For women, marriage is about rights and privileges. For men, marriage is about duties and obligations. If the husband cheats, the wife divorces him and takes all his stuff. If the wife cheats, the wife divorces him and takes all his stuff. Even if nobody cheats the wife initiates divorce 70% of the time, the most common reason: Princess is bored. There simply is nothing in marriage for men.

I’m 34, married and divorced twice, one child. My child’s mother kidnapped my son and still won primary custody. Society/ government/ women are telling men “ F you” and now men are finally saying “ F you” back.

Manly men are still here, we just look at the women in western society today and say NAH I'm staying single, I'm keeping my wealth, my sanity and my self respect.

I'm 71, homely, low income, in no relationship. When I hear of these issues, I am so grateful not to have to deal with it anymore. The heart ache is far behind me.

We're avoiding marriage for the same reasons we avoid high-crime areas, war zones, minefields, toxic waste dumps and nuclear test sites

Who wants to work 40 plus hours a week for an ungrateful boss just to come home to another one

Woman: "Now that I am divorced, I don't understand why men my age don't want relationships leading to marriage?" Man: "How did your divorce turn out?" Woman: "I got custody of my kids, the house, alimony, child support, and half of everything, including his retirement."

Story 3: My mother works with a guy that was married to a woman that decided to leave him one day because she didn’t feel fulfilled anymore. He makes a lot of money, but he was ordered to pay a crazy amount of money in child support and alimony. Now he lives in a dangerous ghetto and hears gunshots every day.

Even if you did get married What do you win A divorce A sexless marriage An ungrateful, unappreciative, defiant partner An angry woman A woman who has been passed around Yeah no thanks Hard pass

Women made it clear that the majority of us men are not desirable or required. So, we men got about quietly pursuing our goals in career, travel, hobbies, spirituality and intellect. So, rather than ask “where” did good men go, ask “why” did good men go.

21 years old, I’m happy to have learned the truth of female nature and not fall into the trap

I was married for 8 years. The whole time my ex wife just wanted to live and be around her mom all the time. She was miserable without her. Ultimately, she made up a bunch of lies about our marriage to validate her wanting a divorce. She was a completely useless wife but she still got some of my pension and some equity in my house. Thank God I was smart enough to not have kids with her. Been divorced and single for 12 years now. I’ll never get married again.

The problem is that we have legally marginalized men. It’s harder for us to get jobs, go to college, or just about anything. The problem is that men are starting to realize that the burdens of marriage is no longer worth the sacrifice.

I think you miss the point that a college educated women making $30k a year will still look down on an electrician making $100k a year.

One of my favorite movie quotes is from Good Will Hunting: “You spent 100 grand on an education you could have got for 1.50$ in late charges at the public library”.

Men, do not hesitate for one moment to put a restraining order against your female partner if you feel your safety and health is in jeopardy. Placing a permanent restraining order on my female partner was absolutely the wisest protective move of my adult lifetime. My only regret is not doing it years earlier. Men, be safe!

As a divorced man, here is what is kept hidden by all your teachers and investment people. 1) divorce will be one sided and the man destroyed by losing house, savings, land and forced to pay alimony. 2) family court does not explain how they divided the assets. They just do it and tell the man to go find two jobs to recover. Their is no transparency on the details - you might leave court with nothing and no place to live. 3) no one tells you the lawyers just take from your assets, they don't send a bill. 4) the man will lose the ability to see his own children. He has no documented rights - only right he has is to pay child support. 5) a criminal having killed someone will have more rights in court than a man in family court. 6) women get everything - even if she is cheating and wants out. The house the man may have had is considered a " gift to the marriage". 7) men are not told that women stops sex in almost all long term marriages. Men say they divorced their 1st wife because the sex stopped. Only to find the second marriage is even worse. They all pull the bait and switch. What idiot of a man today takes this marriage deal today knowing his odds. ? Don't marry any women with the laws the way they are.

My mother is in her 80's. Her generation was the last generation that respected and valued men and husbands. For over 50 years it's been nothing but misandry, male bashing and contempt.

Story 2: My father used to work with a guy that was married and his wife decided to leave him one day. He went to family court and was ordered to pay a crazy amount of money in child support and he just couldn’t afford it. After being forced to live in his car for one month, he one day decided that he didn’t want to live anymore so he shot himself in his car.

