12 Bad Habits you MUST AVOID to be Elegant! | Habits that Undermine your Elegance

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Woman Of Elegance

Woman Of Elegance

4 ай бұрын

In this video I do a deep dive on habits that are not elegant which undermine your elegance journey.

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@st.clareofassisiarchitectu7550
@st.clareofassisiarchitectu7550 4 ай бұрын
1. Talkative 2. Poor posture 3. Body odor 4. Smoking 5. Complaining 6. Rudeness 7. Over or underdressing 8. Rowdiness 9. Uncultured and uninformed 10.Frowning 11.Nail chewing 12. Drinking too much
@pinky-ud1rt
@pinky-ud1rt 3 ай бұрын
Amen
@carrolllinda2519
@carrolllinda2519 Ай бұрын
I appreciate this summary. Thank you
@MaggietheSubstituteTeacher
@MaggietheSubstituteTeacher 4 ай бұрын
Anybody else here for the vocabulary lesson? It would be atrocious to miss it! :)
@user-jt7ou4rv4c
@user-jt7ou4rv4c 4 ай бұрын
I love her vocabulary lessons ❤
@josephineabu
@josephineabu 4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@shardabainsla7933
@shardabainsla7933 4 ай бұрын
Me 🙋‍♀️
@rhemamensah6582
@rhemamensah6582 4 ай бұрын
Me 😂😂😂 wouldn’t miss it
@zainabbangura390
@zainabbangura390 4 ай бұрын
Yes oooo this is us😂😂😂😂
@briscoe4365
@briscoe4365 4 ай бұрын
Dressing appropriately has taken me very far in my career and personal life. While others are ignored, I get recognized, get offered help,etc ALL the time.
@evamak7240
@evamak7240 3 ай бұрын
your parents did good I believe. The sad thing is that there are people that when they see a person who is put together they talk about pretty privilege. It is not pretty privilege if I go to a job interview dressed appropriately.
@aaliyahalicia8383
@aaliyahalicia8383 4 ай бұрын
My parents used to teach me all these things when i was a kid and i thought they were harassing me but now i know how important and lucky I was to have such parents ❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️ I have come to know that Elegance is all about good manners ❤❤thanks mom and dad 🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬
@gugumazibuko6275
@gugumazibuko6275 4 ай бұрын
Are they still alive?
@aaliyahalicia8383
@aaliyahalicia8383 4 ай бұрын
@@gugumazibuko6275 yes dear they are still alive in their mid 60s
@GertrudeKatula
@GertrudeKatula 4 ай бұрын
😊🙏🏾🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬
@aaliyahalicia8383
@aaliyahalicia8383 4 ай бұрын
@@gugumazibuko6275 yes dear they are still alive in their late 60s
@aaliyahalicia8383
@aaliyahalicia8383 4 ай бұрын
@@GertrudeKatula ❣️❣️❣️❣️
@Loveistheway-prayalways.
@Loveistheway-prayalways. 4 ай бұрын
I love proverbs 😂 I love the WORD of God amen hallelujah 🌹
@yolandaray6862
@yolandaray6862 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for mentioning that replacing good habits for bad takes time.
@curritanoticias6733
@curritanoticias6733 4 ай бұрын
You are a really elegant woman. Thanks for your help.
@Nursetee15
@Nursetee15 4 ай бұрын
I liked before watching because I know it will be good.
@sammerveille339
@sammerveille339 4 ай бұрын
You did it again Vivian. You brought up so many valuable points. Could you please make a video on how to respond to compliment? Thank you! From Montreal, Canada
@techgeek5986
@techgeek5986 4 ай бұрын
Like your communication, your content is at the next level. Please do more videos and post more frequently :)
@reelmermaid8844
@reelmermaid8844 4 ай бұрын
Vivienne (hope I'm spelling that right), your videos just keep getting better and better. I shared one with a friend and to my surprise, she thought tips like this make women look pretentious and that men are much more attracted to a woman who has fire in her belly, sass in her style and can cuss with colourful expertise. I suppressed my urge to dismantle her argument, but simply asked her if she thought a gentleman worth knowing would share her opinion of ladylike behaviours. She completely dismissed my question, but months later asked me, "Where are all the gentlemen these days?". Oh the irony. Thank you for another great video and best wishes from Canada!
