10 Signs of a Toxic Boss (Insecure Boss)

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10 Signs of a Toxic Boss. In this video, we cover ten signs you're working for a toxic boss. You'll learn tips and tricks to help you spot the toxic traits bosses can have so you can begin setting boundaries.
No one likes a toxic work environment, but did you know that this negative work space is usually created by an insecure boss or leader? Yes, it's true! One person’s negativity can really ruin the experience for everyone. Although a lot of these people can have the toxic traits of a narcissist, this is not always the case. In fact, simply being insecure in a leadership role can cause a toxic work environment. Today, we will be explaining the 10 most common signs of an insecure leader or boss. Be sure to wait until our number one spot on our list because it is the most surprising sign of an insecure boss that we have ever seen. Now, without further ado, let’s get right into it!
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@jackcarraway4707 Жыл бұрын

If you get negative vibes around them and their presence makes you feel uncomfortable, start looking for another job.

@TheRealShanyeWest 11 ай бұрын

this was me yesterday

@AmanKumar-qg2on 9 ай бұрын

I am fed up with my reporting manager he mocks me he always pin point my mistakes and say anything he wants anytime.

@dslsct1683 8 ай бұрын

I unfortunately put up with it for 10 years and I finally got a new job. I've never felt better. I actually think I might survive without having to take depression and anxiety meds.

@Rosey0928 8 ай бұрын

@@AmanKumar-qg2onI’m going through the same thing and I hate it

@seanm7539 5 ай бұрын

Yeah this was me the other day I’m gonna start looking for a new job this week and I’m gonna put in my two weeks after that

@kill3rclown690 11 ай бұрын

I work hard and I get told I don't do good enough

@yodaleiheehu3280 3 ай бұрын

I work hard and get good feedback from customers. My boss still criticizes me.

@Matt_Wilson01 Ай бұрын

Thats a trait of an abusive insecure boss, giving employers positive feedback is the job of a good boss, a boss not doing this but pointing out your failures is someone you need to get away from, anxiety and insomnia are the first signs of workplace PTSD, workplace ptsd can take decades to recover from and thats if you even get to that point, get out of there, your health is more important

@kill3rclown690 Ай бұрын

@Matt_Wilson01 I left that job 8 months ago. That boss sucks he is very unappreciative I did see him at the store yesterday and he just stared at me and that was it. It gave me anxiety when I saw him.

@StrangeSupreme2045 22 күн бұрын

@@yodaleiheehu3280 how do you deal with that one?

@uniqueh5203 Жыл бұрын

All these traits fit my boss. It's been 2 months now in my new work and i noticed abnormalities on her from the first week but i tried to ignore because i was too fresh but now, with each day, I'm discovering more and more of her nasty games and disrespect to me and my ideas all the time infront of my colleagues. Later i discovered that more than 10 employees quit because of ber behavior and taking advantage of her authority in the company so, i decided to ditch her and save my mental health. No work or salary deserves being put down and insulted

@musicandpoetry_8 Жыл бұрын

I don’t have a choice, I’m a slave to the fucking money I have to make

@uniqueh5203 Жыл бұрын

@@musicandpoetry_8 yeah, i know it sucks. I hope you end up with a better company and with a boss who will appreciate your hard work. Keep searching and never give up

@kamadotanjiro3689 8 ай бұрын

Out of the 5 new hired I am the only one who get treated indifferently I am finding another job. This 10 signs completely fit her description.

@booradley0x0 Жыл бұрын

My boss. She a controlling psycho, a total narc. The fakeness oozes out of her. She’s vile.

@billbellows7931 Жыл бұрын

I feel that 💯

@hylbcf6olbgt519 4 ай бұрын

Its the same for me and I had to quit my job. Now I cant get a new job because they want my boss as a reference

@NotWhatIamMadeFor 4 ай бұрын

Ha! Do we work at the same place? lol

@charlesthedeadlifter4376 Ай бұрын

Mine is the same way. She is a two faced snatch. She plays both sides of the fence. She hates my guts because I'm the only one who calls her out on her shitty behavior. She can't fire me because our GM knows I'm valuable. I know she's trying to run my out because she does petty shit to try and get under my skin but it doesn't work and that makes her even more angry. I'm a leader. I treat my coworkers with respect. I always tell them they are valuable and I always thank them for their help at the end of our shift. That's something she never does. My coworkers have more respect for than they do for her.

