In this video I do a deep dive on habits that are not elegant which undermine your elegance journey.
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@st.clareofassisiarchitectu75504 ай бұрын
1. Talkative 2. Poor posture 3. Body odor 4. Smoking 5. Complaining 6. Rudeness 7. Over or underdressing 8. Rowdiness 9. Uncultured and uninformed 10.Frowning 11.Nail chewing 12. Drinking too much
@pinky-ud1rt3 ай бұрын
Amen
@carrolllinda2519Ай бұрын
I appreciate this summary. Thank you
@MaggietheSubstituteTeacher4 ай бұрын
Anybody else here for the vocabulary lesson? It would be atrocious to miss it! :)
@user-jt7ou4rv4c4 ай бұрын
I love her vocabulary lessons ❤
@josephineabu4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@shardabainsla79334 ай бұрын
Me 🙋♀️
@rhemamensah65824 ай бұрын
Me 😂😂😂 wouldn’t miss it
@zainabbangura3904 ай бұрын
Yes oooo this is us😂😂😂😂
@briscoe43654 ай бұрын
Dressing appropriately has taken me very far in my career and personal life. While others are ignored, I get recognized, get offered help,etc ALL the time.
@evamak72403 ай бұрын
your parents did good I believe. The sad thing is that there are people that when they see a person who is put together they talk about pretty privilege. It is not pretty privilege if I go to a job interview dressed appropriately.
@aaliyahalicia83834 ай бұрын
My parents used to teach me all these things when i was a kid and i thought they were harassing me but now i know how important and lucky I was to have such parents ❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️ I have come to know that Elegance is all about good manners ❤❤thanks mom and dad 🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬
@gugumazibuko62754 ай бұрын
Are they still alive?
@aaliyahalicia83834 ай бұрын
@@gugumazibuko6275 yes dear they are still alive in their mid 60s
@GertrudeKatula4 ай бұрын
😊🙏🏾🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬🇺🇬
@aaliyahalicia83834 ай бұрын
@@gugumazibuko6275 yes dear they are still alive in their late 60s
@aaliyahalicia83834 ай бұрын
@@GertrudeKatula ❣️❣️❣️❣️
@Loveistheway-prayalways.4 ай бұрын
I love proverbs 😂 I love the WORD of God amen hallelujah 🌹
@yolandaray68624 ай бұрын
Thank you for mentioning that replacing good habits for bad takes time.
@curritanoticias67334 ай бұрын
You are a really elegant woman. Thanks for your help.
@Nursetee154 ай бұрын
I liked before watching because I know it will be good.
@sammerveille3394 ай бұрын
You did it again Vivian. You brought up so many valuable points. Could you please make a video on how to respond to compliment? Thank you! From Montreal, Canada
@techgeek59864 ай бұрын
Like your communication, your content is at the next level. Please do more videos and post more frequently :)
@reelmermaid88444 ай бұрын
Vivienne (hope I'm spelling that right), your videos just keep getting better and better. I shared one with a friend and to my surprise, she thought tips like this make women look pretentious and that men are much more attracted to a woman who has fire in her belly, sass in her style and can cuss with colourful expertise. I suppressed my urge to dismantle her argument, but simply asked her if she thought a gentleman worth knowing would share her opinion of ladylike behaviours. She completely dismissed my question, but months later asked me, "Where are all the gentlemen these days?". Oh the irony. Thank you for another great video and best wishes from Canada!
@africanTHEfire4 ай бұрын
An insightful engaging video The part about alcohol is definitely for all genders, alcohol abuse can lead to lots of other of the issues mentioned such as the body odour bad breath and unruly public lewd behavior. Excellent video and keep shining for more, the content is phenomenal.
