Okay .

16 personalities as Hogwarts students. Which house would they be in?

That was fun Frank. Don't think I'll ever wanna be one tho 😂😌

more outtakes please lol

I saw that Frank and the intj one was extremely accurate. Whoever keeps quite more, gets my love more lol.

Here you are 🚀

people like you are going straight to heaven.

THANK YOU

you are a legend

Thanks

About two years ago my father told me I criticized him for years. Although I know he has his issues (narcissist 🤦‍♀️), it shocked me 🤣 Obviously as an INTJ I was always strict judge for my parents.

Intj female here. I had to keep it to myself, because if I said that to my parents, belt marks appear in my butt🥲🥲🥲 so I though it, but I had to think about a way to avoid the punisjment, so I was a "good" and "quiet" kid Sigh... Later I needed therapy, but not because of my parents using discipline, because other issues😌 now, I am healthier that when I was a teenager🌿🌿

INTJ female as well- as a little kid I was once crying for something to my mum and she eventually gave in and gave it to me only for me to tell her: “If I was your mommy I wouldn’t have given you that”... needless to say I audibly laughed at the accuracy of this video.

Having to stay silent otherwise I'm "disrespectful". Then I'm portrayed as a sweet quiet, very 'shy' person who wishes the best upon everyone.

@@tralaritralarajiju2652 I know how you feel sister. Teenage years are I believe hard for most INTJs since in that age you need to fit in but as INTJ you actually cannot. Thinking a lot and overthinking issues make that even worse. However in our adulthood we are very motivated to develop and overcome whatever was and is thrown at us. At my 30 I can say I have never been so mentally healthy as today. ❤️

Hehe and even if you were taught to be more affectionate through your family setting example and literally teaching you that, as an INTJ you wouldn't be an affectionate kid. Just admit this already. 😅 With love your enfp 🤭😛

@@MaliMaslacak526 Perhaps, but it definitely wouldn’t be as uncomfortable. You get used to affection. I may not give it freely, but I can at least receive it well if I’m used to someone affectionate (like my fiancé). With my parents, I don’t know how to act the rare times they’d hug me or say they love me. 😅

We grew up a little too fast mentally, then the body followed and the hormones made us question what the hell was happening. After that rollercoaster, we continued observing people and learning even more about how puberty affects others, further deepening our understanding of what we went through.

❤ INFJ, here. Idk what happened; somehow I just went from living to old…🤔

@@junemacauley6813 Some how I went from age 4 to a teenager in minutes

Idk my childhood was immediately started burning into ashes when i was a 4yro.

@@Mellow502 I'm sorry

Lol

That's Like the only Thing my dad tought me

@@whocares4607 INFJ ONE SO TRUE 2:38 WAS FUNNY

Sounds like me.

just because adults have to pay bills and have jobs doesn’t mean that they have harder lives

I just realized when I grown up that my family was not well functioned.

yea, there were a lot of times she wanted to talk about her personal life and how she was falling apart, even about her boyfriends, we don't really talk anymore now

Why that's so true-

YUP. Lol

Dude, you read my mind.

I blamed the Big Bang for everything.

To be honest so was mine and I'm INFP

@@floratinuviel2762 I'm an INFP too.👍

How did she react?

@@toondreamer4438 general amusement, *usually*

Sigma infj?

I can totally relate to this. I kept crying throughout the childhood, because I didn't understand why people sometimes behave so selfishly and badly. Then, at the age of six, I left kindergarten to enroll myself in school (my parents wanted to give me a year's delay).

Omg same.

😂 sounds like me.. I’m also a sigma which makes it worse.. tough times for a kid

I'm ENTP-T but I can relate a lot to that :') Except my teachers hated me because I wasn't nice enough to other kids xD

I can't even remember my childhood Lmao It's just remembering that one time I shouted at someone for the first time at school and lashed out. After that it's AAAAAAAAALLL blank, 10-16 blank. Anyways INFJ is def like 8-15 -> a kid "why are you secluded from the rest of the world" 16+ -> "what in the fk happened, why are you reading non-fiction books? Why are you already looking at stocks? What happened to that sweet kid I knew a few years ago" Dealeo

@@Hamanfeu I read non fiction at the age of 7.. and watched non fiction on TV at the age of 5 lol

Yeah IG that could happen. What I mean here is at the age of 16+ Infjs start obsessing over self improvement stuff, and also how they're gonna survive in the future because they don't even know what they want to take in college, let alone a job (especially since they haven't been paying attention in class because they ace them). For me at least XD

@@Hamanfeu yeah same

then realizing there is no difference in a normal childhood if you want to achieve a dream

couldn't agree moreee

True

Ditto here. INFP 9W1 over here.

sh*t this was me too.

Sheesshhh...... I can relate- But sometimes(often actually) when I'm sad I just don't care what's happening around me

Please, INTJs, give me your nonchalant vibe and confidence!- an INFP who is way too self-conscious

Same, i was around that age when i helped me poor indecisive mother to divorce my useless father. And yes it was not easy but I literally gave her a one-on-one serious talk. Years later when people knew about it and they asked me what happened, i responded by saying: ‘Only dumb people stays in that kind of marriage’ and they all shut the fuck up😂

💙

Fuuuuuuuck this is literally my whole childhood. It was a constant stream of pining then getting heartbroken and repeat. Now I cant form emotional attachments to save my life.