@ThaisSantos94 Ай бұрын

Same here 😢 it’s unbearable

@PapaZigg Жыл бұрын

It’s weird how n why these psychopaths are made bosses

@briannerk3373 Жыл бұрын

Because people who abuse power are petty, and non-petty people have better, more meaningful things to do than seek out management positions. Also, being a manager is a skill that takes confidence to do well, and many people who get into management positions over time externalize their insecurity into abusive behavior towards employees. And yeah, you do get the occasional psychopath... but most of the time abusive bosses are just pitiful people who have lost faith in themselves and have given up.

@silkytrain5772 3 ай бұрын

The path to becoming an executive is easy for evil people to walk.

@yodaleiheehu3280 3 ай бұрын

It's politics and connections. They most likely were under-skilled in the first place yet still hired!

@carmenrojas6053 2 ай бұрын

@@yodaleiheehu3280or promoted

@BillClinton228 24 күн бұрын

They are usually promoted to that position based on tenure and not their ability to manage. They become toxic because they have no idea what they are doing so the only way to cover up their mess is to turn into a control freak.

@noodlephile3032 8 ай бұрын

My boss leaves out key information and then blames me for getting things wrong

@NotWhatIamMadeFor 4 ай бұрын

Yup! My boss does not allow us to use the term "I don't know." Yet she goes behind our back and does things without telling us all the time! Then parents ask me about things and I have to pretend I know what I am talking about when I have absolutely no clue what information she sent them - It happens all the time!

@lilywhite 3 ай бұрын

The worst! How can you be upset about the outcome when you didn’t give clear expectations!?

@dontbelongherefromanotherp9807 2 ай бұрын

Oh, this happened to me, and it's used against me for doing it wrong. I noticed that she's done this on 2 occasions, but doesn't remember it. I never called her out on it because she's in charge

@malcilraeure1364 2 ай бұрын

It’s disgusting, I’m a member of management and the manager over me is so toxic find myself crying in my office all the time and it’s sad because we work in the mental health field

@unased2144 2 жыл бұрын

currently begin micro managed by my insecure supervisor the stress can rise to extremely insane levels

@ElMundoDeSam95 2 жыл бұрын

Gotta work on that poker face dont give them the satisfaction of seeing you mad

@BillClinton228 Жыл бұрын

My ex boss would micro manage me to the point where he would want to know what im doing every hour. Ive been doing this for 10 years, im a professional not some kid that just got out of college. I resigned after a month.

@uniqueh5203 Жыл бұрын

@@BillClinton228 I'm facing the same problem as an architect and interior designer with a honor academic certificate and 4 years experience. She belittles every idea i propose and ignores all my hard work and criticizes every little thing I do infront of others and lashes out at me and doesn't let me decide anything. So I'm leaving the job tomorrow because mentally sick people shouldn't be your leader

@bambambi5918 Жыл бұрын

My bossis a certified paycopath

@RajaMCool Жыл бұрын

There’s no way to win with a controlling supervisor

@amuddymoose Жыл бұрын

Number 7 was what sealed the deal for me. Perfection at all times, if not, yelling and smear campaign begins.

@Nanakanisurra 3 ай бұрын

What gets me is that a boss doing this is destroying their own business, but blaming the employees for any negative business image or reputation.

@chisomchinasa997 9 күн бұрын

That is what my boss is doing. Using his hand to destroy his business and reputation.

@NotWhatIamMadeFor 4 ай бұрын

My boss is so awful that I left my phone on the table in the lunch room while I went to the bathroom. I had clocked out and was on my break. My boss asked me "How come your phone was going off when you were in the bathroom?" I was floored! She knew I was on break. It's no business of hers! If I had money I would have told her "Oh, just some new places contacting me about a new job." But, I need to keep this one until I can get the hell out of there!