@africanTHEfire
@africanTHEfire 4 ай бұрын
An insightful engaging video The part about alcohol is definitely for all genders, alcohol abuse can lead to lots of other of the issues mentioned such as the body odour bad breath and unruly public lewd behavior. Excellent video and keep shining for more, the content is phenomenal.
@beatricendlovu5254
@beatricendlovu5254 4 ай бұрын
I am a better person now than before thanks to your videos you taught me a lot that changed me to become an elegant person though am still struggling with working out every day
@miriamruthdiliolisa3488
@miriamruthdiliolisa3488 4 ай бұрын
Thanks for the teachings..... I am learning.... Love from Nigeria 🇳🇬
@olivermuhindo3842
@olivermuhindo3842 3 ай бұрын
I cant get enough of these videos. They're so educative. Thanks Vivianne
@Rozallthingsfeminine
@Rozallthingsfeminine 4 ай бұрын
Smooches 💋.... I'd like to add one more # 13 using profanity. I dont like hearing it, it makes her look like she has a limited vocabulary in my opinion. She can correct this by reading more books, listening to documentaries, etc
@reelmermaid8844
@reelmermaid8844 4 ай бұрын
A very good point. A lady will never resort to profanity. My late mother always told me, once you have to raise your voice or start swearing during an intense conversation, you've already lost the argument. I miss her still. All the best to you.
@Rozallthingsfeminine
@Rozallthingsfeminine 4 ай бұрын
@@reelmermaid8844 My condolences to you. I do understand my mother passed 23 years ago as if it was yesterday. Thank you for your comment. It was appreciated 💋
@joyjoy5689
@joyjoy5689 4 ай бұрын
I think most women don't understand when to use profanity too. My goal is to stop using it at all. So I've figured out my environment matters. If I'm speaking in private with my GFs okay, but very limited. But if I'm in any other place, never!
@matamunkey1884
@matamunkey1884 4 ай бұрын
I love your style and communication skills however, elegance also stand out when you are natural in terms of hair
@Ad-Lo
@Ad-Lo 4 ай бұрын
That’s your opinion. People’s style preferences are personal.
@jasminephilip4987
@jasminephilip4987 4 ай бұрын
Dear Viv,you are doing a great great job.I always shout hallelujah when I see a new video.Thanks dear.
@jacquelinesmith-gaston2071
@jacquelinesmith-gaston2071 4 ай бұрын
Another good informative video. Thank you very much! And, you're looking beautiful as usual.
@_Dreams17777
@_Dreams17777 4 ай бұрын
I've watch every single one of your vedio and I love them all I always learn something! I find my self struggling lately with talking too much more like texting too much and when I try to control my self I hold out for a day or 3 then I'm back to weighting encyclopedia . Also struggling with the taste of red wine before bed so thanks again for your consideration love you so much .❤
@BabalwaMusekwa-bm8oq
@BabalwaMusekwa-bm8oq 4 ай бұрын
Proverbs 9:13 - Rowdiness is not appealing...
@prophetchrist1994
@prophetchrist1994 2 күн бұрын
I’m a gentleman and I love these contents. Excellent!
@ameryek.9607
@ameryek.9607 4 ай бұрын
If we take one lesson from all this, it's DON'T SMOKE, LADIES! 😮
@pinky-ud1rt
@pinky-ud1rt 3 ай бұрын
Excatly an dusgusting habbit. Never smoked j would'nt even date a man who smokes
@pattymerrill2838
@pattymerrill2838 4 ай бұрын
I'd like to add vulgar language to that list.
@BabalwaMusekwa-bm8oq
@BabalwaMusekwa-bm8oq 4 ай бұрын
Point no 6 - rudeness - I think it addressing that condescending...
