They act like a little kid like they can't take it.they act out like a fool

Been financially abused by family and partner . Need help to unlearn that kind of behaviour

Therapists are attempting to implant false memories by telling me that my abuse never happened and I am making it up.

You should have supported your husband more and give proper sex. Less time making videos about how to be selfish and me me me.

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HOW DO I GET RID OF A FINANCIAL APPOINTEE I HAVE A DISABILITY BUT IM 33 AND I NOT ALLOWED TO PAY MY OWN BILLS AND ITS SO UNFAIR

HELP MY FINANCIAL APPOINTEE IS ABUSING ME

Single men get treated better than married men 😂

Ask nurses, the majority of the nurses’ spouses don't want to work, and the wives have to work two jobs to cover everything, especially Filipino nurses, and Asian nurses in general. So sad and very common for years.

My husband hides money from me! He makes me pay for everything on my own and tells me he is broke. He has three jobs and I know he hides money from me, but he thinks I'm too afraid of bad credit to let shit burn..

Your awesome

Thank you. The information is very supportive and valuable. What you have said is true. The difference backgrounds couples come from. That's my situation with my spouse. I'm form a background were money was never a concern. He's from a background of a single parent with five siblings. He doesn't say that money was never a concern. But for me, understanding the background of his life style. I feel that it not true. I embrace spending money and enjoying it. To survive and thrive off of. He always argue about money and the cost is to much. Wow! Great insight and information. Thank you.

People are dumb,dont engage them. Enjoy ya cuppa hun

Helpful information > Thank you

Here's Holding Hopefulness To Those Going Thru This Journey of Discovery AND Learning To Trust Yourself. Your Future Self Needs You ❤❤ And they Are Worthy of Your Respect

That loss of something you never really had is such a unique pain 😩

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Omg u r so gorgeous

Just on a therapy KZfaq-style video binge - i have to say n sorry if it’s random or weird but I love your teeth 😍😍 they are perfect sized and almost like natural veneers

Well said Michele, strength in vulnerability. Let us all show compassion and not get into rumors. This should be a wake up call. God Bless everyone dealing its cancer.

This video resinates with me thank you for the upload .

Why would any man sign a marriage contract after reading and watching all these divorce youtube videos? Is it not obvious what the outcome will be like ? Women want to start families, but have no interest in being a loyal family. They divorce at an 80% rate.

Amazing book. Highly recommended

Hi, I m going thru this from last 2 long years! He initiated the divorce n I want to save our marriage. His parents lives with us who r by his side every minute. I can't work, dnt hv money, no family, no friends...cant bare this chronic pain any more...

Listen to this lady go on as if divorce is so damaging to women! Divorce is totally skewed against men, women have nothing to lose everything to gain. If divorce were fair the feminist movement would have died decades ago.

😭😂Thats krazy. Fuck em.

Top 10 negative "red flags" comments family members/partners or just anyone can give you when it comes to financial abuse, or so-called financial abuse. Have you been told that..... 1, "I've given you a tenner, make that last. You're not getting any more!" 😡 2, (sigh) (tut) " Another pair of shoes again?. You're wasting your cash!"🙄 3, "I DON'T CARE WHAT OTHER PEOPLE SAY ABOUT YOUR LACK OF SOCIAL LIFE. I'M IN CHARGE OF YOU, OTHERS ARE NOT!!!' 🤬 4, "I'm not giving you any more cash unless you tell me what you're spending it on, got it!?" 😡 5, (sigh) "Don't you worry about her/him, She/he is just in a bad mood that I won't let them buy tickets for this event they wanting to go to!" 🙄 6," You're NOT buying those new jeans, you've got enough jeans in your wardrobe. You're just being wasteful with cash!"😡 7,"GIVE ME YOUR CASH CARD, & YOU'RE NOT GETTING IT BACK TILL I KNOW YOU WON'T BE IRRESPONSIBLE WITH YOUR CASH CARD!, & YOU'LL GET IT BACK WHEN I SAY YOU CAN, GOT IT!!!?" 🤬🤬🤬🤬 8, "I'VE JUST READ YOUR BANK STATEMENTS & PERHAPS YOU CAN EXPLAIN THAT YOU SPENT OVER £100 ON AMAZON. WHAT DID YOU SPEND THAT CASH ON FOR!!!?' 🤬🤬🤬🤬 9, Can you give me £20 please?. I've got no cash for my lunch, & if I starve, I blame you for being so selfish !" 😒😠 10, " Oh, I 'll like 2 pints or beer for my dad & brother, & it's coming out of my mates cash he's treating us , oh , he won't mind, will you?!" 😃

I buy disco lights for my djing hobby. & I buy tickets for events with my own hard earned cash but My family members complains . Is that financial abuse or not?. I find it difficult to tell the difference from being accused of being irresponsible with cash which isn't true, & financial abuse. Can you help me tell the difference?

Financial abuse just isn't taking their cash away from you. Are you..... 1, being critical of you what you buy.? 2, Keeping hold of the purse strings, & give you a small allowance, & keeps you from going out to parties, holidays , and outings .? 3, Being pressurised to have a joint account . 4, Being scolded/moaned at for buying event tickets ?. 5, Being Pressurised to change your will, & etc ?. 5, Has your family members taken your card card away as a punishment for buying purchases on yourself?. They think they're doing with their best intentions, or doing this for your "own good ". They're treating you like a child, is a huge red flag, & which is always wrong, totally unacceptable, & downright cruel. & You need to leave the family home, & relationship, ASAP!!!. before it's all too late.

