10 Signs You Can Trust Your Man | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

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Mat Boggs shares dating advice for women and 10 signs that your man is trustworthy
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As a sought-after dating and relationship coach for women and international speaker, Mat Boggs has helped thousands of women understand men, improve their relationships, and attract the relationship they want.
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@matboggs Жыл бұрын

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@SLCSalarda 5 жыл бұрын

1. You feel protected by your partner. 2. You know your partner is faithful to you. 3. You know you partner will always be a very close friend. 4. Your partner shares the chores. 5. Your partner works hard to increase the financial security. 6. Your partner makes you feel sexually desirable. 7. You have influence in the relationship. 8. In arguments, you can trust that your partner will listen to you. 9. Your partner's words and actions align and reflects the values you agree on. 10. Your partner takes your feelings into account when making decisions.

@javar888 4 жыл бұрын

Sounds like you need a house boy, not a real man . Good luck with this !

@ceciliakunxu1248 4 жыл бұрын

Sheny Lyn Salarda thanks for the summary

@candysmith8724 4 жыл бұрын

@@javar888 A real man would possess all of these qualities. A boy would be a selfish idiot.

@barbaratucker2924 4 жыл бұрын

Yes

@afshah.7972 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for these important points! ❤️❤️

@dragonzodiac78 5 жыл бұрын

Signs that make me feel I can trust him..... -he’s open & not secretive -tells me more than I need to know/ask for -does/says things that shows he thinks about me when we’re not together -doesn’t makes excuses for silly things -very protective of me -talks about me n introduced me to everyone he knows Etc

@tiffanyhogan2967 4 жыл бұрын

Dragon Zodiac you are so right, nailed every item 👍🏼

@cesttmoii 3 жыл бұрын

Where you messed up is these things actually are not good because anyone can manipulate these things compared to the signs that Matt just stated

@dragonzodiac78 3 жыл бұрын

@@cesttmoii trust that I have the intellect to know when someone is faking these things to me. Each one is subject to the condition they occur under, the behaviour, tone etc. Thank you but I’m old enough to know the difference of sincerity vs manipulation in each of these areas👊🏾

@aggie47 3 жыл бұрын

Agreed! And tells you things before hand...

@carolinadeliraromero1412 4 жыл бұрын

That last comment about “you being the partner that you want to find” it’s just amazing. Do not try to find the best partner, but become yourself the best partner and that you will be attracting into your life. Thank you and be safe! 🙂

@crystalhammond5439 Жыл бұрын

How ?

@kanakhabomariazwane5244 4 жыл бұрын

I trust him He said I can call him at anytime Text him at anytime We are in a long distance relationship I am happy and satisfied about him. We have our time at night that we pray together.

@godness7770 3 жыл бұрын

So sweet! Mine said I can always confide in him.

@zoraidacastro5403 3 жыл бұрын

That is so beautiful.

@nofybn7794 3 жыл бұрын

SORRY, long distance NEVER WORKS. UNLESS IT CHANGES. He may have secrets. You don't know what he is doing.

@hanhuynh7798 3 жыл бұрын

👍

@hanhuynh7798 3 жыл бұрын

👍

@Patricias22 2 жыл бұрын

I appreciate when my man consults me before making a decision. It makes me feel important to him and ultimately more secure in the relationship.

@kymchu 4 жыл бұрын

The things I like to add along with the standards/ foundation (that where HIS/HER words are followed by actions); - CONSISTENCY - INTEGRITY - TRUST - TRANSPARENCY - LOYALTY - SHARE SAME/ SIMILAR VALUES (e.g. Monogamy, and communicate clearly what the values are) - BEING TOGETHER AS A TEAM - CONNECTION (NOT JUST LOVE AND SEXUALLY BUT A DEEP TRUSTING FRIENDSHIP) - NURTURING, TAKING CARE OF EACH OTHER - NOURISH ONE ANOTHER SPIRITUALLY WITH PEACE, LOVE, JOY, AFFECTION, APPRECIATION, CARE, GROWTH

@interstate56 5 жыл бұрын

I look if his actions lines up with his words. Empty promises and endless sorries makes me turn away.

@christyvigil5691 4 жыл бұрын

Thats true

@Talinn28 3 жыл бұрын

Agree💯

@0Flow0 3 жыл бұрын

Trust is definitely something you have to earn. You know when you find a person you can trust, it's something special.

