Vivian, A gentleman commented that he was not gay and, in fact, had a girlfriend, and he appreciated your contribution. Well, I, too, am a hetero-sexual male that appreciates the power of words and always seek elegance in my communications. It was Maya Angelou who said that "the right word is the most dangerous and powerful thing there is, for it can change the heart, the mind, the world." I, too, thank you for your elegance addition.

Im a Man and Im not gay I have a girlfriend but I love your advice about elegance glamour and fashion😅

I was “taking notes”. Exquisite words making an impeccable impression. Thank you. Kindness, Teresa

My grandmother is from South Carolina, she raised and taught me how to represent myself as a lady being polite to others, speak elegantly, This world today as us being women represent herself classy well polished manners. the way she walks ,speaks elegantly, will energize positivity ,great results, on what she desire to accomplish within a conversation.This is very helpful to forge good relationships with people ,in dating today. Thank Vivian for this video is very informative.💛❤

15 Words to make you sound elegant 1 polite words 2 Gracefully in place of easily 3 perhaps in place of maybe 4 contrite in place of sorry 5 Admire in place of like or envy 6 Exquisite in place of beautiful 7 Lack in place he/she doesn't have 8 whimsical in place of funny 9 endear in place of attract 10 Bespoke in place of taste 11 impeccable in place perfect 12 ladies and gentlemen 13 Magnificent in place of beauty 14 surreal in place of strange 15 ostensible in place of seemingly

I lack the exquisite words to describe my admiration to your impeccable elegance and beauty! A bow to you queen!

I have to admit that when I saw the title of your video I was both intrigued and put off mainly because there are so many people on KZfaq claiming to be professionals in a certain niche. Since I was so intrigued I viewed the video and I’m grateful for your worthwhile insight and work that you put forth into this video. About half of these terms are used in my daily life already but the remaining terms I definitely need refreshment on their usage. I’m very pleased that you care about the quality of language that we use as I was beginning to think it was becoming a lost art form.

I admire your impeccable execution of this lecture and perhaps to see more in future!

taking notes Maybe - perhaps Envy - admire Beautiful - exquisite Does not have - lack Perfect - impeccable guys and girls - Ladies and gentlemen

When I was a young man I realized I had good manners, but my father was a Blue collar worker and I knew I was missing something. My mother was an elegant lady, but As a Black man we tend to have a more rough exterior the culture pushes this on us. So I actually took an etiquette class. I was the only Brother in the class but it elevated me from the boots to the crocket and Jones and bespoke shoes Armani suits And bespoke suits from the Bronx to living on Central Park west. I will also tell you that I do like the fact that I can move in both worlds. The words you are using only works in the world of elegance or In upper middle class. It will get one killed in the hood. I do appreciate your elegance you are a beautiful and graceful lady. Best wishes.

Hi Vivian! You are the perfect example of elegance. I have subscribed!! As a southern lady, elegance is quite important - the reputation of being a ¨southern belle¨ means elegance is not option, nor is etiquette and kindness. You incorporate all these feminine virtues in your videos - THANK YOU; I love your channel.

There is always a time and place in which these words are appropriate to avoid the risk of sounding pretentious.

Here's the list for those who don't have the luxury of time to go through the whole video, but i would encourage you to go through the whole video whenever you have time. Basic respectful phrases, Gracefully, Perhaps, Contrite, Admire, Exquisite, Lack, Whimsical, Endear, Bespoke, Impeccable, Ladies and Gentlemen, Magnificent, Surreal and Ostensible.

Great advice Vivian - I teach my children to use proper English even though it is not my native language. Being a foreigner I do have an accent, however, my choice of words is rooted in literature, non-fiction and other sources. We can be elegant, ladies, especially when we express ourselves.

Being an at home mom for years , I've seem to lost my ability use words elegantly.I thank you.

Taking notes! Delighted to have found your channel! Leveling up is essential for self growth and self care. I so admire and apppreciate your expertise! These words are specific and clearly express the intended message. The power of language is largely under estimated. Starting afresh and looking forward to refining my presence while networking and interviewing. Thank you, Vivian.

