15 Tips to Stop Ruminating and Get Out of Your Head

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Doc Snipes

Doc Snipes

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Dr. Dawn-Elise Snipes is a Licensed Professional Counselor and Qualified Clinical Supervisor. She received her PhD in Mental Health Counseling from the University of Florida in 2002. In addition to being a practicing clinician, she has provided training to counselors, social workers, nurses and case managers internationally since 2006 through AllCEUs.com 15 Tips to Stop #rumination and #stopoverthinking Get Out of Your Head and Get On with Your Life. #CBT
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Intrusive Thoughts vs. Ruminations
Causes of Ruminations
15 Strategies to Address Ruminations
Ruminations are repetitive “thought cycles”
Some can be positive in valence (i.e. philosophy)
Bothersome ruminations tend to be negative and feel uncontrollable.
Treatment aims to
Notice and mindfully accept the thought instead of struggling with it
Develop tools to help the person feel empowered to break the thought cycle.
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00:00 Intro
0:10 Objectives
0:26 Intrusive Thoughts vs Rumination
9:05 Causes of Rumination
24:10 15 Strategies
54:17 Summary

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@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 8 ай бұрын
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@juliedonahue6610
@juliedonahue6610 2 жыл бұрын
This is worth THOUSANDS of dollars of therapy. (I’m in individual therapy as well but this is so concise and helpful). Thank you so much for sharing this.
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 2 жыл бұрын
Very Welcome
@jenniferg6818
@jenniferg6818 Жыл бұрын
she is awesome.
@hk5454
@hk5454 Жыл бұрын
I know right? What a great content, this helped me a lot overcome a problem I was having
@Stardust475
@Stardust475 2 жыл бұрын
I've just started the video. I've noticed I ruminate on areas of my life where I didn't stand up for myself, in abusive relationships. Where I've been gullible and my lack of boundaries ( which no one taught). My own education in this area has brought on persistent ruminating on past injustices.
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.
@berlinetta____2680
@berlinetta____2680 2 жыл бұрын
Same. Great summary. I am greatful I am more aware now but like you, my mind ruminates as it obviously tries to makes sense of the experiences, so rumination occurs, it is like a revolving door.
@southerncross3638
@southerncross3638 2 жыл бұрын
When that happens show no fear show no anger it drives them nuts, just laugh and shake your head.
@Augfordpdoggie
@Augfordpdoggie 2 жыл бұрын
@@southerncross3638 my boss always tries to put me down because i stand up for myself instead of letting shit go. I spent my whole life being shit on and letting shit go....had enough
@kimberlymccracken747
@kimberlymccracken747 2 жыл бұрын
Same 👍
@truthh8597
@truthh8597 Жыл бұрын
15 Strategies- 1) Define your RML (Rich Meaningful Life) 2) Mindfully and nonjudgmentally notice and accept 3) Write it Down 4) Unhook 5) Evaluate the purpose of this self talk (safety and/or control, physical needs) 6) Create safety (trauma triggers) 7) Get the facts (not feelings or assumptions) Am I safe? Am I using cognitive distortions (mind reading, personalisation, magnification, catastrophizing) Is this a good use of my time and energy 8) Make time to ponder 9) Practice Forgiveness Self’s own mistakes and flaws Other’s mistakes and flaws 10) Practice Loving Kindness May your life be filled with peace, health and love 11) Guided Imagery Alternate script Urge surfing Support and safety Successful accomplishment (speech, asking someone on a date, exercise, waking up ‘happy’) 12) Thought Stopping 13) Mindfulness and grounding 14) Distract with activities 15) Get support
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching! :)
@carolinajorge580
@carolinajorge580 2 ай бұрын
thank you so much, this was very helpfull. gratefull for human beings like these
@andrereloaded1425
@andrereloaded1425 2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes the sheer pull of the negative thought loops are so strong (due to the severity of the injustice), you try to stay conscious but all of a sudden you're replaying inner arguments for 30 seconds again before you snap out of it. Very frustrating to feel powerless.
