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@LisaBilyeuАй бұрын
WARNING: I will never ask for your contact info in the comments section, that is someone impersonating me!
@LilyOlivia-p3s19 күн бұрын
Excellent video; I'm still struggling to let go of my seven-year relationship. My former significant other, who I genuinely thought was the love of my life, broke up with me a month ago, and I just can't seem to move on. I'm feeling irritated and powerless since nothing has worked to bring him back into my existence. I've tried to move on, but my heart still hurts for him, and I can't see myself with anyone else. I apologise for posting this here, but I just can't seem to move on from missing him.
@Jennyfenty-n1b19 күн бұрын
It's difficult to say goodbye to someone you love; I know this from my 12-year relationship. But I was unable to let him go, so I made every effort to get him back. I eventually had to seek help from a spiritual counsellor.
@LilyOlivia-p3s19 күн бұрын
By the way, how did you locate a spiritual counsellor and how can I get in contact with him?
@Jennyfenty-n1b19 күн бұрын
Father Obah Eze can get your ex back and is a great spiritual counsellor.
@Jennyfenty-n1b19 күн бұрын
Father Obah Eze is who he is; he has incredible powers and can help you.
@Jennyfenty-n1b19 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing this crucial information; I've just done some research about him online. Startlingly, I looked up Father Obah Eze online and, whoa, he seems like a real guy. Once again, thank you so much ❤
@vickibazter3446Ай бұрын
Best to heal before dating after a break up
@SheyshelАй бұрын
When I go on a 1st date and when I start a new relationship, I repeat to myself over and over : "it's okay if he's not my person. It's ok if we're not meant to be together. If he leaves or loses interest, it's because he has enough information to know that I'm not the one for him, and if I had access to the same information, I would probably choose to leave as well." It stops me from throwing myself headfirst into relationships.
@Necic202424 күн бұрын
This is brilliant and I needed to hear it
@burcudursunmusicАй бұрын
Obsess over your own life
@laceyloopsАй бұрын
Gold! "So many people mistake impact for character"
@maragirl1658Ай бұрын
Best advice ever. Who they are to you today is very likely who they will be you tomorrow.
@sunstardrummerАй бұрын
Bingo
@AlexiaHDIntuitionАй бұрын
This is so needed I was this person in my 20’s and my 30’s!! I come a long way thanks Lisa for this footage 🙏
@tinahurley743Ай бұрын
Indeed!!!! My absolute respect to this expert! And, Lisa, thank YOU for making this video more available especially for those who are cut off time. God bless you with new ideas and fantastic guests!!!
@Emillyy94Ай бұрын
Totally recommend Matthew Hussey’s new book “Love Life” he is brilliant!
@dreamtimelotus7894Ай бұрын
I'm dating a guy for six weeks sex is amazing. But I'm starting to feel i I'm only a sex doll for him. Letting him go. Something feels off
@sunstardrummerАй бұрын
You are being used,girl. Walk away . Restore dignity. And do not repeat the mistake. Sex is for much later in relationship. Have a great life,young girl. Advice you never asked a mature,old woman with life experience❤is giving to all that wanna do it right.
@SheyshelАй бұрын
@@dreamtimelotus7894 You'll feel proud of yourself
@enigma7302Ай бұрын
@@sunstardrummer You don't even know her boyfriend, his character, their life. Why coach experts prone to say "leave her.... Divorce her" without even know full information? It's so easy to judge am i right?
@alishastudart8510Ай бұрын
The last 5 men I’ve met don’t want to commit. I move on quickly. It’s about a months time. I find they are all avoidant. So what is that? I’m not sticking with one person that doesn’t want to commit. I am finding most people are poly or just want to have fun (I’m in Portland oregon). So what is that? I think there is a cultural shift going on.
@joanmu1053Ай бұрын
Helaas
@DudebrointheskyАй бұрын
Yep
@basicinfo2022Ай бұрын
Increase in abusive, selfish and narcissistic men.
@MelW66911 күн бұрын
Heal your own attachment wounds. I better edit that. That sounded rude and I don’t mean it to. Simplest answer is: heal yourself and you will experience something different.
@yourfavoritetiktokers411211 күн бұрын
Your fireworks is you day to day life and not the one on new years! This is BIGGG. SO GOOD
@sharonrush4344Ай бұрын
Wow. Now that’s a new perspective. Super helpful
@annahnabalayi1090Ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this. It is so timely.