Back in the 90's I went to school with an older woman who called herself a 'frst wave feminist'. One day she said to me, "You know the saying, 'If you can't stand the heat, get out of the kitchen'? Well, we raised all sort of hell just to prove we COULD stand the heat as well as a man. Now all these young girls walk into the kitchen and whine, 'It's too hot. Turn on the a/c'. It makes me so angry. They don't want equal like we did. They want it both ways. That's not how the world is." Mind you, this was in the 90's so those 'young girls' she was talking about are now in their 40's & 50's. She used to go on about how her generation wanted equal opportunity: the option to do a man's job, do a man's work under the same conditions and meet the same requirements as men and then get the same reward & respect as men.... and now women want the bar to be lowered but still get the same respect and reward. Now that I'm pushing 60 I see what she was talking about back then.

College: Is this where I go to get 10's of thousands of non-bankruptible debt and get MeToo ed? Marriage: To quote Bill Burr, "Is this the line to lose half of my shit?!" Also, be alienated from my kids and enslaved by the state.

Men have realized that we can get most of the benefits of marriage by simply being in a relationship. If my girlfriend changes in a manner that I don’t like, I can leave without paying a “breach-of-contract” fee (aka alimony).

Masculine men are still around I know because I'm one of them. The difference is men like myself are finally waking up to the realities of modern relationships and the basic reality that the juice is no longer worth the squeeze. Men who aren't collage educated were beaten up pretty hard in this video and it was unwarranted. A collage education does not mean that you will be financially successful nor does it mean that you are more intelligent, it simply means that you have an expensive piece of paper to hang on your wall (and in most cases are still paying for) to stare at and feel superior. I'm not a collage educated man my path led me to the military the Marine corps to be exact I ended up graduating the school of real life and i did so with honors. I'm currently 46 with no wife and no children (by choice) and after spending a great many years in long term relationships and always feeling like I wasn't doing enough to make them work even though I was actually doing way more then my fair share to make the relationships work I finally threw in the towel and called it quits for trying to find a woman to share my life with. A strange thing took place once I erased woman from my equation. I stopped being broke because I was no longer paying bills that weren't my own and that I had nothing to do with creating. I started enjoying my hobbies because I actually had time to do them and wasn't being sent on a guilt trips for having the sheer audacity of wanting to take a little personal time for myself occasionally to actually enjoy myself. I started spending time with friends that I really enjoy spending time with because I no longer had to go to events or dinners with people I had no desire to be around just because she expected me to or because she did not like my friends and either didn't want them coming over to see me or me going out to see them. I paid off my car then I paid off my truck then i decided to purchase a home and a couple of new bows and a few new firearms because I could and because I felt like it and not only was my dog fully in agreement and on board with all the decisions I had made he seemed to take pleasure and joy in my pleasure and joy. Now I have a six figure bank account and my investments are doing great. I have time to do the things that I want to do with the people that I want to do them with and there is zero drama, zero arguments, zero guilt trips and zero regrets. Basically giving up on having a woman in my life was the single best decision I ever made and my life has literally improved dramatically by leaps and bounds as a result. I have to thank modern women and feminism for waking me up and for slapping me with an extra heavy dose of reality, it allowed me to finally see and understand what women have been telling us and showing us men for literally the last 5 decades....... The juice is no longer worth the squeeze and woman have quite literally priced themselves out of the Market and men are finally waking up to the realities that 1. Don't buy expensive things you can't afford and 2. Don't buy expensive things that you can't afford that you really don't even want or need and have no practical use for and will only get more expensive and incure more cost and debt the longer you own it. If I had figured this out in my 20's I'd be a multi millionaire by now, I'll still be a millionaire it's just taking a bit longer but now that I finally figured out what I was doing wrong for so many years (women) everything is falling into place and picking up momentum and speed so ill be expecting to break the seven figure barrier soon and everything else is gravy. Mgtow best thing that ever happened to me. 😉😎

I think one of the main reasons men don't want to get married anymore is due to the toxic feminist movement. The is especially true for women in western cultures. Plus, when it comes to divorce, the laws and court system favors women while it literally screws men over. There have been men who have committed suicide because they got such a bad deal in divorce. And the adage happy wife happy life could not be more of a lie.