@ilovenycsomuch 5 жыл бұрын

Approaching 6 months in my first & long distance relationship & I can easily check off all these boxes (except the things that haven’t come up yet like an argument), I’m so excited about this relationship 😊❤️❤️

@joleenwilson622 5 жыл бұрын

Its so nice to have a good man and see other good men.

@kingaderzsi7535 5 жыл бұрын

I adore You 😍 I look how He treat others too, because if He treat bad others, I don't trust him. I look if He is honest in his work also. It He is cheating, not paying taxes, might not be the right men for me. Lately I look also if He is growing spiritually, because I am doing it, but if He is not, in short time we'll be on too different level...

@kimk6207 5 жыл бұрын

Yes. Agreed. I learned this too. A man who avoids/evades his financial responsibilities is not trustworthy. I will never be in alignment with him.

@crystalfrancis5977 5 жыл бұрын

Yes you are definitely right about all this Trust stuff, me and my husband have grown over the years and are in a really good place.

@tibbygothic9029 5 жыл бұрын

5 months into a Long Distance Relationship with my boyfriend all we fulfill all these categories. We might be going through a hard time right now (me with college exams being mentally and physically exhausted, and him with family problems) but we have our backs, and know that we will grow stronger from it. We haven’t had an argument yet but we always listen to each other. We trust and love each other. We are also fighting to be together after we have finished college to build up our future.

@TheGrandCanions 5 жыл бұрын

Great list Matthew! You are a big inspiration to us as a relationship channel as well!

@noorelhouda3478 5 жыл бұрын

Another stunning video! Thank you so much💓. You have helped me so much in my love life.

@socorrot7109 2 жыл бұрын

I would like to add that a good sign that you can trust your man is when he is proud of you. He tells his friends about you, etc.

@charleenhopkins3590 5 жыл бұрын

i had a dream that made me think... i don,t want to be with a guy that wants to hide me.

@esterherschkovich6499 5 жыл бұрын

Been there..no more!!

@lolgeselle 5 жыл бұрын

This video really helped me a lot! I believe my boyfriend has all of these signs. He’s the best. I used to struggle with trust and jealousy, but he really does do his best to make sure I never feel that way. Thank you for spreading love and positivity!

@biba350 5 жыл бұрын

Your lucky lady too have found someone like this hard to come by bless you

@aimeeforAmerica 4 жыл бұрын

zumzy u - I agree it’s extremely important to be smart with who you choose to be in a relationship with. I’ve found that there’s complete trust and then there’s co-dependency which is extremely unhealthy for any type of relationship. It’s really difficult for me to trust someone who has WhatsApp on their phone. It just tells me they’re up to no good. What really is the purpose for WhatsApp?? It’s to hide messages. If someone is trying to hide messages then they’re not being truthful, which is cause to distrust. I truly believe that it’s really important to make smart decisions and smart choices in life generally speaking. Hope this helps. 😌

@aimeeforAmerica 4 жыл бұрын

Well I don’t necessarily believe anyone is the “best.” Your boyfriend is the best for you which I’m very happy for you. You’re checking out the video to see if your boyfriend fits all the criteria? 🤨

@loishotfudge 5 жыл бұрын

1, I feel protected in a multifaceted way 2, I know my partner is faithful to me (It is felt) 3, I know my partner will always be my close friend 4, my partner shares chores 5, my partner works hard to increase financial security 6, my partner makes me feel sexually desired 7, I have equal influence in the relationship 8, I trust my partner to listen to me in an argument 9, my partner’s words & actions align -congruence 10, my partner is considerate of my feelings

@afshah.7972 4 жыл бұрын

Lois Lane Thank you for the affirmation! I also believe some of these are mutual where I will also be there for him equally for his happiness or our combined happiness ☺️

@Aritul 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks!

@user-li3wb1hp5l 3 жыл бұрын

I love it when my partner consides me as his number one priority and shows it.

@Somebodyisme916 5 жыл бұрын

My bf has none of these things😭time for a breakup

@iziz5691 5 жыл бұрын

Same lol. Literally all of these things we don’t have 🤣 fml I knew it was a train wreck

@neginrezaei6142 5 жыл бұрын

It is hard at first but gets easier.a relationship that does not make you feel good is better to be finished

@louera 5 жыл бұрын

did you listen to what matt said at the end of the vid? do you also do those things for him? if you don't, then he might not feel good enough to do those for you.

