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00:00 - Introduction
00:24 - Let people be embarrassed
01:00 - Hair straightener analogy
01:11 - Multitasking isn't real
03:55 - I quit alcohol
04:50 - Good shoes
05:12 - Random meaningful quote :)
05:18 - Daily writing
05:47 - Random meaningful quote :)
06:06 - Quality splurging
07:04 - Less news intake
07:50 - Always speak the truth
08:59 - Calendar for everything
09:12 - It might turn out much better
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@LanaBlakely Жыл бұрын
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@Billy33753 Жыл бұрын
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@filippersson5256 Жыл бұрын
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@seemranhoro Жыл бұрын
Here's more:- Don't wear clothes to please others Learn to say "No" Stop trying to feel happy when you are actually not. It's okay to be uncertain no one knows what they are doing Parents advice is not always the best for you Learn from the stories of Older people Always remember the bad times of your life and how you have survived. Not everyone around you wants the best for you.
@NA-lz9vy Жыл бұрын
the last one..ugh
@shivangiverma3691 Жыл бұрын
Thank you🙏😊
@sifatnusrat4343 Жыл бұрын
You just spoke my mind
@natemarx4999 Жыл бұрын
Lana is our therapist every Sunday.
@phaninani1770 Жыл бұрын
💯💯
@pritamroy8703 Жыл бұрын
I genuinely don't always watch your videos, but, whenever I feel really lost, less alive, kinda depressed, feeling awful about literally everything, then, I never find anyone better than you to help myself. It always helps almost exactly the way I needed. So, i just wanted to say thank you.
@psstatus2108 Жыл бұрын
Yeah
@yehehehaw Жыл бұрын
I just wanna say that this channel is my comfort zone. Whenever I feel stressed or overwhelmed, I always find myself watching your videos, you have this calm and relaxing energy in you that gives me inner peace. Also I have sleeping problems and listening to you talk helps me sleep at night. You're literally my comfort youtuber, and like the big sister I've always wanted. Thank you for that. 💗
@betterwithblake Жыл бұрын
Your insights and personal experiences shared throughout the video resonated with me deeply. One piece of advice that particularly stood out to me was the importance of not making oneself uncomfortable just to avoid making others uncomfortable. It's a powerful reminder that we shouldn't sacrifice our own well-being and happiness for the sake of pleasing others. Thanks for another great video, I really look up to you.
@PhilosophyWithLilly Жыл бұрын
Hey! You might also like my content 🤓
@NatureDaydream Жыл бұрын
One of the biggest difficulties in my life is actually letting myself embarrass others. This is because I have been told that if I say something wrong and don't do the things expected by society, then I will feel ashamed and let others down. You are right with saying that not everyone will have good intentions in our hearts and we should not force people to be kind to us if they don't want to. When someone asks me about something I don't feel comfortable responding to and I don't respond or respond in a way which disappoints others then people become defensive. I have embarrassed lots of people before and doing so makes me feel uncomfortable and think about some of the things related to the past actions that I did and the future ones. I love your advice, Lana.❤️
@raskeshades208 Жыл бұрын
Pretty much living according to everything on this list. Been great for relieving stress, anxiety and most of the unwanted distress in my life. Gotten my sleep routine down, working out, working on family and friendly relations. Been a great year, and even with small steps you can get far with consistency.
@koomornin7926 Жыл бұрын
Im 14 and i hate evrything in life but whenever i watch your videos i just feel soooo relaxed lana honestly thank you
@mirelasemanjaku Жыл бұрын
As someone who has thought of suicide several times for a period of time.. that: "You have to stick around to find out" made me cry..
@LanaBlakely Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
@shreyankpatel2591 Жыл бұрын
@Mihaila Listening to 21 pilots helped me alot through my hard times, they might help you too. ''Now the night is coming to an end The sun will rise and we will try again."
@user-eh2ed7rl4d Жыл бұрын
how is this so random yet it's everything you NEED to hear ? she's such a comforting person
@katakix Жыл бұрын
Omg exactly yes
@lusindaveyan Жыл бұрын
Lana, your energy is so positive and relaxing. Thank You for creating this warm atmosphere that I feel while watching your videos. 💓
@ChrisGaultHealthyLiving Жыл бұрын
Awesome advice, Lana! Keep being your badass self! Funny about the multi-tasking issue. I have that also! 😆 Funny about the good running shoes. I used to own a running store and I preached that everyday. Very important! Love the Hokas!
@AwesomeRando Жыл бұрын
If I had to add some things to this list, it would be this: 1) Express your feelings through memes. A sense of humor goes a long way. 2) Read a non fiction book. And specifically a non fiction book. My favorite is a high school physics textbook. Reading is good for your brain. 3) You do not need to exercise a lot or too hard in order to see significant progress in health and physique.
