10 Reasons You Should NOT Try To Impress Women

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Men should not go out of their way to impress women. In this video, Jeff from The Style O.G. talks about how being impressive is much more effective for men than trying to impress women.
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@ebsalonga 3 жыл бұрын

"If you put them on a pedestal, they have no choice but to look down on you" - Damn, this makes a lot of sense

@alpaphoenix3252 3 жыл бұрын

Don't tell Steve Harvey that 😂

@1mari_ 3 жыл бұрын

On me

@CCobraProductions 3 жыл бұрын

Wisdom at its best.

@josephtownsend3045 3 жыл бұрын

Stay on your purpose, being impressive and being the best version of you will have women trying to impress you! Great game OG..

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Already!

@mariomaslik 3 жыл бұрын

you still have to approach women anyway, otherwise they dont know your purpose

@Dru2maBoii 3 жыл бұрын

"Don't try to impress, but be impressive ".... That's deep. Well said, sir. Respect 👏

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Respect!

@RonRealTV 3 жыл бұрын

Making Men MEN again. Salute 🤙🏾

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Salute!

@drip369 3 жыл бұрын

Haha Tatum quotes

@drekewright1817 3 жыл бұрын

Salute

@Larry-qz3es 3 жыл бұрын

The best impression a man can receive is accomplishing his goals and the awards that go with them.

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Indeed!

@tallking7777 3 жыл бұрын

Fellas keep your mind Sharp, Hit that gym and get your body right, stay on your purpose, and level yourself up the women will come without you even trying.

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

that all helps!

@HorrorWorldx 3 жыл бұрын

Amen

@mroblige1018 3 жыл бұрын

Definitely hate working out but yes everything else

@tallking7777 3 жыл бұрын

@@mroblige1018 it just takes discipline brother you have to hit that gym.

@eliseenvisionz7588 3 жыл бұрын

Stop the cap these heaux will cheat on the rich in shape niggas. Truly a false promise tbh

@millionairemillennial86 3 жыл бұрын

Bro you dropped the coldest line of 2021. Life changer. You shouldn’t try to impress women, but work on being impressive. Sheesh man.

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Appreciate it Julian !

@ernestcarter7073 3 жыл бұрын

I like that saying " being impressive and not trying to impress women/ others". Being the best version of yourself.👊💪

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Salute Ernest!

@AJisfly 3 жыл бұрын

Be impressive, pursue women. Be comfortable being a man. Thanks O.G. for keeping us on the right path. Salute!!!!!

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Salute!

@patriceesela5000 3 жыл бұрын

"Don't impress, be impressive" another gem...I'll share this video with all of my younger male family members...Thank you and greetings from the UK PS: Love the blazer

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks Patrick!

@xunshen9656 3 жыл бұрын

1. Put you into inferior position which do harm to you 2. Take you off your purpose 3. Is counter attractive 4. Make yourself nervous and less confident

@theblackknight9783 3 жыл бұрын

8:30 OG went from teaching his nephews to educating his neices'

@TheTsugnawmi2010 3 жыл бұрын

If you're trying to impress a romantic interest it might be because you don't like yourself, so you're using the approval of others to compensate. Self-improvement is important but self-love is even more so. Self-improvement + self-love = impressive.

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

appreciate the input!

@jerryhall5759 3 жыл бұрын

One thing I learned; while you're trying to impress a woman:sometimes she's trying to impress you as well.. back up..pay attention and you will see it

@marcopolor6824 3 жыл бұрын

This guys WISDOM IS PRICELESS, 🔥🔥🔥💪, Straight Golden, He is dropping Jewels.

@itsme-notyou 3 жыл бұрын

"women are pretty smart"... Yes in science, literature, politics, so on. But in this specific context of male/female courtship, they be crazy.

@glenngray6859 3 жыл бұрын

What's up my bro Og, Great advice my G. Fellas the best way to impress a woman is to show her you have a goal and a purpose for your life. That is how I got my wife of 35 yrs. Great job again my bro . Salute my friend.

@fmfdocbotl4358 3 жыл бұрын

I knew my now father in law since I was in high school, my wife lived with her mom. When we met for the first time, I had been in the military for a few years. So I impressed her family because I had goals and worked hard, her dad is a Vietnam Vet so I was good with him. Been married 23yrs, I'm disabled retired and my wife is about to go to law school using my college money and by the time she is done our house will be paid off. Goals my man

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Love it Glenn !

