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@lindashaw36402 ай бұрын
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@patriciamcduffie83292 ай бұрын
I’ve learned every smile isn’t real and lots of people live with a face mask..
@theworldaccordingtoheather70712 ай бұрын
Yes, beware of the smile that doesn't reach the eyes...
@Oyhus2 ай бұрын
I haven't come across anyone of my friends or family members actually smiling when I have accomplished something. Either they say nothing, or they immediately change the subject. Destroyed 40 years of my life
@nadiakotys1002 ай бұрын
Those are not your friends. Real friends will express their joy for your accomplishments. I'm sorry you've had to go through that. I hope you find true friends soon!
@jane843212 ай бұрын
Never give up learning to heal. It's hard and mentally exhausting. I learned a lot about childhood conditioning by reading How To Do The Work by Nicole LePera. So many things made sense in how children were raised and how the smallest words and actions caused so much damage. I even noticed things I learned from my parents and carried over to my children. I felt so bad and cried for weeks. I've apologized but realized they too have emotional damage to heal. I got a lot of spankings from my mother but I don't feel the emotional and mental damage from that but the narcissistic abuse from my dad is most damaging. However, my mother never beat me.
@MI6-W2 ай бұрын
Matthew 10:34-39 NKJV Do not think that I came to bring peace on earth. I did not come to bring peace but a sword. For I have come to ‘set a man against his father, a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law’; and ‘a man’s enemies will be those of his own household.’ He who loves father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me. And he who loves son or daughter more than Me is not worthy of Me. And he who does not take his cross and follow after Me is not worthy of Me. He who finds his life will lose it, and he who loses his life for My sake will find it.
@Rumination_Vertex3 ай бұрын
They're describing covert/vulnerable narcissists here! They are the WORST kind cause unless you know the tells and are looking out for them they are almost impossible to see.
@truthseeker59413 ай бұрын
I have a "family member" that has done some of this to me for years. I have gone no contact for years, and they come back and say they have "grown and changed." I give them another chance and within months they are back at the narcing again. This thang acts like it is obsessed with me. I am so scared of this toxic behavior they will never be let back in my life. NEVER AGAIN!
@theclumsyprepper3 ай бұрын
That's true, though covert narcissists do what they do because of their need to control everyone and everything. It's a superiority complex, not envy. They truly believe they are better and smarter than everyone else.
@geetu13 ай бұрын
I have a bunch of family members like this and i called them all out, caught them out, did it back to them, they were raging, I recorded it and I left them with a big FU after years of abuse. Lucky for me although I went through periods of depression riddled with self doubt and alone, I learned about boundaries and building my self esteem up again and now I’m thriving. Some greater power was looking out for me.
@truthseeker59413 ай бұрын
@@geetu1 Same here. I am still healing from years of narc abuse. I am alone and fight depression, because I have several of these thangs in my family too who traumatized me. These sub-humans are sick, twisted, and demonically challenged. It is best to stay gone forever...
@DMAC13013 ай бұрын
Yes! Devious little buggers. The worst when they age into the look. Ugh. I have a neighbor, well to be honest many neighbors like this but one in particular that I have personally dealt with and went no contact. She lives right across my hallway. Ugh. She recently started stalking me. When I leave my apartment she( thinking she’s being quiet) opens her door as I walk away then Closes it as if I can’t hear her. I mean what is she thinking? It’s kinda creepy. She even waited for me one day as I got off the elevator and tried to talk to me. I said clearly, you don’t talk to me. I then had to let the manager know she’s at it again. She is risking losing her home because she just won’t stop.
@mercywarren73973 ай бұрын
Amazingly spot on. Been dealing with this all my life and thought it was me. Now over 60yrs old and finding out IT'S THEM! This changes everything, and I wish so deeply that I knew this 40 years ago.
@karenjoslyn40512 ай бұрын
You certainly aren't the only one who feels like this....yet I am reminded of the old saying..."when the pupil is ready, the teacher appears.."!
@user-wv7kt4wk7q2 ай бұрын
It wouldn't have made a difference because even if you recognize it much is done behind closed doors and the perpetrators have far more supporters and enablers than you could ever gain in support of you and counteract their united front against you. 🧘
@mercywarren73972 ай бұрын
@@user-wv7kt4wk7q It would have made a significant difference for me. I would have learned early how to effectively deal with them.
@luvqraft60242 ай бұрын
And then there are those who stay silent to discourage unwanted advances…
@HT-vs5fw17 күн бұрын
unwanted advance ? like what ?
@GloxGlox-nl4cd3 ай бұрын
I wish I learned this stuff in grade school.
@karenjoslyn40512 ай бұрын
We all wish we knew these tenets earlier...but, now we do!!
