get into the habit of feeling worthy
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breaking up with the narcissist
13:24
being the victim is comfortable
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I tried manifesting and I failed
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i never felt unconditionally loved
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for anyone feeling lost in life
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@nammi895
@nammi895 14 күн бұрын
men here : watching this video to identify & avoid such women, reverse engineering 😅
@jackdonovan554
@jackdonovan554 19 күн бұрын
I remember loving them. But then they stopped treating me like a child and started treating me like I was a nuisance - at the age of 7. I just turned off my emotions and decided that I didn't have to talk to them after I got out. I thought I might regret it, but, I never did. I will never understand how any parent could think they can treat their kids like selfish adults their whole youth - and then expect any love or respect in their old age. Life doesn't work that way. Forgiveness is for those brave enough to ask for it. Entitled parents die alone, realizing too late that they failed at the most important thing that they were put on this earth for. If you had horrible parents, fix yourself before you have kids. I have always wondered what it feels like to truly feel loved by a parent. If it had not been for God's love and mercy, I don't think I would have been a very good person. Please do whatever you can to realize that YOU CAN USE YOUR PAIN TO MAKE THINGS BETTER. Be the improvement.
@soioioioioioio34
@soioioioioioio34 Ай бұрын
My parents are also mentally gone
@victoriazapolska6282
@victoriazapolska6282 Ай бұрын
Girl…it could be such an interesting topic but your absolutely out of touch comparison of Selena and Hailey makes me stop listening to you right there as you are just rooting for Selena and are putting down Hailey following the media narrative. Alas.
@Dancediva240
@Dancediva240 Ай бұрын
So how did you guys meet??
@yUrie-cx2hb
@yUrie-cx2hb 2 ай бұрын
I dont hate my parents, I just don't feel like i love them either. They say they love me and ask me why I'm like this, but i just don't know for certain
@Mary-zo4rx
@Mary-zo4rx 3 ай бұрын
Sounds like he is an avoidant he like his space and independence not a good match for anxious attachment 😕
@SimranSingh-ps5wd
@SimranSingh-ps5wd 3 ай бұрын
i’m trying to get kanye west to date me!!
@pleurnicheuse1443
@pleurnicheuse1443 3 ай бұрын
Wow, short, precise and useful manifestation advice?❤ Thank you! I'll still watch the long video while i write these down. You should link it in the comments or desciption so people can find it more easily.
@jeanjacqueslundi3502
@jeanjacqueslundi3502 4 ай бұрын
It's based on the conceit that the way someone is interpreting their experience is not valid. And yes it's RAMPANT in the spiritual communitty. As someone in spirituality for a long time, I can say that A LOT of techings out there are actually creating MORE problem for people. And yes, even stuff coming from supposed perfect sources like angels, advanced alien civilizations, guides, etc etc In fact, I'd go so far as to say (!!!) spiritual gaslighting and gaslighting of ANY kind.......is precisely the MAIN reason why the human experience doesn't move forward. We are facing trauma and suffering and there are no sources that validate that.......and we are simply instructed to "elevate our frequency " to "a timeline where those things don't happen". I pretty much see everyone as a ret*rd, that doesn't understand this dynamic. Harsh words, but not worse than the suffering I've faced and see others facing daily due to this BS. This is not the world nor the universe I want to live in. And if the price of sometimes lowering my vibration is to have a prespective that better empathizes with those that suffer and are innocent...then I'll pay it gladly.
@sonyacurti
@sonyacurti 6 ай бұрын
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@sonyacurti
@sonyacurti 6 ай бұрын
❤ this video so much! The only thing is I struggle to to hear it because I have hearing aids and I find the background music so distracting. Ppl with hearing loss struggle with word recognition and it's difficult to try and understand your words. Thank you for a great video.
@lordegovner922
@lordegovner922 6 ай бұрын
@catholicfemininity2126
@catholicfemininity2126 7 ай бұрын
There are 2 types of love that comes to mind. 1. The Sentimental love - (that affectionate feeling, you truly like being around them) 2. Sacrificial willful love -(wanting good will towards others. Even if you don't feel like loving them... even for those you don't wanna be around, you don't hate them or want their lives to be miserable, you forgive and wish them well). I think most of us who don't get along with our parents don't have sentimental love towards them like in the movies, but we can have sacrificial love. Even if we keep them at a distance. We don't hate them, we forgive them for ourselves so we can have peace. We wish them a good life. That's true love, better than sentimental love ever could be. But it would be nice to have parents we can do both for.
@percubit10
@percubit10 8 ай бұрын
This happened to me for a long time. a lot of abuse in that community.
@lesyah.2775
@lesyah.2775 8 ай бұрын
I hope my ideal partner is already dead, so he won't bother me. lol.
