They didn't happen BECAUSE he thought about them first. Like my car didn't go over a cliff because I figured out how to navigate a blizzard spinout beforehand.

Ain’t that the absolute fuckin truth

I 100% get this! So true! I'd hate to calculate the hours I have spent giving audience to potential issues/problems that never even came to fruition.

why do I always find myself in a position where the only answer society gives me is "it's because you're more intelligent that most people, you're above the others.. I don't give a sh.. of being "above" I just want people think just a bit further.. just to forget themselves a bit and taking the risk of going against yourself by being true, real just want to find a way for humans to live together because what our society is doing seems full of good intentions, so why not going further and give everything to make a peacefull world were everyone is okay to question himself and listen what others has to say.. because I'll tell you one thing, what we call i telligent people is just people that are sensitive and want to be happy and give love. I am passionnate by.. all.. not everything but.. all, universe.. life and way further it's extremely difficult for me to write these messages because even in my head it isn't clear and I don't always necessarily know were I am going to.. and english isn't my native language. but everyday, with my wife, I feel, reconize myself, in these intelligent people things she lives cool and doesn't care about all the things that I do, if I am the sun, treating tons of info, emotions, thoughts, energy, I woulnd' tell you she pluto because she thinks, sometime a bit, for some things I would even compare here to saturn or jupiter but yeah in general we are speaking of a greyish white planet a bit boring in term of way to think, function, brain program.. 😂 like Uranus and sometimes falls to pluto state and may even fall into a moon.. but she has potential and I see that sometimes she goes further and I feel I helped her and she listened that may be the reason why I think we can make people think a bit further.. if we were able to make them more stupid decades after decades why couln't we make them more "intelligent" ? because most of the time it's simple things that are quite easy to process.. and that my wife and any other people who are clearly not like us, can understand and even take it for themselves.. like them appropriating it, and then even strating to learn how to think further.

@@debraskiles803 better to be prepared than not

Mine was; Teachers: u're smart. Parents: u're awful. Friends: u're ok. Everyone else: u don't exist.

Please explain :) I'm a Latvian, so... This English is not what I was taught...

Me: If you havn't mastered written English by now...... You're not that smart.

My hometown newspaper: Portlock boy, once thought an idiot...makes good.

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Oddly enough, I've become adept at simplifying and "dumbing down" topics so that less intelligent people can understand them. I was always good at the language arts, which I'm told is common in Asbergers patients.

Like the fact that you used the word "your" when it should be "you're"? That's pretty basic.

@@tomhull1276 That could just be an autocorrect fail.

@@jeffrykopis5468 Proof read! Proof read! Proof read! I've always wondered where I would fall out on "the spectrum". I would definitely be "on it" somewhere. I, too, have always been good at the language arts, to the point of becoming quite an annoying, unapologetic and unrepentant "grammar nerd". I even drive myself nuts with it.

@@tomhull1276 LOL, I correct grammar gaffes on social all the time! Just to be helpful. But you can't help the idiots that talk like, "He do this, she do that, I be do somethin' else". 🤦🙄😠😑

1, 2, 4, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10

Got em all 😕

Being a perfectionist, I always over analyze things; but knowing I can't truly be perfect or do things perfectly, keeps me stressed 😥. Prolonged & continuous stress causes me physical illness, in turn, triggering my DEPRESSION. 😕 It's a constant struggle.

This vid made me cry... I have all of the above😢😢😢

So true

You are so right…..

smart is not intelligent .. know the difference. However being intelligent, really is painful. It's more like a curse than gift, I wish I was as dumb as those who wash their car with petrol or those who try to patch their car tyre with duct tape ... at least i'd be happy and wouldn't even realize how dumb i am, but instead i have to live a painful life and see stupidity everywhere.

@@SethiozProject ignorance definetely is bliss it would seem

@@SethiozProject I can understand but I'm ok with the curse that gives intelligence. 👀

That s what the Ecclesiastes already said thousands of years ago!

Astute observation.

Still kicking Big Ed?

I hear that the 70s are the happiest times of our lives. At 68, I'm looking forward to it. But I think there isn't a single thing here that I haven't had to deal with at one point or another. I think we take them on, one at a time, figure them out, and then move on. Life gets happier after each success. Or you just die from being killed by one of them. Surviving is a big thing.

At 66 I think people are a pain anymore as I have done so much and made so little over time as the normal type just take advantage of my kind of work. Why? The rich just take all they can and get all the breaks as the just so aggressive with little or no intelligence. I see the world as strange,Illogical, IT DOES NOT COMPUTE (Robot B9). Turn off the switch when the last one is too LEAVE.