@letshavesomewater Жыл бұрын
ur so comforting i love u fr
@LanaBlakely Жыл бұрын
ily!!!
@bethrhi Жыл бұрын
I’ve been binge watching all your videos, you are so beautiful just like your soul is too 🤍
@taextho6953 Жыл бұрын
Yess My Sunday therapist!
@LanaBlakely Жыл бұрын
hii
@theintentionalist Жыл бұрын
In the morning before work sometimes I just have time to write the word "breathe" in my journal. It makes a difference when starting out my day.
@cepe1 Жыл бұрын
I used to be the kind of person who would not lie or even consider that anyone would lie to me but as I got older I have seen that there are soo many people who lie in weird ways which actual led me to lie in various places too, hence the lie cycle started while I know lying is harmless in the situation, but has made me feel sooo much bad in myself that I cannot trust myself now 💔
@eTLetl Жыл бұрын
Your videos are super peaceful and you make me feel understood🫶🏻
@hnnhml Жыл бұрын
I still struggle with enjoying to write (often), thats really something i wanna get myself more used to. Thanks lana💜
@akbargabbar505 Жыл бұрын
She's S0oooooo gorgeous🌷 great Personalty👩❤ love thissss💜💞
@fyhbxfgh2912 Жыл бұрын
Ever since I started watching vids like this my life has changed so much and I’m so happy
@Marinameyers05 Жыл бұрын
The last tip is so true. I developed depression this year. Could not perform well on my external exams required for my national country. But, my own school grades were good enough to get me accepted into medical school in a much prettier country. It’s crazy how life works.
@mrshammmon310 Жыл бұрын
Iv been feeling extremely low and depressed and I just found one of your videos and it's really help me. Thank you so much 🙏
@LanaBlakely Жыл бұрын
:')
@hankalorinczova Жыл бұрын
*Dear Lana.* I just want to let you know that your videos (or your films) are so cinematic! I really and honestly wish they were projected in the cinema, because they are legitimate, true and real cinematography. But the fact these videos are on KZfaq is such a great treasure, advantage and priviledge!
@LanaBlakely Жыл бұрын
Wow this is really kind. I appreciate your words!!
@hankalorinczova Жыл бұрын
@@LanaBlakely Lana, I appreciate your words and your response! Thank you so much.
@akbargabbar505 Жыл бұрын
No Debate She's great Personalty💜👩💞❤💯
@taextho6953 Жыл бұрын
We love lana!❤️
@LanaBlakely Жыл бұрын
love u guys
@ouui Жыл бұрын
I high suggest fairtrade shopping, there are stores hidden even in the smallest cities and they are definetly the best option for good quality and fair labor conditions :) You can find different styles and really beautiful clothing, starting to fairtrade shop has been a blessing to my wardrobe!
@I_Lov_you_ Жыл бұрын
Life is full of unexpected changes and challenges. Develop your adaptability skills and learn to embrace change. Be open to new ideas, perspectives, and opportunities that come your way.
@Fionaedonohue Жыл бұрын
she’s the big sister we all need! love u lana
@babiioffgun1835 Жыл бұрын
Thank so much for this videos they really help me lot and others, thank you! Take care
@thepoisonousf1sh Жыл бұрын
your videos are the highlight of the day!
@LanaBlakely Жыл бұрын
well this made my day
@NFSMAN50 Жыл бұрын
When Lana uploads, the world becomes a happier and better place!!
@NatureDaydream Жыл бұрын
And when Lana starts with "Hey friends!" the world is even better. Lana sees us all and loves us so much.
@NFSMAN50 Жыл бұрын
@@NatureDaydream definitely agreed!!
@LanaBlakely Жыл бұрын
🥹❤️
@tanishapareek2278 Жыл бұрын
Your videos always bring such a warm and comforting feeling, like being right at home. Your recent few videos didn't quite capture that classic 'Lana' vibe, but now, it's like Lana is back and better than ever! I genuinely hope that whatever you were going through has settled down and brought you peace. Sending you all the positive vibes! 💗
@Lucsy3012 Жыл бұрын
"Sometimes you're the whole package at the wrong adress" I feel this very much
@lagomholly Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this advice, it's what we all know but need that reminder of sometimes when life gets away with us :)
@hard2kill16 Жыл бұрын
Always great hearing some nice advice
@Zainab-sx3yd Жыл бұрын
watching Lana's video before going to sleep has now become one of my bedtime rituals
@enxhil9955 Жыл бұрын
You’re page and videos feels like Home 🥹 safe space
@LanaBlakely Жыл бұрын
this is heartwarming
@ljlopez9470 Жыл бұрын
I notice your experience and i gratefull a lot that you piece of advice us 💖 thanks
@BrownieEXE Жыл бұрын
I appreciate the advice. Currently doing most of these already 😊
@kflecha1 Жыл бұрын
Getting my Sunday inspiration with Lana ❤✨ I hope you guys are doing well 💙✨🙌🏽
@vera-marieokafor3827 Жыл бұрын
Thank you ! I just thought that I'm the only one feeling this way so happy someone feel the same way I'm feeling and thinking your title is really true to its meaning it's not a sort of clickbait that most videos do finally thanks !