Thank you for this lovely list of words to elevate our speech and elegance. I encourage you to make this a regular offering, but perhaps only 5-10 words at a time. This will give us the opportunity to properly incorporate each list before starting a new list. Thank you.

I gracefully took notes of your impeccable teaching.

I would like to say thank you for sharing this video. I grew up with a very elegant mother, who always emphasized the need to be polite to everyone, and in her words “always be on your best behavior” no matter where you are, or who you’re with. That’s what I think manners are, making others feel comfortable around you. It is time that this lesson is taught again. Certainly this generation and everyone can use a refresher course in good manners. And speaking eloquently is lovely. I always want to surround myself with people that will elevate me. Bravo.

I was born and bred/raised in Africa. Some of us attended schools in British protectorates. My grandparents were British born, hence my parents had a very good command of the English language as do many African born people irrespective of race colour or creed, yet we still master other languages. We sure are different, our manners are impeccable. Why do Americans have a disdain for foreign dignity and proper languages presented. Speaking properly starts at home. If not taught from the cradle sure does impact you in life and it’s decision making. I love my British /African accent❤️😄🇿🇦🇮🇹🇳🇿🇮🇳🇨🇳🇦🇺🇹🇷🇸🇿🇪🇸🇱🇰🇰🇪🇫🇷🇧🇼🇲🇦🇹🇭🇺🇬🇩🇪🇱🇸.

Thank you for your impeccable execution of enhancing our gracefulness!💝

“Contrite” is a biblical word I connect with on a deep spiritual level. It refers to a repentant heart. Your platform is of great value and influence Vivian. Thank you!

I admire you for creating these videos! Thank you🎉 They lack nothing, except the incorporation of these refined words in our every day vernacular! 😊

I think you have the right idea but just a nice word here and there will not give someone a pass. Being polite is the epitome of class, glad you began with politeness. I recommend watching 1940s movies about the upper class will help with phraseology and vocal inflection. Also take a few lessons in how to speak, elocution lessons are well worth the price. This in addition to your informative videos. My husband, son of an Ambassador, royalty and a wealthy businessman, did not see me but heard me speak first. He tells the story to everyone of hearing an intelligent, cultured voice argue a case before a government official. He said he had to turn around to see who owned that voice. Fortunately for me, a practice of careful dressing and maintenance (nothing fake, trim and conservatively outfit) finished the presentation, he asked for my business card and described a legal issue he needed assistance with. He later confessed that it was love at first sight. One never knows who is listening. Keep up your good work of refinement for ladies, many do not have the benefit of family or education for preparation, yet long to reach higher social levels. ❤

YESSSSSS PREACH! This generation doesn't seem to appreciate or understand the importance of mixing elegant conversing with the net income... all they care about is the net income part.. and then wonder why certain "classy" individuals still considering them to be "trashy" despite having a hight net income....! I for example, don't have a very high net income at the moment, but I still happen to classify myself as more elegant and dignified than many of my aggressors who continue to wonder why I don't consider them to be on MY level despite them having more income than me...

Good for you for taking the time to teach our generation manners and elegance. ❤

I started taking notes after I heard the third word and realized that I needed the entire list! You possess an elegant grace in the the way you speak and this list caused me to become an immediate subscriber. I definitely admire your poise and look forward to watching more of your videos. 💕Thank you!

I just adore you. I'm learning so much from you and I'm 63 😁.

Taking note. I admire your quest for us to utilise the English vocabulary. In modern times we are lacking the habit of pushing ourselves to seek better synonyms.

Thank You For This Divine Information 💚💚💚💚Taking Notes...ALL Divine Doors Will Open 💚💚💚💚🦅🦅🦅🦅

Taking notes and getting empowered. Journey to sounding elegant in my vocabulary has begun. Thank you so much💟

Taking notes! These are marvelous suggestions. Thank you. I appreciate your effort to make our communications more nuanced, colorful, and...graceful! It’s lovely to come across a wordsmith in today’s world when so much language has become barely articulated grunts and too often vulgar.

Great recommendations! I also try to use words that have a positive note rather than negative such as "I prefer vrs I don't like" and "decline vrs don't want" and "former spouse vrs ex-spouse" etc. The word "may vrs can" is a nice change also. 😊

I love everything about this, and as a writer, I really appreciate how you're discussing the nuances of words.