@beatricendlovu52544 ай бұрын
I am a better person now than before thanks to your videos you taught me a lot that changed me to become an elegant person though am still struggling with working out every day
@miriamruthdiliolisa34884 ай бұрын
Thanks for the teachings..... I am learning.... Love from Nigeria 🇳🇬
@olivermuhindo38423 ай бұрын
I cant get enough of these videos. They're so educative. Thanks Vivianne
@Rozallthingsfeminine4 ай бұрын
Smooches 💋.... I'd like to add one more # 13 using profanity. I dont like hearing it, it makes her look like she has a limited vocabulary in my opinion. She can correct this by reading more books, listening to documentaries, etc
@reelmermaid88444 ай бұрын
A very good point. A lady will never resort to profanity. My late mother always told me, once you have to raise your voice or start swearing during an intense conversation, you've already lost the argument. I miss her still. All the best to you.
@Rozallthingsfeminine4 ай бұрын
@@reelmermaid8844 My condolences to you. I do understand my mother passed 23 years ago as if it was yesterday. Thank you for your comment. It was appreciated 💋
@joyjoy56894 ай бұрын
I think most women don't understand when to use profanity too. My goal is to stop using it at all. So I've figured out my environment matters. If I'm speaking in private with my GFs okay, but very limited. But if I'm in any other place, never!
@matamunkey18844 ай бұрын
I love your style and communication skills however, elegance also stand out when you are natural in terms of hair
@Ad-Lo4 ай бұрын
That’s your opinion. People’s style preferences are personal.
@jasminephilip49874 ай бұрын
Dear Viv,you are doing a great great job.I always shout hallelujah when I see a new video.Thanks dear.
@jacquelinesmith-gaston20714 ай бұрын
Another good informative video. Thank you very much! And, you're looking beautiful as usual.
@_Dreams177774 ай бұрын
I've watch every single one of your vedio and I love them all I always learn something! I find my self struggling lately with talking too much more like texting too much and when I try to control my self I hold out for a day or 3 then I'm back to weighting encyclopedia . Also struggling with the taste of red wine before bed so thanks again for your consideration love you so much .❤
@BabalwaMusekwa-bm8oq4 ай бұрын
Proverbs 9:13 - Rowdiness is not appealing...
@prophetchrist19942 күн бұрын
I’m a gentleman and I love these contents. Excellent!
@ameryek.96074 ай бұрын
If we take one lesson from all this, it's DON'T SMOKE, LADIES! 😮
@pinky-ud1rt3 ай бұрын
Excatly an dusgusting habbit. Never smoked j would'nt even date a man who smokes
@pattymerrill28384 ай бұрын
I'd like to add vulgar language to that list.
@BabalwaMusekwa-bm8oq4 ай бұрын
Point no 6 - rudeness - I think it addressing that condescending...
@thaisminaknnedy10654 ай бұрын
She has so many videos on this, maybe that's why she didn't add itn
@pattymerrill28384 ай бұрын
@@thaisminaknnedy1065Thanks. I'm new to this channel.
@anthi91914 ай бұрын
You help me so much!!! Excellent work !! Many thanks and greetings from Greece 🇬🇷 ❤️ (Michael Obama!!!❤❤❤style icon!!!)
@elizabethpace15914 ай бұрын
Another excellent video and thank you for sharing 🙂
@jacquelinepenha31354 ай бұрын
Thank you about the chewing the nail constructive criticism. I will do better going forward. ❤😊
@cetheodule75044 ай бұрын
Thank you Vivian! Great informations as always, people from all age group can benefit from your content. 🙌🏾
@shalomy3k3 ай бұрын
Thank you! Well spoken as usual ❤
@chiamakajennifer11283 ай бұрын
Thanks for your teachings ❤
@Erinsbeach3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this and all your videos! I love your content! I always enjoy listening and learning from you!
@YAHSHALOM4 ай бұрын
BE BLESSED VIV👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽❤️❤️❤️❤️
@titanimagalasi51394 ай бұрын
The word is "downed" 😂 I quit.. 105 days sober😊
@faith63674 ай бұрын
Thank u so much dear 😊🇺🇬🇺🇬
@patienceoladoke32664 ай бұрын
I love the way you refrence to the scriptures
@TheProEffect1014 ай бұрын
I love you Vivian!❤ Although I'm guilty of one of these cress habits you mentioned but just because you mentioned it here, I don't think I'll ever do it again Thank you so much for every video you put out here Vivian 🙏❤️
@ogechisabina66254 ай бұрын
I truly missed your videos 😫😫 glad to be back
@progressejiogu67703 ай бұрын
Been on this channel has shaped my life and make me become elegant ,thank you
@user-ko2yo9ho1m4 ай бұрын
Thank you very much, champion.