@@SmoltingWassieStop

@@RobertMertensPhDMy life changed when I took the MENSA test and came in the top 1%. Prior to that I couldn’t understand why other people couldn’t analyse problems like I could and I didn’t trust my judgement because I was usually at variance with virtually everyone else. Once I realised why I could do what most others couldn’t I began to believe in myself much more and trust my own judgement. I also understood other people’s limitations and ceased trying to explain difficult concepts that they clearly don’t have the capacity to understand.

Do you have an extremely hard time making friends? As aspergers and above average intelligence I have an extremely hard time making friends

@@skyking6989 Yeah, I only have 2 friends and never had more than 2 a time. I don't connect easily with other people.

@@ssjcybersonic9255 I know how you feel it's hell.

@@skyking6989 Well not having loads of friends is easier, in my opinion. Don't have so much stuff to keep track of.

Same. This so called gifted moniker has been helpful at times but mostly just aggravating. Even detrimental to relationships.

Me too!!!

Sis

😂😂 meditation will help I recommend watching “Osho international” on KZfaq you will be surprised how much he’s related to you (genius) A True legend

yep, being average is better. You aren't consumed with the worlds issues

Cut out half my brain so I'll get along with my Polock friends ( I'm Polish )

Exactly "ignorance is bliss...'' (the above comment). DEPRESSING so true.

so defensive

@@Frip36 lol

@@Frip36 what's your problem, dude?

@@altamasparsanov9181 in pretty sure it's a joke~

Fear of rejections is much higher in inteligent then non intelligent ones .

@@arzoo_singh I think low emotional intelligence make people feel afraid

@@flowerpower4944 Maybe low Emotional intelligence is inversely proportional to Higher intelligence Or may be there is no relation . But ,I always think that higher intelligence should affect our Emotional intelligence but why ? At a very higher level you start analysing everything fear,truth and you try to give more control to pre frontal cortex then amygdala and send heart good signal ... But Even if I know all this when Impulsion comes ,I just have no control .... Even though I know how brain is creating processing info and what should do I do . But those emotions simply overpower me strong simulation system .

@@arzoo_singh I do think people let pride get in the way, because they fear exposing any flaws or failures, and thus never grow and experience , the joy and end results they can achieve instead of going with the crowd, I'm an INFj and thinking outside the box comes naturally ,😊

@@flowerpower4944 it can qlso do the reverse. It makes them bully the one who is different but then the others join in. I always noticed people in huge crowds walking around looking intimidating. That is low intelligence being afraid.

Ohhh I think I’m the same

True👌

A Chinese philosopher said if you are 6he most intelligent person in the room you are in the wrong room.

I just wish I, m just ordinary it's really hard to be like this at all

How do we measure ones intelligence based on very different tasks or spheres of work that each require intelligence, different from one another? Just asking.

Oh dear . Perhaps see a therapist to deal with this issue, they might be able to adjust your perspective on your "above average intelligence ".😊

Many thanks for this comment. Very true, informative and helpfull.

.you are so right about the exercise and brain activity connection...I find exercise helps to quiet those overabundance of stressful thought patterns and brings what may seem like giant sized issues before exercise down to manageable levels...many solutions present themselves while exercising the body...give yourself an hour a day of physical activity and watch your creativity explode!

I don’t know that I’m intelligent, but I’m relentlessly curious, and never take anything at face value. Why, how, what is the origin, what is the mechanism, how can it be used, etc. If I could figure out how to quiet my mind, I’d be so happy.

@@bethmoore7722 but would you really prefer it?

@@ursulagwozdz1955 You do have a point.

Omgosh I am cracking up over this one...so true...ouch, my stomach hurts from laughing.

Cops pull me over and hate me 🤣 I’m hyper focused as a driver as to what is in front of me, not behind so I’ve been hit from behind twice and got speeding tickets cause of cops behind me 🤣

"There's someone in my head, But it's not me." - Pink Floyd. 🤣

@@peterf.229 🤣🤣🤣

Very useful warding off panhandlers

This is sad to hear about. I feel sorry for your father, why dont you go and sit down an have a little talk with him, maybe he will like it ( i assume you dont talk with him that much, if thats not the case, still go talk to him). Have a nice day :D

You can't force someone to read about something they're not interested in. I imagine your father's brother-in-law felt frustrated, too, not to mention feeling patronised.