Taking notes. Extremely grateful for this session. I’m always polite however often find myself lacking the appropriate words to express myself properly. Thank you for sharing your elegance.

"Taking Notes" - Such a great video! It gives us ideas to be on the lookout for other elegant words to improve our vocabularies.

THANKS A LOT FOR THESE VIDEOS. More of them, please. I admire the grace you display while teaching us.

I can watch this all day! Such great command of the English language.

You are a woman of class, I thank God for you, may His best be yours.

Thank you so much Vivian, that was an impeccable presentation! I will endeavor to incorporate this underutilized vocabulary into my lexicon😊

Madam you are like a breath of fresh air! I am a firm believer in using words such as these in my daily conversations as our English language is so full of such interesting words that I never have understood why people just use the basic language. I do not feel that it gives me an air of superiority or any other stature of importance towards others, just a feeling that hopefully, others will also expand their vocabulary, for the most interesting book to read is the Oxford DICTIONARY, i REALISE THIS MAY NOT BE EVERYONE'S CUP OF TEA THOUGH!! I have just come across your channel and listening to you, well all I can say is that it is brilliant!! I could listen all day long, as each day is a learning day and I am 69 years old and feel I still can learn lots. Jolly good show, keep up the good work, I shall definitely subscribe to your channel, Happy New Year to you.

Taking Notes. Words are magnificent. I will gracefully apply your suggestions. Language has changed so much with the overuse of text messaging. It is good to know that there are still people who appreciate a diversity of words. Thank you!

Taking notes. As a writer, it is imperative to use various terms to avoid your work sounding monotonous. It adds interest and also can assist others with their vocabulary. They also add different flavors to your language. Thank you for your videos!

I love your information in regards to elegance, etiquette and class. Its so refreshing to see younger ppl interested in doing things the correct way🎉

I love the way you speak,from your tone to the choice of words.Your vocabulary is on top notch.I want to get to that level.

Taking notes: I grew up in my great grandmothers home in the 40’s and 50’s and she spoke this way but through the years I’ve gotten away from speaking this way. Thank you so much for the reminder.

I was captivated by your presentation of your thoughtful word list. I’ve always had a keen interest in enhanced vocabulary and the skillful art in which to use it. Thank you for being a true proponent for personal refinement!

In a nutshell, adding more uncommon but graceful adverbs to our lexicon ….enhances our overall speech elegance. Welldone 🙌

Been awhile since I heard some of these words, but they're very appropriate for the occasions and examples you gave ❤

Thank you for your #1 on the list!!... I was brought up that way.. but sadly see that many have not been.. wonderful that you've given it #1 importance and I'm excited to see all those posting with such positivity! P.S. I think your words in the list sound better when being said by someone with such an elegant accent as yours!!❤❤

These are all words already in my vocabulary. It's the way my parents spoke. I also started reading at a very early age and, as everyone knows, you pick up many new words when reading. I did not like stumbling over a new word and not knowing what it meant, so every time that happened I grabbed the dictionary. You have given excellent advice and I hope the newest generation listens. It's rather appalling how little schools emphasize vocabulary, diction, spelling, and punctuation these days.

Thank you for the inspiring ideas. Regarding words such as "contrite", I must say that while elegance in speech is desirable, successful communication (i.e. communicating the intended meaning accurately) comes at a precedence. Before employing a word in your speech you must make sure that it will most likely be understood by your interlocutor. The aim is not to distance oneself. You yourself mentioned that the aforementioned word is seldom used. I am an educated person; yet this was my first encounter with "contrite". How many people here are familiar with it? I just thought I would point this out.

Just be circumspect in using these words if your family, colleagues or social circles are just everyday people. You will end up presenting yourself as being pretentious. However, if you work with intelligent colleagues and you are around elegant people all the time, then of course this is extremely useful 👌

Thank you! I was TAKING NOTES on this amazing video. I actually use some of these words on a regular basis (the polite words, lack, ladies and gentlemen, and admire). Your advice is always so helpful. Thank you for always trying to elevate us to be our most elegant selves! 😀💗👍🏾

I ALWAYS say.. " Thank you for your Kindness" its amazing the response you get. I believe you are either born with respect or not. Has nothing to do the ethnic culture, age, sexual preference, religious preference, gender! You either have it or not. This video, Spot on!