@javar888 4 жыл бұрын

You next one will be likely the same .... You probably bring very little to the table yourself .

@nosolar2023 4 жыл бұрын

Get out! HE WONT CHANGE!

@eliagudes2613 3 жыл бұрын

This has been one of the best advices I’ve listened to. Thank you! You’re wonderful!

@Purplelinings 5 жыл бұрын

So much wisdom in those 15 minutes! Thank you 🙏🏻

@TheMomo1109 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks Matt! So much of what you share is needed so badly in this world.

@Ellafantt 5 жыл бұрын

Great video, Matt and this is wonderful for all persons in any relationship! Love your style and energy - you're so down to earth and comforting. :D

@codysmith8095 4 жыл бұрын

11. You can trust each other to let go if necessary to become more trust worthy and possibly reunite for a better foundation. It can mean separating temporarily and trusting they will meet you on the other side.

@paularicciuto6985 3 жыл бұрын

Adorable that couples that have been together for a long time still have that passion💕

@ScottishLeo 5 жыл бұрын

You're advice is always encouraging, so helpful (even to us married ppl), I'm thankful my hubby checks all 10 from list & altho last 2 yrs were lil bumpy I believe our trust in each other is what got us back to great relationship 😀 He's even watched some of your vids w/me!! Thank you sooo much! esp for how-to communicate TO a man vids which are priceless 💖

@pelagiasiafaka6856 2 жыл бұрын

Your advices are totally to the point! Thank you for giving us food for thought and opening our horizons through your constant learning and hard work.

@sand7800 4 жыл бұрын

When I share something I know is really silly but am still experiencing, he doesn't belittle me or make me feel stupid. Instead, he shows me he understands.

@stephanies8976 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you Mat!!!! I love your videos! They’ve really helped me grow! ❤️

@rezotydnic 5 жыл бұрын

Great video. Right on as well. Getting to know each other really well is important. Being able to talk about anything and Having same values too.

@agile_pearl 5 жыл бұрын

This is one of the best videos you have done so far. Thank you so much!!!

@escobarmarla72 5 жыл бұрын

Hi Matt, you made such an impact in helping me understand how love works . It means a lot that you explain how a man acts and thinks when he’s in love. More power and blessings to you as you bless many! I am grateful to you.🙌 And this video on trust is for the longer term. Kudos!

@florencekathenge1864 5 жыл бұрын

Nice topic, very very helpful . Thank you matt

@Awooe111 5 жыл бұрын

So I am not crazy ,trust is above everything, glaaaaad

@nayyagarg5497 5 жыл бұрын

I love ur videos ❤️❤️❤️ U have really helped me a lot

@LauraPazzaglia 5 жыл бұрын

More of these kinds of videos, please! I'm no longer dating because (after a failed 20-year marriage and relationship) I finally found the man that checks all of the boxes even some I didn't even know existed. So... would you consider doing videos on relationship advice once in a while?!? Thanks for being so enthusiastic in sharing your passion, advice, and valuable research!! Ciao from Italy, L

@maismais993 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the *positive* outlooks on relationships!

@mardkhar3261 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for beautiful, motivated msg.

@kellycarlson8799 2 жыл бұрын

I absolutely love listening to you, it's very calming to hear you talk, I feel you are very knowledgeable, thank you

@hope9672 3 жыл бұрын

I've always loved ur videos. Keep spreading positive, hopeful relationship building videos! ❤

@reenamatejicka8589 4 жыл бұрын

You are amazing coach-love all your advices!!

@corinabizzell6299 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you Matthew. Personally, I value your advice. Applying these principles or to looking for these signs are a great guideline for us to consider

@eftsoulpath333 5 жыл бұрын

Mat, Great video. You rock! Thanks for everything...

@kliggins2011 5 жыл бұрын

Superb video Matt! It is information rich, easy to digest and saturated in love!

@FreeSpiritChannel 4 жыл бұрын

You are my fav advice channel! You always cut it down to real points! Covering most important topics and love how the advice is so practical real and so on point! Where It all rings so true! Especially love when you confide on your own personal stuff too! Thank you so much for sharing all your advice! :) you’re like a big brother breaking it all down so I really get it lol only wish I saw some of these videos earlier..oh well live and learn! :)

@JazmineLAMBARCA 5 жыл бұрын

Wow this was one of your top best videos ever! All of your videos are great but this one is high quality.

