13 Stoic WAYS To DESTROY Your Enemy Without FIGHTING Them

13 Stoic WAYS To DESTROY Your Enemy Without FIGHTING Them | Marcus Aurelius STOICISM

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13 Stoic WAYS To DESTROY Your Enemy Without FIGHTING Them | Marcus Aurelius STOICISM
🔍 Discover the timeless wisdom of Marcus Aurelius and Stoicism, presenting 13 powerful ways to face your enemy without resorting to direct confrontation. Join us on a journey of resilience and strategic insight as we explore Stoic teachings that empower you to navigate conflicts with wisdom and composure. Embark on a mindful exploration of Marcus Aurelius's wisdom and Stoic teachings, unraveling ways to face your enemies without engaging in physical or verbal combat.
🌟 In this video, we cover:
✅ Keep emotions in check during conflicts.
✅ Cultivate empathy for diverse viewpoints.
✅ Allow time for tensions to ease.
✅ Prioritize tranquility over external chaos.
✅ Make decisions based on reason, not emotion.
✅ Seek peaceful resolutions through dialogue.
✅ Establish clear limits to protect your well-being.
✅ Rise above the need to prove oneself right.
✅ Find growth in challenging situations.
✅ Assess the importance of each conflict.
✅ Release resentment for personal freedom.
✅ Strive for cooperative and constructive solutions.
✅ Showcase virtues even in the face of opposition.
🌟 Join us on this insightful journey as we integrate Stoic ways into actionable insights for facing enemies with wisdom and grace.
🔍 Here's what you'll learn:
00:00 - Intro
01:22 - 1. Delve into the Depths of Your Adversary.
04:40 - 2. Choose Your Battles Wisely.
08:00 - 3. Speak with Calm and Clarity.
11:16 - 4. Seek the Shared Path.
14:53 - 5. Appeal to Their Inner Values.
18:35 - 6. Using Humor Wisely in Conflict Resolution.
22:12 - 7. Offer Empathy.
26:13 - 8. Embrace the Art of Compromise.
29:34 - 9. Seek External Aid Without Shame.
33:07 - 10. Forgiveness.
36:47 - 11. Growth from Ashes of Conflict.
39:58 - 12. Setting Boundaries.
43:16 - 13. Remember, You Control Your Reactions.
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@paradihimo9277 2 ай бұрын

Distance from them is the best way to negative people

@ChriztineGamble Ай бұрын

What if they live with you?

@christelmayer Ай бұрын

Get affordable psychological help, or leave the person. You will never win with a narcissist!

@DjBonds-ex3iv Ай бұрын

❤🎉❤🎉 TRUE ❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤

@DjBonds-ex3iv Ай бұрын

@@christelmayer❤🎉 NARCISSIST NEVER TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY FOR ANYTHING.😂🎉😂🎉😂

@DjBonds-ex3iv Ай бұрын

GREAT VIDEO 🥰💘💌☄️🌠 SHINE THE LIGHT ON THE TRUTH... ONLY A FEW ARE WORTHY OF A BATTLE 👀😎🎶🎧😇✨😇✨😇✨😘🎁🎇🎁🎇🎁😇💪💪💪💪✍️🙏STEP BACK, GET QUIET, DON'T ARGUE , LEAVE , SAY SERENITY Prayer, GO TO A TWELVE STEPS RECOVERY MEETING, TALK TO A PERSON IN RECOVERY, TALK TO YOUR THERAPY GROUPS, TALK TO A THERAPIST ❤ LOVE YOURSELF FIRST

@cynthiachronister4082 3 ай бұрын

😊my dad used to say"dont argue with idiots"he was so brilliant ❤

@winstonmatthews2713 3 ай бұрын

❤You know why, 🎋🌾Because you would just be stupid just like them, 🎋🌾

@WhiteBirdMustFly2 2 ай бұрын

Practice Your Stoicism’s, It is logical and while being assertive, one Can Win In Their Game Of Words, while still being kind. Wrestling with Pigs, never worked, as it is foolish, and lowers you to their kinds level. A wise man fights with words, not fists, my Grandpa said.

@dacunomaximino1624 2 ай бұрын

not "brilliant" rather be luck of patience...