@mariankeller5852 2 жыл бұрын

I can relate ..My boss suffered a serious health issue and his son took over the business.. I had worked for the company longer than the son and knew more about the business than he did...he took my job away and wouldn't let me have verbal or telephone contact with customers....I watched the business go from successful to barely surviving ..I attempted to tell the owners wife what was happening to no avail.. when he began blaming me for mistakes he'd made and authorized..I quit..I had 30 years with the company.. the owners claimed not to know what was happening...I liked the job and customers but could not stomach the son..since I quit the son has run the business into the ground. he's run off most all the customers and lost a huge account I got for him...he hasn't been able to keep any employee they hired to replace me..I should have quit sooner..but I don't regret quitting..

@kevindevlieger300 Жыл бұрын

Was it a 2nd generation company? I mean.. has the boss taken over from his father before? Or has the son never knew anything else than a rich life? Because that would make a lot of sence.

@gladiammgtow4092 10 ай бұрын

This is my boss also.

@douglasmcgregor5511 8 ай бұрын

Had to comment because this describes my old boss to a tea. He once asked if I'm insecure, which I've since learned is classic projection. Also spot on with checking all the work and not even allowing a tiny mistake that I wasn't even aware of. When you understand these things it can let healing happen and get to a healthy place in life.

@franknoneofya9585 5 ай бұрын

Forgot passive-aggressiveness.

@hankhill3417 Жыл бұрын

It’s called crazy making. They love chaos

@jayjaydaka5497 3 ай бұрын

Thanks God I left that man's company never felt free in a long time.

@anubislockward3750 5 ай бұрын

All of this, and I literally mean ALL of them, fit my boss

@SnarkyMcCarthy 24 күн бұрын

I’m furious when they banter with co-workers while I get chewed out for doing so on a slow day.

@Beautifulblessings88 3 ай бұрын

Number 2 is a definitely hit the nail on the head. My manager is a micro manager, and she can be negative sometimes. I was trying to do the paperwork correctly today and explained something, but she wouldn't listen to what I was trying to explain. So I got up and walked off upset. I'm tired of the stress and her stubbornness and her way or no way, and she is never wrong. So I'm looking into another place to go.

@mr.rodgers9891 4 ай бұрын

I work at walmart, and have for 2.5 years. My manager yelled at me to "Shut up, grab a pallet, and get out of the back room." I started having a panic attack and I told her I needed to leave. She told me that I will be getting an attendence point even though she knows I have a history of panic attacks (we have had the same run ins before. With the yelling and rudeness) She then told the overnight coach to remove me from the building and he balled his fists up and blocked me off from trying to talk to her. He demanded I leave and stared me down with the intention of physically harming me. This all happened within the span of a couple of minutes.

@JAMAICANCARAMEL1979 19 күн бұрын

Am so so sorry my friend ... one time my hand was hurting from typing and i asked my boss if I could rest it for a few minutes and she asked if there is anything I could be doing with my other hand. While others get to stand around at work idling. Completely narcissistic unempathateic and uncaring then they say you are the problem when clearly it's them... but you can't win going up against them. There is noone to defend you and it's sad

@HaileyMastin Ай бұрын

My boss puts me down but in a subtle way. She'll say " no one has ever made this mistake before" implying that im the only idiot in the office. She gives me so much work ( admin and clinical) even though im only suppose to do admin aka paperwork/ insurance filings ect. Then will point out if i miss one SMALL thing even though she has overloaded my workload. I didnt get to say goodbye to my grandpa, because my boss made we work the next day so i couldnt drive down to where he lives (12 hr drive)when he was about to die. I had to go to the hospital ( as i had a cut in my eye) and she kept me at work for 2 hours, then i had to work a full shift the next day. She has gotten worse now where she will email me and the owner of the company and his wife , if i miss one SMALL thing. Meanwhile im showing up to work, barely take sick days, and training new employees... Its horrible, i hope to get out of this soon, its been 7 years of abuse from her.

@dietis13 Ай бұрын

Write everything !!! when she give task write it ! when you finish task write it and how you did it ! write everything, everything !!! trust me it will pay ;) these ppl can't lie if you are good you are good, write everything don't say it ! and if one day they bring the big boss, show all the writings ;) trust me I won like that and also work on yourself, evolve while they are stuck, you will go above them one day its why they are afraid !