@lesleygarvs4640
@lesleygarvs4640 Жыл бұрын
Sometimes i have felt better if i did the right thing or stopped the abusor... Then when i ruminate... Oh, i did the right thing... But then why i ruminate about it? It s a compulsion, also has to do with the nervous system, plagued of abuse
@xnyroxchannel
@xnyroxchannel Жыл бұрын
People had to work in negativity onto u, you have to work to drown that out with positivity. As soon as ur mindful of a bad memory playing in your head -immediately think of a good one! Use your five senses to really feel immersive and overpower the bad one :)
@andrereloaded1425
@andrereloaded1425 Жыл бұрын
@@xnyroxchannel Thank you. I'm actually getting better at NOT engaging with the angry thoughts. I've come a long way in a few months. I now have longer periods of no thought. It's a minor miracle.
@Anonymous-fj2uo
@Anonymous-fj2uo Жыл бұрын
Ikr. It leads me feeling suicidal.
@andrereloaded1425
@andrereloaded1425 Жыл бұрын
@@Anonymous-fj2uo Stay strong. - we're in this together. We have to try and accept the past coz we can't change it
@KhangTran-zq1pe
@KhangTran-zq1pe 2 жыл бұрын
0:10 Objectives 0:26 Intrusive Thoughts vs Rumination 9:05 Causes of Rumination 24:10 15 Strategies 54:17 Summary
@AllUserNamesAreUsed
@AllUserNamesAreUsed 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you :)
@blindsey1043
@blindsey1043 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks I was getting inattentive and lost
@PattyDalmau
@PattyDalmau 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks🎈
@lazarusdig1264
@lazarusdig1264 Жыл бұрын
Thank you!!!
@kimberlywood7783
@kimberlywood7783 Жыл бұрын
Just saved me 24 minutes. Ty
@sterlgirlceline
@sterlgirlceline Жыл бұрын
Dr. Snipes, colleague here and it just doesn’t feel right stopping by without telling you how wonderful you and your channel are. Stellar information, endearing personality, sense-of-humor and wit…I mean it just isn’t possible to exceed top-caliber! ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
Wow, thank you! I appreciate you being here. :)
@roxiane
@roxiane 2 жыл бұрын
I think this is the video that's going to change my life. Been suffering from what I thought were intrusive thoughts for years but turns out it had been uncontrolled rumination all along. Thank you!!
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 2 жыл бұрын
So glad it is helpful for you! Thanks for watching.
@rawdonwaller
@rawdonwaller 6 ай бұрын
Same here
@aidanfrombach6989
@aidanfrombach6989 16 күн бұрын
I think I have the same thing
@rebeccajones9757
@rebeccajones9757 Жыл бұрын
I was catastrophizing this week. My bunny was sick and I worried for her mortality. I finally got her to the vet and they seemed like it was easily treated.
@ellipsis-
@ellipsis- 2 жыл бұрын
It's so relieving to know this has a name and how to deal with it
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.
@krystalhoekzema2578
@krystalhoekzema2578 Жыл бұрын
This has been a lifeline for me. I am a decade and some suffered of C-PTSD and Chronic Depression and WOW did I need this information right now. I am feeling controlled by my thoughts and Im suffering! Writing flashcards to keep on deck so I can remind myself of your 15 Strats! Thank you so much 🎉
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
I appreciate you watching!Other videos you might be interested in can be found at: kzfaq.infosearch?query=CPTSD
@kingfiona3344
@kingfiona3344 2 жыл бұрын
I love Doc snipes. You are so thorough, experienced, and a sweet spirit. God bless you. Your work is taking my two years of therapy to another level. I feel like every video is of course educational. For me, it’s like an extension/ extended therapy session with soooooooooo much healing, wisdom , knowledge, and value. THANK YOU. Thank you🙏🏾♥️
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 2 жыл бұрын
That is so nice of you to say. I appreciate it! Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness. Bless you as well. I also have another KZfaq Channel: Good Orderly Direction | Practical Bible Study kzfaq.info/love/YYJCD94NU3_qdbkSEyHLrg Please consider liking and subscribing.
@HEROHCR2YT
@HEROHCR2YT 2 жыл бұрын
@@DocSnipes hey I absolutely NEED the videos you are putting out. I have more work to find myself again than ever at this time in my life. I am so grateful for these. I've shared MANY times. The one with this speaker on the impacts of trauma on the brain was soo good ice watched it 5 times already. You are helping the 🌎 and this is one small Thank you 🙏🏼💙
@debbiejoseph5351
@debbiejoseph5351 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks e
@lesleygarvs4640
@lesleygarvs4640 Жыл бұрын
I feel the sam🤗... Excellent and sweethearted, reminds me of Judy Pardo, my amazing pschychollgist in NYC
@terriliaw1796
@terriliaw1796 Жыл бұрын
Is indeed so much breakthrough for mi.. I am. Struggling to cope with this mental thghts all along and really loss... Thank you so much.