@doctokdoes434 2 ай бұрын

Another good one is ‘never debate a moron’ or ‘morons shout the loudest’

@Originalwisdom2024 2 ай бұрын

Silence is the power that conquers all types of emotions

@ThomasinaAdams27 3 ай бұрын

To argue with a fool makes you a bigger fool. a fool like to prey on your fears, when they are the fearful one. I don't even dignify them. Love this wisdom.💞💞💞

@ursulaschlapbach311 2 ай бұрын

Great 🎉❤🎉

@lemostjoyousrenegade 2 ай бұрын

🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯♥️‼️

@user-xc7zs5jz5t Ай бұрын

Play fool to catch wise

@sheilacarter3806 2 ай бұрын

Limit the amount of time around negative people and male sure there is a clear purpose while in their presence. Stay confident but kind 😇

@StoicZone101 2 ай бұрын

"The best revenge is to unlike who performed the injury" - Marcus Aurelius

@placebojesus5652 2 ай бұрын

Or worse, unsubscribe.

@brianjacob8728 2 ай бұрын

the Roman Facebook. who knew...

@BibleBrainTeaser-zz7oe 2 ай бұрын

In times of doubt and uncertainty, lean on God's promises. He is faithful to His word and will sustain you through every trial. Take courage, for He is with you always. Amen.

@daliahpitter2737 2 ай бұрын

❤❤❤ facts

@mbrilliB 21 күн бұрын

Amen

@davemojarra4734 17 күн бұрын

Do you have evidence for your assertions?

@patriciagonzalez6903 3 ай бұрын

Anyone that learned and practiced Ancient Greek philosophy has a successful life. Thank you!

@levykhellyjacob1987 12 күн бұрын

_MY BEST WAYS TO FIGHT MY ENEMIES BACK ARE PRAYING THEM. THAT THEY WILL KNOW THE LORD JESUS CHRIST. AMEN. ONLY GOD HAVE THE POWER TO CHANGE US ALL._

@reginaldpowell6145 2 ай бұрын

controling and acknowledging your emotion is key

@LocNguyen-fc6ct 2 ай бұрын

Would the US and UK governments allow a person of a different nationality and their nationality to run the US and UK governments? Because I am a Russian girl with dual citizenship. I want to run the US and British governments. Who knows the answer? Please give me an answer. Thank you I am a Vietnamese Communist. But I also have US citizenship. Can I run the United States government in Congress. I am a Russian politician. Can I run the US government and the British government?

@Mina.15 Ай бұрын

@@LocNguyen-fc6ctgo ask Joe

@cher4500 3 ай бұрын

I already know how.. Examine everything.. Always examine what they hide.. My mother's teaching. Take them down quietly. Pick your battle quietly with delay. Everyone has something to hide.. Then sometimes let it ride.. For some.. Hold the tongue.. For some! Not for all.. Using your battles wisely. 👌🏼 🌹 💖 🐦

@riviclaye615 2 ай бұрын

A lot of these tactics will not work with a narcissist. These tactics could put you in harm's way. With a narc: 1. Don't engage AT ALL (if possible) 2. Block/Delete/Ignore 3. Gray rock 4. Run!!!

@revathia5258 2 ай бұрын

@@riviclaye615l

@janedoe8446 18 күн бұрын

@@riviclaye615 Thank you for the reminder!!

@sheilacarter3806 2 ай бұрын

I don't believe in letting everyone get away with wrong. I like to address it in a way and help them correct it. Especially with customer service or racism. ❤🎉

@randychris5031 2 ай бұрын

Exactly bro 😎 some situations need to be dealt with squarely😊

@ChrisKHensley 2 ай бұрын

@randychris5031 I found myself in a work situation where an African American woman made a racist comment about white people in the workplace. I thought about my options. Should I hit her? Well, no. Should I taddle on her? Well, what would the end result be? Instead, I considered maybe this is her own insecurity and it makes her feel more empowered. Surely, it represents her as being more shortsighted. Perhaps it's best to just allow her to keep being her, and not let it bother me. In this dilemma, where I feel like everyone should be able to work in a place without discrimination, I weigh the odds, provide charity to the perpetrator of this disrespect, and end up with the best result.