@75Cee 4 жыл бұрын

So true.

@simonedossantos5803 5 жыл бұрын

You’re awesome Matt!! Thank you for your videos 🙂🙂

@marym2856 5 жыл бұрын

Love love love it. Thank you so much🙏

@nicolereneecarpediem 2 жыл бұрын

I love your videos so much. Thank you for sharing and doing what you do for all of us!

@heatherframpton9693 11 ай бұрын

It is such a blessing to be married to an amazing man who checks off all of the boxes. I honestly felt that I could trust him very early in our relationship. What a breath of fresh air! (This was part of not my past experiences.)❤ Thanks for yet more great content, Mat! ❤

@lori8820 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing Dr. Gottman’s book info!

@franp112 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you, this one has been enlightening, especially to know that you have a marriage mentor/ counsellor, you go to talk to. Great insight, thanks Matt!

@twenterprise6351 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks for providing wonderful advise to the audience.

@melissastanton5647 4 жыл бұрын

What a great video. I like how you asked us women are we displaying the same things. Love that!!!

@arachnid5608 5 жыл бұрын

It made me understand why I have distrusted in the past and how I too do things that can make a person distrust me. Thank you for the advice.

@mikomelandro 3 жыл бұрын

Thank You So Much, Mat.. 🙏🏻👍🏻 This is PRECIOUS!.💯❤️🙏🏻

@carollitau2720 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you, very helpful piece

@larenaiti5234 3 жыл бұрын

I like to build trust in our marriage where actions speak louder then words. Communication Is really important too.

@perpetualasare 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for the video, I have really learned today

@chiarasimeoni5546 5 жыл бұрын

Hey! Matt I must tell you one important think. Since when I follow your videos in KZfaq, have notice everytime when you speak I see the thinks goes in that exact way. So I can't miss your videos and follow you. I must thank'you, for helping me to my relationship with my Adoreble Man with different view . Stay bless. Chiara

@martilyn1925 4 жыл бұрын

This is very good information. I agree with everything mentioned. Some of it I learned the hard way during a 46 year marriage. I am starting a new relationship now but I really don’t think I will ever find the true love I had in my marriage. However I think your guidance is spot on for all you young people in new relationships. Just thought you might want to hear from an older person who had a good long marriage and agrees with your good advice.

@TheHawkIzOut 4 жыл бұрын

Man I learned a lot. I am not in a relationship yet, but I thought about my old pastor telling me that I need to be mate my man needs me to be. And I met someone recently who challenges me on this, so now I realize I can't be excellent after I say "I do" or he gets on one knee, it starts now while I take care of myself. I also realize I don't always communicate when things change and that is quite often. And that I don't have to volunteer my time for every cause or drama. I need me time and time for great. Thank you Mat!

@jennifercash9691 4 жыл бұрын

THIS is by far your BEST ADVICE video yet because we must get COMPLETELY honest and clear on BOTH sides, HIS and OURS! Thank You soooooo much as always! 💖🙏💙

@sheilablake4858 5 жыл бұрын

Wonderful in-depth video, thank you 🙏

@nomand_in_the_world 4 жыл бұрын

What an amazing and valuable content!! Thank you so much 👍

@jessiedelores4992 5 жыл бұрын

Im a HUGE FAN of your Matt, i been watching your videos for a long time, this one Is Great ! I enjoyed the Message of this video, i am Going to Ask myself these Questions. Thanks Matt !! Showing Love From CANADA🇨🇦🇨🇦

@carmenmichaelian8307 4 жыл бұрын

I really enjoyed this. Thanks, Matt. I've been with a wonderful guy that's been going through a divorce. It hasn't been easy but I'm doing my best to be patient. We care for each other but at times he needs time on his own. Sometimes I feel neglected. Out of the 10 signs, I believe we account for 7.

@4ulynda 2 жыл бұрын

Be wary as he may do this to you once he remarries. Ask him if he feels trapped with his wife as hell feel that with you too without counseling to work they it

@rodalynpineda554 4 жыл бұрын

Very helpful and love this video..thank you

@grazyna5455 5 жыл бұрын

I should have considered these aspects 20 years ago, when I was getting married...now on the verge of divorce...