I disagree. YOU are the problem. Get off your high horse and use that intelligence to become a better person. We meet many people less intelligent than ourselves but that doesn't mean we have to look down upon them. They have talents that are worthwhile to learn. I wouldn't have the skills I have today if I'd looked down on all the tradesmen and even those who live simply and enjoy life as it comes. I just can't believe all the people in this section acting as though their lives are a waste and just waiting to die because they won't work to fit in. Very sad.

@@robertcuminale1212 maybe some ppl dont want to "work to fit in" whats so good about fitting in?

@@robertcuminale1212 Take a look at the video one more time.I don't think you can relate to the matter. Also very sad.

With a sense of humor

I’m 43, unemployed and depressed . I suck at relationships, have adhd and can’t keep a job. I still see it as a curse.

what makes you think you are smart? Have you proved any theorem or made any extraordinary discovery in any scientific field? Do you have the ability to play chess or Go in a superb way? Do you speak 5 DIFFICULT languages?

@@jacoboribilik3253 Have you?

I have ADHD but my kinda messy house suggests I don’t have OCD

Intelligent enough I’m sure.

@@peterf.229 a messy house it’s paradoxically a ocd symptom . A person can have ocd and be very messy . I have ocd and I can be messy and that’s the reason why I always thought I could not have it . Fear to start putting things in order and never have it perfect . I start fixing things and then more things come to be fixed and more and more and it never looks perfect . You always feel it’s not good enough so you start avoiding it all together. The key to it it’s to settle for ok and not perfect . That’s how it can help to deal better with it

Sorry that you had to endure all that. But now you know it's not your fault! And I like the sense of humor about govt work.

@@pcofranc Thanx man! Yeah, I got a job with the post office. Worked there until my physical and mental problems got to be too much. But I'm retired and in a good place now.

I found alcohol! Lol

Jeffry How do you cope with civil/ public servants? In the UK they're some of the least competent people. Look at the Countries Leaders!

@@angelm6497 I avoid them as much as possible.

I could write a book about the dangerous and sad lack of basic common sense and pitifully low shreds of intelligence I've been unfortunate to witness first hand from so many people in so many different ways: for example, I met a whole family of 5 who stood there smiling and telling me the story of a dangerous kitten they had to bring to the vet and have it put down because it attacked the dad and scratched him all over on his face. Then they casually mentioned they had it in an enclosed cardboard box and when they finally opened the box, the tiny beast savagely attacked him. They had no clue whatsoever that the poor kitten had a claustrophobic panic attack being trapped inside a dark, stuffy, hot box for who knows how long, which also sounds like there were no air vents in the box anywhere. People who can't connect the dots just make my head explode,......and they're everywhere

@@superspark2374 I agree 💯 .People really trigger me when they make wrong choices and blame God.And when they think God plans ur life Yes he has a plan for ur life there's a good road and a bad road.But how many take the good road .Most cause there own problems.

@@superspark2374 oh my god. It's so annoying. Once you reach a certain level of knowledge/intelligence, people start to really piss you off. I find myself arguing with older people a lot because older people in particular think they know everything. Turns out they know nothing.

@@traydaddy4257 thats the problem i deal with at my job, they dont want to listen to me because of my young age, but when did have anything to do with inteligence.

The BEST I’ve heard!!! With ME, I’m NOT very smart, BUT have the ability to understand things smart people don’t ~~~~ never considered that intelligent… I’ve learned not to worry or be overly concerned about these matters! I find amusing SMART people and those of intelligence, BECAUSE they worry about what others think, I’m now 70… took awhile for me to come to grips with the way I am SO now, I enjoy ME AND watching others🤷🏽‍♀️ An amusing species, humankind!!!

Well, I have depression which includes being continuously bored and Im tired of it… so sometimes just tell people you don’t like the small talk and voice your opinions so they can change and all… I did a similar thing in the past and it led to depression as I just covered up my wounds leading to me being unconsciously being hurt… so overall, don’t leave them confused when they see you walk away, they might think it’s a 1-sided relationship/friendship and cut off ties with you.

I have always experienced this. I understand it clearly now but have not always done so. I think there is another side of this "alienation" coin though. When in social situations, and whether I decide to dumb down (I usually do) or not I usually find people drifting away from me. However I know I am not essentially socially inept or unlikeable. I know this because when not in situations that are "officially" social, such as at work, or maybe in mundane situations like getting my hair cut, people are the opposite. I am well liked and I attract people. All of this perplexes me. I don't think it is me though (as such). I think what happens is that people become much more judgemental, as well as more instinctive, when socialising. Most can actually work out your inner discomfort and don't want to be adding to it, or be participating in it. I have no solutions. I just try to restrict my life to small groups or one on one encounters, where I am much more at ease and successful. The trouble is that this often leads to invitations to social gatherings where you end up going through the whole thing again...