I applaud Suzanne for providing commentary on this topic, however she left out two things: 1. Successful men lose all power when they sign a marriage contract. 2. Women's propensity to divorce. I am a successful, married, engineer and this is what most of my unmarried peers discuss.

As an Aussie comedian once said ,don`t get married,just wait 10 years and give your house to someone you don`t like.

With this high divorce rate and the high rate of single motherhood there are many adult men who don't know how to be husbands and fathers. I can remember when the divorce rate started to skyrocket in the early 80s some social commentators were saying that there would be long term consequences. Those consequences have arrived!!

I haven't been in a relationship for over 5 years and I don't miss it. I think a lot of us men feel the same way. Red pill saying applies here "The juice isn't worth the squeeze".

Why aren't MEN getting married? It's the man's fault. Typical 4th generation feminism. Where have all the good MEN gone? It's the man's fault. Typical 4th generation feminism. We are still out here! But if we aren't the woman's uncompromisable ideal man, we are invisible to her. Meanwhile, men are asking similar questions: Where have all the quality women gone? Not ones that have a triple-digit bedroom count. One that knows how to be a partner and not a dominatrix. You blame men, I blame feminism.

“A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle.” Message received. Have fun by yourself. We are done.

My mother just left my father after 50 years of marriage and took him for EVERYTHING, and she plainly stated that HE was no longer useful to her. My mother was a violent, selfish, self centered women for as long as she has been alive, her OWN mother warned my father that she would break his heart in the later years of their life together, prophetic. Marriage laws have made marriage a VERY bad idea for ALL men. I'm in the process of divorcing a free spirited women who wasn't satisfied with my love and attention alone, social media ruined my marriage.

Men are tired of getting screwed. She cheats on him, then divorces him. She gets the house, child support, alimony, & has some random guy in the house he paid for that sees his kids more than he does! I’ve heard this story so many times it makes me sick! Men are done getting used as an ATM machine

I was at a Walmart the other day. I pulled into a parking spot and the next row over was a woman with the hood up on her car and she was hitting the engine with a piece of wood. My son and I sat and watched her. My son asked me "You want to go see if she needs help?", I told him "No! Fish meet bicycle". She is a "strong independent woman", let her fix it. No more Mr. Nice Guy!

Men aren't getting married because women aren't making themselves desirable either in appearance or behavior and they have ridiculously long lists of what they call "standards" that are in fact, just specifications. Even the cute ones seem determined to sabotage their appeal with atrocious behavior and demands.

The only winning move is not to play. Don’t marry them. Don’t live with them. Don’t knock them up. Don’t give them money. Walk Away.

I'm a very traditional woman in a non traditional ( California) state. It took me years to find someone who had the same values that I do. Like many of the men here I worked hard, had hobbies, friends and finally found the right person when I wasn't looking. I have high morals but I had many dateless years too. If I had lived in a more traditional state, I would have been married much earlier.

I have been married 25 years but if she ever leaves me I would never consider doing it again. I literally get married woman hitting on me at work I am a male nurse. Happens way too frequently and although I would never even think of cheating I just don’t trust them I watch their behaviors and what they say to other woman. Always looking for the next best thing. As for the top 10 percent men they just don’t need to settle down as they have their pick anytime. All the benefits none of the responsibilities but these woman aren’t loyal anymore. The only good advice my father said was if they cheat with you they will cheat on you. Aside from this I am a Marine infantryman and bounced in a bar. I would never consider stopping a crime anymore or helping a woman with groceries or give up a seat or hold a door all of which I used to do.

Men are telling men to not get married because there is little incentive for the man to get married with many consequences. On the flipside, there are major incentives and minor consequences for women to get married. It's because of the LAW. The reason why men are stepping out is not the same as women stepping out. It's about the law.

"Why aren't men getting married anymore?" Because it makes no sense whatsoever to commit yourself to a contract with someone who will be rewarded* for breaking that same contract. *And it will be you who will be forced (by the legal system and the government, under threats of violence and imprisonment) to pay that reward.

Don’t forget - skilled trade jobs are in high demand, pay very well and can offer deeply satisfying careers. They’re also highly male oriented. That’s a great place for men to go these days. Meanwhile, college is increasingly a game of diminishing returns.

