As I get older, my attraction has shifted from prioritizing physical looks to prioritizing mental stimulation

Chemistry is most important for a long term relationship. Don’t force it, let it happen naturally because if it doesn’t, it’s not meant to be and won’t last.

Beauty lies in the eye of beholder which is absolutely true I think. What's attractive to someone is not to someone else!!

'It's beauty which captures one's attention, personality which captures one's heart.' Oscar Wilde

I don't think I ever had to build chemistry. My experience so far has been that the chemistry was just automatically there with some people.

#7 Bold Communication. He got me. He said what he meant and meant what he said. I'll never forget our first encounter. There's no one like him. Rest in Paradise.

Personality is the most attractive and being on the same vibe. Also being at the same maturity level.

Your info referencing the color red is spot on! I had this red suit and EVERYTIME I wore that suit to a job interview...I got hired for the job. Thanks for the other 14 attraction pointers! 👍

As I get older, I’ve started to become more attracted to body language than just looks and muscles. I like some specific gestures and mannerisms

That's not true, sometimes, being attractive can be a cruse. They envy you. When you're beautiful, truly beautiful. They will harass you.

Re smiling for men…I’m a ‘happy-go-lucky’ kinda guy & am almost always genuinely smiling. Women who are attracted to me *always comment on it as one of the reasons why they are.

The face similarity in couple is so true!! I just recently realized how similar me and my ex boyfriend look. My google photos would even confuse our photos up with one another! What a trip😅

I’ve had a chance to talk to a psychologist on Voicely. She told me some of these facts and it really blowed my mind. Great video!

Different faces being attractive is not evidence of non physical traits being the determinant. It’s that those faces satisfy the criteria for attractive faces. Symmetry, pronounced features, lack of blemishes and signs of youth can be displayed in multiple ways.

The color red also makes you hungrier. If you look at the inside of most fast food restaurants and their logos, they all have some red in it.

The part where women like men who don’t smile as much is false in my opinion. I think guys that smile are 10000% more attractive than guys that don’t.

think anyone who has the capacity to be open-minded and creative in any way is the most attractive..i've met a lot of people who have doctorate degrees but the only thing they can talk about are those things that are related to their respective fields like bruh let's talk about traumas, aliens, philosophy, mermaids and the things that make your life worth living🤦

What he says about being in a relationship and being attracted to others is very true. I thought I was bad for feeling this way and turns out other guys feel the same.

Haha, love it: 2:20 "Rapport is a complicated social relationship built upon deeper knowledge and mutual understandings"... Fun fact for non-french speakers: "rapport" is simply the french word for "relation". Personal comment: I love how there is this part of american culture that is so obsessed with (i) these top 10 lists (ii) the idea that to be smart and successful you just need to learn some secret "techniques" (iii) how you aparently need to invent new facy marketing buzzwords like "rapport" to make your thoughts sound very sophisticated and scientific. Love you guys 😘

I have to say, you have a remarkable voice. One of the more striking voices. Good stuff 👍🏾

It's hard to send strong messages with facial expressions with masks on

His voice is a real turn on! Yes I am speaking of the man that's doing the voice over! The way he speaks is in itself a thing worth noticing and taking a note on ! Salute you sir !Love from INDIA.

I agree! My BF is absolutely more attractive to other women now that we are dating. He said when he was single and unattached, women did not approach him. I’m considered attractive and nothing is more appealing than a man with a beautiful woman😉

It is not what a person looks like on the outside but what is on the inside that counts to me

I love the message this video gives. So helpful

Absolutely love this channel!

Beauty not lies in the external looks and attire. It's completely depends on the character and mindset Strictly personal opinion

For me it’s personality. A woman with a great personality, smiling, happy, are way more attractive than a textbook swimsuit model etc. And a natural look. For me a woman in a pair of jeans, sweatshirt, and a nice smile, is way more attractive than a skin tight dress and stilllettos.

Red,in fact is"attractive"because it attracts ones attention FIRST!! Red has the longest wavelength in the visible spectrum,thus it reaches ones eyes BEFORE any other color does!! My life-long neighbor and block-club president Bernard"Stonewall"Jackson brought this to my attention in 1990,as I and a few buddies were sitting on Ms. Quicks front porch with:"P"is smarter than the rest of you guys. HE has on a RED cap;so all the girls are going to SEE him FIRST!!" I went home later that evening and rsearched"Color"in my World Book Encyclopedia and found out red is not simply"louder"than other colors,but that it REACHES your eyes FIRST!!