@baronghede23652 ай бұрын
You and me both..... Blessed Be.
@savagemusic8891Ай бұрын
Big facts👍🏿💯
@arieschick12 ай бұрын
The one who walks away holds the Power
@BossPlayas2 ай бұрын
Nice insight indeed! Once you can tell and distinguish those negative traits on that person, we should immediately distance ourselves from them before things get worse as being targeted.
@Agheel9632 ай бұрын
I noticed a friend do all the things mentioned after 14 years I finally saw them for who they truly were. I gtf outta there
@Albacore8773 ай бұрын
Believe in yourself and take ACTIONS toward your goals. You only have yourself in the end, so why not strive to become the best version of YOU. Best wishes!
@WayOfWisdom12 ай бұрын
I am always open to new friendships and connections. Let's embark on a journey of mutual understanding, support, and laughter. Together, we can share experiences, learn from each other, and create lasting memories. If you're up for it, let's forge a bond built on trust, respect, and genuine care. Here's to the beginning of a beautiful friendship!
@tonymcelveen22372 ай бұрын
Beautifully crafted flow of healthy information
@jane843212 ай бұрын
Narcissistic father 83 yrs and 6 yrs from narcissistic abuse from bf (now xbf) and narcissistic boss (now xbosss). It almost killed me. I will do what ever possible to keep them out of my life.
@jane843212 ай бұрын
@nannerlchanel5045 I'm finding healing from a narcissistic parent and a previous "x" through reading How To Do The Work and It's Not You. Both have helped clarify many things I was unaware of or could not understand. I agree commercial awareness is much needed for people who are going through the abuse and awareness for future generations. I wish you the best and that much happiness comes your way.
@jasminepoteat47993 ай бұрын
My own mother in law asked my husband (her son) right in front of me, what makes my pot roast better than hers. I didn’t think anything of it until I saw very clearly the conversations she was trying to have with my husband via text. She was trying to manipulate him into doing things to harm me. I nipped it in the bud and told her that’s why he married me in secret.😂
@VictoriaHott-qi5xg3 ай бұрын
I was wise enough to believe in myself as the outside had never ... not even most of my friends and family turned foes. . 😢broke my heart better fond of people leaving... all I know is that I have God and Jesus. And Me...
@GVM272 ай бұрын
I consider the reality machine (universe) is broken... this abstract notion can be helpful when considering the manner we interface with reality. This 'broken' being mostly our perception and a dusting of truth. I don't think I can repair our universe and Stoicism kinda goes along with my take on, broken also can mean separate or unconnected; this being a metaphysical conversation, take it with a grain of salt.
@thereforeayam2 ай бұрын
I'm nervous of inhuman expressions.
@lesliemayfield31512 ай бұрын
I have one at work it's awful because she's not smart enough to do it well
@user-in5tj9eg7z2 ай бұрын
Yes me too.she think I don’t know who she is.too bad for her I already know.
@lloydharris8452 ай бұрын
Removing yourself is detrimental to your discernment, therefore it makes a barrier between emotions and critical thinking… adults acting childish or arrogant… critiquing
@kellykasten70093 ай бұрын
This video came up randomly, and it is literally answering the questions I've been praying 🙏 for. Ty so much 💓
@josephharry39352 ай бұрын
This lecture is profoundly inspiring. It will motivate me on my personal journey of self improvement in no little measure. Thanks for sharing.❤
@risikatuo5682 ай бұрын
WONDERFUL INFORMATION ‼️ Thank YOU so much for putting this out for people to take in👏🏽
@Ethey-hi5zv3 ай бұрын
Vulnerable and really emotional vamps to be such emotional life stealing evil things would not hesitate to take a life without any remorse very scary and cruel vulnerable narcs are the absolute worst
@dividedwefall6522 ай бұрын
It is hard to tell who started it all but I can guess is a frenemy.
@kevwins52 ай бұрын
This video just wiped out my last two friends
@LifesRevival2 ай бұрын
You truly nailed it!! Thank you. Wonderful video. Everyone needs to see it!!
@bridgetsingh82242 ай бұрын
Marvelous study of the psycologist on human character,guide for the targeted person.Insecurity makes the victim helpless.I would love to read the books.books should be read by all. Great work 👌💯
@iammaximus6142 ай бұрын
… the books, How to win friends & influence people, Psycho Cybernetics, Being Happy, As a Man Thinketh,
@thereseflynn76152 ай бұрын
My own mother 54 years, mothers sister and 7 cousins 54 years, ex boyfriends, co workers teachers and medical personal.
@InspirationalTaiChi-cu2te3 ай бұрын
"really helpful and understanding about life and human kind." Thank you.❤
@soundscapes46192 ай бұрын
This is excellent. Thanks for posting.