If the unbalanced divorce laws are not changed. Men are going to continue to walk away from marriage. Since there seems to be no movement in the direction of changing these laws. Then the downward trend will continue.

Seasoned divorce lawyer here. C’mon guys! Step up and get married! What’s the worst thing that could happen? Seriously: stay single. Follow your passions. Live your best life. There is no need to get married and invite state law into your life and finances in the event the marriage becomes non-functioning.

I got married at 33 years old I left her on the honeymoon after two days on honeymoon. She started telling me who will be my friends where I am going to work told me that she will be handling all the money. I asked her have she ever put money into my wallet. I told her to pack your bags I am taking you back to your father. No woman will handle the money I am making and you to give me what you feel I should have, No thank you I was done after that. I am very happy meeting women in other country's they know how to treat men so men get your passport and go outside of the United States and get your woman. You will be more happy for it.

You have to appreciate the ability (?) of women to dance around any subject without ever taking responsibility, then turn the blame to men.

I have 3 rules. Never co-mingle funds, never co-habitate, never commit. If she leaves, then good riddance. She didn’t want me, she wanted something from me. Even if she wants to stay, my life has to be better with her than without her; otherwise, I’m out. We are both free to do what we think is best for ourselves. Also, I will not put at serious risk my life or health to protect a stranger. I will give aid when it is safe to do so, but I will not volunteer to be a victim. I am not disposable. This is what equality looks like. The restrictive Patriarchy is dead. Welcome to freedom and equality.

JP thinks that men that dont marry are miserable. That you need the responsibility of a family. That you arent "doing it right" if you arent in a relationship, which with all due respect to JP, I totally disagree. Men didnt ask for this, but now we are here in women's bullshit and I am not willing to surrender my will to them. I am pretty happy alone in my world, and since you are so strong, solve your own issues.

50-60 years of fighting patriarchy and no one wants to become a patriarch, what a perplexing mystery it is...

On the issue of not helping a woman screaming for help... I read a KZfaq comment of a guy whose friend tried to help a girl being manhandled by her toxic boyfriend and the girl said the boyfriend was hurting her. Guy steps in, gets beaten up badly and the girl goes off with her boyfriend. Someone who knew the two later explained that the girl attacked her boyfriend and he hit her back afterwards. She lied so as to get another guy to beat up her boyfriend simply because she could not do it herself and did not even feel remorse that an innocent guy was beaten up badly because of her lie.

Women said they don't need men and they can do anything a man can do. So they can fight for themselves. Welcome to equal rights for women.

"I´m not Jesus, I will not die for your sin!" and "I would rather live alone then a lie", that is where I am and has been the last 20 years.

Thanks for reading my response, Suzanne. The rise in single moms is partly due to divorced women calling themselves single moms when Dad is still present and very involved with the kids. Women want the single mom status because it catapults them to instant sainthood. It also helps them to avoid responsibility when they fail to parent their children, or mismanage their finances. We do not expect much from single moms. We expect a lot from fathers. Many divorced women are not single moms. They are divorced women who are co-parenting with their ex husbands, and that is it. These women are intentionally ignoring the father's contribution to the child rearing process. This is so wrong because people believe that the kids are fatherless and that gives men and fatherhood a "blackeye." So first of all we need a solid definition of "single parent."

When a wife decides she wants a divorce, she is usually looking at her husband's income and assets to see if he's peaked. Then she lets her divorced female friends know her plans and she will get all kinds of backing and advice from them. They will tell her that all she has to do is claim that he assaulted her and she will get a restraining order on him and government assistance. Then she can start selling his smaller assets and live in the home he bought while he is left homeless. His bank accounts will be frozen so he has no access to his savings and no money for an attorney, while she gets an attorney easily because attorneys know the court will order the husband to pay her attorney costs too. It's a win-win for a woman and a lose, everything for the man. Don't under any circumstance marry in todays corrupt world.

The legal implications of marriage to men aren’t worth the risk. Married once and I learned that lesson

Regarding no one intervening when the women were punched, raped, and stabbed in public: We live in a society where one will likely be prosecuted for defending one's own life or home. Why would anyone want to risk their life or jail for defending a stranger? The instructor of a concealed weapons class perhaps said it best, "Before you get involved, ask yourself, 'who am I willing to go to jail for?'"