@thaisminaknnedy1065
@thaisminaknnedy1065 4 ай бұрын
She has so many videos on this, maybe that's why she didn't add itn
@pattymerrill2838
@pattymerrill2838 4 ай бұрын
@@thaisminaknnedy1065Thanks. I'm new to this channel.
@anthi9191
@anthi9191 4 ай бұрын
You help me so much!!! Excellent work !! Many thanks and greetings from Greece 🇬🇷 ❤️ (Michael Obama!!!❤❤❤style icon!!!)
@elizabethpace1591
@elizabethpace1591 4 ай бұрын
Another excellent video and thank you for sharing 🙂
@jacquelinepenha3135
@jacquelinepenha3135 4 ай бұрын
Thank you about the chewing the nail constructive criticism. I will do better going forward. ❤😊
@cetheodule7504
@cetheodule7504 4 ай бұрын
Thank you Vivian! Great informations as always, people from all age group can benefit from your content. 🙌🏾
@shalomy3k
@shalomy3k 3 ай бұрын
Thank you! Well spoken as usual ❤
@chiamakajennifer1128
@chiamakajennifer1128 3 ай бұрын
Thanks for your teachings ❤
@Erinsbeach
@Erinsbeach 3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this and all your videos! I love your content! I always enjoy listening and learning from you!
@YAHSHALOM
@YAHSHALOM 4 ай бұрын
BE BLESSED VIV👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽❤️❤️❤️❤️
@titanimagalasi5139
@titanimagalasi5139 4 ай бұрын
The word is "downed" 😂 I quit.. 105 days sober😊
@faith6367
@faith6367 4 ай бұрын
Thank u so much dear 😊🇺🇬🇺🇬
@patienceoladoke3266
@patienceoladoke3266 4 ай бұрын
I love the way you refrence to the scriptures
@TheProEffect101
@TheProEffect101 4 ай бұрын
I love you Vivian!❤ Although I'm guilty of one of these cress habits you mentioned but just because you mentioned it here, I don't think I'll ever do it again Thank you so much for every video you put out here Vivian 🙏❤️
@ogechisabina6625
@ogechisabina6625 4 ай бұрын
I truly missed your videos 😫😫 glad to be back
@progressejiogu6770
@progressejiogu6770 3 ай бұрын
Been on this channel has shaped my life and make me become elegant ,thank you
@user-ko2yo9ho1m
@user-ko2yo9ho1m 4 ай бұрын
Thank you very much, champion.
@its_idonna
@its_idonna 4 ай бұрын
I truly love your videos. Very inspirational ✨🤍🤍
@user-th9yv9ko5l
@user-th9yv9ko5l 4 ай бұрын
Love your program!
@jenniferabur1992
@jenniferabur1992 4 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing, I'm impressed and picked alot from this❤❤🎉🎉
@dulcecustodio1092
@dulcecustodio1092 4 ай бұрын
Excellent video! Please upload more videos. Its help me a lot. Blessings
@jacquelinesmith-gaston2071
@jacquelinesmith-gaston2071 4 ай бұрын
I'm so glad that I grew up with a mother who taught on these things. They've taken me a long way. I'm always getting very nice compliments regarding how I dress, and the type of perfume I wear. I make it a point to daily practice good grooming. It pays off!
@aishanamu4961
@aishanamu4961 4 ай бұрын
Thanks dear
@ekammaiwok3934
@ekammaiwok3934 4 ай бұрын
Great content 🎉 . Thank you
@lorietlory2344
@lorietlory2344 4 ай бұрын
I am in love with this vlogs of Elegance of woman, so inspiring & educative
@nnennaeze6575
@nnennaeze6575 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much❤
@sistanice267
@sistanice267 4 ай бұрын
Thank you sister..
@eeyoresgirl55
@eeyoresgirl55 3 ай бұрын
I like that one” don’t explain and don’t entertain”.