@glenngray6859 3 жыл бұрын

The Style O.G. Thanks my bro .

@glenngray6859 3 жыл бұрын

cigar FMFDoc great job my bro.

@3rdhalff 3 жыл бұрын

“When you put someone on a pedestal, they have no choice but to look down on you.” Quote of the week right there OG. You hit this one over the fence.

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Salute!

@mitigatedgalltv5747 3 жыл бұрын

You can lose a lot of money chasing women but you can never lose women chasing money 👍🏾💪🏾💵💵💵💵💰💰💰💰

@Kiddpros 6 күн бұрын

Facts

@MrBrentblair1130 3 жыл бұрын

Great video and right on time. I needed to hear this.

@mcp209041 3 жыл бұрын

“Be the best version of you” - Authentic, Powerful 👍🏾

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks !

@beard_belichick4216 3 жыл бұрын

Man this video was straight gems, and hit hard for me.

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Appreciate the feedback!

@jeffshort7458 3 жыл бұрын

I appreciate the shout out O.G.....Salute!!!!

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

No worries !

@74thstreet 3 жыл бұрын

This is the best narrative ever, information is power and it never goes out of style.

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Appreciate it!

@POTUSonDeck 3 жыл бұрын

Appreciate you, OG! Thanks for helping brothers realize their value and understand that there is ALWAYS a difference between impressing and being impressive! #Salute

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks Anthony!

@alexc5156 3 жыл бұрын

RMRS and especially Alpha M can learn from this. This is more sharing wisdom instead nonsense you get from mens health. Handle your business, stay on your purpose and these other things will fall into place.

@mroblige1018 3 жыл бұрын

We're all tired of red pill, blue pill, alpha, beta, whatever categories are being made by typically short dudes who have grudges against women

@alexc5156 3 жыл бұрын

@@mroblige1018 Amen

@winniegriff7786 3 жыл бұрын

@@mroblige1018 short us cool

@winniegriff7786 3 жыл бұрын

@@mroblige1018 short men are the most impressive

@mroblige1018 3 жыл бұрын

@@winniegriff7786 they the main ones who came up with mgtow, PUAs, red pill, blue pill, alpha, beta, whatever

@howardhodge3622 3 жыл бұрын

Amazing words of wisdom. Thanks OG!

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Very welcome!

@HorrorWorldx 3 жыл бұрын

Well said OG, much appreciated. Salute.

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Salute!

@zazenh 3 жыл бұрын

Excellent advice Jeff . It's all about us having and maintaining our purpose. Naturally, this leads to what you said, being impressive. The rest takes care of itself.

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks Andy!

@newmoneymarcus 3 жыл бұрын

“Success is something you attract not something you pursue.” ~ Jim Rohn

@darrickbrisco5016 3 жыл бұрын

What trips me out is when guys say impress a woman I’ve realized u can’t impress someone u don’t even know anyway how can u impress someone who hasn’t met you yet doesn’t even know you

@Chris-hz3bt 3 жыл бұрын

Good video Jeff!! Great points

@brownpunk1794 3 жыл бұрын

good topic friend..i always like counter arguments (such as this vid)..good to look at both sides of the coin..waiting for my shout out..your alien friend!

@ForTheLoveOfSuits 3 жыл бұрын

Very wise words. When I stopped trying to impress women (it didn’t work anyway) and got busy with my career (because I found a job I really liked and worked hard at it for myself, not to impress others) - that is when women actually started to approach me. Even if I wasn’t working or looking around, I got approached by women in bank queues, metro platforms, surprising places that I certainly would never have approached women at. Woman are just impressed with a busy ambitious man.

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

appreciate the input Michael!

@donavin51 3 жыл бұрын

Great message! Thanks!

@charliebryant4936 3 жыл бұрын

So true,gotta focus on your self,feel comfortable about you n keep pushing..

@legomaster2317 3 жыл бұрын

OG your advice is on point and right on time. Needed this today. Salute!

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Salute!

@Victorfeshley 3 жыл бұрын

This is deep OG! Thanks for the video. Salute!

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Salute Victor!

@fb1473 3 жыл бұрын

Another one full of solid advice...keep up the good work my brother.

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks, will do!