Marriage is a women's insurance policy. Moreover, a marriage contract is the only contract where a women is richly rewarded for breaking it.

I blame the family court judges. Those cowards have destroyed men and children for decades.

This is good news. Men need to continue to drop out of a society that is anti male. Boycot marriage, relationships etc. Hold the line.

Why do you frame this as a "weak man" problem? Why is a disengaged, hopeless, confused man "weak" to you? Men are refusing to play a rigged game. That's not "weakness" in my book. We have no imperative to live up to these "strong man" standards that academics and women set for us. Call that weak if you want. I call it wise.

"Ultimately, you're going to see more college educated women marrying men who are not college educated." Lmfao, no they won't. Most women would rather be single than to "settle" for someone that is in the same socio-economic bracket as themselves or lower. What you'll see is more single, lonely, and bitter college educated women continuing to complain about there not being enough college educated men, ad nauseam.

It's very simple never sign contracts with someone who is rewarded with cash and prizes for betraying you. The state has enabled women to take half of all things a man has earned whether he's a butcher, baker or candlestick maker. There is no upside to marriage for a man.

Men aren't getting married anymore because we have figured out the game, and we have too much to lose in the feminist court system. Been there done that, own the t-shirt, bought and the hat. All a woman has to say is "I'm not happy" and you lose half your stuff, she keeps your kids, and you have to pay her until she takes a dirt nap. Now, as far as where have all the manly men have gone, the past two generations have been raised by single mothers. There's your answer, they don't know how to be men. It doesn't take a nuclear physicist to figure that out.

@Suzanne Venker So women expect anonymous men to risk their lives to protect women strangers. Where were the women risking their lives for some of these other women? This is the selective entitlement of privilege women harbour, a man is only important when you need him to sacrifice his life. Men are now saying, “ If I am superfluous 99% of the time, it might as well remain the same for that 1% of the time you need me “. Why do women expect men to be disposable for women who are complete strangers, you are asking anonymous men to potentially die for you, because you see men as less value than yourself. Men are waking up to the fact that they have intrinsic value, and are no longer expendable or disposable for women or government. Women and government have relied on male disposability, to die in their millions over countless generations, now this is starting to change. The arrogance of expecting automatic male protection in an emergency, while totally disrespecting men for the rest of the time is staggering. I don’t help women or their husband government anymore, I see my life as just as valuable as any woman’s.

I'm right here I'm just invisible. I'm middle class and college educated. That tells you how far gone we are. Not even college-educated, fit, and middle class is not good enough.

IF A WOMAN NEEDS TO ASK THIS QUESTION, THEN HER ANSWER CAN BE FOUND IN THE MIRROR.

It makes me laugh that women who have done a non-vocational degree consider themselves superior to non-college-educated men, even those with trades. A degree in a social science or an arts subject is not remotely equivalent to engineering, medicine, architecture etc.

As a man you are playing against a stacked deck, we learn and avoid.

Thanks for your opinion on boys raised by single mothers. My dad is 95 years old, while my mom is 81 years old. My parents are still married. There a 1000 things/ tips/ tricks about manly man which my father taught me. My mother never mentioned a thing about these things/ tips/ tricks.

Story 1: I know a guy that got married and his wife ended up leaving him for another man.The family court destroyed his life to the point that he had a mental breakdown and ended up in a mental hospital.

Once again Suzanne stayed away from the financial hit that men takes from divorce whether or not his at fault. Marriage is a no win situation for men, nothing for men to gain.

Not mentioned was the distinct possibility that if a man intervenes to defend a woman being attacked that he will be the one that ends up facing criminal charges.

Why is this even being asked. Here's the OBVIOUS answer. Marriage puts men at the mercy of women. It is called divorce rape. It is not a question of "All women don't do that" It is a that "All women CAN do that" Any man getting married, by default, compromises his economic position. If a woman decides to divorce him and if he can't pay (alimony/child support), for whatever reason, ends up in jail, thus marriage also puts his freedom at risk as well. This is not rocket science ppl.