@Mv3Trader Жыл бұрын
One of the best decisions I've ever made was to stop drinking alcohol. I spent 3 years living in a country where it was illegal, so I pretty much lost my addiction to it then but I started drinking occasionally when I came back home until I had a drink one time with CBD, which made the feeling the following day worse than it usually is. So instead of giving up the occasional CBD I opted for letting go of the alcohol and don't regret it for a single day. 🙂
@amiraaurelia3378 Жыл бұрын
some of your advices are also what i’ve been giving to myself, but they don’t always stay in my mind so sometimes i forgot about those advices. thank you for making this video and those advices are truly helpful.
@KRITIKA555. Жыл бұрын
her voice is just what i need at the beginning and at the end of the day she and wizardliz>>>>>>>>>>>>suggest me more channels like these coz i have watched every single vedio of them
@RaphaelAvant Жыл бұрын
One of the advices I would like to consider experiment consistently is journaling
@mansoor3159 Жыл бұрын
Omg! Lana what a perfect timing and my sister love your videos so so much you are my inspiration and I will support you till end💫💝🤗
@sophiaisabelle0227 Жыл бұрын
We sppreciate your pieces of advice. They certainly help us through the obstacles we have to face and come to terms with in our lives.
@hnnhml Жыл бұрын
Couldn’t agree more 🤍
@JessBookgirlTV Жыл бұрын
You are right about writing daily. It's great exercise for the brain.
@annaspeaks373 Жыл бұрын
So cozy to see you in sweater in this summer day😊
@LanaBlakely Жыл бұрын
I thought it looked a bit off while editing, but I felt cold while filming so… 😅
@ayeshaaslam5903 Жыл бұрын
thank you so much lana! this was very helpful for me : )
@poornimachavan3556 Жыл бұрын
You make me happy lana love you lana❤️🤌
@shekhargupta6718 Жыл бұрын
Your mindset is the foundation of your success. Build it strong and build it well. Challenges are not roadblocks, they are opportunities to grow and become stronger. Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.
@ashnamansoor4966 Жыл бұрын
Heyy lana i really love your videos they are so therapeutic 🥺❤️
@hnnhml Жыл бұрын
They really are 💙
@H_bomb_ Жыл бұрын
Needed this one, thank you Lana :)
@bloomnbury7387 Жыл бұрын
Lana I so much wanna make a KZfaq channel and talk about healthy habits and stuff but right now I am holding myself back. You inspire me.
@rekhadekakakati1102 Жыл бұрын
You always give the bestest advice. The news thing is really true for me. Like you I also had a phase of regular intake of news and then I screwed my mental health so I stopped it. Also, the last words are golden. Thank you for reminding me that. Also thank you for being my best virtual big sister and teacher for 4 years. Lots of love from me ❤❤
@chickenwingwithmayo Жыл бұрын
i loved this video! absolute 'big sister' vibes~!! thank you for this :) have a great day
@tamunaberidze8048 Жыл бұрын
This video popped up super unexpectedly! And somehow at least half of the content was something i needed to hear!
@TomInTheSky2001 Жыл бұрын
I actually liked the fact I had no idea what you were going to talk about haha. Thanks for the video :)
@glorii3 Жыл бұрын
At 8:10, the lying part hit just right. For instance I’m still a minor, but I had developed over the past years the habit of lying, even when it was not necessary, even when the motive was stupid. And each time I’m done doing it in my mind I’m just like « Oh God, why did you do it? It wasn’t necessary, you could’ve just told the truth ». So I really want to stop it and I will try my best.
@JamieAsareZiegler Жыл бұрын
Rule #1: Tell the truth. Rule #2: Live in such a way that telling the truth is easy.
@sohailkhan5987 Жыл бұрын
I like Listening to lana a lot. I don't even wanted those advise but couldn't say no to your calming videos.
@user-cl9fb1db7e Жыл бұрын
Loved the video! Also I'm so thankful for every piece of advice you said ❤️
@Afreenzehraa Жыл бұрын
My exams are coming wish me luck Lana 🦄
@LanaBlakely Жыл бұрын
you're going to nail it
@vanessarincon8222 Жыл бұрын
Really appreciate the advice ❤️ Thank you!!