I am in a severe situation. My partner of 14 years wont give me a dime . i have to ask for what I need or want. Ill never get a want. And have to wait for needs like clothes for when he feels like buying me stuff. And he wont give me spending money. Not even a dollar. If he sees a empty coke can in the trash,or even a fast food bag in the trash, he asks me how I bought that. And then I will tell him, where it came from, or who brought that to me, and he will call me a lying whore and its a nightmare. I am now mentally so damaged, I cant even work. I have extreme back pain and leg pain from a sciatic nerve pinch . I do not know how to leave him ,especially because our daughter is 9 and she loves her Daddy ,and probsbly prefers him now ,more than me.

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Beautiful topic

Funded her hobbies after the fact

THIS IS WHAT HAPPENED THE PAST 10 YEARS

Thanks dad. See you in court

Men are victims mostly.

Live as they want to live is how we got into this mess. Until you have the full responsibility of supporting yourself you won’t understand the chasm your getting ready to go thru. If we could care about the other person’s shoes we also wouldn’t be contemplating divorce………

7:40 just hit me to the core.

Good golly Miss Molly bwahahahaha

Or the lovely "i work more than you" so you need to do more at home, even tho you pay your exact half threw college and some minor working

God bless u

Most men in AMERICA , ESPECIALLY THOSE BORN IN THE 60 s are extremely toxic ….if they have a child and he is a boy they will abuse them and teach them to be abusive as well and so they perpetuate the abuse forever

Hi I lost so much mony because my wiffe she sad because you love me so keep on spending for 15 years I lost over US$200,000 with the Filipino lady and after that even when I got her a job in the Philippines as a counselor and we cheat all the votes because I pay cash for every voters that we catch over 500 votes I get for her and then after when I came back to my country, the Filipino wife with my daughter on Christmas I came home before Christmas then after that, she block me and she didn’t ever call me ever again after that and I was so stupid to believe that because she said I love you you invest your entire life savings in the Philippines someday when you get older, I will look after you, so bring all of your cash from England, the Philippines and I did it I wish I didn’t because I feel like I am dying now she take all the cash I buy a house, small mansion up and down stairs big garden, big house, huge and expensive jewelry and furniture. Everything expensive air conditioning everything I done and after that when I come home she abandoned me and left me behind. I don’t know. I feel like I wanted to kill myself, but I ask God please please I cannot do that. It’s not so easy to kill myself because I am scared, but I’m willing to die in my sleep, so please I don’t know what to do. I’m losing my mind so take care everyone and merry Christmas and happy new year advance. Take care bye-bye for now.

Hi Michelle, my Wife of 16 years started to physically Abuse me in a matter of weeks of me receiving my personal injury claim from my accident at work, that left me crippled back in December 2014, She then went on a Drinking, Drug taking and Gambling binge, Gambling over £100000 of the claim, while hiding the bank statements, constantly attacking me, gaslighting me, coercive controlling me to the point of me trying to take my own life when I realised the extent of the gambling of the funds that were going to help make Our lives and Our Son's life a bit more comfortable, We separated in early September 2017, and I went along to seek support at the local Women's Aid Services Who told me that I had indeed been the Survivor of every form of Domestic Abuse and Violence that is known in the Service and in a matter of months, I single handedly helped the Domestic Violence Services and the Professors of the University of South Wales to set up what is now known as the Compass Programme which is the Male Version of the Freedom Programme which is used with Women Survivors, I myself went on to support several Men in a mentoring capacity since December 2018 while still trying to deal with the traumatic experience and situations that I have experienced during my abuse that I suffered, and since Spring 2018 I am still in the middle of the Divorce of which she had her Lawyers shut down back in June 2018 as I refused comply with the crazy controlling demands that she and her Lawyers were trying to put in place so that I am to be controlled even after the Divorce is finalised!! She has left me broke and broken, and I do not know when I will ever be free of her! And I do not want her to have another penny of my Son's inheritance!

We are legally separated With this work with us both? I file for legal separation because i do not want to be the option if my wife's affair failed. I love my wife but being the second option is being disrespectful to me. And the fact is she just accepted friend request this guy through IG. Is this the thing they say bout marriage till death to us part?

I'm going through this for last few years my husband told me to give up my job wanted kids the moment I was pregnant he changed. Now I'm to the point I only get money when I'm good and it's convenient for him , also found out he gave$15,000 loan to a worker of his and made no attempt to collect it. Now I'm stuck with two kids, severe anxiety and depression, and no way out. He gave me $150 to buy Xmas presents for my two kids one 12 and one 4 and said they didn't need more stuff we're all ungrateful can't convince him otherwise. 😔I keep up hope I'll get healthier and get on my feet someday.

I feel now like I was in some sort of financial denial in the past. If I just buy them this part for their Jeep they need, maybe they will stop being so mean. If I just buy the concert tickets for us, we could maybe have a good day. Or all will be better in time. He will pay his fair share when his child support is over. I got into debt over 6 years and as soon as his child support was finished being paid, he left.

My mom forced me to work at her store. I couldn;'t play any sports, go to birthdays, go to friends houses, go to the beach. Just work. And in return, they called me stupid, dumb, useless, tell me i would die alone...all of this in front of the customers. She always told me my brother and cousins were better than me. I would get mad and in return she sent me away to her sisters family who also called me stupid and added in the physical abuse. I would come home after a few months and the cycle would repeat. Anytime i would say something, she would call me a liar. My brother on the hand was lazy, never had to do work and was always told how amazing he was. No wonder i am 40, cant keep a relationship.....got a good job, a good business but am still seeking the validation. Still deal with sibling and father trying to talk down to me even though my brother is unemployed and my father is broke. Today, i wont take this anymore. Will treat them the way they treated me.

I really liked this. Very helpful. Thank you.

I don't think this is a tactic. This is one of their more inconvenient impulses. The need to talk all the time. The need to be heard (narcissists are highly traumatized in terms of ''not being heard'' so they want to be heard all the time and never hear anyone ever.)