@antonioavery9467 3 жыл бұрын

O.G. this one is a 🎤 drop!!!! Period..... Salute.... I'm waiting for my shout out !!! 🙂

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

I got you !

@lmckinney4303 3 жыл бұрын

Great Video Jeff Much Respect Bro👊

@isaiahwilson2987 3 жыл бұрын

Excellent advice. Thanks bro. Keep them coming. 👍🏾

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks, will do!

@starnellmartin6854 3 жыл бұрын

Good content!!! Appreciate it

@ravishingrookrude 3 жыл бұрын

We should be pursuing each other. She gotta be tryna holla- in her own discrete way of course lol

@Ferien7 3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely, women select, men display

@DeeQJohnson 2 жыл бұрын

You hit the nail on the head! Be impressive! Be authentically you. I had a guy try to impress me so hard that he rented an Airbnb for our date night (6th date and had been talking for at least 4 months) and tried to pass it off as his apartment. We were actually talking about being exclusive.The moment I walked in I knew it was an Airbnb bc I had actually booked it 3 years previously when I was visiting 😂. Gave him the benefit of the doubt and thought maybe he had bought/leased the unit. Found out that the same ppl I booked it with still owned it. I even gave him a chance to tell the truth and he insisted it was his. Once I told him what I knew AS FACT, he hung up on me and I hadn’t heard from him since. No idea how he was gonna keep up with that lie.

@TheStyleOG 2 жыл бұрын

Damn!

@DeeQJohnson 2 жыл бұрын

@@TheStyleOG definitely a wild story!

@cliftonsledge962 3 жыл бұрын

Great video O.G. dropping serious knowledge and Salute

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Salute Clifton !

@Seer_Rfisher74 3 жыл бұрын

Style O.G., you’re teaching what many spiritual leaders are afraid to speak on from the pulpit to men. You’re very wise and forthright in your message and delivery. Keep these awesome lessons coming.

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Will do Roger!

@lowkeyc7480 3 жыл бұрын

Great video! Love your content.

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much!

@r.casagrande8689 3 жыл бұрын

Wish you long live. I've learned lot from you, Jeff. Today I've bought 10pcs of summer clothes based on your tips, my wife was blown mnded by my style.

@robday3296 3 жыл бұрын

Love the way you said it- stop trying to impress but instead be impressive. Love that 🙏

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Appreciate the feedback!

@endo9913 3 жыл бұрын

"Being the best you, being a consistent you". Wise words my friend. I wish I had you to listen to in my 20s!

@mngkyouGoD Жыл бұрын

Such incredible wisdom sir 🔥🔥🔥🔥

@click2466 3 жыл бұрын

Always on point big bro...salute!

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Salute!

@nerdbamarich2063 3 жыл бұрын

This is the one OG. Nothing but gems🙏🏾

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks Rich!

@A.C.StreetRacer 3 жыл бұрын

Og is always there for us to be the best version of ourselves, salute❤️

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

I try!

@leroy592 3 жыл бұрын

Great video Jeff, good advice. Just be yourself ( the best version of yourself)

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks Will!

@arrjt 3 жыл бұрын

This is the BEST advice EVER!!! Stay ON Purpose!!! I wished I knew this as a young man. This message should be shared to EVERY young man. Excellent Mentoring my Style OG!!!!

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks Anthony!

@marcopolor6824 3 жыл бұрын

Put more time and Energy Being the Best Version of Your Self.

@mwloos1 3 жыл бұрын

Great message as always!

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@kagezen 3 жыл бұрын

Don't try to impress.. be impressive.. i needed to hear that today OG! Thank you!

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

You are so welcome!

@dholmesjr 3 жыл бұрын

Awesome video... I agree with everything 💯... You have to be yourself and strive to be better... Stay focused on your purpose . As you stated women are very smart... Be genuine in your pursuit.. It doesn't take long for any women to see your qualities... Thanks again Jeff. Salute..

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Well said!

@jackdollars8924 3 жыл бұрын

I'm kinda related to it.😃😃 Great advice from the O.G👍🏿

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it!

@raymondwalker4 3 жыл бұрын

Once again it’s on! Let’s get it O.G.!!!!!

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Salute Raymond!

@raymondwalker4 3 жыл бұрын

Salute big bro!

@dotsoneugene 3 жыл бұрын

You absolutely 💯 correct, life is lived in the gray zone.