@user-cw4zv5mn2i Ай бұрын

Make sure you won't regret it afterwards though

@charlottengobeni606 Ай бұрын

True but I do that with empathy

@stevenweiss2148 25 күн бұрын

The police do not either. That's why you should call the police instead of being charged breaking the law yourself

@phoenixrisin2269 3 ай бұрын

You can’t perceive life through their eyes if they are pathological narcissist if you aren’t one. Run!

@sheilacarter3806 2 ай бұрын

Don't fight every battle some just sit back pray hold every word and actions

@WayOfWisdom1 3 ай бұрын

"No man is free who is not master of himself"Epictetus

@Anna_Key 2 ай бұрын

I'm glad you spelt that name. The captions wrote Epic Teeters, Epic Tattoos, Epic Teachers. I knew that couldn't be right.

@emaniwright5921 23 күн бұрын

I like Epictetus he was a true jedi master and those words still ring true today!!!!

@miniminamanmina3715 2 ай бұрын

Sometimes a battle fought and lost may not be a loss but a planting of seeds of longer term change in your favor.

@bobsarfatty4673 3 ай бұрын

He who rules his will, is stronger than he who rules a city.

@yeswing10 23 күн бұрын

From the Holy Bible

@venky526 2 ай бұрын

Think before you act,react.

@user-hj2sh8ev4q 2 ай бұрын

Sometimes its our ex friends who turn into enemies

@sanelisiwedlamini7142 2 ай бұрын

That's why I don't have freinds 😊

@fallonrappaport5270 Ай бұрын

They were always enemies under the guise of friendship

@Clevelandsteamer324 26 күн бұрын

Betrayal never comes from our enemies

@patsiebentley111 19 күн бұрын

That's the worst kind !

@lolalucky6373 6 күн бұрын

I don't believe in friend no way .my mother was my best friend but after she passed I'm lonely 😭😭

@ganymeade5151 2 ай бұрын

Learning how to deal with haters is challenging. It pays to learn even if corrupt and bad people think you have lost and they have won. Refuse to play their zero sum games that are rigged against you. Know that you are right, even if haters disrespect you. Realize that many people are driven by misperceptions, delusions, emotions, and not logic. Realize that some people are just impossible and evil and cannot be appeased and look for so called errors to exploit.

@frankie7508 21 күн бұрын

No do not engage, but rather set healthy boundaries.

@deborahcurtis1385 3 күн бұрын

Sometimes humour can be used with great effect. If you can laugh at yourself and at the situation, you can also get them to drop their defences and see things from your perspective. I did this today with some belligerent men. I let them know I was onto their in-jokes and had a laugh about it. You can turn the tables, do the unexpected and this can be disarming. Especially if you can laugh. Laugher is a massive piece in your armoury and it can be used to defuse tension. It's also been used by oppressed people for centuries. "First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win." Mahatma Gandhi

@antoniaboniche6956 3 ай бұрын

I love your voice. It sounds so calm and trustworthy ❤

@Etic335 2 ай бұрын

Yes, Right!!! all hard work on our shoulder. To make sure others are OK. We are extremely mature and confident. Runn away from ignorance... don't try to teach them.❤ Don't forgive Egoistic person, they will never change.

@simons1008 3 ай бұрын

I am a student who is learning a lot. I am also applying these skills to my own life. I am sharing Stoicism with my family and friends. We need new knowledge especially about how to use our minds in positive ways. I love these powerful teachings. Thank you. God delivers on time.

@StoicRealms 3 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing!

@user-kb2pd8pi4s 3 ай бұрын

Amen

@sheilacarter3806 2 ай бұрын

Sometimes I like to win because I don't like wrong motives of others 🙏

@thedandyhighwayman Ай бұрын

Imagine how we have regressed as humanity from Stoicism to Wokism.

@frankie7508 21 күн бұрын

The real question is why? And it's my guess that it's because the public school system here in the united states has been infiltrated with communist and socialists.

@pamulahwilliams1744 18 күн бұрын

Respectfully, and the sad part is there are many who think they're woke by their interpretation and they still are not...woke...that is.😪

@inca3370 8 күн бұрын

What's wokism?

@TitoJonJon 7 күн бұрын

1oo%

@spmoran4703 6 күн бұрын

@@inca3370Being told how to accept things that you do not want to . How to accept other peoples truths at the expense of your own .