@melssf7852
@melssf7852 8 ай бұрын
Your stuff was so relatable. I also have been 3 years single doing "the work" before going out there. I also realize now i may struggle with hewlthy now and i am finding im deciding to just be alone i guess im scared
@thecrimsoncreates
@thecrimsoncreates 9 ай бұрын
Looked at this video before I left my toxic relationship. I watched it them to mentally “prepare” myself for something better. Cut to a year later, re-watching this in a better space and environment. Thank you ❤
@oscarpizzano9520
@oscarpizzano9520 9 ай бұрын
Really femenine
@monicakaram
@monicakaram 10 ай бұрын
Thank you
@lianevoelker9845
@lianevoelker9845 10 ай бұрын
KZfaq recommended me your video wgere you are talking about this guy. Half way through... after hearing red flag after red flag, I scrolled up to see if you are still together. I'm sorry you had to experience another heartbreak. I'm a child of a narcessitic parent too. It is very difficult to change what we are attracted to, as the human mind always goes for what is familiar. I learned this year that I am attracted to emotionally unavailable men - but also that I am emotionally unavailable myself. I still have high anxious components but I have a tendency to show independence and try and avoid showing weakness in the beginning of dating. It's a very painful process to work through attachment issues.
@daniqtpy647
@daniqtpy647 10 ай бұрын
4 days of not hearing from someone is actually very unacceptable I think it's rude and inconsiderate of the other person that's waiting to hear back from them so when you have the forget this reaction to it you are actually right in those feelings but yes you do need to communicate but it's fine if you ghost that person too because they're pretty much ghosting you as well and if they text you after a while after that then you can tell them how you feel and if they don't change bye its your life don't waste your precious time on people that are playing games we are queens and we deserve only queen treatment
@happynothappy666
@happynothappy666 10 ай бұрын
I hate both of my parents and my friend keeps telling me "hey just ignore it" but I can't. Its too much
@alvin36596
@alvin36596 10 ай бұрын
💯
@Aya-cj1ul
@Aya-cj1ul 10 ай бұрын
OMG you are saying everything i'm going through in my relationship right now and also I thought i've healed
@piyushshrivastava868
@piyushshrivastava868 10 ай бұрын
great content ❤
@amanyghazy5454
@amanyghazy5454 10 ай бұрын
💛💛💛
@amanyghazy5454
@amanyghazy5454 10 ай бұрын
💚💚💚
@amanyghazy5454
@amanyghazy5454 10 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@kpoplover2010_STAY
@kpoplover2010_STAY 11 ай бұрын
I really wanna go to koreaaaa ❤❤❤😢😢😢
@ExploringEira
@ExploringEira 11 ай бұрын
It was such an amazing trip! Really recommend it :)
@sezsaysgoose
@sezsaysgoose 11 ай бұрын
What kind of little red flags did you pick up on but let slide?
@ExploringEira
@ExploringEira 11 ай бұрын
like one time at the beginning (2 weeks in) he told me that he was leaving for 6 months to Brazil while I was livestreaming and afterwards it was a joke apparently and he told me he did it to "see my reaction and how much I actually cared for him". I had already told him I really liked him but apparently it wasn't enough for him lol
@BirgitteV
@BirgitteV 11 ай бұрын
and also thikn about it. is there enything more narsissistic then beliving that everything in the material world is a reflection of you og for you.... I think this psirituality thing is a kind of reverse narsissism (not sure how to put it in tho words)
@Rg-kp4nw
@Rg-kp4nw 11 ай бұрын
Nobody in the modern era is the best thing to walk this earth. Saying stuff like this is narcissistic
@ExploringEira
@ExploringEira 11 ай бұрын
I see you don’t have the best relationship with yourself 😂
@emanx222
@emanx222 11 ай бұрын
​@@ExploringEirathis response simply confirms what the original comment is talking about. Instead of countering what he said or explaining why hes wrong you've just arrogantly and ignorantly assumed this person doesnt have a good relationship themselves. Thats pretty sad
@ExploringEira
@ExploringEira 11 ай бұрын
@@emanx222 that’s your interpretation, I speak from my experience and comments like his are the ones I used to say when I saw confident people as narcissitic and it’s something I worked on in therapy. And when someone directly says what they said instead of trying to have a conversation, I won’t try and argue with them, I’ll just say what I think :)
@rosalynorozco_
@rosalynorozco_ 11 ай бұрын
Where’d you get the shirt?? 🥹
@ExploringEira
@ExploringEira 11 ай бұрын
It’s from a store in London called vintage threads!
@jessika_newell
@jessika_newell 11 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@MarylnBowan-vg7te
@MarylnBowan-vg7te 11 ай бұрын
(FACTS OVA FEELINGS). The Narrative tha Certain Ppl like their pain and tha because of it they r attached to their pain is an especially pervasive one in the psychology self-help and Sphere-ual communities and it is narrative that needs to be Changed Immediately because it is so Fundamentally Dysfunctional and Destructive
@tnijoo5109
@tnijoo5109 11 ай бұрын
🥰
@amanyghazy5454
@amanyghazy5454 11 ай бұрын
🌿🌿🌿
@ExploringEira
@ExploringEira 11 ай бұрын
thanks for the support love <3
@amanyghazy5454
@amanyghazy5454 11 ай бұрын
💚💚💚
@amanyghazy5454
@amanyghazy5454 11 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@NellyMohammed14
@NellyMohammed14 11 ай бұрын
Becoming a big fan of your content!