@its_idonna4 ай бұрын
I truly love your videos. Very inspirational ✨🤍🤍
@user-th9yv9ko5l4 ай бұрын
Love your program!
@jenniferabur19924 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing, I'm impressed and picked alot from this❤❤🎉🎉
@dulcecustodio10924 ай бұрын
Excellent video! Please upload more videos. Its help me a lot. Blessings
@jacquelinesmith-gaston20714 ай бұрын
I'm so glad that I grew up with a mother who taught on these things. They've taken me a long way. I'm always getting very nice compliments regarding how I dress, and the type of perfume I wear. I make it a point to daily practice good grooming. It pays off!
@aishanamu49614 ай бұрын
Thanks dear
@ekammaiwok39344 ай бұрын
Great content 🎉 . Thank you
@lorietlory23444 ай бұрын
I am in love with this vlogs of Elegance of woman, so inspiring & educative
@nnennaeze65754 ай бұрын
Thank you so much❤
@sistanice2674 ай бұрын
Thank you sister..
@eeyoresgirl553 ай бұрын
I like that one” don’t explain and don’t entertain”.
@illoebubechukwu4 ай бұрын
Thank you so much Ma
@mariolivas70533 ай бұрын
Please make a video doing your make up and the products you use. Your skin is flawless ❤. I’m Hispanic woman excuse my English writing.
@user-dy3bp3qy4i4 ай бұрын
Thanks love have learned
@Loveistheway-prayalways.4 ай бұрын
Than u for sharing ❤️ I was wondering where u were 😊
@pinky-ud1rt3 ай бұрын
Iv learned a lot from this classy lady x
@jasminewaters69692 ай бұрын
Quite seriously, these very graceful habits and advices will isolate and alienate an individual in the U.S.
@esthermutua12874 ай бұрын
Thanks for this informative message
@carrolllinda2519Ай бұрын
Excellent presentation. Very informative and helpful .
@jaysspot81413 ай бұрын
I almost wanna ask are you this confident w/o your masking?! I’d love to see 💁🏽♀️
@manelbrempong25854 ай бұрын
Love this🥰
@miriammwikali61414 ай бұрын
Every time your videos are a breath of fresh air.👏👏👏
@Ojuolape_space4 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing
@yvettelocadia66564 ай бұрын
Thankyou
@jackiemwikali28234 ай бұрын
Well put ❤
@rafiatsule27234 ай бұрын
Thank you, I will download financial times.
@joiceify46924 ай бұрын
Thanks for this beautiful video. I really admire what you do. Kudos. Just want to add that bathing or brushing too often isn't good for the bacteria on your skin or mouth "called normal flora" that helps to protect you. Bath yes, brush yet but not too much!
@AsherManzinya4 ай бұрын
Thank you
@rhemamensah65824 ай бұрын
Simplicity and modesty
@glendabreece97674 ай бұрын
You have helped a lot of women 😊 respect
@fifiandiar38794 ай бұрын
Thanks you Vivian love you girls❤❤❤❤❤❤
@chikacares1helen3384 ай бұрын
First to be here ❤❤❤
@kemisadiat26294 ай бұрын
Viv 😊you’re super ❤
@sheri31504 ай бұрын
Omg! Who are these people who are wearing the same underwear everyday 😮😅
@loveisthegreatest11124 ай бұрын
I do repeat bras
@merlyn80624 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@promisemaliwa32142 ай бұрын
Talking too much is the mistake I've made alot😩
@rosemaryonyango31734 ай бұрын
Present. Team early bird
@learningwithkids50774 ай бұрын
Hello maam i am your very big fan ❤
@pamelajuma9903 ай бұрын
Beautiful
@thequietkate4 ай бұрын
I would like to add a tip regarding body odor. As well as shaving or waxing, do not forget to exfoliate your underarms! It will make your deodorant last longer and prevent razor bumps.