@carolyngarcia629213 күн бұрын
This is so therapeutic and I love it! Such great reminders and lessons!
@ViWiHHАй бұрын
Honestly i cant anymore i cant
@Jt-JtАй бұрын
You can and you will. I have been there too. It Doesn’t last forever. I believe in you. Focus on you and your healing. You’re amazing and I don’t even have to know you to believe that. ❤
@ViWiHHАй бұрын
@@Jt-Jt thank you but i am single now for a while it is diffecult. I feel like it wont happen for me anymore. And i feel anxious about it. Why is it so diffecult? Why
@susanparkes5096Ай бұрын
Fireworks need the dark.
@ElmarDylongАй бұрын
sounded like someone that goes into relationships just to feel the pain of breakup...
@annaa625914 күн бұрын
1:44 - 3 months you are not talking about someone character but impact👏
@jessiiica07Ай бұрын
3 months is a probation period in the relationship! You’re looking to see which green or red flags are present, but not ready to make that person everything yet!
@Sidera17Ай бұрын
If fireworks are that "special thing," and the rest of every day life is the important bit, to me, the "fireworks" are what separate "everyday" from "events.". I need to live my everyday harmoniously-- that's the most important for functioning. And my family and friends and community fit into the everyday. I think a good partner should fit into the everyday for long-term compatibility, but I ONLY watch fireworks with a partner! I refuse to date someone who doesn't have a yearly regular schedule of "fireworks shows" scheduled as well as the ability to integrate into the day to day long term. Otherwise, why? It feels like family or friends, platonic physically and emotionally and spiritually, and I already have those. I wouldn't date someone who didn't start out with fireworks. I don't expect them forever, but dating and coupling seems pointless to me without them coded into a relationship over time, unless you have arranged marriages or date only for compatibility and not chemistry as well.
@AmandaInAlohaLandАй бұрын
Nicely said
@MelW66911 күн бұрын
This is for all the anxious attachers who fall for narcissistic avoidants who pull the rug out from under them. We grieve the illusion this person presents, and the idea of what we could have had. The solution is to build up your love and respect for yourself. Fill your needs elsewhere so you’re not relying on one person to that. Get educated. Value yourself enough to let someone walk away. They did you a huge favor. Grieve it, yes, but we have to focus on ourselves and our own needs and stop self-abandoning for these turds.
@blancarosasmusicaАй бұрын
So true the fireworks end.
@traceyconners5188Ай бұрын
Heartbreaking and cruel 💔 😢
@Maria-kh2bdАй бұрын
I’m obsessed with a crush I have I want to stop !!!!!!
@DarylSimpson58Ай бұрын
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
@peterwilliams6361Ай бұрын
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
@DarylSimpson58Ай бұрын
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
@peterwilliams6361Ай бұрын
Her name is chamani White, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
@DarylSimpson58Ай бұрын
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
@casperinsight3524Ай бұрын
Pretty grey
@lisabet_Ай бұрын
He kinda looks like Josh Strife Hayes iykyk
@linahome141715 күн бұрын
👏👏👏
@debrabrown9120Ай бұрын
Grow up!
@EsraaElrashidАй бұрын
Isn't he sooo charming and handsome 😅Mashallah!
@tamaram915Ай бұрын
I cant believe Lisa didn't say anything in this interview at all (Matthew just spoke the whole time)! All she kept saying was "hmmmm" 🙃
@LisaBilyeuАй бұрын
Haha it’s just a clip from a longer interview so don’t worry I’m still here 😍🤣
@Ladymumma444Ай бұрын
But she looks amazing 🤩 and he was just really into what he was saying so she was polite letting him talk talk talk lol ❤
@elenad.2959Ай бұрын
@@LisaBilyeu I actually loved how well you were listening! I've been seeing Matthew in many podcasts promoting his book lately, and I always admire the hosts who don't interrupt their guest. Too many hosts interrupt to make a comment about themselves and it not only throws off the guest and what they were trying to convey, it throws off their listener as well. I always think the best hosts are the ones who listen without interrupting. Well done Lisa! 👍
@gracevicki3983Ай бұрын
This is likely a skill set that we need to practice...
@Ladymumma444Ай бұрын
@@elenad.2959 I want to learn to listen the way @LisaBilyeu does so perfectly