@ExploringEira
@ExploringEira 11 ай бұрын
Thanks so much love 🥰🥰
@AmandaPandaWhoLivesInaVeranda
@AmandaPandaWhoLivesInaVeranda 11 ай бұрын
Update to Answer Q: While I won’t speak of my personal techniques (as I don’t want to alter yours) I suggest you find whatever it is that sends your imagination into full force to the point where you’re feeling full and excited over whatever it is you’re manifesting. Is it? While you’re jogging Shuffling a deck of cards repeatedly Daydreaming on the couch Doodling on paper I’ve been aware of my manifestation capabilities since I was a little girl. I have techniques that I’ve never heard anyone speak about. People just need to do things their own way, there are no rules. Don’t listen to the fear mongering of “must have unwavering faith”, you’re human for now and that’s practically impossible not to doubt at times. No matter what, faith or doubt, I always manifest what I want because the universe knows my hearts TRUE desires 🥰
@am35_86
@am35_86 11 ай бұрын
Can you explain more please
@jas0204
@jas0204 11 ай бұрын
Can you please share your techniques please 😊
@ExploringEira
@ExploringEira 11 ай бұрын
that's great Amanda :)
@AmandaPandaWhoLivesInaVeranda
@AmandaPandaWhoLivesInaVeranda 11 ай бұрын
@@jas0204 See above, I’ve answered your question
@AmandaPandaWhoLivesInaVeranda
@AmandaPandaWhoLivesInaVeranda 11 ай бұрын
@@am35_86 see above, I’ve answered your question
@DaStarrchild
@DaStarrchild 11 ай бұрын
Im going to write You down. And we will see if this truly works..😂
@ExploringEira
@ExploringEira 11 ай бұрын
I don’t believe in manifesting specific people so you are wasting your time 😂
@sandraj4602
@sandraj4602 11 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this video 😍❤ I think I need to do a LOT of work on my self concept... You have explained everything in such a practical way, it feels actually doable for me. Lots of love to you ❤❤❤
@ExploringEira
@ExploringEira 11 ай бұрын
Thanks lovee! So glad it helped and also thanks for giving me the idea for this video 🥰
@sandraj4602
@sandraj4602 11 ай бұрын
I have discovered your channel yesterday and I am so happy, everything resonates so deeply with me. I have bingewatched since then your content 😁 My main problem is that I think I am not good enough. Classic, but this sits so deeply in my system that I have no idea how to get rid of it. I have tried so much but until now nothing really helped, just as far to somehow get through life... I am a physiotherapist, a holistic massage practitioner and would love to so energy work, but at the moment I have just a not well paid Job, cannot even work as a physiotherapist because I could not stand it any longer, felt this imposter syndrome so bad. I don't know what else to do... do you have any ideas? Thank you for showing your work, it really lights me up❤ Lots of love from germany ❤
@ExploringEira
@ExploringEira 11 ай бұрын
Hi lovee, your comment made my day :D! Having imposter syndrome is totally normal and I have had it many times whenever I started something new. It gets better in two ways (you also gave me a great idea for a video so will talk about it soon too!) first is improving your self concept and then practicing it so it gets comfortable. So for ex you change your self concept to: I am great at doing this job, people love to hire me for this job, etc and then you also put yourself in situations where you start to get comfortable putting those affirmations into practice if that makes sense. At the beginning it will be uncomfortable but over time it will get easier :)
@sandraj4602
@sandraj4602 11 ай бұрын
Yeeesss pleeeaaase make a video about it, I would so appreciate it. Yes, self concept, I need to focus on that... Thank you for the advice to also put it into action, that really makes sense. Like a practice. Thank you so much! I will now continue bingewatching some of your videos 😬😁 ❤❤❤
@fernandaflorencioo
@fernandaflorencioo 11 ай бұрын
I just discover your videos and I LOVE IT You are AMAZING Hugs from a Brazilian subscriber ❤
@ExploringEira
@ExploringEira 11 ай бұрын
Obrigada Fernanda!! :)
@Supertitan351
@Supertitan351 Жыл бұрын
I don’t love my parents because they’re abuse. They treat me like trash, they abusing me, they don’t respect me and they say something very rude that I feel hurt
@citrine_shine
@citrine_shine Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. I got goosebumps too. I haven't tried manifesting using a journal. Really keen to try. 😊 very inspiring
@ExploringEira
@ExploringEira Жыл бұрын
Go for it! I feel like it's such an entertaining and also exciting thing to do by itself :) and looking back and finding these journals when things happen is amazing
@felixgonzalez6466
@felixgonzalez6466 Жыл бұрын
Finailly someone that has some sense. You can create ur own reality yes true to an extent. They forget to add the fine print like they add it when you take a pill or treatment haha ie:(social economic back round, race, color of skin, gender, country of origin… this list goes on and on. Just do what you can , and leave everything else alone. Fuck it is all u can say and do. It is what it is. Thank you for helping me reflect what i have experienced.
@user-uw8uf5cw7o
@user-uw8uf5cw7o Жыл бұрын
Let’s be frie😊nds number