrow I am ganna say hello to my crush for the first time

Yes

been talking to this girl for 2 years and we did things that made me think she was finally into me. I shot my shot, and now I'm here. Friendzone hurts.

Guys, if you think that any one of these girls would be able to be a reliable and loving partner, please think again.

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