1. Nonverbal Communication In public 2. Outward displays of Intelligence (e.g. Reading books) 3. Wear Glasses (Not Sunglasses) 4. Handling stress/negative moments well 5. Wear a watch 6. Brag about her to family and friends 7. Bring her a cup of coffee 8. Acts of Being a good dad 9. Apologize when you are wrong 10. Give her space (don't be clingy) 11. In public, put your hand on the small of her back 12. Chip in on prep, cooking, and cleaning up of a meal 13. Share your food with your lady 14. Make it a habit of being present 15. Wear grey sweatpants

I tried the coffee thing. I put on a nice watch as you recommended and brought her a morning coffee in bed. She was furious! She started screaming and yelling then chased me out of the house with a cast iron frying pan... Apparently this only works on women who know you.

I agree with all 15. Being cared for does it for me. I went on a date to a amusement park and he pick me up, put me in the ride and made sure I was safely strapped in before he did it for himself. I fell in LOVE. I've never seen anyone do that except a parent.

Jeff, Also a ladies finds attractive when he is health conscious and shows that he is interested in hers as well.

As a married man, these are straight gems that my wife will definitely benefit from. Thanks, OG!

Definitely on track with intelligence. Nothing is sexier than a man who can converse intelligently about many topics! Also taking time to continue pursuing hobbies it’s very attractive. Shows dedication, consistency, and gives a couple something to talk about. Great video!

As a Senior Citizen & Widow after almost 30 years of marriage, I find your Channel Jeff on point in directing Men to be mature in several aspects of life. Women are also attracted to Men who are honestly grounded in their relationship with God.

Holding eye contact when holding a conversation, and putting his phone away(or face down). It's a subtle way of showing he is considerate and engaged. A man can go from "meh" 😒 to "I can't wait to see him again"😍 And share dessert!

Yes yes yes and yes. Also, when a man holds the woman’s hand when he takes her to the bedroom or just out in public.

Be careful with the “absence.” Too much of it leads to “Out of sight, out of mind.”

The bragging on her in public is huge. It goes both ways too. I know men love it too 💜

Well done! One more... Let your lady know you value and respect her opinion. "That's a good thought", "I value your opinion", "I appreciate you saying that"

Tie game on P.O.I.N.T!! My favorite tip was sapiosexual....nothing like intelligence! SALUTE!!

This is a really sharp look thar playa. Saaaaalute !

Omg you hit it on the nail... eye contact while distant, being a great father, helping with household chores (just the initiative) 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

Oh man, with 1.5x speed the vids are perfect now. Good info, man.

Good information,Sir! The touching of the small of the back, sharing the food hit it and being present 🤩

Wow! We are 43 Strong. You hit this Out of Park from the 1st example of the man being present in a room full of people while catching each others eyes with a subtle smile or wink as he walks through the room . Trust and believe he's definitely gonna get that call it a night kind of love❤. The whole look book is On Point . Thanks for the shout out Jeff to us ladies. Be Blessed

From one of the 43 😉: You're definitely on the right track. 👍 About the sweatpants - they're soft to the touch, they slide beautifully over a man's physique, and they're easier to remove.

I agree with this list. I’d also add- Guys Who Are Nice To Animals. Guys In Suspenders (Think Christian Bale on American Psycho, Patrick Swayze on Ghost) Guys Who Are Good Dancers. Guys In White Tank Tops (Think David Boreanaz on Angel or Buffy) Guys Who Play An Instrument Or Sing. Guys Who Can Fix Things.

Man, I'm 41 and now learning these things and checking up on your other videos. Thanks for the knowledge brother. It's changing my life for the better, one day at the time.

All of these were on point and made me all warm and cheery, but I definitely can't stop smiling at the last one, got us all figured out lol!

Dropping gems O.G an apology always gets me hugs and kisses salute!

The good dad thing is such a HUGE turn on for me. Men who genuinely love and enjoy their kids are so hot🔥. Cooking me a meal is a close second. The apology thing is also huge especially if it's genuine and accompanied with changed behavior. Great list per usual.

What up my bro Og. You just keep putting out the powerful videos My G. So much great advice for free. Salute my friend.

Nailed all of them! And, the gray sweatpants thing is true and I never thought about it before.

All great tips O.G! Right on point. This vid was lit! Salute brother! 👊🏽

Thanks, keep dropping knowledge brother

The Blue Theme is KILLER Jeff...SALUTE!!! 🔥🔥🔥

Another one of the 43 here... ALL of these! 👍🏼. But the hand in the small of the back? Oh yeah!! ❤️. And of course, the gray sweatpants. Works EVERY time! Fantastic job, OG! ❤️🙂👍🏼

I can do all you said except share my food. If the girl likes what I'm eating, I will order it for her. When I see a meal I like, I'm mentally prepared to enjoy every bite of it. I can not divide my happiness, but I can help my woman experience the same thing by ordering her what I'm enjoying. No men enjoys sharing his food, so if you find one, stay with him coz he loves you a lot.