@justinmeynell6011
@justinmeynell6011 Жыл бұрын
Wow, really amazing talk... I cried to what you where saying, it was a relief because I didn't know what was happing to me & these overwhelming thoughts that keep repeating. Your right about trying to tune out of those negative memories or thoughts, it is most relaxing. Thank you soooo much for helping me! 🙏🏻👍💯😎
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome
@bobhanover4841
@bobhanover4841 2 жыл бұрын
I have a very difficult time with rumination issues. I've tried many different medications. Some days I pray that these repetitive anger thoughts go away. Thank God for videos like this! It keeps me closer to understanding the problem. I've found journaling can help clear up my mind. I hit my head on the pavement several times about 10 years ago and I strongly feel that this has made my mental illness much worse and harder to treat.
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.
@ChampdeFleursWellness
@ChampdeFleursWellness 2 жыл бұрын
Right on time. This gave me so much ease. It’s so quiet now in my head. I will continue implementing these solutions.
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 2 жыл бұрын
Wonderful! Thanks for watching.
@Tamperkele
@Tamperkele Жыл бұрын
This is something that just about every one of my patients does. Great to hear your insights on this one.
@oilselevated4808
@oilselevated4808 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve tried several different psychologists and never continue because I feel they can’t relate and don’t understand this, but you explain it perfectly. You should consider building a community, maybe group therapy to help with these issues. Thank you for this lecture!
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 2 жыл бұрын
So nice of you to say. I have been looking into building a psycho educational community. 😀 If it comes to fruition, you will see news about it on the channel!
@vickicollard1616
@vickicollard1616 2 жыл бұрын
@@DocSnipes please start a group and let us know. I'm a retired LPCC, and can tell you for certain, there are no decent therapists in my city.
@mel3256
@mel3256 10 ай бұрын
Many therapists offer online sessions now if you want to try professional from another area far from you
@stephaniemodkins4624
@stephaniemodkins4624 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for creating this video. Today, I just spoke with a therapist about my ruminating thoughts. She gave me a couple of suggestions, but not as in depth as yours. I am going to try them because thinking about the same thing daily over and over again is wearing me out.
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 2 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome!
@debbievick1025
@debbievick1025 2 жыл бұрын
I do the same thing. My husband is having an emotional affair....could be more. I constantly check the find my phone app, etc. looking to see where he is...he is the ultimate NPD.
@coreyblake6264
@coreyblake6264 2 жыл бұрын
thanks a bunch for your show today and qualified expertise in these areas. pretty confident in hoping i'll be able to make progress on the things i mentioned toward the end of the show, wanted to add before the end that one of the things affecting myself and my progress was my abilities in modulating my exposure to media and technology that affects me in negative ways. sometimes the bad news, certain youtube/spotify/other streaming channels that are changing in polarizing ways from day to day, negative cross-talk through public discussions, social media etc, seems to have a way of keeping one back a step from the 2 steps forward of progress one begins to make. i think im going to try to work on (physical) notebooking/check listing/outlining and some time management techniques to help bring some time slotted diversity to my days. overall so far i've found this resource to be at the very least informative and a valuable and unique perspective for someone that's interested in being able to help oneself in modern times and navigate through these emerging new realities that we share. keeping attention to mental health without the negative stigma often associated with it seems like a good tool to add to ones tool box. thanks again, wishing you and your viewers and clients all the best. looking forward to your future content
@aayushshrestha3718
@aayushshrestha3718 Жыл бұрын
From the vacation I have repetition thought of having something in my neck I remember this every minute and feel really frustrated
@dee0731
@dee0731 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Doc Snipes so much for this! 🙌🏻🌞
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 2 жыл бұрын
My pleasure!
@currypablo
@currypablo Жыл бұрын
I find giving yourself compassion and allowing yourself to be imperfect are key to beating that inner critic. Ruminations and obsessive thinking is an amygdala hijacking where the inner voice takes over.