You are probably arrogant.

Amen to that. I'm bored to death with small talk and banal conversations. The only people I'm happy around are car enthusiasts, baseball fans, and cat people.

@@alexdavis1541 I feel like I'm among friends here, which happens to me far more in social media than it does in real life. On social, you seek out what interests you, and find like minded souls; in real life, not so much.

story of my life bro, to a T!

Aw ur so sweet God bless u and ur family 😊

You obviously have the key...love.

Not highly intelligent but highly love is the way dear David

They may be on the autism spectrum

My mother absolutely freaked out when she found out that I qualified for MENSA when I was 7 years old. She thought I was having some sort of nervous breakdown, but the fact was, I was just bored. ...but then she had a lot of psychological issues anyway, so having a kid that could out-think her at every turn was not exactly therapeutic. lol

🤝

Thanks for watching!

Yes it's a curse just keep doing it anyway as to the way things are going out in the world your going to be on top. So it fun to do this work and you don't have all the cost of the training. Just don't over do the work go on to the next project.

It’s not gone, you just learned to deal with it. I am 61 also. I have many “crutches” to give myself some space. Many of these developed organically over time, others were realizations that happened quickly. I don’t believe I’m particularly intelligent but I have been around some who are and some who were not. 1-I still overanalyze those I believe are smart and do my best to be nice with those who aren’t. 2-Most of my life I’ve had trouble decision making, often feeling I didn’t have enough information but now I make decisions much more quickly. If for example, if I’m driving somewhere and I’m considering which route to take I will decide at the first traffic signal, choosing the green if I’m in a rush and the red if I’m not in a hurry. The hard part is accepting the decision and not spending anymore time thinking about it after it is made. I use “if this/ then I’ll do that” uncountable times to get through my day. 3- I rely on my wife for some things. She is on my smart list, not for technical stuff so-much but “people stuff”. I often ask her what someone meant or what she thinks the reason for someone’s actions are. I have learned to accept her thoughts on such things, she has proven herself to me as exceptionally insightful and has a nice, caring bias if things are unclear at all. I have also learned a great deal from her examples. 4- along similar lines, work used to be maddening, almost unbearable even. I’m in a technical field (aviation) and natural progression moves you to a position of leadership after a few decades of doing the job. I preferred to work out of a tool box over managing tasks, people and priorities. But making a conscious effort to delegate tasks, accept decisions of those on my crew (whenever possible) and most importantly back them up when things go wrong has been eye opening therapy for me. 5- counting things. This was a hobby, a passion for me for many years. Walk into a room I’ve never been in, count the ceiling tiles on the short wall, fold that over to the long side add the remainder and multiply for a total, then chairs, tables, people, windows go back to the ceiling for a double check, actually count the long wall to verify my answer was correct. One day a child at the dentists office asked me what I was looking at and it dawned on me I was craning my neck around to get my count done. I was embarrassed in front of the child! I’ve worked pretty hard to give up this “habit” or obsession or whatever it is and I’ve done pretty well. Not doing it automatically was the hard part, I had to consciously STOP. There are more things but I realize this post is getting long so I will stop here. I suspect that like me, you have just learned to deal with things and accepted that you don’t have to do or be responsible for everything. And learned to appreciate the value and meaning of a true smile.

Spend some time each day acting like an idiot.

I'm 56 and beginning to find peace with myself too. I am what I am, I've changed as much about myself as I want to or can, and I'm ok with the rest. I'll continue to learn and grow, but I just avoid social interaction and situations that make me uncomfortable. As Clint said in "Magnum Force", "A man's got to know his limitations".

@@rustyaxelrod Ha ha, I count things too! But I do it for fun. When I took a road trip with my kids a few years ago, we counted cows, lol! When they were little, we used to drive around neighborhoods and count cats! (We had between 5 and ten in those years) Nowdays, I pick up scrap metal for fun and (small) profit, and my favorite thing is to go out to the gun range or the desert and pick up bullet shells! The brass ones are worth $2.15/lb! And I count each one I pick up. Two years ago, over a month long stay in the desert, I picked over 32,000. Yeah, I wrote down my totals at each stop and each day! This year, in one month, I got over 34,000! (Old military ranges in the desert, and guys still go out there to shoot). 520 lbs of em!