@illoebubechukwu
@illoebubechukwu 4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much Ma
@mariolivas7053
@mariolivas7053 3 ай бұрын
Please make a video doing your make up and the products you use. Your skin is flawless ❤. I’m Hispanic woman excuse my English writing.
@user-dy3bp3qy4i
@user-dy3bp3qy4i 4 ай бұрын
Thanks love have learned
@Loveistheway-prayalways.
@Loveistheway-prayalways. 4 ай бұрын
Than u for sharing ❤️ I was wondering where u were 😊
@pinky-ud1rt
@pinky-ud1rt 3 ай бұрын
Iv learned a lot from this classy lady x
@jasminewaters6969
@jasminewaters6969 2 ай бұрын
Quite seriously, these very graceful habits and advices will isolate and alienate an individual in the U.S.
@esthermutua1287
@esthermutua1287 4 ай бұрын
Thanks for this informative message
@carrolllinda2519
@carrolllinda2519 Ай бұрын
Excellent presentation. Very informative and helpful .
@jaysspot8141
@jaysspot8141 3 ай бұрын
I almost wanna ask are you this confident w/o your masking?! I’d love to see 💁🏽‍♀️
@manelbrempong2585
@manelbrempong2585 4 ай бұрын
Love this🥰
@miriammwikali6141
@miriammwikali6141 4 ай бұрын
Every time your videos are a breath of fresh air.👏👏👏
@Ojuolape_space
@Ojuolape_space 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing
@yvettelocadia6656
@yvettelocadia6656 4 ай бұрын
Thankyou
@jackiemwikali2823
@jackiemwikali2823 4 ай бұрын
Well put ❤
@rafiatsule2723
@rafiatsule2723 4 ай бұрын
Thank you, I will download financial times.
@joiceify4692
@joiceify4692 4 ай бұрын
Thanks for this beautiful video. I really admire what you do. Kudos. Just want to add that bathing or brushing too often isn't good for the bacteria on your skin or mouth "called normal flora" that helps to protect you. Bath yes, brush yet but not too much!
@AsherManzinya
@AsherManzinya 4 ай бұрын
Thank you
@rhemamensah6582
@rhemamensah6582 4 ай бұрын
Simplicity and modesty
@glendabreece9767
@glendabreece9767 4 ай бұрын
You have helped a lot of women 😊 respect
@fifiandiar3879
@fifiandiar3879 4 ай бұрын
Thanks you Vivian love you girls❤❤❤❤❤❤
@chikacares1helen338
@chikacares1helen338 4 ай бұрын
First to be here ❤❤❤
@kemisadiat2629
@kemisadiat2629 4 ай бұрын
Viv 😊you’re super ❤
@sheri3150
@sheri3150 4 ай бұрын
Omg! Who are these people who are wearing the same underwear everyday 😮😅
@loveisthegreatest1112
@loveisthegreatest1112 4 ай бұрын
I do repeat bras
@merlyn8062
@merlyn8062 4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@promisemaliwa3214
@promisemaliwa3214 2 ай бұрын
Talking too much is the mistake I've made alot😩
@rosemaryonyango3173
@rosemaryonyango3173 4 ай бұрын
Present. Team early bird
@learningwithkids5077
@learningwithkids5077 4 ай бұрын
Hello maam i am your very big fan ❤
@pamelajuma990
@pamelajuma990 3 ай бұрын
Beautiful
@thequietkate
@thequietkate 4 ай бұрын
I would like to add a tip regarding body odor. As well as shaving or waxing, do not forget to exfoliate your underarms! It will make your deodorant last longer and prevent razor bumps.
@peaceseason
@peaceseason 4 ай бұрын
@octaviahicks-braye9859
@octaviahicks-braye9859 3 ай бұрын
I love your content. Caribbean women and African women have a tad bit moire etiquette and poise. than Descendants of American slaves. We are educated women we love to decorate beautiful homes, we love cooking, we love a beautiful dress, hats, and purses, etc. However, the poise and etiquette department needs a little fine tuning.