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
Yes, self compassion and adopting imperfection are highly important in beating the inner critic. I actually have videos on that. Here they are: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/kLN6fM523bfJepc.html kzfaq.info/get/bejne/qplipZB0r7O8k6s.html Also, here are some videos on taming the inner critic: kzfaq.infosearch?query=critic
@currypablo
@currypablo Жыл бұрын
@@DocSnipes thank you❤️😁
@luv1000
@luv1000 2 жыл бұрын
This is an EXCELLENT Counseling session!
@judithwallace2091
@judithwallace2091 2 жыл бұрын
Great video! So happy to see your channel approaching 200K subscribers. I found your channel two years ago at the start of the COVID 19 quarantine. You had less than 30K subs at that time. Your practical, informative style is great. So glad you are reaching a larger audience.
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for all your support! All your views and comments have helped me along. THANKS for being part of the channel!!
@b.robins7305
@b.robins7305 Жыл бұрын
Excellent! Thank you Dr. Snipes!
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
So welcome.
@sgabrielle2439
@sgabrielle2439 2 жыл бұрын
This was so helpful, Doc. Thank you for all of the time you put into these amazing videos! Sending my gratitude & love ❤
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 2 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome. Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.
@jbullets5964
@jbullets5964 Жыл бұрын
Thank you doctor snipes. Coming across your channel has been an absolute blessing
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
So glad you are here.
@SteezyDollIsabel
@SteezyDollIsabel Жыл бұрын
Omg thank you so much I could not deal with the rumination anymore. It has took alot of my time and energy and I have not been able to get my mind off of the cycle its like a circle going around and around. I feel free after watching the whole video. It is my first time going to a therapist this month I couldn’t wait longer. Cannot thank you enough for this video.😭❤️ No more waking up to ruminations, neither spending my day rumination. It was getting to the point where all my energy was being spent ruminating and thinking about the worse case scenerio and avoiding situations.
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.
@hope4094
@hope4094 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much.
@paulmuratori7158
@paulmuratori7158 Жыл бұрын
I find my self ruminating about an incident with an ex coworker. I called her after she left the company- didn’t realize she was at work! She has not spoken to me since. I don’t ruminate about her specifically but about the untimely phone call. Can’t get it out of my head but will say this video is a start to help stop the ruminating! This and meditation! Thank you Doctor!
@levilabs1781
@levilabs1781 Жыл бұрын
For me, it's all about energy management and sorting, along with loving-kindness/compassion. Mindfulness is also very good, breath meditation helps calm down andslow thinking.
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching.
@milachyc88
@milachyc88 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, you have no idea how helpful you are.
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 2 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome! Thanks for watching.
@MaryAnnWade
@MaryAnnWade Жыл бұрын
I was diagnosed many years ago with major recurrent depression, for which I was hospitalized in the 1990s. Over the years, with help from therapy and at times, medication, I've learned how to get it under control so that I can function pretty well, but since around November of 2022, I noticed that depression was becoming more prevalent for me. This video has helped me identify the fact that I have been ruminating over several recent--some major--life changes that have caused stress for me. This realization has already reduced my angst, and I am highly motivated to put into practice the strategies Dr. Snipes has suggested. Thank you so much for this video!
@_zombiehunter
@_zombiehunter 2 жыл бұрын
Wow, I just found this channel. This has helped a lot. Thank You :)
@rickkillian2378
@rickkillian2378 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Dr. Snipes for all your helpful information
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
So welcome! I appreciate you watching. Other videos that might help stop rumination can be found at: kzfaq.infosearch?query=rumination
@elizabethquirk5912
@elizabethquirk5912 2 жыл бұрын
AAAaargh. I'm not sure how many times I had to replay the last few minutes while listening to this because listening to the topic of rumination prompted ruminations that drowned out what I was trying to listen to.
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching, several times. 😉 Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.
@elizabethg9346
@elizabethg9346 2 жыл бұрын
I listened twice! Very helpful xxx
@lizgichora6472
@lizgichora6472 2 жыл бұрын
Practice forgiveness and learn from the experience, guided imagery helps me immensely to move forward.Thank you very much.