@lucyfiniarel2347 Жыл бұрын

I get no support, no help, have no one to ask and my boss continuously sets me up and throws me alone onto files that people with similar qualifications would not have to handle alone. And then when he catches a mistake, he starts verbally abusing me with vulgarities and saying i'm dumb, i shouldn't think i'm smart, etc. Psychopathic rant.

@tuanminhnguyen9768 8 ай бұрын

My boss is exactly the same. Later Infound out his wife left him and the top execs all think he is a joke. Just self projecting afterall

@luvkrisoooh Жыл бұрын

My boss doesn’t understand that everyone makes mistakes or forgets, she’ll be up set if there is one single finger print on the window, also she threatens to “Write me up” every I forget certain things and if I manage to do those things she’ll say I didn’t do something else and add it to the list, but I’m not tripping im about to put my 2 weeks notice in anyways, I don’t tolerate toxicity fr💯

@donivanlacey2923 Жыл бұрын

I sent this to my boss. He responded “LMAO that sh*t is funny.” 😳😳😳

@yungcash8800 10 ай бұрын

👀

@ivymeganmedicinewoman Жыл бұрын

All of these resonate for me including boss divulging very personal medical-in-confidence information about another colleague...

@ROCKNROLLFAN 2 жыл бұрын

Number 7 is part of the reason why I left my previous job cuz my boss would always tell the staff that "whatever goes WRONG, I'm going to fix it" and it was costing me my health.

@BillClinton228 Жыл бұрын

No such thing as toxic boss, if there is a problem then you are the problem. We all know bosses are perfect.

@imalwaysme4332 11 ай бұрын

I had the same kind of boss- nothing was ever fixed lol we ended up on the news 3 times!

@christianbenn316 2 ай бұрын

I had a boss that gaslight me twice & i never spoke to him since after i noticed the red flags

@PeachyPlayz_YT Жыл бұрын

Ticked all the boxes! Everyone in the team is treated so rudely! I’m new to the team and Day 2 I already saw how badly he treats people. He did it to me after my first week, then 2nd week, 3rd week, it only gets worse. So now dropped my paper. I’m not the kind who will stay in a toxic environment and accept that kind of behavior.

@yanksrulemetssuck27 2 жыл бұрын

5:10 or assigning a task to a subordinate in which the boss him/her self won't do. I am a supervisor and I even take the garbage out, because "no job is too insignificant" and I set an example to my subordinates. My question is why do managers/bosses think they have the right to raise their voices to their subordinates even for a little mistake and bully them?

@flowerbloom5782 3 ай бұрын

Yeah my boss would make me just take out the garbage cause I’m new.

@rethabilemoabi4750 2 жыл бұрын

I subscribed 🙌🏽....my former boss meets all these criteria ....thank God I left!

@Fabthefabulous702 2 ай бұрын

After 2 years of working for this company and training others, always being the yes person with a 3% raise iv finally dared to say no to training a new supervisor who was hired over me i said: "I am confident that at this time, my primary focus should be on increasing my call count and maximizing my bonuses to ensure a substantial increase in my income. “Once mastered I'll be ready to assist others not only in providing excellent knowledge but also training in maximizing productivity. I’m feeling a bit burnt out at this time, so I need some time to regroup myself and improve.

@ilikepotatos8565 10 ай бұрын

Ignoring doctors advice on me having a week off because they are “short staffed” despite having surgery on my hand the previous day and possibly being at risk of reopening my wounds or getting it infected because I work supporting people with autism who often challenge and attack. I took my sick leave anyway because I value my health over my job.

@ImAFuckinDevil666 2 жыл бұрын

Sounds like my boss 100%

@burnthepalo9416 Жыл бұрын

I have a toxic male boss where he says inappropriate thing, sometimes sexual in nature. He’s hot and cold and fishes for compliments. Some ppl tell me to leave but I deserve to be there and went through a lot to get the job. I feel eventually, he’ll get himself fired.

@GetBackDown 5 күн бұрын

As I suspected, my toxic boss was surprised and allegedly saddened that I was quitting and leaving town. Even though I told her - point blank- what I needed. I'll never quite get how people often assume you're bluffing.