@@rustyaxelrod My daughter is allways counting what I have eaten in the Fridge while doing baby sitter! They are well situated she is architect and her husband is specialist surgeon orthopedist ! I think it is genetical disorder ! My mother in law was doing the same thing ! I never was a member of a house ! Ha ha ha What I have now to pay attention to my grandson because hi is 10 and started counting and telling me what not to eat !

LMAOOOOOO

LOLLL😂

Amen 🙏

I totally concur! I can't believe the simplistic approach they have. Do they live in the same world I inhabit?! How can you minimize the deplorable condition of society today?! I admire them, I envy them. Why can't I be like that? Indeed, I am the idiot, they will far outlive me.

Well said, I feel pretty much the same.

So you're "on another plane" than the average person. Big deal. Sounds like you mostly hang out with average people. Go hang out where smart people are and you'll be brought back to reality real quick.

I didn't mean to offend. I am a loner. I can't interact well with others. I should not have said what I said.

True 👏👏

Thanks for taking the time to write your comment. I always feel a satisfaction when someone puts in words something that's already with me.

Perfectionist doesn't necessarily mean that you look "perfect", it simply means that you have to do things in most effective way. For example, I find it very annoying when people pack things in a bag in wrong way, like they just chaotically throw stuff in it. Or something as simple as how people connect cables to their computer, leaving wires hanging on their own weight ... it hurts my eyes. I always tape my cables so they dont hang from their own weight and this is why in my entire life, i have never had a broken cable .. while lot of people i talk to, they constantly break their headset cables, USB ports ..etc ..etc .. and all that is because they don't have intelligence to understand how basic physics work. So basically what i'm saying, is that perfection can look chaotic to low IQ people and they never understand the real meaning of perfection. Intelligent people also pay less attention to looks and more attention to the effectiveness of things.

Absolutely excellent point. I’m sure their is plenty already out there on this. Any comments?

@@edsled9631 See my post at the top of the page?

May I inquire as to how old you are as of now, good sir if I'm not being too inquisitive?

@@Goethe-von-Voltaire Less than a hundred, more than fifty...

Actually the world is run by super intelligent people. They rise to the top like cream. Problem is they can often lack common sense. The two do not necessarily go hand in hand. And the power they attain can easily lend itself to egotism, corruption and greed. But of for sure the world is run by the brilliant. The lower intelligent do the routine bull work.

Thank you sir. I'm merely curious. But I can take a wild guess based on that at least. I admire intellectuals, you see.

I was brought up in an emotionally abusive environment with me being the scapegoat in the family. I was never a good student in class and failed my entire high school. Regardless, I have all of the above mentioned traits in the video. So what does it mean? Am I stupid?

@@AllahsServant12 Smart children often do stupid things. Then they feel regret when they grow up. I believe you are smart enough now to make better decisions.

@BVale when it stops you from your peace of mind, only if one is not able connect this, that to that then there is no brooding.

Dr elaine aron does great work on hsps. she has many videos on here if anyone in interested. Have a great day!

But you are a happy human being,glad living.The main problem is the system .

@@justinamusyoka4986 Yes, dear.

Esprit d'escalier

😮😮😮 I’ve relived conversations from 1992 in middle school 🤣

My IQ on the long form was tested at over 140 , I won’t say the exact number cause it doesn’t matter, it means Jack shit. I’m good with language but also suck at language 🤣

How eloquently you described ME! You´re not alone my friend.

Yes I also feel happier alone, I find most people boring or irritating.

That was me too. I learnt fast that school was about teaching conformity, not knowledge. I got sent to the LIBRARY as punishment! It was a boarding (prision for kid's of crappy parents) school, I was told by the staff no one used the book budget. I could order about ten books a month, free! ISBN list got big. So did my brain. Still reading, still a non-conformist.

@@mr.hitchens Attaboy. What's ISBN?

@@jeffrykopis5468 ISBN: International Standard Book Number. Look on the back of any book and it's identification number is it's ISBN. Hope this helps.

Evidence shows that ADHD is a neuro developmental disorder, which most people who have it are born with. People with ADHD can absolutely be highly intelligent, but they do not, on average, have higher IQs than neurotypical people.

ADHD occur across the full spectrum of intellectual abilities, so no,not related to intelligence In fact, it's very common in people with certain types of learning disabilities

lol really smart ppl realize that correlation .neq. causation

How do you know you have that IQ score?

I thought ADHD just meant you were male?

I see myself in all of the 10 traits

@@felicitynxumalo6636 How do you cope ?