@frankie75083 ай бұрын
My knowledge of others life's experience with women, with whom they were especially close to, Is accurately reflected in this video. It makes me wonder how many damaged people are actually out there. And my guess would be more than 50 percent. Thus, demonstrating the importance of stoicism today. I also firmly believe in body language and nonverbal communications as described by the words, " The smile that never reaches the eyes." Excellent video, thank you very much.
@EllaBeeMediaGroup2 ай бұрын
I’m focused on my evolution. I am so glad I found this type of content because it makes sense for what I’ve always felt and doing with others my entire life. And I’ve decided to take a stronger approach and not letting attempts to tailor or edit me even be considered.
@KL001002 ай бұрын
In todays world you have to adopt this behavior. Actively expressing your feelings or opinion can and will be used against you. Being direct is dangerous for those around you may feel unsafe and cancel culture exist in todays world.
@iammaximus6142 ай бұрын
… green with envy. 🗡️
@ReginaPhoenix2 ай бұрын
I’m listening and I think y’all just helped me change my life. 🙏
@GVM272 ай бұрын
Important content. The depth of this Stoic teaching is considerable I reflect on the possibilities, the travel, the fun... beyond this relaxation, mindfulness, stationing and a sense of presence all combine into a strategy, that seems to work but like anything, it depends on the user.
@kellykasten70093 ай бұрын
Ty for all of this. It resonates deeply with me ❤🎉
@SM162 ай бұрын
Thank You good timing as I sift through the last conversation of the narcissist I want a genuine relationship but it always turns out I am the bad guy. When in actuality I gave all I had. But when cancer set in they no longer had any use for me but to Future Fake and Belittlement. These words help to keep truth in perspective. Also Community Comments 💖
@goldahashemzukhn-viren85232 ай бұрын
Thank you. Yr words protect me from trembling from constant fear.
@libramagyk2 ай бұрын
I'm one of 4 children and My siblings took after my Mom...reduce you and all of your energy in a heartbeat It's exhausting..
@jannamartens98062 ай бұрын
This is a really good video which can help make people really wise so important knowledge.
@jonathanbowles25772 ай бұрын
Good Afternoon. Many, a Wise Word spoken about this type of Subject. Very Interesting to Listen and Understand this Human ability that we all have in us. Sometimes, i have had the Feeling and Human Instinct of not so much Hatred but of Envy about someone, in a Good Heart felt way. Either the way they live there Life or just myself thinking about what i own and am Greatful in my Life. I Appreciate other peoples Opinions and there Personal Feelings about me. It is having the Human ability to Understand about each other. Thank you very much for Listening to me.
@hajjataiwo75443 ай бұрын
I am learning everyday,thank you🙏
@EnjoyingLife2024Ай бұрын
I was recently made aware of someone who is actively working against me behind my back. I suspected this was happening but had no confirmation. Yesterday, my suspicion was confirmed. TY for the refresher on why this happens and how to protect myself. 🧐 "Beware of smiles that don't meet the eyes." "Covert sabotage is the most insidious of all envious actions." TY for also reminding me that my own words about my perceived unrealism of someone else's goal or dream can cause great damage. Unconditional love and support immediately sanitizes my own envy, fears, and jealousy.🕊️
@barbarabutler920314 күн бұрын
Beautiful teachings, listening carefully!!!!
@user-vw2bf7rk4w3 ай бұрын
Im already on the journey 😊
@user-os4xi3nc7l2 ай бұрын
I had the same problem! I was speaking to this person! About the situation! And instead of giving me support! she went against me! She was doubting me! When I said! And she stuck up for a stranger instead of her!Mother 😢😢😢😢😢
@Medietos3 ай бұрын
Though surely the cause can be an other than envy, f ex pride with disdain, deep lack of self-esteem and insecurity, resulting in disdain for weakness/vulnerability with hateful acts as a result? Or to self-ighteously punish a disabled one, believeing them to have a choice and abstain for (handicapped) behaviours,?
@Guiltyangel6052 ай бұрын
Beautiful video ❤😊❤😊
@dnoray12 ай бұрын
This presentation is very insightful and many of which I’ve experienced in my personal life. Just wondering if I should stop communicating with the people who constantly undermine me-:))
@acertainfew2 ай бұрын
'if you made it this far"- after 90 commercials... Yeah
@bryanjohnson33162 ай бұрын
You unlocked the True Stoic Award wading through those tedious adverts.