@ABCEasyas-- Жыл бұрын

Now I understand why a certain manager is often rude. This person makes rash decisions and is quite defensive whenever someone asks about it. Deep down, they know they have no idea what they’re doing.

@seanm7539 10 ай бұрын

Yeah but on the flipside of that when you have someone that’s been doing it since 1994 probably time to retire my store manager is a condescending rude person She is not only condescending but she is very mean

@cnshunter Жыл бұрын

Spot on!

@ovortex5410 7 күн бұрын

I can’t believe this entire video describes my current job, there are three bosses the head boss and the two assistant managers and every time I try to do my job I can’t do it properly because they send me to do other peoples work and it feels like having a surveillance camera on me every single minute of the day. It feels like every time I do something right it feels like it’s wrong

@Moonstone115 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for very interesting upload, it looks like I need to find a new job!

@jimmyjones1266 Жыл бұрын

Sounds like every employer I’ve ever had!!!

@Drocky526x4 9 ай бұрын

I'm a teacher and the only male teacher in the building and I am constantly dealing with basically all of this from my principal and it legit seems like I am the only one dealing with it. I am looking for a new job already and it's only week 5 of the school year. Even if it's not a teaching job, as long as I can handle the work and it pays just as much if not more than a teaching salary, I'm jetting. I truly don't think I can do this until May with how she acts towards me.

@NotWhatIamMadeFor 4 ай бұрын

Did you find a better place? My bitch boss owns a school too and I am done with her shit.

@Intelligence130 17 күн бұрын

I subscribed! And you’ve just described my boss perfectly.

@treydabrat 16 күн бұрын

Same I’m kinda disappointed

@DonAyiti 15 сағат бұрын

It really sucks… just when I started feeling confident at work, my boss started doing toxic things. I used to love working from the office. Now I just hide at home. Trying to remain low key and not get too much attention on myself

@championjdg Жыл бұрын

you should add if they have high turnover rate, had previous jobs where the business have close or not working anymore, think they always right, that the employees are replaceable, care more about money than safetly of the workers.

@anindomahmud8276 7 ай бұрын

I had a similar experience in my previous job. My senior coworkers would humiliate me on a regular basis, telling me that I was a weirdo who would never get another promotion in his life. They would also threaten to take serious action everytime I made a mistake.

@samuellizcano8333 7 ай бұрын

My boss humiliates me every time I have a question in front of everybody, he makes sure to exclude from the team I guess he just doesn’t like my appearance or ethnicity, I just will make sure that I won’t ask any questions to him and when presenting a project I’ll have headphones on so if he starts shitting on me I can just focus on the music

@Stevetrevor360 3 ай бұрын

Surprisingly the current boss I unfortunately have to put up with has all of these toxic traits... In our part of the world a job that pays good money is not easy to replace... therefore I constantly feel trapped and stressed out due to this unwelcome reality

@lindseysummers5351 2 жыл бұрын

Ah, making mistakes. My section leader has an unnerving habit whenever a mistake is made to, "Please explain why..." a mistake was made or something wasn't done. I don't know if she doesn't realize or just doesn't care how draining it is to hear questions stated that way.

@slimjim5392 Жыл бұрын

Yeah mine does that, I just say 'sorry' and smile. The POS won't dent my armour.

@amuddymoose Жыл бұрын

At least your not getting yelled at. My boss will start yelling, “who did this, who did THIS!” like we’re a bunch of school children. Then he proceeds to smear that person for their mistake by broadcasting it to every single employee on the department. It’s awful.

@flowerbloom5782 3 ай бұрын

Honestly it’s sound like they are trying to figure things out but if that boss follows up passive aggressive behavior and bullying then yeah gtfo.

@jamielaw-mielke6927 8 ай бұрын

#5 since day 1. I asked for my old job back bc of this. I couldn’t take the hour long conversations where she did nothing but bash others.

@user-ui6wd2lc1n Ай бұрын

Then my bosses well fit in this🙂

@ocanina Күн бұрын

A friend of mine has a boss like this - I'm going to share this with them (the friend, not the boss... though he could probably do with some truth soup).