@christinmiller576 5 жыл бұрын

Retrouvaille.org

@iziz5691 5 жыл бұрын

Grażyna you’ll find someone better now you’re wiser ❤️ onwards and upwards

@Starsofneon 4 жыл бұрын

Congratz. New beginnings .

@bubbles44088 4 жыл бұрын

Me too sister. It's hard to have a relationship with someone you can't trust... And I was dumb enough to ignore not just red flags but flashing red lights with sirens blowing in my ear.

@jonnakaasinen497 3 жыл бұрын

❤️ "better late(r?) than never" they say. ❤️ I wish you all the best, you're gonna be okay ❤️

@lilgr0ck 5 жыл бұрын

Love your videos so much! Thank you!

@esterherschkovich6499 5 жыл бұрын

Trust when am healed..now learning..

@lainealonzo2926 4 жыл бұрын

Awesome! I watched your six videos you shared but I didn't left some comments but this time I cannot leave these video without leaving some comment. You're really an expert Coach that's why I don't want to miss all your videos Thank you Matt . This is really helpful to make a relationship stronger.

@suryagayatri716 4 жыл бұрын

Wonderful and genius explanation.. Thank you ...Best wishes ..🌸💐😊

@emusic96785 5 жыл бұрын

Great video! (Ignore the suggestion below to take out the stock videos. They are a nice addition & must take a lot of time & effort to include.) I TRUST your skill for making great videos!

@evadecosto85 2 жыл бұрын

Hi good morning I'm always watching your video, I love your video

@meryjkin5703 3 жыл бұрын

wow, i like all the questions, Thank you Mat you are the best Coach

@achienglilian6395 5 жыл бұрын

This is great advice Matt😊 thanks

@doraleedelong2503 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Matt, I always learn something new from you

@kararodriguez7940 4 жыл бұрын

Matt you are awesome, I love all of your videos. My husband has everything you have said and we been married for 28 years 🥰 I love him more each day he is a gift from heaven in my life

@maribelpalacios4331 5 жыл бұрын

Financial, mental, and emotional stability. ♥️

@kikki0130 5 жыл бұрын

Good job on this topic. I am a big fan.

@tobealady.4490 4 жыл бұрын

Another wonderful video. Great information, thank you!

@shelvia14 5 жыл бұрын

I love the way you explaining. 😊

@manalsalah708 3 жыл бұрын

Caring leads to trust. I think caring is the key for a successful relationship. A trustable man and a caring man aren’t the same

@padmajachaks7279 2 жыл бұрын

Open out and talk...instead of shedding tears alone under showers....i didn't know he was that soft sensitive and told me he is always egoistic....i will melt once i see him in tears...but he kept on to himself the feelings

@ashleyturner9686 5 жыл бұрын

This was a great talk!

@tetsidoris7368 4 жыл бұрын

Awesome words of wisdom Mathew, bless u big.

@anitamoses4071 3 жыл бұрын

You are very good in what you do As a relationships coach I really like the way explained stuff 👌

@vlj9013 5 жыл бұрын

Have a love that's greater than the argument

@R1O2T3F4L5M6A7O8 3 жыл бұрын

I really needed this

@margueritedejonge4557 4 жыл бұрын

Very nicely said Mat. And so true. I thought that it would be respect or communication, but if we don't, like you said, have TRUST, then neither respect or good communication can follow. Keep up the good work. I thoroughly enjoyed it and listened with a smile on my face.:)

@manuwonka 4 жыл бұрын

If trust is number one, clear, open, good communication is the only what to achieve it I think.

@andreaaliboucas8538 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you Matt, great points!

@jannatnoor8216 5 жыл бұрын

Will you please make a video or more about long-distance relationships - discussing them from different angles, and showiing how to take them to the next level?! ☺

@lolgeselle 5 жыл бұрын

Jannat Noor yes please!!!! My boyfriend and I will be doing long distancs

@danielahayes1010 5 жыл бұрын

Yes 🙏🏼 that would be amazing, I’m wondering how too take it to the next level without putting a lot of pressure in us !

@Yahshuaismyeverything 5 жыл бұрын

Yesss

@ange7408 5 жыл бұрын

Yes pls... that will be very helpful.

@mishti06 5 жыл бұрын

I would also love a video on this. Pleeeeeease Matt! !!