This provided a lot fuel for thought. I believe most men men want what the same things in a relationship that women seek. They want a loving and mutually supportive relationship that will endure life’s trials. Unfortunately this newer generation of millennials have evolved a very narcissistic attitude toward their expectations. This is disastrous with developing long term relationships for both sexes.

Women as a whole wanted this. I don’t care what women want and I’ve felt this way the past few years. They’re on their own.

"The consequences are horrifying". Yeah, for women. Why would a man want to take a risk of being shot, stabbed or accused of sexual assault by intervening to help a woman of unknown qualities whose not his wife, mother or daughter?

I’m a first time listener to your podcast. I was shocked when you played the recent examples, the train, older lady, stabbing…. I am a protector at heart, veteran, confronting daily injustices, but I have to say this, as each day passes and I see how people (men) are treated for intervening there is a high probability of detriment to my life now for doing the right thing. I see it as a Court/Law problem, not gender problem. I think in today’s world I would only step up for family and friends, no longer strangers. Unless it’s extreme…woman getting raped in front of me. However, someone getting pushed, nope. It’s sad to be brutally honest.

As men we all know the real answers to these questions, and are often times ridiculed for saying them.... its refreshing to hear a woman articulate them... kudos

Why this is not an individual issue: 1. Family courts are notoriously pro women and many men have lost access to their kids. 2. The vast majority of divorced are filed by women. 3. Women have much more options than their grandmothers had. 4. Divorce is no longer the taboo it used to be. These are issues that all men face when considering marriage. Regardless of individual issues.

A male doctor would be happy to marry a lady he met at church, a nurse, or a service worker. A female doctor would only marry a CEO or a man of even higher status.

"they never do become a men" When, exactly, do we accuse women of not being a woman?

A college degree does not mean a woman is smarter than a man. By the time I was a high school senior, I had already read more than 500 classic works of literature. Modern day college is the great success fallacy.

One particular thing I experienced and just noticed in recent years, is that women no longer appreciate or respect men’s sacrifices. They think they are entitled to it, and often demand it. My mother is in her late 70’s. Her generation was the last one to respect a man’s sacrifice. From my generation forward, it has been nothing but betrayal, lies, and deceit. I now counsel every young man I interact with to always stay single. I tell them my horror stories, and point them to the manosphere, red pill content. I don’t want any young man to have to go through what I did. There was nobody there to tell my generation anything. We won’t let that happen to future generations of men.

My wife of ten years just left me for a truck driver who was living with another women (she kicked him out when she caught him). She’s now trying for alimony which means I have to subsidize her sex with another man. The question that should be asked is WHY SHOULD men get married? The answer is simple: The risk and dangers are simply too high for men to get married in a gynocentric society. I’m working on my THIRD advanced degree by the way!

LOL😂 EDUCATED! EDUCATED! So, I dropped out of college but married my college sweetheart after she graduated from college. When we started our family, she desired to be a Stay At Home Mom. After 8yrs she decided to return to school for her masters degree. Upon graduating, she asked for a Divorce. 😮 Called be a Blue Collar. A year later she married some guy who was a member of "THE COUNTY CLUB". Because I'm somewhat articulate and traveled and financially secure, most women think that I am a college graduate. But I have seen what I our society has done to relationships and Sadly, it is not a good thing. My mother has asked me for years, why I decided to not get married again, but my COLLEGE EDUCATED daughter has asked, why in the Hell would I want to screw up my life. EDUCATED! 🤔

I waited 25 years until I initiated divorce proceedings against my wife of 25 years. She knew it was coming years before because I told her. She didn’t want to leave because of the upper middle class lifestyle I provided her as a college educated professional. She also had a college degree, but only used it sporadically, working a job long enough to quit it any time she wanted to, for any reason. I waited until the kids went to university, then divorced her and moved to Mexico. She kept the house, I kept my Federal Agent pension. She couldn’t afford the house payments and ended up selling the house and moving to a less desirable community and much smaller house. I, on the other hand, live like a king here in México, and often encounter all those divorced or never married women from Canada and the USA, who out number expat men by 5 to 1. Talk about your karma coming to visit in your golden years. Cat women too afraid to venture out in a “Machismo “ culture like México, and over looked by Men in favor of young feminine Mexican señoritas that still hold on to traditional male/female roles and values.