@johndefalque5061 8 ай бұрын

Both my resto bosses put up with severe toxic exposure to cigarette smoke-they treat it as a mere joke or nuisance. I have quit after 2 yrs and wish I never ever started the fucken job! I also filed a complaint with work safe.

@carmenrojas6053 2 ай бұрын

What it surprise me is that this kind of toxic bosses are supported by higher management most of the time.

@mor9n243 Жыл бұрын

my favorite boss was very unprofessional I disagree that unprofessional = toxic

@PepeCoinMania 6 ай бұрын

Most bosses are bad incapable of see anything good in their subordinates work always diminishing your accomplishments to let you down. Only what they did are considered at high standards

@flowerbloom5782 3 ай бұрын

3:27 this is me right now. My supervisors and boss feel too annoyed or important to address future plans of an event that could affect the whole work environment. They took none of my questions seriously and dismissed them with “we’ll let you know” and then change constantly the game plan or leave out small but important details. It’s so frustrating cause these bosses feel like they can own your schedule but not theirs.

@beverlylooper3927 8 ай бұрын

So basically every boss I ever had was insecure in one way or another. But what about my current boss who starts and immediately has to change every microscopic detail until every thing is going wrong, people are quitting and customers are complaining 🤷‍♀️do have a video for that?

@windyacresway Ай бұрын

I took a maintenance job at a hotel.Did not realize it until i started but the place wasnt kept up over the years and had 30 year old equipment etc.My manager was afraid to tell the owners and put the work on my shoulders to save money.She went as far as not wanting to hire commercial electricians,tech etc and said it was my responsibility.After 6 years of stress thinking i would do something wrong to injure or kill myself,another employee or a guest i walked out one day and never looked back.

@mengedegnawtube 26 күн бұрын

I subscribed

@morganreigns1984 13 күн бұрын

How do you deal with subtile bullying. Like an agitated tone of voice , over talking or interrupting me constantly and one time he called me kid but I'm almost 40 years old i dont mind it if it's like term of endearment in a joking way but it was like he meant it condescending type of way like i feel if we have an interaction at work its like he's aggravated to deal with it . but he seems nice to everyone else. 😑😔😒😥now on smoke break he seems normal for the most part but i think he's mistaken my kindness for weakness I'll have to confront him.

@Ruth-vy1qj 5 күн бұрын

I had left one job toxic boss she show favoritism. God bless me with a better job. She be their friend and next she not. She think cause she work there for years people got her back. Karma came to her in personal and professional life.

@user-ur5or1iq9i 10 ай бұрын

#5 Crystal Atkins

@user-wi3mk4os7g Ай бұрын

I am so in Love with You!👑💯

@spoondippinggoodrecipes7382 15 күн бұрын

My boss checks all this boxes a true evil women but the God above who sees all will do justice for all of us who get humiliated. I get we all meet to work to survive but no job is worth your peace and happiness .They don’t value anything and I learned after this awful experience that money isn’t everything and that we should never allow anyone to disrespect us !

@jeffsadowski7759 4 күн бұрын

This might not help an employee, but this is for insecure or dominant bosses...Every time you're speaking down to an employee...You are also speaking directly to yourself. That message goes right back into your own nervous system. Also, this only keeps both you and them insecure, as this energy is multiplied between you. This is science. Funny how there were certain principles designed to keep us both on the right track, huh? What's good for you is good for them. I guess figuring out how to be a good manager wasn't so hard after all. Pretend you're talking to yourself...Because you are:) Hope that was helpful.❤😊

@AchillesRage501 Жыл бұрын

at my work my boss made me keep quiet about a incident where a female co worker asked out a teen the female is 35 and married and i am friends with the victim that was last year

@stewartbone4236 2 ай бұрын

Get out or hide. The capable will leave so join them. Those staying are on a hiding to nowhere, getting deeper into the toxicity.

@xiixiixo 2 жыл бұрын

Can you do a video on a toxic subordinate?

@LordShockwave9 2 жыл бұрын

Yeah, those get fired. Toxic supervisors, not so much.

@xiixiixo 2 жыл бұрын

@@LordShockwave9 Not in every case. Some just stay or are moved to another department to continue to wreak havoc.