@user-vw2bf7rk4w 3 ай бұрын

Its not the surface of what another person is saying..your right, its their depths, what is really going on, behind it all. Thank you 😊

@sheilacarter3806 2 ай бұрын

Speak calm yet firm

@deborahcurtis1385 3 күн бұрын

Yes they really want to wind you up so if you can laugh, it throws them. Laugh at the absurdity of the situation and this will disarm them. They will begin to doubt their position. That is the start.

@alicemahomes6976 3 ай бұрын

Asking the Holy Spirit to bribe my tongue and shut my mouth. This is good teaching, on time for me. I am eighty and still learning. Love Forgiveness is my passion; people place, things and myself. Sending ❤😮😇🎁

@e.barieau6663 2 ай бұрын

The message is very good. Using AI to read the text with all the pronunciation errors tends to cheapen the delivery as the listener is being drawn to the mistakes, rather than concentrating on the lesson.

@cher4500 3 ай бұрын

Never trust nothing, Always look deeper. Question, Observe that person! They lie. You will know it. Through your question again! Quite battles with silence is a battle to win on how you decide to do it! What hurts them the most! What's taken away from them that they like getting etc.. My mother was a smart teacher.. 👌🏼

@georgiafrancis9059 3 ай бұрын

When someone asks me what I think about..........fill in the blank........I just say I have NO OPINION. Shuts them right up. Of course, I have an opinion, but it's none of their business!

@goldineperdon2076 2 ай бұрын

Lesson of acute insight.😅

@carolynrogers6218 3 ай бұрын

I am so much in need of a teacher . I am a willing student, awaiting for my teacher to show themselves. I am desperate and at my lowest which as a result, I am willing to do what ever it takes to master these skills.

@mauritaschut8466 3 ай бұрын

I understand where you are coming from but something to remember is that when we are desperate for anything, it opens the door to all kinds of charlatans and con artists who will happily take advantage of our desperation. Desperation is the opposite of stoicism. However, I empathize with being very thirsty for knowledge and understanding, and that drive and desire can be the perfect catalyst to learn and incorporate really useful ideas, knowledge, and wisdom. Do you meditate? Not that you have to, of course, but it's a really great place to really ground yourself and start getting in touch with your own higher wisdom. The more you adopt it as a daily practice, the more everything starts to make more sense, and you start seeing yourself and the world from a whole new, amazing perspective. And absolutely, start learning from experienced, wise teachers that walk the talk, while also always checking in with your own intuition. There are a lot of resources online, you do not NEED a "guru" these days like we did in the past because there is a plethora of information at our disposal and we can so easily look up questions we have and find GOOD answers that RESONATE with us. Be open, curious, and eager to learn while retaining healthy skepticism. I have found many great teachers online, including on KZfaq, whether from this Era or those who have passed over, and they have helped me a lot. But just because I respect and appreciate them and their opinions does not mean I just accept everything they say. I always keep in touch with my higher wisdom through meditation, which really helps me weed out stuff that doesn't resonate. (And if u aren't a meditator and want to learn, a great place to start is with guided meditations; Brian Scott's meditations are among my favorite on YT, but there r a lot of other really great options) Aaron Abke's "Mind Science" series is great for all things to do with understanding and dealing with our ego. Michael Singer is an older guy whose written some well-known, life changing books (like the Untethered Soul) and he has a great podcast on YT. Oh man, there's so many, it just depends what your cup of tea is. If i started a list, i dont know where it'd end!There are teachers from every different Era, from all around the world, and whether you read their stuff, listen to audio books of their writings/works (if u cant buy them, there r lots for free on YT) or they have podcasts/shows, you have lots of free access and lots of perspectives. As you go along, you realize that the really good ones have a lot in common, just different ways of expressing their thoughts and different things they focus on. Just remember, you don't have to learn it all in a week, a month, or a year. You will happily spend the rest of your life learning, just like they did/do. That's what brings wisdom. I'm sorry for the long rant, I hope it was at least a little bit helpful.☺️🙏💫 Have a wonderful day🌞