Good knowlege. Thanks for sharing 👍

Thank you for the videos😃🙂

Congratulations for 2m subs 🎉🥳

This video just told me to smile sweetie

Great video top think!

Thank you for the videos 😃

I can only say be authentic. everyone who finds you attractive also means you, and not some techniques or what you have heard about attractiveness. Everyone notices when you are not authentic. a fake smile is extremely repulsive.

Loved your video, you definitely hit the target 🎯 yea👍👍👍👍🤗👍

I really appreciate this 😁❤️

A lot of new info to think about. Thanks :)

Completely agree with number 7 !

I just always been blessed I just have so much going for me

"Maybe I'm just happy with you!!"I said while looking in the mirror. I look at my reflection and see,that I'm happy with------------ME.

Thank you!

"The best way to build chemistry is through conversation" Me(a quite and shy person who gets too nervous to talk to people) ...I will be a lonely hermit forever, lmao

Very well said

Thank you.

I don’t think red is true for everyone, I think everyone has a shade that compliments their features, people tell me that black and navy bring out the color of my hair, eyes and skin.

I'm attracted to my mans smile and its a turn on for me. What one person likes, another may not but good info

4:06 Here it is. The reason you clicked hoping for a laugh.

Well said

Thankful for playback speed settings

Very interesting video sir. Now I have an idea.

Excellent

Wearing well fitted nice clothes with nice color tones that go with your skin color is huge . Doesn’t have to be expensive

thank you so much loved it....

I'm not into men with facial hair.. just unattractive to me 😅 Face similarity , yes I agree with this as I have seen many married couples including my parents who looked alike. They're soulmates.

I liked the video....but do not agree with some points...in my particular case....but I'm sure others will agree. 1. when I was single I always had specific and high standards for what I found attractive in the opposite sex....but I became more accepting of different attractiveness (wider range) after I entered my long-term relationship. this is opposite to the video......you could say that I decided to settle for his looks (that was not quite my type) because his personality was better than those that had the looks of my exes but not the other qualities that matter in longterm relationships.....and now I am extremely attracted to him....i know that there are other people with similar experiences. 2. facial hair on men, does not make someone look attractive or not, it is the overall look....some facial structures and features along with colouration look better with facial hair and some don't.......even those that do look better with facial hair, it's not any facial hair style that looks good on them. different lengths and shapes of facial hair suit different faces......i would never be able to say that I like facial hair on men generally speaking......I LOVE facial hair, on the faces that look good with facial hair, as long that the style and length suit that face. 3. I believe that the words beauty and attractiveness have a lot in common and can be used interchangeably but in some cases, they are very different. I believe that in a number of areas of the video the word attractiveness was used interchangeably with the word/meaning beauty, but not at the part of the video when it was said that to be attractive one doesn't need to have certain features and that what makes someone attractive, is self-grooming and health that stand for attractivness....NO, not really. The word "attractiveness" in this part represents "good image", which is also attractive. The thing is that different "things" can be attractive: natural beauty (doesn't matter if overweight or underweight, well-groomed or not, good sense of style or good taste) genetic features that make one attractive, and good image (taking cake of appearances/image with grooming exercise and finding a style that suits your body and face type). The naturally beautiful individual who takes care of their appearance will be WAY MORE attractive than an average individual that takes care of their appearance (in comparison, the latter might even be considered unattractive). What makes someone beautiful is the relation and balance of all their features...not a specific feature. Maybe not all scientists but only the ones who's research was used in the making of this video, have a weak grasp on "beauty"....their conclusion in the video was that if all attractive people do not share a feature therefore facial features do not make someone beautiful.....WRONG. I'll give an analogy, a room is made up of flooring, ceiling, walls, windows, doors, trim/mouldings, furniture and accessories. A room isn't beautiful if it has a "specific feature" such as a specific window or floor.......what makes a room beautiful is the balance and how all these features work together. So, yes, a face, isn't beautiful just because it has a specific chin or nose, but it is beautiful due to the balance (face symmetry) and how all the features look in relation to each other..... Yes, it's all about the structure and features of the face.....as a whole....t's art.

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I think this is fairly accurate but I definitely am not attracted to people that share my features or facial similarities.

Good very interesting

I'll say I met a woman at work years ago, and I hope I never see her again, thus was the strong sense of mutual attraction. Thank God we work a a large employer.