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@irate74
@irate74 Жыл бұрын
Wow you are extremely intelligent and knowledgeable, had to hit that subscribe button! I love how you are so in depth, detailed and thorough in your discussions. Am really looking forward to all your other content!!! 😊
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
I appreciate you watching and subscribing
@petras8385
@petras8385 2 жыл бұрын
Im so happy I found this channel. Thank you for these videos, doc. I supper from GAD and i ruminate and I worry. Been to therapy, both psycho dynamic and cbt for many years and been helped by that. These videos are a great resource on tecniques and strategies that can help and keep what I learned in therapy alive and active. Thanks!
@petras8385
@petras8385 2 жыл бұрын
Suffer*
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 2 жыл бұрын
So glad to hear they are helpful for you. Thanks for watching.
@terriliaw1796
@terriliaw1796 Жыл бұрын
I am grateful too.
@judycampbell7821
@judycampbell7821 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. You have already helped me this morning. I wrote my thoughts down and can’t believe that worked so fast! I will keep on listening and learning from you. Thank you. Judy
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching.
@chrismeyerlawfirm
@chrismeyerlawfirm Жыл бұрын
Thank you Doc Snipes! You are truly a gift to those in need!
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
You’re so welcome, Chris! Thank you so much for your kind words and for watching the video.
@jpgabriele9596
@jpgabriele9596 2 жыл бұрын
Wow! what a nice , in-depth video !
@simplybradley984
@simplybradley984 Жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for your videos. They are really helpful to me. I love your personality too so that makes the videos that bit better! Thanks again!
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
You’re so welcome. I appreciate you watching
@allenculbertson8170
@allenculbertson8170 2 жыл бұрын
God bless you and thank you so much for sharing your expertise and knowledge with us.
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 2 жыл бұрын
So nice of you
@dani323
@dani323 Жыл бұрын
👍💯Thank you Dr Snipes for all your efforts and time. Simple language. Concise. Directly addressing the issue. Giving solutions to walk away with. Thank you 🙏 for the peace 🕊health 🩹⛑and love 💗 light 🕯
@tammyhoward2811
@tammyhoward2811 2 жыл бұрын
Excellent Doc!
@jeremykermott537
@jeremykermott537 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you, thank you, thank you! Thank you for saying that not all rumination is bad. So many sources now make it seem that any kind of ruminating is a negative sign, but I first learned the term with respect to philosophers pondering meaning or scientists conducting "thought experiments". I do have to say, as a person with ADHD, it's possible to be using a positive form of rumination (meditating on something good or helpful), and not be able to stop due to being in a state of hyperfocus. I've experienced this, and I've heard from others who have, too.
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching.
@emmadavis5633
@emmadavis5633 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this information, Doc Snipes! I am looking forward to implementing these tools; I often have ruminating thoughts and I believe they are keeping me stuck in patterns that I don't want to be attracting.
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for watching. What tip from the video you will use first to stop ruminating?
@emmadavis5633
@emmadavis5633 Жыл бұрын
@@DocSnipes I have used a few so far! Just telling myself ‘stop’; replacing the thoughts with completely different thoughts/visualisation; bringing myself into conscious presence by acknowledging what is in my immediate environment; reasoning: “what is the worst that can happen? Is it likely?”, “what DO I have control over here?”. And today I also wrote it down, balled up the paper and just binned it 😊
@flosotall3041
@flosotall3041 Ай бұрын
Thankyou for the education. Dr Snipes appreciate you.
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes Ай бұрын
My pleasure!
@mel3256
@mel3256 10 ай бұрын
Really appreciate this presentation format, with a split screen and no music or background distractions. Very practical and gelpful content as well.
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 10 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@rwdchannel2901
@rwdchannel2901 2 жыл бұрын
I'd have to remind myself the narcissist just wants supply and ruminating is in a way giving it to them on a telepathic level because they will just say things to try and get in my head and cause anger, sleep deprivation and other health issues. I know if I can not give them any of those problems in my life it cuts them off. I've shown up to work the next day after a toxic person said something to upset me and when they saw me looking well rested and happy I could see the anger on their face because they knew their attempt to get me ruminating on what they did failed. Also, after watching your video I'd say alternative script is really important because if you have time to be ruminating at work over something negative you might as well create a positive list of things to ruminate about. This counter rumination will east a lot of tension and bring back focus on what's important.