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@DesireeDore 3 ай бұрын

My teacher once told me: when you're looking for a teacher, stop. Because it is wasteful to look outside of yourself for guidance. You and those who work on your behalf (guides, guardians, ancestors, angels, ect) are the best teachers you could have. * When you're looking outside, you ignore the inside. You are Creator. You are Spirit experiencing humanity. Every drop of wisdom you desire is already yours. You just have to tune in and let go of doubt. Find validation within yourself. Learn to honor what resonates with you and works against you. Tap in and listen. And if you're still looking for a teacher, I would recommend the Four Agreements if you haven't read it already. Most of my teachers I've never met in person, but their role in my life is no less great than those I have! Many blessings. 🩶

@DesireeDore 3 ай бұрын

BTW the teacher that gave that advice... and I didn't realize this till after I wrote the comment... is named Carol Rogers. Thought that was a really cool synchronicity. 🎉

@WoAiJ 10 күн бұрын

True love🩷 Never gives up. Love ♥️,and patience always wins💖

@iamtrinysongzz 2 ай бұрын

I stayed until the end! Gratitude🏁👍🏾

@user-cw4zv5mn2i Ай бұрын

Make sure you are not altered for bad through the process, it wiser to not stress it too much. Move on when you have to. Change it

@JoeZenArt 2 ай бұрын

All disputes are imbedded in competition which lives in the Ego. Allowing the awareness to first realize the effects of the any disputes may give the best results and peace empowers.

@glenoneill3950 3 ай бұрын

Self mastery.......Place no one above you........unconditional self love........

@user-cw4zv5mn2i Ай бұрын

In christianity self love is a sin especially over God. Love God and seek solutions

@chaneldiane8611 9 күн бұрын

👏👏👏👏👏

@myrianvalenzuela9199 3 ай бұрын

I have read this in the bible conquering yourself, your anger is not a wise person. Angry person is a fool, so it means rage and anger can really be conquered. Delaying anger and not responding is the best solution especially when your life is in danger, really you can only compromise. Your bestfriend is yourself in any given situation.

@lechat8533 25 күн бұрын

It`s so good to know that although we may have better technology than societies in the past, there have always been people who were struggling with the same personal conflicts as we do today. Even thousands of years ago, some people were incredibly intelligent and wise, and their incredible findings are still echoing through time, waiting to be heard and put to use. Nothing is as captivating as the enigmatic psychology of every single fellow man. Everyone's inner life has its own unique fingerprint.

@user-oz8wx5gi5j 14 күн бұрын

That's not true. They've actually dumbed down society on purpose.

@lindalou4858 3 ай бұрын

❤😂🎉 never argued, listened to how my needs and dreams never matter, silent responses avoided a punch in the face, then did what I wanted joined with my children. In hindsight never had family fun. Remaining childlike joining in their curiosity I taught how to! Recovering and healing many wounds. Process got me in zombie rx drug fog, because I was vulnerable. I never bought into pop culture. BREATH and SMILE they don't get me let alone understand. Light dimmers gone ❤

@sheilacarter3806 2 ай бұрын

I was also told if you show out in that spot you will get corrected in that same spot, so be careful. Everyone doesn't have your same teaching We mostly behave according to how we had to survive in a certain environment. So, coming from the hood, you had to be very firm so no person could think they would run over you or get you in trouble. So, being a leader meant this at times . If you hit me, I will hit you back to get you off of me. Only in certain situations don't But when you are dealing with the enemy, you can't show signs of fear. Not where I am from, you will get eating alive. So change according to your environment 💪🏽😇💗However don't go around doing bad do good.

@notagain779 2 ай бұрын

@sheilacarter3806, This is interesting from the perspective of gun violence in some big cities. I was once on a jury, where a man from the hood was on the stand, accused of murder. He started to explain how it was necessary to have a gun. To my surprise, the judge let him speak for quite a long time, and asked him questions about the culture of the hood. His answers were enlightening, and gave all of us on the jury a perspective we hadn't considered. He basically felt he couldn't trust ANYONE. He was scared all the time. Very vigilant. He looked and acted dangerous, he said, because he felt he had no choice. I thought, wow, he has courage to say all of this stuff when there were many people from the hood in the courtroom as observers of the case. It was a very interesting but complicated case, involving a number of people trying to pass the "hot" smoking gun off, to pin the murder on another guy. I was glad the judge encouraged him to speak.

