10 Ways To Handle a Cold And Distant Spouse

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=== VIDEO CHAPTERS ===
00:00 Meet Danny, Life & Relationship Coach
01:07 Step 1: Give your partner space
01:54 Step 2: Drop the pursuit
02:22 Step 3: Don't take it personally
03:04 Step 4: Just talk
04:15 Step 5: Pursue your own interests
05:05 Step 6: Be the change
06:16 Step 7: Find a connection
07:32 Step 8: Don't retaliate
08:32 Step 9: Practice acts of kindness
09:35 Step 10: Patience, patience, patience
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@vl5562 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for reminding me! As my dad used to say to Never chase to catch a butterfly 🦋 if you just stand still the butterfly will come around started to hang around you! It is the law of nature. 🙏❤️

@HappilyCommitted 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching! Coach Danny

@joshsaundh4851 Жыл бұрын

@@HappilyCommitted hi coach Danny should I give my girlfriend space because her dog 🐶 passed away

@sobriquetsunshine7585 Жыл бұрын

This is so hard. So, basically do what he is doing to me? Ignore him, barely include him in my life? This seems counter productive, and giving him what he wants while never getting the love and attention I want and need.

@jenniferolafson9102 Жыл бұрын

I am going through the same thing

@DrRose-wm8xl 9 ай бұрын

AGREED!

@LangShell 11 ай бұрын

My husband and I have an amazing relationship, however, he suffers from PTSD due to being active in War years ago! He tends to be this way time to time when he gets in a funk! Thank you for this great reminder!!

@ronaldrobinson4559 10 ай бұрын

A person that's cold and distant just simply don't wanna be with u, why wait for a grown person to act like a grown person? when u can go be with someone who has grown up and know what they want out of a marriage? 💯

@ricob6844 3 жыл бұрын

This has been a constant thing with my wife and I. She completely shuts me out. And I find myself pursing and trying to get a reaction to see if she cares or I’m wanted. This was very helpful thank you for the tips.

@HappilyCommitted 3 жыл бұрын

I'm glad the video was helpful for you, Rico. Thank you for watching. Coach Adrian

@arielhernandez379 2 жыл бұрын

My husband and I go through this way to much its like he doesn't care for me anymore

@arielhernandez379 2 жыл бұрын

My husband and I go through this way to much its like he doesn't care for me anymore

@zavinabalcita9090 2 жыл бұрын

This is exactly what i needed to hear.. i’ve been fluctuating between being patient and impatient, frustrated and comprehensive and it has all been very very exhausting... my partner and i are currently going through a moment in which i’m making it up to them and i tend to expect too much without knowing it.. thank you for reminding me to focus on other things, to be patient and especially to not take it personally..

@josephercastor8026 Жыл бұрын

I find your personality to be very heartfelt and genuine

@abhijeetsharnagat6920 3 жыл бұрын

Was in great need of this exact advice, thanks a lot man. This channel is turning out to be a guardian angle to me since quite a few months. Everytime some issue is there over my mind, the notification pops up with advice related to that exact thing.

@HappilyCommitted 3 жыл бұрын

I'm glad the video and channel has been helpful for you. Thank you for watching. Coach Alex

@KmNry Жыл бұрын

How much space. He’s had almost 10 years of space. In fact, the more space I give him the more distant he becomes. I’m trying to get on with my life, but he’s getting more and more withdrawn and cold.

@Shayla8319 2 жыл бұрын

I’m going through this exact same thing! Thank you so much!!! I needed to hear this. Easier said than done 😏

@marymercado3430 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this advice. I am going through a rough marriage and maybe a divorce. Your videos are what keeps me going…..

@fejirodora9017 Жыл бұрын

It's difficult to take control about my personal happiness cos I'm tired trying to make him come close that I begin to resent him and don't even have the enthusiasm to try anymore. I just want to live my Life. I'm too tired fit this now

@mei-linknetsch8656 Жыл бұрын

Im in this similar situation now for 1 month now. He still cooks for me. We already have small talks. But he said he is just being casual to me. Im almost giving up.

@KmNry Жыл бұрын

That’s my problem then. I’ve also become distant too. Cause I’m Hurting.

@woolypuffin392 2 жыл бұрын

My husband started saying I was at fault for everything. So close to breaking up with him.

@nancywangeci7124 10 ай бұрын

Am glad I got to hear this. May lord help me.

@t4c436 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this advice. I'm gonna try to be more patient

@Lounanora Жыл бұрын

I have been living with someone like that for 13 years. It’s very hurtful sometimes and it doesn’t get easier. This video was helpful though thank you so much

@HappilyCommitted Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for watching!