I am amazed at how all women suddenly pay attention on 'lack of good men' because it hurts them in the end. They turned a blind eye to man's pain and to the constant humiliation on every platform. It suits their self serving nature. They want men to intervene when women are at risk but there is no gratification for that in any form. They only need men for certain roles but they are not willing to pay the price for that. To all women who view this channel, just one woman speaking here about men will not change anything for men. The consequences you are facing now is a fruit of your own deed as a collective. You had it coming. Just don't cry a river here please, I am fed up with the lip service every woman offers here

"she was stabbed 3 times" exactly. Men don't have a duty to get killed for random women anymore. The society has devalued men. That's what you get. My duty is getting home safe to my wife and kids.

Feminism opened men eyes to see the real nature of women . Secondly, if the odds are against you in a game. Then, the smartest move is not to play.

All I can say is THANK GOD THAT WE LIVE IN AMERICA where we have the freedom to choose how we live our lives! Men are not legally required to get married and reproduce. Even most religious leaders agree that marriage is not for everyone. Nonetheless, it takes courage and strength to take a stand against radical feminism, against gender role expectations, against the system itself; and to be your own man, not a puppet on a string. But we can do all things with the strength that God gives us (Philippians 4:13). I am not advocating that men should withdraw from society, or practice the sin of homosexuality. Nor am I advocating that we should hold malice towards women, or avoid having close female friends. But as men, we cannot wait for women and society to change their way of relating to us; we need to do something for ourselves. The blatant truth is that for men, nowadays, the only way to level the field, in the area of male-female relations, is to GET A VASECTOMY and STAY SINGLE. I made this decision many years ago, and I have no regrets. I encourage all men to follow my example. In doing so, we are not only practicing personal responsibility; but we are making use of our God-given freedom and boldly declaring "My life! My body! My choice!" Besides, we have over 7 billion people in this world, most of whom are impoverished and/or spiritually misguided. Do we really need to make any more? My four bits of advice for young single men are: Trust in God; Work hard; Stay healthy; and Stay single. Don't let your parents persuade you with any sentimental hogwash about wanting to be grandparents. Parents who do this aren't concerned with your welfare, they are only looking out for their own personal interests. Consider the words of St. Paul: "Are you bound to a wife? Do not seek to be loosed. Are you single? DO NOT SEEK A WIFE."(1Corinthians 7:27). Therefore, if you are single, and you choose to stay single, then STAND YOUR GROUND and know that YOU HAVE GOD'S APPROVAL. And if God is for you, no one can be against you (Romans 8:31). What's more, being single means having more time and energy to give to friends, to family, to hobbies, and to God. And this will lead to men having healthier, happier lives. There is still the propensity for romance. But by remaining single and childless, men and women have the ability to relate to each other for companionship, as friends and lovers, NOT AS RELATIONSHIP OBJECTS. Codependency of gender role expectations is replaced by mutual acceptance, love, respect, and appreciation of each other as unique individuals. Instead of relating to each other as GENDER IMAGES, where men exude only "masculine" qualities and women exude only "feminine" qualities, both can relate to each other as whole persons. This will help free men from the rigid gender roles and gender stereotypes that have been destroying our lives for so long. And, this will also help women by making them stronger, more self-reliant, and more secure in themselves; as well as giving them a more positive attitude. In doing so, they may come to appreciate us men as people, and as individuals; NOT AS SUCCESS OBJECTS. I believe that all of this will lead to more positive relations between men and women. We've had women's liberation, NOW IT'S TIME FOR MEN'S LIBERATION. It is time that men left the slave plantation of gender roles and gender stereotypes altogether; and that we claimed our God-given freedom. And if God has made us free, then we are free indeed (John 8:36); regardless of what women and society have to say. So let's cast these three demons out of our lives: marriage, cohabitation, and reproduction. And let us "Stand fast in the liberty by which God has made us free, and not be entangled again with the yoke of bondage."(Galatians 5:1). I, personally, would rather die a free man than to live life enslaved or imprisoned. We should heed the immortal words of Patrick Henry: "Is life so dear, or is peace so sweet, as to be purchased at the price of CHAINS and SLAVERY? FORBID IT, ALMIGHTY GOD! I know not what course others may take; but as for me, GIVE ME LIBERTY or GIVE ME DEATH!"🗡

The situation with masculine women is just as big as the problem with feminine men, and just as much of a turn off to men.