@csensale Жыл бұрын

We have people transferred to different stores. I had to take a longer commute because the worker in this particular store was so big they needed a store with an elevator. And I was making about $16/hr plus time and a half on Sundays but commuting 40 minutes both ways working six days a week….what a sacrifice

@user-kb5ne2ur4p Ай бұрын

I subscribe 😂

@harrisiskandar8356 3 күн бұрын

My boss shorter than me 170cm yet Think himself as a gangster and badmouth my Hometown whereas his Home town in rural area. In short he doesn't know his root. Such as when he blames me on something i doesn't do and react like a child when i fight him. Calling me to his office to lecture me but i react arrogant to arrogant people and if he punch me that day im not gonna back down. Im glad my contract with that company ended😂.

@chanellegouws2078 Ай бұрын

I'm a South African coming from my homeland on an H2A visa,come to help American farmers/ranchers to farm there land,. I have never been called a retart or idiot in my life untill the USA. Working, helping, farming for them is a struggle everyday. I've never seen so many narcissistic people on farmsteads than in the US. And yes we benefit from the dollar, but sometimes it's difficult to wanna stay, even for the money, being called names and being treated like shit while we come here to give our best, missing our wife's and kids. Sometimes I wonder if it is worth it.

@meritahasani9750 4 ай бұрын

I'm actually filing a lawsuit for sexually assault and degrading women working without a break and a boss that emotionally abuses knowing u have mental or physically illness. I have so many witnesses and text messages. Do not work for these kind of people. Yes ur boss is ur boss but they have no right to create a toxic environment. He would grab ur keys as a manager and would leave u without pay to take a week off. I was able to catch up but it was absolutely horrific I actually reported to my lawyer long before I actually had a real strong case with witnesses . But was in need to pay my bills. My last straw was when he didn't let me take a break said to take 5 minutes then told me your never goin to be anything or move up the list when on I said I'm goin to the dressing room so I can switch up my position it was then when he came.after me. I went home cried. I gave him the keys to the store working there since 2017. There are.better jobs out there !! It affected my mental health. Don't be a victim of abuse esp at work

@shikhavij5536 9 ай бұрын

What if i really like the company and its perks but my boss is very toxic??? I am so confused.

@veronicalagor4771 6 ай бұрын

Sadly toxic bosses tend to only leave when forced to, and usually even then only after higher ups start suspecting something is up (high turnover, consistent issues, etc)

@johnrainsman6650 Жыл бұрын

Do I have a right to report my potentially toxic boss for this? She was upset I had signed up for a one-person shift. One of our student leader's responsibilities is organizing who works which shifts on the schedule, and my boss scolded him for not noticing I had signed up to go solo. When she asked him if she thought I could do the shift, I answered for him with a firm "yes," because I felt belittled by her. She said she didn't think so, was all "I've told you not to sign up for shifts by yourself, I've been very clear about that, I don't know how much clearer I can get for you to listen" (something like, that, so I'm not perfectly quoting her), and she told me I need someone there to give me instructions and guide me. That was very insensitive and harsh, and I think that if she said that to a person with a learning disability, they would be hurt and deem her a bigot. I should've told her that, to make a point to her about tact. Can I report her for verbal abuse?

@JulieMorales-kp4yc 3 ай бұрын

If my supervisor keeps over stepping 😊 He will be waiting in the unemployment line. He thinks it's appropriate to call me honey, buddy or Juls? Then dude stares at me all night..Makes my skin crawl..He's only been with the company a couple months and he knows nothing!!! If I went to HR about his behavior he'd be gone..I have turned stoic , gray rock..Not interested. He pats me like a dog. I can't stand him.

@chalo4792 2 ай бұрын

HR won't help you. Sorry.

@JackStevenson-ql4qu Ай бұрын

You have to have evidence. Otherwise HR will do nothing. Your claims mean little unless you have actual evidence to back them up.

@debjanidutta4082 22 күн бұрын

All these horrible stories in the comments section. I quit my job a few months ago because of a lying, manipulative and abusive boss. Although he had been playing me from day I joined his team, I quit in a moment's notice. I had to. Thing is I loved my job and the company, I was great at my job and everyone knew me for my work.