@SohaQuotes 2 ай бұрын

These 13 ways are really cool and amazing. I will apply it in the future. Thanks for sharing. 😀

@beverlyrampersad7492 2 ай бұрын

❤thanks for sharing your knowledge and words of wisdom which will help us in our everyday lives it's much appreciated.

@StoicRealms 2 ай бұрын

You are so welcome

@user26z26 3 күн бұрын

Thank you so much for sharing. I could learn lots.

@StoicRealms 2 күн бұрын

You are so welcome!

@sudiptabrahma2631 22 күн бұрын

Excellent advice for a lifetime practice. Thanks Sir for wisdom truthful invaluable quotes

@StoicRealms 9 күн бұрын

Very welcome

@MrMinhduong 12 күн бұрын

As human nature, the opponent always want to win the disagreement and he will become hostile if he is insulted. I highly appreciate the lesson that rather than trying to win the disagreement, let's try to find a solution

@solsol4436 8 күн бұрын

I really apprecate!

@napoleonokwumabaf8207 2 күн бұрын

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@DjBonds-ex3iv Ай бұрын

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@a.alexandrajimenez8437 3 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing. Numbers 12 and 13 so inspire. 🙏💕

@StoicRealms 3 ай бұрын

You are so welcome!

@funnylucu7101 2 ай бұрын

You’re wife so lucky to have you because your voice so wise😊 Terimakasih 🇮🇩

@StoicRealms 2 ай бұрын

Thank you! 😃

@glenoneill3950 3 ай бұрын

All conflict is with the self...........Others are a reflection of that conflict......everyone is you......being reflected back to you.......

@Anna_Key 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for this information 🙏🏻

@StoicRealms 2 ай бұрын

My pleasure

@gwensdailyactivities6305 8 сағат бұрын

I wish you provide more example. Like a video of how an argument is truly solved.

@lettenseabraham3267 2 ай бұрын

Listening is essential the best way to learn and understand how to solve problems. Thank for your gold advice.🙏🙏🙏

@StoicRealms 2 ай бұрын

My pleasure

@irinadavidofflavrentyeva798 2 ай бұрын

I wish our world leaders today learn, at least some of this timeless, Stoicism wisdom in order to overcome the divide and to create a bridge of understanding. If they, at least, seek comprehension rather than dominant, world would be much safer place to live. "Not me, but us"...This, life-vital stoic's technique, should be taught in our schools instead of brainwashing stupidity.

@dacunomaximino1624 2 ай бұрын

How about the offender/enemy is the one who is so calm and relax?

@marym5526 9 күн бұрын

Thanks!

@StoicRealms 9 күн бұрын

Welcome!

@Dukelanovic 10 күн бұрын

Wht there might not mean that we do not need any conflict - we only have to learn to get along with it, for avoiding bigger conflicts.

@deepalib7740 Ай бұрын

Practical tips have been given... Excellent ..

@audiemae9693 2 ай бұрын

I am ready Sir ❤

@gracepilla2283 2 ай бұрын

So much to learn. I think im late learning this strategies but so thnkful that ive been following yiu now. And make great difference to response in a very intellectual manner.

@StoicRealms 2 ай бұрын

Great to hear!

@afrouzkhakpour7067 2 ай бұрын

Thanks ❤.

@magicofkarpaty8356 2 ай бұрын

Thank you

@LloydMajor 2 ай бұрын

Very wise!

@btwiswbtwisw5650 2 ай бұрын

Thanks for sharing your knowledge with us ❤

@StoicRealms 2 ай бұрын

My pleasure 😊

@user-pf3ht3tc6r 15 күн бұрын

It's good advice to always learn about ourselves because sometimes anger hurt humiliation takes over before we can understand what's happening

@LifeElevate-1626 Ай бұрын

Big thanks to the channel owner for such an amazing video! Understanding how to manage our emotions is truly the key to success in life.

@StoicRealms Ай бұрын

Our pleasure!

@hendricksismael7810 3 ай бұрын

You did it again

@maritessalaba5672 12 күн бұрын

He who controls his tongue controls his destiny! For a tongue can both build and destroys a nation!