@juliea.244
@juliea.244 Жыл бұрын
wow that was an eye-opening thought for me...the narcissist trying to get in your head cause you pain...I was raised by a narcissist mother, I have relationship with her sister & cousin, and they are not straight-up cold & calculating like mom was, they still have a need to do exactly what you wrote, & now since I studied the sub-mind & narcissistic behavior, I am aware the program exists in the family - they are just more covert..they know how to be subtle.
@rwdchannel2901
@rwdchannel2901 Жыл бұрын
@@juliea.244 The way to test them is go out to dinner with them, wait until they say something mean and then don't give them any emotional response positive or negative. That shows them they have no control over you. If they're truly narcissistic you'll see them do things in response that verifies what you knew about them. In my case my father started claiming he forgot to meet up for dinner as a way of attempting to hurt me. It worked the opposite because it helped me go no contact with him. It showed me who I was dealing with and I don't want people that behave that way in my life.
@juliea.244
@juliea.244 Жыл бұрын
@@rwdchannel2901 thanks for the tip on how to test folks..they already failed & I know I have to cut the cord...also what you mention about your dad, my cousin once no-show on me to an important event, and every time I ever met her she was 30-60 minutes late...I just never knew this stuff until now, that's what they're trying to do, get in my head & hurt me, wow.
@mariabennett6668
@mariabennett6668 Жыл бұрын
I just found your channel and I find you are amazing: knowledgeable, methodical, comprehensive, kind , caring and loving. I am learning a lot from you. Keep are the good work .
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
Wow, thank you!
@cardphins68
@cardphins68 2 жыл бұрын
I just want to say "thank you, Dr. Snipes". This video was awesome and it was such a help. The part about "Did I lock the Door?" had the hairs on my neck standing up! My God, I'm not the only one. I found the way to conquer this was to take a deep breath and think to myself, "Chief you have had these thoughts 300 times and every time it turned out the Door was locked, why would this time be any different?", lol. I know it sounds silly but it worked. I am so blessed to have gotten treatment and therapy and I know this has had a positive impact on my Life. Great video and thanks for posting!
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 2 жыл бұрын
True. Thanks for watching and sharing. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.
@n.d8001
@n.d8001 Жыл бұрын
Illuminating. High quality content. Life changing information. Thank you SO MUCH
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@chickiboomboom5323
@chickiboomboom5323 2 жыл бұрын
This is amazing , I've struggled with this for years . I asked about this on your last live Q&A , Thank You Doctor ! I will use this as a tool to change the way I Think, This is going to change my life for the better
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 2 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful! Thanks for watching.
@alforliniteaching5670
@alforliniteaching5670 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Great show.
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching.
@alforliniteaching5670
@alforliniteaching5670 2 жыл бұрын
@@DocSnipes Hi, do you use the tool of OCEAN ?
@Donnabarry0726
@Donnabarry0726 2 жыл бұрын
This is so helpful I do ruminating 24/7 unless engaged fully , it’s very destructive & when I’m driving I miss extra etc you have very useful new tips in this ! Thanks
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.
@avicohen3035
@avicohen3035 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Dr. Snipes. Very helpful. Very wise. Your films must be saving people's lives. You give hope to so many people. You make people turn away from the abyss.
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 2 жыл бұрын
I hope so! Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.
@julieprice488
@julieprice488 Жыл бұрын
Very helpful. Now I know why as soon as I wake the problem that’s bugging me comes to mind, same as before sleep too. Now instead of carrying on and ruminating all day🥴 I’ll understand and try hard to focus elsewhere.
@ShuLorMakesMusic
@ShuLorMakesMusic Жыл бұрын
The information in this video is amazing. Thank you so much for the insight.
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.
@psycherevival2762
@psycherevival2762 Жыл бұрын
I’m so glad I watched this. Thank you for sharing your knowledge so generously, it is so helpful. And I enjoy your spunky sweet personality:)
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
🙂🙂 Ty so much!
@zoehuijbregts10
@zoehuijbregts10 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for making this video, it means a lot to me.
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
You’re so welcome. Thank you for watching. How are you planning to stop ruminating?
@sea9994
@sea9994 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this.
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 2 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome!
@kingaberlakovich5585
@kingaberlakovich5585 Жыл бұрын
Dear Doc Snipes! Thank you for your videos! Your suggestions and thoughts are very helpful und useful. Suffering from depression and ruminating both caused by trauma , and your knowledge is helpful to find the right direction for the day.
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
I appreciate you watching. How are you planning to start addressing rumination?