@bonitahopkins2958
@bonitahopkins2958 4 ай бұрын
You are such an elegant woman in my opinion. I was wondering regarding your face during your shows. I was wondering are you sweating due to the camera lights or is it that you have super oily skin?
@bathshebafrancis7779
@bathshebafrancis7779 4 ай бұрын
I don't like the way she blinks at me😂😂😂
@rahimacoro5713
@rahimacoro5713 4 ай бұрын
❤❤
@DoraJalloh
@DoraJalloh 4 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤
@Najust1N
@Najust1N 4 ай бұрын
👏🏽
@African.Diaspora.InLondonUK
@African.Diaspora.InLondonUK 3 ай бұрын
Your top is illfitting, its looks too small. It is always best not to wear illfitting clothes. Do a last minute/final check.Great channel.❤
@LJCasey-sd4eu
@LJCasey-sd4eu 3 ай бұрын
Oh my gosh! I know someone exactly like this, she's a lovely woman, but she talks ENDLESSLY. I've even told her she could be an FBI interrogator and she simple laughed and didn't realize that I was trying to tell her she talked too much. Subtlety did not work with this woman. 🙈 I'm exhausted after only about 15 minutes in her company.
@sims4lover947
@sims4lover947 4 ай бұрын
The only current affair i need to know about is what is in the bible
@richardhoffmann179
@richardhoffmann179 3 ай бұрын
Vivienne, how about women using a cigarette holder to look elegant, while they are trying to quit?
@tina8796
@tina8796 4 ай бұрын
It seems odd to me that you have to tell people this. I know people who don't bathe every and it's gross.. The smell is awful. The human body is disgusting in a lot of ways.
@GoddessBlessYou
@GoddessBlessYou 4 ай бұрын
You should learn to love yourself, dear, including your precious body.
@tina8796
@tina8796 4 ай бұрын
@@GoddessBlessYou I'm talking about other people who refuse to take a bath every day. They stink 😏😂
@Ad-Lo
@Ad-Lo 4 ай бұрын
@@GoddessBlessYou you obviously didn’t read.
@makutumafwa7496
@makutumafwa7496 4 ай бұрын
@07:05 If you smoke... and you complain a lot..and are rude? Move to France, well to Paris. These are almost cultural traits which won't hinder your elegance at all. Smoking is like drinking, the perception of it is country-based.
@naomik5681
@naomik5681 4 ай бұрын
What about being too promiscuous even with strangers. A sign of lack of self respect. And also gossiping.
@giuliabaracchi463
@giuliabaracchi463 3 ай бұрын
I would add being dirty to point number 3..
@anitta_Ima
@anitta_Ima 4 ай бұрын
This is another Amazing video of yours, but next time you want to show a rotten tooth to the public, I'd suggest you put out ... Viewers Discretion Notice Pls, not everyone can look at Everything. My candid advice. Thanks 👍
@starwoodanime1532
@starwoodanime1532 Ай бұрын
This is depressing. Seems like I'll never be perfect enough
@jasminewaters6969
@jasminewaters6969 2 ай бұрын
Wow. No wonder people keep asking if I am British. A real Brit would know better but, Americans don't use the same vocabulary at all and would perceive some of these speech and mannerisms as "putting on airs" of arrogance!
@pinky-ud1rt
@pinky-ud1rt 3 ай бұрын
Smoking is disgusting..never smoked
@Kcddia_
@Kcddia_ 4 ай бұрын
Can someone wear underwear two times 🤔😔
@thobekamantshongo4458
@thobekamantshongo4458 4 ай бұрын
Talking too much oh yes
@eunicemendoza7069
@eunicemendoza7069 4 ай бұрын
Your face is a little bit shiny in your chin and the part near in your nose
@sistanice267
@sistanice267 4 ай бұрын
My dear readers,here is an example if the people she is talking about…complaining,rude and talking too much
@eunicemendoza7069
@eunicemendoza7069 Ай бұрын
@sistanice267 I'm not talking too much and rude. I just speak straight and tell the truth so we can help improve each other and accept each other
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