OMG, love this, this is hilarious. She "feels" that the men on the subway didn't help because they "feel" unappreciated. And that they did not make the logical conscious decision of the choice between, A) Help- get assaulted/possibly killed, blamed for toxic masculinity, get sued, lose custody/visitation with kids, lose job, lose money, lose pension, lose house, go to prison for a felony, get gang raped, lose any professional license to practice any profession ever. or B) do nothing and protect himself and let her protect herself as an equal citizen. Yup, no logic there at all, clearly an emotional response.

Men aren't getting married because they know it is like diving into a wood chipper.

I’m a 36 year old millennial airline pilot making six figures. I have never been married and I don’t have plans of ever getting married. There’s no advantages for me to get married as I can have sex, cohabitate, and even bring children into this world without being legally married. The problem with getting a marriage certificate is that you’re marrying the state, not the woman. It’s essentially a business contract! I worked very hard for almost two decades to get to where I’m at today financially, and I just can’t afford to have the government get involved in my finances. For example, if I make $300k a year, I’m entitled to the lifestyle that comes with making such money because I worked for it. I don’t have a problem sharing my lifestyle with my woman but if our relationship ends, I believe she is not entitled to any of my money or possessions. A marriage contract allows the government to take my money and give it away to another human being that doesn’t deserve any of it. Most young men (millennial, gen z, etc.) realize this and they are choosing not to get married. I don’t know if you are a liberal or a conservative but there’s nothing that the government can do to stop this trend. Marriage, after all, is a religious institution. In Christianity, God encourages men to marry women. The government should not be regulating marriages because it is a religious institution and I’m a strong believer in the separation of church and state.

I just started following Suzanne's channel, 64y/o man, motorcycle mechanic, hunter, 16 years divorced, father and I'm the happiest of my life alone tired of the B.S. of what women think they want today!!

Women don't care that fathers don't get to teacher their children about life. All they care about is that women get control! It make no sense for a good man with a good income, home, investments to step in and help women in trouble. And it's going to get worse. I encourage all men to stop helping and stepping in. Women can handle all of her own problems! My sisters kid, my niece is getting married and many of the men are missing from this event, or will not go.. I'm being asked to go. They haven't talked to me in 7 years and now I need to show up and drop off a gift and then afterwards no communication again. Makes me feel like an ATM. I'm just not interested in going.

Thank You for all the insights Ms. Venker. After my wife of 34 years passed away I left California and spent several years in Omaha, NE. Found and live with a wonderful widow who was married for 50 years and grew up on a farm in Iowa. At 84 years old, she is: capable, imaginative, productive, saver not a spender, and loves me unequivocally. I think her background is still alive in the Midwest, although much older than many men might like in the short run.

Where have the manly me gone ? Staying as far away from marriage as they possibly can apparently

The answer to both questions is that we have been told that we are not wanted by Main Stream Media/TV/ Films, so men have decided it is not worth to put there resources or liberty at risk to consider dating or marriage, But - Feminism Has Liberated Men by insisting that women are physically equal to men and do not need men. So men have taken that to mean that they no longer have to marry, they can take jobs that give them just enough earnings to be comfortable, by not having to support a family, to not do killing amounts of overtime working more hours than living, take on debt through mortgages, they can pursue any hobby, just by being a bachelor and interacting or not with women as the mood takes them. As for single fathers, they will do everything in their power to make sure that their daughters have have a female role model be it his sister or female cousin, but you will hardly ever see a single mother doing the same for their sons.

I am a "manly man" without a college degree. I own my own home, a truck, and I have a life. I am not wealthy but I am doing better than most women with these degrees. Budgeting must of not been in their education because they can't afford them and will end up enslaved to the machine.

Simple answer. Women today want the power of a Man, the privilege of a Woman, and the accountability of a Child.

As a manly man, who has been married twice:- 25 & 12 years respectively. I’ve been fleeced of all my financial resources and pension. At 67 I have little to offer that a woman would benefit from:- home and good income. Albeit I still have my ready wit, great smile and deep love to offer, but I’m not sure any woman would be attracted to me for a long term relationship.