I am snapping screenshots to later transcribe to my journal :-) thankfully, it seems that I flow-fully present many of these vocal graces naturally. However, I am grateful to further my inherent adoration of elegance. Abundance, blessings, and gratitude to you for this brilliant channel.

I considered this video to be impeccably and gracefully executed, and not lacking in any way except for extensive , multisyllabic terms that’s not endearing to those of us who want to sound more coherent and put together. Many of the words we know, but application is key. I thought it was was a good list of familiar words and how and when to use them properly. I know people that are not quite as well-read or astute, but appear to be bc they are intentional and strategic with their limited vocabulary, and they are often called on to give speeches etc. This video was very exquisite and timely. Perhaps, you will create more similar ones.

You are the Queen of Magnificent, Indeed. You delivered this material exquisitely. Moving forward, I will add these vocabularies to my daily speaking. I have not used whimsical before; I will add it to my spoken words. Thank you.

A much needed platform in this rude and illiterate time. I feel that impeccable manners and elegance were once held in higher regard and were more desirable than they are today. You are quite elegant and I hope you get the following you deserve. Thank you for the gentle reminders! I am taking notes and subscribed to your channel. I am looking forward to hearing what else you have to say.

This is the first time I've come across your channel. I so admire your style of communication. You are not only elegant but eloquent. Almost all of these words are a part of my vocabulary. The only word I lack knowledge of is #10. I had never heard the word bespoke before. Whimsical and whimsy are frequently used in the interior design realm so I tend to avoid those words and replace them with frolicsome. Along with polite words, using proper grammar also makes one ostensibly more elegant. In lieu of asking "can I go or can I have" perhaps ask "may I go" or "may I have". Also when ordering a drink or food at a coffee shop or an eating establishment instead of saying "I would like" ask "may I have."

I love listening to you speak. I look forward to incorporating these words into my own vocabulary. Thank you! Taking Notes!

Vivian I love you!!! Your content is always new, exciting and never boring!! Thank you ❤

Thank you! I've tried often to discern why women like Diahann Carroll and Nancy Wilson conveyed that sense of elegance. Now, looking at some old interviews, I notice that their usage of particular words is a great part of it.

This is a great idea. In my opinion, courtesy and kindness together are the things that make society -- any society -- work. Can't get along without them. I think we've had numerous lessons about this in recent years.

Hello Vivian , i have been watching your videos for almost a year now and i have improved a lot . You nourish and feed our minds with elegant words in this video which can be used in our day to day conversation and regarding the term ostensible it reminds me of my Law school days when we studied about ostensible owner in benamy topic of Property Law 😊 . Nevertheless, I'm from India and i love watching your youtube channel and also Urania's youtube channel " Level up journey" .

What a great idea‼️ I'm so glad you thought of it. This is so needed. I like the words you mentioned. I've always been interested in word choices. My father had a great vocabulary. We all need a refresh in vocabulary💕 You remind me to use the words you mentioned and you make me want to be more conscientious of words I use on a regular basis. I love changing words from time to time. Thank you for this and looking forward to seeing you again.

I just came upon your channel I'm sure not by chance. Only this morning I was pining for the mannerisms, dress, speech, and refinement that was found in the past but not so much in recent decades. I love watching old B+W movies of the 30's and 40's as well as Jane Austen and it is so sad to see how how much we have lost in this area. I decided only this morning i would try to improve in certain ways including in my speech by incorporating more polite words into my own vocabulary.

Taking no notes; simply taken aback by your exquisite diction. Most of the time, people I speak to struggle with my English. What a treat!

Thank you woman of elegance for teaching us some new words. You are very kind 🌷♥

I’ve taken notes Vivian!! Waiting for part two! May we have fifteen more words please! ❤️❤️❤️

I absolutely agree with you in that the substitution of your list of words makes so much of a difference in the way we speak. It so reflects on the person speaking. I prefer to use many of these words in my conversations and especially in my writing.

Taking notes! Thank you so much for this timely and helpful video!