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

For real !

@zurplerain 3 жыл бұрын

You nailed it big homie

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks Gee!

@toddbaker64 3 жыл бұрын

I've watched a lot of your videos and enjoyed them, but I just subscribed because of this video. Excellent advice and well delivered. That's why you have 410k subs.

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Awesome, thank you!

@fitzp2834 3 жыл бұрын

Well said Sir. Salute!

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Salute Fitz!

@fitforfreelance 3 жыл бұрын

Exactly! Be your best version of yourself

@anthonyleacock7996 3 жыл бұрын

What’s up OG thank you can from informative video and working on myself for the past six months and focusing on taking care of myself and I’ve never felt better you feel 10 times worse but when you put all your energy into yourself

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Keep it up!

@pauljaikaran9790 3 жыл бұрын

Life lessons from the Enlightened one......Salute brother Jeff....🙏🏾👌🏿👍🏿

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Salute Paul!

@kevinking8028 3 жыл бұрын

Great video OG

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks Kevin !

@labanmulenga Жыл бұрын

I wish I could have known this before. Thank you O.G

@TheStyleOG Жыл бұрын

No problem!

@blueslea1077 3 жыл бұрын

Great content, thank you King

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Very welcome!

@robb821 3 жыл бұрын

Real talk OG Salute!

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Salute!

@shamarfreeman-bey8575 3 жыл бұрын

Well versed.

@dentrich8199 3 жыл бұрын

Good advice Jeff I have been married for 19 years and you have continue to work on yourself and give the lady some space

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks Dent!

@rm5282 3 жыл бұрын

The content in this video is very necessary. Great job as always.

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

I appreciate that!

@jamesmurray2876 3 жыл бұрын

Always giving us knowledge that is power my game got stronger and better thanks OG Salute 💯

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Salute James!

@jamesmurray2876 3 жыл бұрын

@@TheStyleOG Salute OG

@CCobraProductions 3 жыл бұрын

Appreciate the advice. You are definitely on your "A-Game."

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Glad to help!

@CCobraProductions 3 жыл бұрын

@@TheStyleOG Nuff respect... everytime.

@Shawntraci 3 жыл бұрын

This was one of the best lessons I have ever learned. Great topic! You waste a whole lot of energy trying to be other than yourself. This is one of the best reasons to always strive to be the best version of yourself each and every day. Then you won't have to try to go outside who you already are to impress anyone. Great video good Sir. You always come with meaningful topics and very insightful advice. Keep up the fabulous work!

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it!

@doncosner2611 3 жыл бұрын

Excellent advice!

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks Don !

@truckermil1717 3 жыл бұрын

Great message and looking sharp bro

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks!

@gregoryaustin6573 3 жыл бұрын

This is Really good Style OG!!! Salute!!!

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Salute Gregory !

@gregoryaustin6573 3 жыл бұрын

@@TheStyleOG Yes sirrr!!!

@Naanofurbusiness 3 жыл бұрын

Most real advice ever.

@NkrumahTure 3 жыл бұрын

Excellent points, brother.

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks!

@Deephouse_Gent66 2 жыл бұрын

Damn, this goes beyond dating advice: this is practically zen insight for life. One's focus should always be on improving himself. If you do that, others will be impressed with you. Nice video.

@TheStyleOG 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks!

@biggiethorpe6900 3 жыл бұрын

OG I been listening here and there on your channel my brother man. Love one day seeing if your down getting on our podcast?

@clrkkdd12 3 жыл бұрын

Another good one 👊🏽

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks!

@ravipeiris4388 3 жыл бұрын

To my younger men, these words are gospel. Come back to this video time and time again as it took me decades to learn these lessons, Ravi Peiris M.D.

@nanakwabena61 3 жыл бұрын

Good topic 👏👍

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks!

@thegroove2000 3 жыл бұрын

Impress YOURSELF.

@erickgates7498 3 жыл бұрын

Very impressive info. Another reason for not "impressing " a woman, at least I feel, is the air of mystery, and unpredictability. Rather the."spending a rack" on dinner approach, some coffee at Starbucks instead. Perhaps the next date, Palm Springs ariel tram, etc. This can also serve a purpose as to finding out if she's for whats in your pocket, or for you.

@TheStyleOG 3 жыл бұрын

appreciate the input Erick!