@saramolet3614
@saramolet3614 9 ай бұрын
This video helped me alot today.Thanks
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 9 ай бұрын
You’re so welcome. I am grateful to be of help and I appreciate you watching the video.
@MichaelRicardoRamon
@MichaelRicardoRamon Жыл бұрын
This video helped so much, thank you!
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
Thanks for being here.
@danab172
@danab172 11 ай бұрын
My therapist recommended your channel. You definitely have a generous amount of supportive information. I was wondering though, if you could do an accompanying video on "maladaptive daydreaming" and imagined conversations with people you know.
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 11 ай бұрын
I am happy your therapist trusts my content enough to refer you to watching. 😀 I will add that to the list of requested video. Please subscribe.
@akvirdberg
@akvirdberg Жыл бұрын
This was so helpful. Thank you!
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching.
@taylorwhite9077
@taylorwhite9077 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Doc 💚
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching.
@anthonyrossmaund3161
@anthonyrossmaund3161 2 жыл бұрын
Great show, I use the scheduled rumination. I pick a time.
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching and commenting.
@theresahanson5022
@theresahanson5022 Жыл бұрын
You are a Godsend. I will try and share this video. It was so so helpful
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
Ty so much!
@lindahebb4832
@lindahebb4832 5 ай бұрын
Appreciate your content. Happy holidays
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 5 ай бұрын
Thank you and happy holidays!
@inculcatetobemaudlin2943
@inculcatetobemaudlin2943 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the explanations.
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching.
@dufus7396
@dufus7396 Жыл бұрын
Thank you....i revisit this as a lot to digest in one viewing
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
You’re so welcome. Thanks for watching
@hk5454
@hk5454 Жыл бұрын
This content is AMAZING!!!! thank you Doc Snipes, this really helped
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
You’re so welcome! I am so glad the video helped and I appreciate you watching it. What will you do first to stop ruminating?
@hk5454
@hk5454 Жыл бұрын
@@DocSnipes For me personally, at the very beginning recognizing what is going on and WHY- and thank you so much for listing all these great underlying possible reasons - and then "writing it all down" on a peace of paper, crumbling the paper and putting it aside was the absolute best! I am back to being my productive self again. I will be now regularly following up for more content and courses, so much amazing content, thank you!!!
@ibekx22
@ibekx22 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this amazing resource of tools! I'm in between therapists and tend to forget that there are tools that I can use to help myself.
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
So welcome! I appreciate you watching
@Luke747gal
@Luke747gal Жыл бұрын
Inner critic here! I've become so anxious and fearful over the years because of hyper focus on my incompetence, weakness and failures. Even times I misspoke, pronounced a word wrong or struggled to make conversation are frequent instances that haunt me at bedtime.
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
I am sorry about that and I appreciate you watching the video. What tips will you use first to stop ruminating? If you’re interested in videos on taming the inner critic, you can find them at: kzfaq.infosearch?query=innercritic Here’s the video on embracing imperfection: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/qplipZB0r7O8k6s.html
@Luke747gal
@Luke747gal Жыл бұрын
​@@DocSnipes thank you! I will continue to watch, learn and practice. I will start with asking myself if I can learn or improve anything for next time...if not then I will stop the thought and redirect it to things I'm grateful for. I will try to focus on facts not current feelings or emotions. Alotting myself a small box of time to ruminate each day and not at bedtime is a good idea too.
@rcz2023
@rcz2023 Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
You’re most welcome. What are you doing and planning to do to stop ruminating?
@brittweir8844
@brittweir8844 2 жыл бұрын
A Ton of information 👍, I’m going to watch this one more than once ❤️,. You are a Blessing 😊.Thank you
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching! Wishing you peace, health, and, happiness.
@GrandmothersGarden
@GrandmothersGarden 2 жыл бұрын
Doc Snipes - Can you do one on what should be in a client's binder for different but common conditions? Such as Emotion Wheel, etc.
@sarahshaw-sehgal1146
@sarahshaw-sehgal1146 Жыл бұрын
Great video thank you!