@pujas134 Жыл бұрын
I love this so much. Thank you so much for sharing this❤
@bbyluvspink Жыл бұрын
Wow, such a lovely video Lana!!!
@Khalifa-gamer Жыл бұрын
Thanks you lana! ❤
@BilalDemiroglu Жыл бұрын
I just wanted to say good morning to this beautiful wonderful person.
@Marvel_0731 Жыл бұрын
You definitely pushed me to start journaling. Thank you. ❤😊
@ChinnyIvy Жыл бұрын
The first point... I have been working on it too
@Mr.Gibo.1 Жыл бұрын
Great job
@anabelapliso Жыл бұрын
Thank you Lana! ❤
@thebrookeducare Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing 😍😍
@cugurll1140 Жыл бұрын
Oky this girl is got to make everyone back into ✨humans✨
@Shura_shariar070 Жыл бұрын
I love this woman more than a lot of things
@frankiejesus226 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for helping me start my day off right 🙂
@faizahasan3284 Жыл бұрын
thank you Lana❤
@marvinodi3874 Жыл бұрын
Stunning ✨
@taextho6953 Жыл бұрын
She's pretty, respected and a perfect Woman to exist ❤️
@ursnana Жыл бұрын
You are an angel in disguise 🥺🥰
@tinaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Жыл бұрын
i truly look up to u like my older sister. i love you.
@blessyleimapokpam5409 Жыл бұрын
Exam tomorrow,here because Lana can calm me down
@LanaBlakely Жыл бұрын
Good luck!!!
@amyandrews4803 Жыл бұрын
You're my inspiration, Lana!
@jamesporter2788 Жыл бұрын
Hey Lana, nice video! Just a heads up the subtitles go out of sync with the video when the SigmaOS section comes on. That said, keep doing what you're doing. It's well put together. And hey take some longer pauses occasionally. I always feel something when you take a pause in a peaceful, unrushed way.
@LanaBlakely Жыл бұрын
I appreciate it :)
@ashmitasarkar1704 Жыл бұрын
Yesss 1st comment... u r like an elder sis to me... i am so grateful to hv found u ❤
@angelasc25 Жыл бұрын
I always love your videos! Even though sometimes I already know these things it's good to be reminded. Btw do your know the exact model of your HOKA shoes?
@LanaBlakely Жыл бұрын
Thank you! Clifton 9 x
@angelasc25 Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@NatureDaydream Жыл бұрын
Lana, you are a really comforting person. Watching this is so calming. I forgive you for drinking. ❤ All advice you give here is valuable. ☀️
@timbrown9731 Жыл бұрын
Actually, that’s very interesting that you talk about that situation Lana, I felt the same way when I go out with my friends in the same situation always been an early riser….. maybe I’m just getting old at 44 lol
@atozcreator2413 Жыл бұрын
Love you Lena from India ❤
@emmarieshanepayos3084 Жыл бұрын
Great advice but I just wanna say, Gosh you're so pretty 😩
@LanaBlakely Жыл бұрын
thank you :')) x
@emmarieshanepayos3084 Жыл бұрын
@@LanaBlakely omgggg, Welcome 😁
@Anonymous_quirks Жыл бұрын
Hi Lana dear!I hope u're well!You're talking about quitting alcohol and me luckily as a Muslim is already prohibited to consume alcohol/drug.U're making a wise decision here I'm telling you😊
@sportykingcom Жыл бұрын
Thanks Lana !
@kou_isthatyou Жыл бұрын
Great video
@waynegood9233 9 ай бұрын
what is your horoscope sign ????? So as a Gemini this happened when I was younger in my last 2 years I was doing a job that was for 1 and 1/2 people and stressed me out at the end of the week
@simerdeepsingh3379 Жыл бұрын
i am really really behind in life ....like super behind ....i dont know how to overcome my setbacks and move ahead....i have no idea how to clear my professional accounting exams things are not going as i wanted ..all my friends are super ahead ....around them i feel like a big time failure ...super scared about entering 20s in 6 monthssssssss
@ronnieorourke8268 Жыл бұрын
Nice videos
@LanaBlakely Жыл бұрын
thanks!
@ronnieorourke8268 Жыл бұрын
@@LanaBlakely good new browser too try due too many tabs running in the background
@pranavjaiswal2379 Жыл бұрын
Hi lana missed u hope u r doing well :D
@LanaBlakely Жыл бұрын
doing great!! how are you?
@pranavjaiswal2379 Жыл бұрын
@@LanaBlakely me too, just enjoying the last day of weekend 🫠
@bolangbo02 Жыл бұрын
Lana is Amazing ❤️.
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