@Paradise2Paradise 3 жыл бұрын

That was awesome! My partner said I'm treating her like a kid. I need to learn how to give her space and be patient

@HappilyCommitted 3 жыл бұрын

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@stephanieradloff4419 Жыл бұрын

Yes, I'm going through this exact situation

@genasoriano559 2 жыл бұрын

Wow! I really love your encouragement your approached. I can always listen to your message on and on to give me a feedback on what to do. I can resonate from it. Thank you for sharing this message. 👍

@HappilyCommitted 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for the kind words, Gena! I am glad you got something out of the video. :) - Coach Danny

@akki2065 2 жыл бұрын

I don’t know what to do now as my husband always says the he is busy n he doesn’t has time to call me or text me. N when I call him back after 3-6 hours later or sometimes the next day he has the same answer that he doesn’t have time n he further adds that if u have something urgent or important then call me or text me otherwise do not disturb me. We both work in same field but how come i get time to make a call n he doesn’t ? He says he sleeps with his parents n cannot talk at night n also he says he sleeps early. Sometimes when I give him space the days pass but he didn’t gets time to call me. Only gm (good morning) text comes 2-3 times in a week.. I asked him is everything all right between us or something has changed ? He say everything is same but I don’t have time now go n do your work n don’t disturb me.. He doesn’t have 10 minutes from his 24 hours busy schedule. I asked him to meet me once at least but from 1 n a half years he doesn’t have time...What to do now ? Kindly give me some suggestions 🙏🏻

@leannepham7606 3 жыл бұрын

Great advices Danny , love it ❤ thanks

@HappilyCommitted 3 жыл бұрын

I appreciate your feedback! Coach Danny

@armorvestrus4119 Жыл бұрын

Thank you.

@welder4life690 2 жыл бұрын

This helped me so much,excellent advice thank you!

@HappilyCommitted 2 жыл бұрын

Glad it helped! - Coach Danny

@cynthiahutton6199 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you I needed this class God bless .

@HappilyCommitted 2 жыл бұрын

You are so welcome!

@EDUCATOROFHAIR 3 жыл бұрын

Also what kind of act of kindness do u suggest when you don’t live together?

@dja-juicepowersourceproduc2887 Жыл бұрын

Great advice 👍

@710Elev8d 2 жыл бұрын

Needed this

@jamesharveymoscoso1968 3 жыл бұрын

Subscribed when I finished the video keep it up bro.

@HappilyCommitted 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you, James! Coach Danny

@sarikasharma1080 3 жыл бұрын

my wife has left home and has gone to her parents place and is staying with them for past 4 months. we have been married for 15 years. she sometimes let my daughter speak to me - once a week. how do i get my wife to speak to me? she is not talking to me or responding to my messages

@HappilyCommitted 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for reaching out, Sarika. ⭐ Want To Tell Us More About What You Are Going Through? Call Our Hotline Now 👇:786.635.8373 Coach Natalie

@marlinegamble1584 3 жыл бұрын

Good Job - Good Advice 👍

@HappilyCommitted 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you! Coach Danny

@shaunpetersen2789 Жыл бұрын

Thanks

@HappilyCommitted Жыл бұрын

You're welcome!

@18Fudge 3 жыл бұрын

If my wife is cold and distant, do I reach out to her after x amount of days? Or do I let her reach out to me?

@HappilyCommitted 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for reaching out, Chris. ⭐ Want To Tell Us More About What You Are Going Through? Call Our Hotline Now 👇:786.635.8373 Coach Natalie

@EDUCATOROFHAIR 3 жыл бұрын

What if your partner tells you that you’re the reason why they’re being distant?

@HappilyCommitted 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for reaching out, Latisha. Please take a look at this article. www.withmyexagain.com/blog/how-do-i-give-my-ex-space/ Coach Danny

@wedge_one 2 жыл бұрын

I just found your channel, and latetly I have been making these steps almost unconsciously. Actually there was another video that triggered the shift in my perspective. But what if you have been trying all those steps and nothing changes? What's the limit?

@jaytapstudios2443 2 жыл бұрын

Going through this very thing right now. She said she had no emotional connection to me right now. Will what you said still work?

@HappilyCommitted 2 жыл бұрын

Hi Jay! It really is dependent on how you apply the strategy and what your end goal is. I would be happy to walk you through the steps and tailor the strategy to your specific situation. You can reserve a session using the following link: happilycommitted.com/product/strategy-session-with-danny/ -Coach Danny