@hollyclark6902 ай бұрын
Go premium, so much better with no ads
@jeannedouglas99122 ай бұрын
So sad that inate truths must be reminded in numerous genre's. The age of head games requires reminders. God bless the hour and day this age of head games is destroyed forever.❤
@Estoicismo03 ай бұрын
omo aplicar os princípios estoicos para remover sete pesos que podem estar sobrecarregando sua vida, tudo isso com calma e paciência. À medida que mergulhamos nas lições atemporais dos antigos estoicos, vamos explorar sete aprendizagens que podem estar causando um peso desnecessário em sua jornada diária. Desde preocupações com o futuro até arrependimentos do passado, cada um desses pesos pode nos impedir de viver verdadeiramente no momento presente. Veja este vídeo e comece a mudar seus pensamentos.
@elchase56433 ай бұрын
KNOW THYSELF🙏🏽
@samothom73333 ай бұрын
Amen!
@christenecopeland25902 ай бұрын
I am learning, thank you
@user-lz2xp3fp6y2 ай бұрын
Good report of information 👌
@claudiathomas12852 ай бұрын
Im particularly struck by the covert narcissistic person. This speaks directly to my situation. The only way to combat this cover sabotage is through resilience, perceptiveness, as to who the ememies are that are being used against you, and earnest prayers to God for protection
@claudiathomas12852 ай бұрын
* covert sabotage
@jaythomas90182 ай бұрын
True words 🙏🏼👍🏼
@ArthurZ-nj8hh3 ай бұрын
I think that author forgot ' secret actual attempt(s) to manipulate the system to achieve her societally negative objective(s) to harm the person who has made societal contribution(s) of any kind'. Just my 5 cents. :)'
@shareneross72812 ай бұрын
Thank you.
@matharobinsonsalami63642 ай бұрын
Thank you
@etaokha41642 күн бұрын
They wallow in their own misery because they are failures and everything they do fails. My neighbour saw me looking nice ( mind you she envies me) she saw me dressed nice and compliment me and I turned and looked at her face when she made that compliment and it told me everything I needed to know and I didn't respond I just walked away silently. Her body language and facial expressions was what gave her away. But I didn't stop being me Infact I added more to my shinning and she and her daughter watching me from their window whenever I walk out with my children looking amazing and beautiful and she craves that but will never get as she's a covert narcissist.
@mightyobserver122 ай бұрын
If.they need soemthign they will look so luoy
@honeebeeleehoneebeelee94763 ай бұрын
Focused 🎯
@sharonmarsh3728Ай бұрын
More more more on how to handle envious jealous people... They don't want to change in most cases. I would like 2c a case that does . We want to help them but they prefer to stay as they are
@ryn17753 ай бұрын
I'm listening.
@anniewebber-gs5ju2 ай бұрын
So so so true. Agony when one's family (+in-law) member/s Covert narcissist.
@user-ne2uw8ji7h2 ай бұрын
In life we have to protect ourselves from every conceivable ill From people to disease.Nine out of ten want something from you the other one want's everything.Stress from other people's drama is the number one killer of people who take it on .I'm not one of them, I've learned from the effects.
@tj921ableАй бұрын
This narrator has an awesome voice ❤
@tatie76042 ай бұрын
Why all these statues?
@rmar19572 ай бұрын
I don't worry about that stuff
@user-gb6iy7fo8m3 ай бұрын
Yes yes yes thank you thank you thank you interesting
@colleencarey93282 ай бұрын
.I'm listening carefully!!
@SBecktacular3 ай бұрын
Um I can’t figure out the thumbnail 🤔😅
@user-ey2rn9jx5f2 ай бұрын
It’s what call insecure comparison envy issues Instead of uniting communities it’s a conquer and divide by bias . Jealousy , and hate which creates insecure environment divided community. It’s a lack of spiritual education which is Not Taught in schools and Religious beliefs which shown by people demeanor. Of hate prejudice hate and bias views
@Cmorebutt3 ай бұрын
Hates and envy??? I was watching and wondering if they ever met? Was it a miscommunication? I was wondering if the person was in the frame of mind? You that’s why I left u??🙄😃😅inquiry minds want to know please???
@margelee71372 ай бұрын
working in ky revolution 🙏
@radar5362 ай бұрын
this AI made illustrations are tiring.
@melissaroy76603 ай бұрын
Smile 😊
@CowgirlKim2 ай бұрын
Too many commercials! I’ve had to dry my hands at least 6 times! 🤬
@doloresrobertson72652 ай бұрын
dry your hands??
@CowgirlKim2 ай бұрын
@@doloresrobertson7265 doing dishes 🙄
@drokylah3 ай бұрын
stoic
@phelanisserelaford5426Ай бұрын
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@MC_TravelAdventures3 ай бұрын
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@Anson77772 ай бұрын
Why do you have to take 30 minutes of our time we don't have to tell us why someone envies us? I'll read through the comments instead and get more out of it in 10 minutes than I could listen to your long long long long long long boring boring boring video