@markmann2521 2 ай бұрын

The first scenario (be a fly on the wall) is very powerful. When heated debates occur it can become surreal anyway, take it to your advantage, be the proverbial fly on the wall. Get out of your body ride above and observe the complete scene. Listen to what is being said and review what you had said. Many times it all seems pointless or even comical. You now have the upper hand. Keep calm and now slowly and calmly act. Time is playing tricks on you and trust it is in hyper speed. Pause and remember doing nothing is often the very most powerful response. You are your own hero or champion, do not become concerned about what your antagonistic opponent thinks, consider how you will respond and how it aligns with your higher self, respecting virtue. There are bystanders and you are now speculating on how they are judging you? You can start to hear their thoughts? NONSENSE it is all a nasty game in your head, years of pre programming defending your crazy illogical ego. Stay calm do nothing walk away, or do something you are compelled to do ONLY after you are fully convinced your actions are universally beneficial. This does not include vanity by looking better than the other/s. It does include clear headed analysis, like the derogatory letter you say on for a day then decided not to send. Moments of nervous intensity and anger will come and they are a good time to do nothing, why? Because you are not at your best. Please be well! MarkMannM2

@rinkudhawra518 3 ай бұрын

Super🎉...amazing inspiration. Thank you for the kind words of motivation.

@StoicRealms 3 ай бұрын

Most welcome 😊

@tonyoffofficiel9200 3 ай бұрын

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@michealferrell1677 3 ай бұрын

I noticed that much of this is taught in scripture. One thing that stands out though is the lack of glory due to god . A great assessment of national theology perhaps but would need the light of the word of god to interpret rightly. Thank you for this friend, learned much

@MG-ot2yr 3 ай бұрын

That's because religions basically hijack good virtues and reassigns their source to a god, rather than a natural characteristic of the evolved human psychology. The main problem with this misconception is the adherent doesn't develop an inner moral conscience on the basis of empathy, compassion, sympathy and a sense of fairness, instead is motivated by fear of punishment and reward in the afterlife. It can also have tragic negative impacts when scripture is misused to motivate an otherwise good person to do evil things.

@shampersaud2763 2 ай бұрын

@MG , All these wisdom came from GOD ,AND GUIDED INTO HOLY SCRIPTURES.....WHETHER YOU BELIEVE OR NOT....

@Etj1313 2 ай бұрын

@@shampersaud2763Nope God isn’t real! The all caps, clearly shows us your not paying attention to the video. Lol

@msoliver101ify 2 ай бұрын

I was thinking the same thing. Great point.

@violetagabutan2811 Ай бұрын

Thank you! I've learned so much.

@ursulaschlapbach311 2 ай бұрын

Exactly 😊

@DjBonds-ex3iv Ай бұрын

CALM , CLARITY, LOVE, PEACE ☮️, UNDERSTANDING, EMPATHY ❤❤❤❤❤4/16/2024 🎧

@sheelasai7619 Ай бұрын

Thanks for the help ,Thanks for the time, Thanks for your wisdom

@StoicRealms 19 күн бұрын

My pleasure!

@MG-ot2yr 3 ай бұрын

This is excellent guidance, in a nutshell, stay calm and unemotional, determine why a person feels the way they do and foster a team approach toward a resolution. But I would disagree with the title of this video, you shouldn't want to destroy anyone, and anyone you would consider an enemy is someone who has such character flaws that there could never be any meaningful and lasting resolution....with these people just quietly walk away.

@peggylittle1979 2 ай бұрын

I thought the same thing when forwarding this video to friends. I told them to ignore the title and just listen to the message because there is nothing menacing in it. On reflection, I think the enemy being destroyed here is one's own self, when one is seeking revenge and/or angrily jumping to conclusions. I happily saw this program 3 days ago and used its advice not only to delve into my past to understand my grievances but helped my angry and perplexed daughter begin to look into her own, and now after decades of mistrust I think we have begun to try to understand and better communicate.

@linajamal8743 2 ай бұрын

Thankyou I am facing this problem I don't know why❤

@whitelotus7475 2 ай бұрын

In the war of ego the loser always win

@lovelocity28 2 ай бұрын

This is different. My perspective says the person with the stronger sense of self/ego will win the battle but still be apologetic.