This might be one of the most rock solid lists to date!

Nothing is more appealing when a man can converse who's well rounded ,keeps a clean home,very considerate and especially who extremely neutering..being able to cook is just an added bonus. Great list bro ❤

Once again Jeff your subtle suggestions are making impactful waves for the men that are thriving to improve their character and content. Salute Sir!!

Jeff I love your background music as well. Keep Shining!!!

Hey Jeff! That suit and those glasses 🥰. Yes you are on 🔥 I love a man that is smart and can take the lead! Yes when he shares his food puts his hand the small of your back definitely a turn on. Your content is always great! Stay safe!

Definitely on point!! We as women love the attention of our men in every situation!!! So......Salute to you Jeff!

Hi Jeff! Those were all great. I’ve never given much thought to a man wearing a watch, very good point. I’d like to add to the list, being passionate about something. Whether it’s work, a hobby, cars, clothes, or food, have something that makes you excited, and share it with your lady. I love for a man to share his intimate knowledge about a subject, and to see the spark that it puts in his eyes.

OG, OG, OG...all I can do is smile, I'm blushing from your questions and answers... Wow! when you put on those glasses I was finished... Anyway who is the lucky woman that tells you our secrets?

As I always say, your content when it comes to the ladies is always on point. Must be experience😏. Well done

1) I had to rewind when the Style OG put on those glasses 👓 lol. Seriously, once again he is spot on.....I won’t list any, because they all were great! I gotta make sure all men I know subscribe to this channel

Great tips Jeff, looking sharp, that tie is amazing!!! Take care mi amigo

OG like always great content. You are the Life OG!! My uncle and aunt have been together for 30+ years and share the same plate of food.

Definitely on point and entertaining Jeff. These Gems are a no brainer when in a relationship. Teach and preach. Tradition and old fashion romance will never go out of style. 👏🏽👍🏽👑👔🎊

Ge, Jeff And to add to ur heavy hitter list is that the ladies will also find most comforting and loving that he begins and ends his days & nights safely with her. Be safe & stay healthy.☝

I've made plenty of these mistakes in relationships. Especially the "be present" one. Good stuff brother I wasnt even gonna watch. Thought I knew it all lol. Style O.G does it again

I'm definitely learning as you teach!!! Salute O.G.

This topic and many of your topics are on point, a lot of the younger crowd will not understand the concept, and relationship rituals, many are not taught. they need to be tuning in to your channel. keep it up, i am always listening, still fine tuning my game, and I am a O.G. Kudos

Well manicured hands go very nicely with a sexy watch.

My wife told me she feels protected, when I lay my arm over her at night when we're sleeping.

First one bro - 🙌🏾🙌🏾 - Was just think of this so thank you brother

You know your stuff my brother! Thanks for the insightful information!

I've been wearing glasses mostly my entire life. I've always gotten complimented by the ladies. It definitely gives off a certain look especially when I dress up.

Salute from Detroit! Love the channel!

love your channel, I came across them one early morning. they are very informal. I find that we have the same sense of style. been taking notes. watched over 30 videos keep it up.

The list is on point, but the suit and tie and pocket square is on fire 🔥, great look O.G. It looks classy.

I agree with all the points. Jeff one thing that is also a big turn on is having mature & intelligent social media behavior. I mean like not being so publicly & blatantly thirsty in the comments every time a woman posts a pic or a man posting very childish/immature things on his page. I’m currently not really on SM But when I used to be I remember seeing this quite often & it was like the nail in the coffin for any potential possibilities 🧐🧐🧐

Bottom line fellas when you're with your lady give her your undivided attention ! Great advice jeff !

Great video. I have learned these through trial and error on my journey to become the best me. One thing I always try to do is "be the sunlight in my woman's universe." Keep bringing these tight videos for the gentlemen Sir! Oh and that suit combo is proper!

Love your vids bro please keep it coming 👍🏽👍🏽😎

Oh wow. Tie game on fleek. 👍🏽

as a women I agree with everything said even the pants bit. I would add: men who love and respect their mothers; men with a 3 day beard.

I have never commented on here but it’s been very informative and have given me some great ideas ( and thank you so much ! ) for the best gift ideas for a man out here today, oh yes my brother we ARE watching .

Hey Jeff! I like your dating and relationship perspective. I have to say I really like the idea of making eyes with my love across a room. Especially since I am preoccupied trying to work a room, I'd be more inclined to slow down and concentrate on having a great time with my sweetheart.💕 I'm hoping to get to know my boyfriend's family a lot better. I'd really be flattered if he bragged on me at some upcoming events.💕 My baby brought my morning coffee on a day where I had a really busy to-do list and I just bragged to no end about his thoughtfulness. I just thought this gesture was so sweet. He scored major points especially since we were early in the dating part of the relationship. 💕 I can't wait to turn heads with my beau at some upcoming events as I am admittedly a bit of a showstopper. How wonderful I'd find the change of pace in having him to guide our movement through the venues. Ahhh!