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@theonlydjtopcat
@theonlydjtopcat Жыл бұрын
May God bless you Dr. Snipes. This is the best video on ruminating on the entire net! I have a trauma bond from being in a mentally abusive relationship with a covert narcissist for almost a year. The discard was nine months ago, and I still constantly think about her throughout the day. It's a very difficult cycle to break. Even though I have forced myself to accept that I could never change a disordered person, there's still a part of me that wants to know why? It's almost as if the Cluster B disordered person implants a tiny tape recorder in your brain to record all the amazing parts of the idealization/love bombing/honeymoon phase, then when they switch over to abuse they simply press play, and let the "good times" thoughts loop, which distract from all the horrible things they do to you after. :(
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
I am sorry that happened to you and I appreciate you watching the video. What did you find most useful from it? Other videos you might be interested in can be found at kzfaq.infosearch?query=traumabond
@Eagleeyechakra
@Eagleeyechakra Жыл бұрын
Super useful techniques to work with ruminations. Thank you so much!
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
You’re most welcome. I appreciate you watching
@MissJoze3
@MissJoze3 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Thank you Thank you ♥️ This clear comprehensive educational content is very valuable. ONCE MORE, THANK YOU! 🌷 🐌
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome!
@Old52Guy
@Old52Guy 9 ай бұрын
I sorely need the contents of this vid! Thanks. Definitely subbing.
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for watching and for subscribing. Other videos you might be interested in can be found at kzfaq.infosearch?query=ruminations
@Old52Guy
@Old52Guy 9 ай бұрын
@@DocSnipes Thank you for the recommendations. I am way past middle age and I would like to finally silence the inner critic. I don't want to be breathing my last and listen to the critic telling me I'm not doing it right.😀
@skionen1781
@skionen1781 Жыл бұрын
Immensely powerful tips. Thanks
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
So welcome
@AnaliseFrank
@AnaliseFrank Жыл бұрын
On my saved list right now.
@k-mckinneyt.v.8057
@k-mckinneyt.v.8057 Жыл бұрын
I just wanted to thank you ma’am n say may god bless you! I’ve been tryna get out my head for 6years n with just listening to you for 10minutes my life changed thank you!
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
I appreciate you watching!
@omardegwy164
@omardegwy164 6 ай бұрын
Waw thanks for the great therapy session 🙂 your words hit the spot
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 6 ай бұрын
You’re most welcome. Glad the video was helpful. Thank you for watching
@theresahanson5022
@theresahanson5022 Жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
Thanks SO MUCH for the support. It really helps keep the channel going. 😀😀😀
@-HiddenInPlainSight-
@-HiddenInPlainSight- 11 ай бұрын
Your channel is a hidden gem really!...i just discovered it yesterday
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 11 ай бұрын
Awww. Thank you! I appreciate your kind words and am grateful to be of help.
@space.weather
@space.weather Жыл бұрын
I really enjoyed this. It's helpful, educational, full of practical insight and your speaking style is very engaging! Subscribed 👍 Thank you 🕊🙏🕊
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
🙂🙂🙂 Ty. Thanks for watching!
@lynnyoungblood2232
@lynnyoungblood2232 9 ай бұрын
This was absolutely terrific! Thank you! One thing I do to stop ruminations when I'm trying to fall asleep, or even if I wake up in the middle of the night, is to play an audiobook on a timer. That way my mind is engaged and I can't think of the ruminations! It really works! Thanks again!
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 9 ай бұрын
You’re so welcome. Thank you for watching and for sharing
@Studio606.
@Studio606. 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for these tips Doctor
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 2 жыл бұрын
Welcome
@prettynatural1973
@prettynatural1973 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for explaining
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 2 жыл бұрын
Welcome
@markoajdukovich
@markoajdukovich Ай бұрын
Thank you for this very educating video! Not thinking about a ruminating topic is the solution for me, but it took me a while to understand how it works. It feels soo hard and soo anti intuitive that not trying to think/solve a problem/thought is actually a way to solve it. It can really be scary how rumination can distort your thinking patterns into constant negativity.
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes Ай бұрын
You are so welcome!
@jamesmullaney9785
@jamesmullaney9785 9 ай бұрын
Great video
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes 9 ай бұрын
Thank you! I am grateful to be of help and I appreciate you watching the video.
@guymaxime4685
@guymaxime4685 Жыл бұрын
Love this lady
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
I appreciate you watching. What tip are you planning to use first to stop ruminating?
@seans9203
@seans9203 Жыл бұрын
Great stuff Doctor - ty - Seans
@DocSnipes
@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching.
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