@WhiteBirdMustFly2 2 ай бұрын

What if all of this doesn’t work? If only agreeing with them, having empathy and you are left with blame and shame? I statements do not work because they are done, with their demands and leave you insulted, while they are unwilling to hear you? What if they respond with “I’m sorry, that You Feel That Way”. “I don’t want to talk about it any more”, as soon as they finish talking, and you would like to respond, but are cut off by their unwillingness to hear anything you would like to say, except that you agree with them about everything that they say… My therapist and best friend, say it’s toxic for you with her only allowing her children to mediate. Letting go will need to happen, so I left unpaid and unheard by her. I forgave and don’t feel bad. I feel freed. 😊

@faridahusna2163 2 ай бұрын

You've broken my ribs😂😂😂

@WhiteBirdMustFly2 9 күн бұрын

@@faridahusna2163 ?

@user-kk5ev2je5n 2 ай бұрын

What is that? Who is my enemy? Google? Microsoft? Some A.I. mob? Dare I? It reminds me of winter soup a bit of everything but not really anything. I'm done learning, you win.

@babuabraham4619 Ай бұрын

Fighting 2000 to 2008 Feedback 2008 to 2016 Reverse 2016 to 2024 @ 24!

@eng.mwebazedenis 2 ай бұрын

😮 true advices

@lisaammons4655 2 ай бұрын

Thank you ❤

@StoicRealms 2 ай бұрын

You're welcome 😊

@user-sx6xb5nq9l Ай бұрын

Exactly

@edzitha7157 2 ай бұрын

Do we have any book that shares this wisdom?

@user-kz1zx6eh6s Ай бұрын

Motivational uplifting

@TheGreatStoicc 28 күн бұрын

Amazing content bro!

@StoicRealms 19 күн бұрын

Appreciate it!

@clementkaiman6133 2 ай бұрын

Thanks ❤👍

@StoicRealms 2 ай бұрын

You're welcome 😊

@wonderwoman8231 3 ай бұрын

Nice video

@StoicRealms 3 ай бұрын

Thanks

@johncooper9510 Ай бұрын

Yes works the same today. The king only had to tell the torch holders the pitchfork people want them.

@lanielaurio2408 2 ай бұрын

Why you don't need to waste time for arguing?What you need to do is step back and left with out saying anything.. period

@papa20117 Ай бұрын

Left?

@christinal.suarez1838 Ай бұрын

My mouth has a brain of its own. I am working diligently to change this. I wish I t came easier for me.

@RiayToons 2 ай бұрын

I would indeed like to know to destroy everything in existence without a fight because everything is an enemy.

@HayahAwwanuyah 22 күн бұрын

Patience is important

@calvarez519 11 күн бұрын

Points Covered: 1. Delve into the depths of Your Adversary. (What, Why.) 2. Choose Your Battles Wisely. (Use your time and energy wisely.) 3. Speak with Calm and Clarity. (For Smarter Discourse.) 4. Seek the Shared Path. 5. Appeal to Their Inner Values. 6. Using Humor Wisely in Conflict Resolution. 7. Offer Empathy. 8. Embrace the Art of Compromise. 9. Seek External Aide Without Shame. 10. Forgiveness. 11. Growth From Ashes of Conflict. 12. Setting Boundaries. 13. Remember, You Control Your Reactions. End.

@carolinesmith8024 2 ай бұрын

Ppl need to be told why let them get away wgen they kie and harm others ? Stand up for yourself in a bice way if it doesn't work call the law the protect us

@evettehunter-fv8hw 3 ай бұрын

You are the way only the way wake up 👀too sleep forever

@Rome274 2 ай бұрын

Agree to disagree helps, I have found

@EllaNdabezitha 24 күн бұрын

To all who have rediculed me repeatedly and intentionally , I turn to give them SILENT TREATMENT.I only talk when they talk.If they keep quiet , i keep quiet too.

@delorespeterson8251 3 ай бұрын

❤

@cher4500 3 ай бұрын

Ask questions and thoroughly look over them. Ask again etc.. 👌🏼

@StoicRealms 3 ай бұрын

Good idea!

@louisejames1844 22 күн бұрын

Arguing with an intelligent person is tough. Arguing with a stupid person is impossible. I love this. I think it was Churchill who said this. Does anyone know?