@KB-ji3gp 23 күн бұрын

people forget where they came from. Work is full of egomaniacs and clowns.

@jencolez7 Жыл бұрын

What’s the point of knowing this, if they’re the boss and no one will listen?

@BapeGangMember 9 ай бұрын

It gives you a heads up if you should distance yourself, not befriend him or her, or come up with a plan to leave (find a job that will hire you and then, leave).

@monvici Жыл бұрын

There's those imigrant bosses that love break general collective agreement. It's common in every country unfortunetly. They manipulate, lie etc. I wish I saw this video before I started my previous work. I have had all those type of bosses.

@chalo4792 2 ай бұрын

I worked a call center tha appointed some idiot from Nigeria that could hardly speak or type in English, use Outlook, and thought his PhD. that he got in a shak somewhere in Africa made him a diety. He had a stupid habit of sending everyone on the group chat, "eberybuddy, if yuh ah excitade to hilp pasients(patients), plis reply wit a YES!" ALL of the women fell in line due to them being very young, but I saw right through his incompetence and his need for that sweet narcissistic supply. He even DM'ed me to ask if I was "Okeh." His desk was across from mine so I told him, "I don't see the need for roll call when you can see who is logged in." It was downhill after that with the micromanaging, so I told him I will not train the new hires any longer and that HE should take the initiative. I knew he was not capable of talking on the phones because his English is horrible and does not know how to even navigate the systems that we used. So this pissed him off even more and i also told all the staff (since i fucking trained them) that i will no longer be available to assist them andbthey they should contact the African't since i will no longer help him look good. Needles to say we lost the majority of our top performers as a result of his behavior, and i would have stayed longer, but I had a chance to cost the company money and productivity by walking out on the last day of a couple coworkers (one gave 2 weeks, the other on maternity leave) That following Monday they were down 3 experienced and productive employees, lol. Screw that Boko Haram third world stinky ass mutha... he was making me feel genuine hatred towards him to the point that I had to walk out without notice since he was just looking for a reason to can me. But that company has a horrible reviews by patients AND former employees so I should have listened to their warnings lol

@rahkeembattiste5854 2 ай бұрын

After 6 weeks in a new job everything changes I noticed everybody start acting funny. I am planning my exit plan I work for a hospital in the islands the security team switches up to go home u tell nobody didn't put gas in the car all day when it my turn to get the car to drive to pick up the nurse no gas in car, I got to use my own money to put in. And I called the boss and told them, they said don't put no gas, the car was about to stop with me. They think I am stupid. And the only thing they could say they forgot to put gas in, 😮

@steveee2511 Ай бұрын

the worst managers i ever had where at mc donald,s they where or narcists or bipolar and also very uncaring for they employees and unprofesional

@leimprovisermagog9259 4 ай бұрын

new rules. The employees vote for the boss.

@chalo4792 2 ай бұрын

Lol, empower the grunts!? No way.

@IvanIvanov-db2rq 3 ай бұрын

Дай Бог удачи тому кто смотрит это видео

@IvanIvanov-db2rq Ай бұрын

А ещё терпения и сил

@pyhead9916 7 күн бұрын

Sign #1: They're toxic!

@FalconsWhiteSox 9 ай бұрын

If you're a black man toxic bosses won't usually mess with you. black skin is like a bodyguard! :)

@BapeGangMember 9 ай бұрын

Lol unless he black too. We do this crap to each other

@Paidfullz Ай бұрын

Not true, they will still mess with you regardless of skin color. These bosses know they will never talk to you like this outside of the job, so they hide behind their position to be an insecure asswipe to others.

@allthatjazz3879 10 ай бұрын

This video is a sign thats its time for me to leave.

@kedronking 4 ай бұрын

Well, got my first one, just double checking to make sure I’m not being too much of a millennial

@WileyFox08 13 сағат бұрын

the narration is awful, painful to actively listen to, persistent, and nonstop. This AI does not like upvotes or shares. It prefers downvotes and lack of acknowledgement.

@user-ui6wd2lc1n Ай бұрын

I subscribed