@peaceseason4 ай бұрын
❤
@octaviahicks-braye98593 ай бұрын
I love your content. Caribbean women and African women have a tad bit moire etiquette and poise. than Descendants of American slaves. We are educated women we love to decorate beautiful homes, we love cooking, we love a beautiful dress, hats, and purses, etc. However, the poise and etiquette department needs a little fine tuning.
@bonitahopkins29584 ай бұрын
You are such an elegant woman in my opinion. I was wondering regarding your face during your shows. I was wondering are you sweating due to the camera lights or is it that you have super oily skin?
@bathshebafrancis77794 ай бұрын
I don't like the way she blinks at me😂😂😂
@rahimacoro57134 ай бұрын
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@DoraJalloh4 ай бұрын
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@Najust1N4 ай бұрын
👏🏽
@African.Diaspora.InLondonUK3 ай бұрын
Your top is illfitting, its looks too small. It is always best not to wear illfitting clothes. Do a last minute/final check.Great channel.❤
@LJCasey-sd4eu3 ай бұрын
Oh my gosh! I know someone exactly like this, she's a lovely woman, but she talks ENDLESSLY. I've even told her she could be an FBI interrogator and she simple laughed and didn't realize that I was trying to tell her she talked too much. Subtlety did not work with this woman. 🙈 I'm exhausted after only about 15 minutes in her company.
@sims4lover9474 ай бұрын
The only current affair i need to know about is what is in the bible
@richardhoffmann1793 ай бұрын
Vivienne, how about women using a cigarette holder to look elegant, while they are trying to quit?
@tina87964 ай бұрын
It seems odd to me that you have to tell people this. I know people who don't bathe every and it's gross.. The smell is awful. The human body is disgusting in a lot of ways.
@GoddessBlessYou4 ай бұрын
You should learn to love yourself, dear, including your precious body.
@tina87964 ай бұрын
@@GoddessBlessYou I'm talking about other people who refuse to take a bath every day. They stink 😏😂
@Ad-Lo4 ай бұрын
@@GoddessBlessYou you obviously didn’t read.
@makutumafwa74964 ай бұрын
@07:05 If you smoke... and you complain a lot..and are rude? Move to France, well to Paris. These are almost cultural traits which won't hinder your elegance at all. Smoking is like drinking, the perception of it is country-based.
@naomik56814 ай бұрын
What about being too promiscuous even with strangers. A sign of lack of self respect. And also gossiping.
@giuliabaracchi4633 ай бұрын
I would add being dirty to point number 3..
@anitta_Ima4 ай бұрын
This is another Amazing video of yours, but next time you want to show a rotten tooth to the public, I'd suggest you put out ... Viewers Discretion Notice Pls, not everyone can look at Everything. My candid advice. Thanks 👍
@starwoodanime1532Ай бұрын
This is depressing. Seems like I'll never be perfect enough
@jasminewaters69692 ай бұрын
Wow. No wonder people keep asking if I am British. A real Brit would know better but, Americans don't use the same vocabulary at all and would perceive some of these speech and mannerisms as "putting on airs" of arrogance!
@pinky-ud1rt3 ай бұрын
Smoking is disgusting..never smoked
@Kcddia_4 ай бұрын
Can someone wear underwear two times 🤔😔
@thobekamantshongo44584 ай бұрын
Talking too much oh yes
@eunicemendoza70694 ай бұрын
Your face is a little bit shiny in your chin and the part near in your nose
@sistanice2674 ай бұрын
My dear readers,here is an example if the people she is talking about…complaining,rude and talking too much
@eunicemendoza7069Ай бұрын
@sistanice267 I'm not talking too much and rude. I just speak straight and tell the truth so we can help improve each other and accept each other