I enjoy your videos! I like how you do what you do. A nice suit, clean shoes, along with a pair of socks with an unexpected pattern and/or color is a turn on for some. Agreed! The “attach at the hip” thing is not cool. And, when you make a phone call, lead the exchange. Don’t expect the person you are calling to “carry” the call initiated by you. Good day, Ya’ll!

Number 16...Don’t execute any of these things unless it’s genuinely because you want to.

One of your best videos. And I’m a big fan. Great advice. All of these are spot on. Salute OG!!!

I always love your presentations. Every point is on point to me...lol...Keep doing what you're doing.....Also, I learned that if the man you want has no desire to at least try these things, definitely he's not the one for you...Peace🥰🥰🥰

Another great video Jeff! My wife loves when I have my hand on the small of her back. She feels protected. I think another turn on is when men show their faith in God in numerous ways including praying over a meal for example. It shows vulnerability and strength at the same time.

Tell her this: I heard you’re good at algebra - Could you replace my X without asking Y?

Everything you said was all facts. 💯💯💯👌🏾. That suit is 🔥

Another great video as always......thank you O.G. Styles,I proud to say that you're my virtual mentor. 👍

Small of the back thing, definitely! Being present!!!

You’re speaking true facts, Jeff! One huge turn on is a positive, optimistic guy. There’s this guy that likes me. He’s a cool dude, but a HUGE PESSIMIST! He complains or finds the negative in just about EVERYTHING! It’s hella annoying and is one of the things that keep me from giving him a chance. To see a man that can keep his cool and chooses the positive road is very attractive.

I've been married for 12 years and you are 100% ACCURATE. This made my tighten up. Thanks Style O.G🔥✊🏽😎

Looking very dapper as usual in your thumbnail 😉😉. Spot on video, eye contact is ALWAYS something I look for. Love a guy who’s courteous to others as well.

I was in the middle of your beckett simonon joint when I got the call for this vid…

Great list don't forget Grilling and being a handy man around the house

Heyyy Jeff #44 here checking in!🤣🤣I love it!!

Hey Style OG, your videos are excellent my brotha. I seen a video about Tiege products, I just received Lumin products, imma try it out. I wasn't able to get my hands on some Tiege products. Thanks again mane

T J I’m one of the 43 ladies! As always you look sharp, especially in that blue blazer, shirt, and tie. Very handsome! In terms Of the tips, I agree 100%. I love men who are confident and who show authority. A man who reads, fixed something in my home, pumps my gas, and keeps a calm demeanor in the face of chaos, is a huge turn on.

A clean house is the "1st" turn on and a man who systematically cleans up with you to keep the house medically clean!!!!!!!!

Yessssss Jefff we here watching you. Your videos are always 💯💯💯💯. We love it when you put your phone down and have a conversation with us.🎉🎉

These are great tips! And...Thank you for NOT trying to sell me a Vincenzo watch on the watch segment!

Nice teeth and good breath are a turn on. Straight, white teeth are sexy. Punctuality, attention to detail, and planners with great follow-through are attributes I find attractive in men. Finally, men who are intelligent, possess mechanical, or carpentry skills are keepers.

My deep voice .... enough said

Great tips bruh! One other tip is being able to make a woman laugh. Laughter tends to allow women to be more of themselves without having their guards up all the time. It's been my golden rule and has worked 99.9% of the time.

This guy page is full of gyms already got a like and comment keep working

Not just yoga pants and leggings but the Sundress too LOL

Coffee ☕️ ❤️

Yesssir first comment this time keep up the great work!

On point as always OG 💪🏾

I've used a lot of advice you give, so I know it's good. Especially about apologizing. Even if you are always right apologizing shows you can humble yourself and not be pompous. And like I always say, If you want the glory you got to be willing to take the blame.

Much like men who are mesmerized watching a woman apply her lipstick, I like to watch a man shave his face...very intimate and often leads to other things..

Great info as usual. All you Young OGs...take note

Real talk, keep smashing out facts my bro!

Summary guy: 1. Can’t her eye from across the room at an event 2. Outward displays of intelligence. 3. Wear some regular glasses. 4. Take life’s ups and downs with stride. Don’t panic 5. Wear a watch. 6. Brag about her to your family and friends. 7. Bring her a cup of coffee in the morning. 8. Be a good dad. 9. Not having a problem apologizing when you’re wrong. 10. Give her some space. 11. Gently put your hand on the small of her back and direct her. 12. Chip in on the prepping, cooking, and cleaning up of meals. 13. Share your food with her. 14. Make a habit of being present. 15. They love us in grey sweatpants.

You nailed it!!!

Great content as always... Appreciate it

Great info O.G!👊🏿👊🏿 I give this a good 10 SAAAAAALUTES!