First time here and i absolutely loved this video! I always believed that if a person is always attuned to knowledge will inevitably spell and speak words that reflect this virtue.

This is beautiful! Language is extremely powerful and it reflects who we are and who strive to be. Basic, polite mannerisms are always in fashion ❤

Taking notes! I’m a professional and appreciate this advice. I may sound more elegant with these words but if only I had your beautiful accent to bring it to an even higher level! I’m subscribing because even at age 63, I can still improve ❤️

Watching Vivieene makes me want to be a better young woman every single time. She has an irresistible aura.

I am writing. I highly appreciate your poise and the tenacity you have to challenge us. I do need it to improve my speech and add new words to my vocabulary. I truly appreciate you Can it be a little shorter as I learn through practicing.🎉

Adjusting your language to match your audience enhances engagement and ensures your message resonates is what I was taught and it has worked for me. Thank you though.

Thank you Sir. I just reconciled with my roommate since last year i refused talking to. When you said you give 2 mins to say those words to someone, i had to stand up to reconcile. Thank you for helping me forgive. I was finding it hard to do. May God's name be praised. Amen.

Taking notes!!! I use several of these words on a daily basis… thank you!

Taking impeccable notes 😊I really admire your videos thank you.

My first visit and you spoke eloquently, showing how to simple change can make a huge difference! Kudos

Thank you; the 3 words from your list that I have not used are "contrite, bespoke, and ostensible." I enjoy writing and will use those words in my next short story!

I have taken notes and i agree with you that these words sound elegant when used appropriately.

Taking notes! I love this list. Thank you❤

Vivian, you are by far the most beautiful, amazing woman I have ever 'met'. Thank you so very much for sharing your time and insight with other people. Your family,friends & coworkers are blessed beyond words. I love you❣️

Really appreciate your channelling words of wisdom that you share so gracefully🧡

This video is much needed, please do more. Your delivery is impeccable.

Thank you for this. I’ve had a career change as a legal Secretary and feel like going back to school with my grammar and spelling 😅 A word I love is “Ascertain” meaning to gather information overall and learning more professional sounding words and this video has helped me so much! Thank you

Vivian, I admire you and your show! A long time ago, here in California, (that I love so much) this show about manners, etc.was introduced, if I remember correctly, Mrs. Hilton from the Hilton hotels was the one conducting it. The show didn't take long at all to disappear. Not too many viewers, I guess. I hope in this new era your show doesn't go away.

I'm grateful for your sharing of these words. My favourite one is Whimsical. I will use it more often. All the other words I use bcos as an English teacher, I dislike using overused words. My friends call me a Walking Dictionary. It's an impeccable description of my personality.

Notes! ✍️ And "penultimate" is an impeccable word too.

I’m gracefully taking notes since I lack the confidence to express myself in an elegant manner. You indeed are endearing and impecable. Subscribed.

Taking notes 7 months later! I really have been enjoying your videos! So informative and helpful!

Perhaps I will start to incorporate these polished words, instead of their simple/common counterparts. Thank you! I admire your eloquence and will strive to be more elegant like you.

I will be forever grateful to you, you changed my whole life and I will continue to preach on your behalf for the whole world to hear you saved me from huge financial debt with just a small investment, thanks Jason graystone fx

This was lovely. Even listening to your style of speech was a pleasure to my ear. Many podcasters are loud, braying, grating and I cant listen to them for long. Others, flat, mundane, boring and put me to sleep. Your voice was lyrical and intriguing, making me want to follow your line of thought. All that being said, I find I do use most of these words when speaking or writing though a few, like bespoke, Ive meant to look up forever, but never did. I love words, their power and flow, their ability to create images and meaning when put together in certain ways. Im guilty of using 'maybe,' but really like, 'perhaps.' Perhaps, I shall substitute that in the future. Thank you for this thoughtful post!❤

This is by far my most engaged video! I adore any opportunity to elongate my vocabulary! ❤ I use the VOCABULARY app. It sends words throughout the day with pronunciation and definition, along with it being used in a sentence for further cultivation. ❤

Always listen to your videos to the end. So educational!😊

I enjoy your videos very much. You are so articulate and you always motivate me to try and improve myself. Thank you.