*Time is finite! One day it will run out!*

Its all about intangible things,spark,electricity and mutual happiness of opposite sex will attract them the most and beautiness and handsomeness is a just BONUS!!!! -me😊

Very true ❤❤❤

Here is the science from research in many countries many studies: 1. Males and females are both attracted most,strongly statistically to average faces that are symmetrical... 2. How closely one side matches the other predicts how attractive the face is rated overall. 3. Same with the body..asymmetry on the outside is a predictor of assymetry internally while symmetry predicts genetic health.. 4.We are all attracted to indicators of health: good teeth dental.hygiene, shiny hair,.clear eyes. 5. In women high hip to waist ratio, average weight are perceived as attractive...the wide hips predict ease of childbirth. 6. In men wider shoulders and narrower hips, an,average weight but muscled body...not extreme, is.prefered. 7.Some cultures like women to be of lower or more.weight that is culturally determined. 8.Signs of genetic abnomality are perceived as less attractive, low set ears, extra digits, etc even attached earlobes indicate less than average genetic internal normalality. Anyone with five or more of the seven most common anatomical abnormalities will,be perceived as less attractive one or two are not very predictive. 9.Some outliers LIKE some unusual features. I for example am attracted to longer and larger than average noses in men likely due to my Anglo Saxon ethnic heritage in which both genders.tend to have long noses on average. Yet I also.find some Middle Eastern,.Italian, Spanish ie substantial noses not my heritage attractive while I find tiny noses on men unattractive. I myself have a smaller shorter nose than average for my ethnic heritage so.perhaps I am pushed in mate choice to select.for genes that will balance my "too small" nose in my offspring and in fact that HAS been the case with. my offspring...interesting hypothesis at least. Sybil.Francis PhD clinical psychologist,.researcher and professor

"You can't change the shape of your face." Gen-z/millennial/kardashian "hold my beer"

Christy Brinkley pointed out smiling gives you a face lift. I look way better smiling.

I'm attracted to everyone and everything. Including YOU reading this comment. Sup dashing 😘

What makes a woman or man really attractive is when the person shows her or his best side. 🤓😉😘

I love how he said we tend to look for partners that look the same, me being latina interested in Asian men.. I beg to differ 😂

Lol why am I watching this😂

I tend to find more atractive not the regular people, but the ones who have differebt carachteristics. And some i can even manipulate my mind to find a person atractive. But the better atraction and real is when i just look at someone and you just get that atraction. I had that university collegue girl...I didn't find her beautiful at first time, because it was more than that, but like, some day, i had to write something on her back, and i felt a strong smell coming from her. Like i couldn't handle...

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If you both have had similar experiences and have same interests that builds and creates chemistry period.

some people are quiet cuz they are shy. or observant. those are the traits that I had when I was younger. then I grew up that when I got older. but yeah it's not a bad thing it's not a good thing.

Chemistry is real science MK 🔥🦋🦋

great

I have good chemistry👍 with this video 💖🥰♥️Thank You💋🙏 💜👏🙏👍👍

I love number 4...

geart mate

2:52 " .... But how do you crearte chemistry? It's easier than you think: communication and be yourself!" So, it's imposible

My preferences are broad when single? I've been single for years cuz I barely feel attracted to anyone.

Just gonna say it right now, the chances of that type of couple in the thumbnail is EXTREMELY rare.

Hahaha the thumbnail though!

Women fall in love with their ears, while men fall in love with their eyes.

Y’all just the fact that we looked this video up and opened it 😑

You can't control someone else's desire for you with the things you can control. It doesn't work that way. Financial stability is the only compromise to lust. Beyond that, you're SOL.

I tend to like women that look different from me.

That's true

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Love Is in the Air

Number 7 is key

write that down, write that down

I really like the Animations Style of this i dont know Why.

Chimistry ....is somthing just is there or not you d ont bild.......is even the when it should not be.....

I love the great red lipstick

My mom always said all my bfs look alike 👀..

I absolutely disagree with A LOT of what you said. Especially the fact that you stated that chemistry can grow, or that it's under someone's control. I'm 49 years old. And I've found that either you have chemistry, or you don't. For me, The very first kiss with someone is the telltale sign. Either it's there, or nowhere! After the first kiss, If I want to continue to kiss that person & I feel sensations run wild throughout my body & I get butturflys Or I feel NOTHING at all & I'm not going to take anything any further, because kissing them is like kissing my mom on the cheek! So if you're telling me I can make the chemistry grow.. I need detailed information from you on exactly how you are able to do that!?!?

I tend to fall for very different people from me