Yessssss 😭😭😭

This comment is so poetic, I would never doubt that you're an INFP

You shut the fuck up I dont need to be called out like this

Me who is an INFP but kinda an INFJ : *hugs myself*

Yes I can confirm it’s very accurate ‘cause I’m an INFJ and my sister is INFP and she’s exactly like that lol

mm I was responsive, only proactive in where to be as well

Well I AM an INFP but somehow felt more relatable with the ENFJ type rn

Hugs taken🥰🥰

me too ✋🏻

Same, haha

same. In 3rd grade, I asked my teacher where is the end of the universe and if there is anything holding it together. My teacher was speechless lol. I still wonder these things.

Growing up INFJ, astronomy was my hobby. I learned to read studying a book about the stars. My father gave me a telescope when I was 7 and I "discovered" Jupiter and Saturn. I still contemplate life and seek out people who need help.

I love late night summer conversations about “why” everything is the way it is. I also remember having a similar yet different experience, somehow knowing that I was here on purpose (I would have died at birth without medical intervention).

I couldn't agree more!!! I still tell teenagers not to be in such a rush to grow up, it's not as awesome as you think it is!

I want to be a child again.

True

@@Charles-sg9zu u are reading my mind

Being an adult means you have more responsibility and you will care more about the others.

This is so wholesome! Cudos to little you!

And now you are married?

PERIOD!!!! YASSS

Then she sleeps with you Ara ara Jk JK

That's adorable!

As an INTJ in an awful home, I felt the exact opposite, I wanted to grow up as fast as I can because I hated day to day life, hatched a plan, moved out, it forced me to grow up way too fast Now that I'm an adult, I'm gonna enjoy life and just be myself XD

I'm an INFJ and when I went to kindergarten, I wanted to go to primary school. In primary school, I wanted to go to secondary. In secondary, I wanted to go to university. In university, I wanted to work. Now that I work, I wish I would never have come to existence at all.

@@colnel1291 life speedrun

Yeah, same. And then I planned out my whole life from that point onward so as to take as little responsibilities as possible prolonging my "childlike" state as long as possible. Truly, a planning ability used to it's full potential. Who cares about world domination plans...

This INFP relates a lot to that INFJ child. Even as a little kid I was scared of getting older.

Me too! I would even get a little moody on my birthdays because I would be thinking how fast my childhood was going!

Same; Here I am saying the same thing about being an adult. I wish I was a kid again.

This INFJ: Sometimes I cannot even believe that I'm growing everyday! And I'm not that soft hearted kid anymore (well... She is inside me still now and I will not let her hurt anymore) These 18 years of my life And I've started thinking I'm very old rn 👵😂😭😂.

Most kids probably think being a kid sucks lol

haha I’m ENTP and I thought and still think life sucks when you’re younger. I was so happy when I hit the age of twelve. Being treated like a little kid sucks and I thought it was kinda awkward or embarrassing you still needed help, I don’t like it when people help me. Also elementary school was boring as fuck.

@Messy Tz I read that the ENTP mum’s gift to her child is the gift of independence. It’s so true and I can’t think of a better gift. She’s now in her 20s, has always been highly independent and we are very close. 🥰. On a side note, at the ripe old age of 6, she couldn’t understand why we wouldn’t buy the house next door for her to live in, alone. She figured she could manage most things and we’d be next door if she needed our help. 🙄

@Messy Tz Thanks for your lovely words

@Messy Tz It's like kids already have a good idea about what they need, they just need the proper guidance to get there.

Nice! I never fought my parents on going to bed. I went to bed voluntarily at 8PM every night, and then in 9th grade I started going to bed at 9PM, only to stay up later if there was a really interesting episode of 60 Minutes, 48 Hours, or 20/20.

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Now she knows why she needs it! That was great! 👍🏼

I can totally relate. When I was a child it was easy to be present and I could reconcile that with my imagination very well. But from the moment life started to hurt me I put my focus in imaginary thoughts and never paid attention to life like I used to ever again.

Same

Yep,

Michael Myers.

Dude I relate to ya my mom always says I am a robot(INFP)😂😂

I was like that too but I was also making games I invented sometimes

sounds like dissociation. you good bro?

INFP here, I used to narrate my life a lot too. People never called me a robot, but they did say I was extremely quiet. The weird nerd kid with no friends. I was constantly sitting under a tree looking off into the distance while other kids played.

As an INTP, my most vivid memory of 1st grade was believing cheese came from camels and beef came from dirt because they were the same color. People kept telling me otherwise, but I never believed them.

INTP too. Did you feel "genius" after that🤣. I did something similar in my 1st grade. And i felt like a genius. I also tried to learn things that no kid would know, to be cooler.

As INTP my first grade mission was to teach everybody else to read so we can start to actually learn something. 😅

oh my teachers HATED me. i always corrected them and my peers. it just urked me so much. tbh i was very irritating. i remember in pre-k being so confused and annoyed at the fact the kids in my class couldn't spell "because". like, there's even a song for it c'mon.

Lmao I'm an ENTP and I go to a religious school where intellect is basically a crime and I still can't get over how god complexy I sounded in Elementary school 😭. I used to correct every single teacher ALL THE TIME and then bombard them with a million questions and I genuinely wish I could try again but in the same there are some things I really don't regret lmao

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 The same thing happened to me. I used to wear very baggy clothes so I wouldn't have to wear a bra

That's true🤣

I wished for so long that I could just never grow up. Puberty sucked 😢

​@@lindseyreyes983 Same

🫂

Ikr ;-;

;-; oh

I was just crying -

@the world can be cold but I find a heart not to be. Are you okay?

Mermaided 😂

Haha I did this too and thought of it as a dress or skirt.

that`s hilarious AF

cute, honey 😊

#bestcommentever 🤣🤣😂

Damn, as an INTP as a kid and now this is exactly what I did. I never believed in Santa, tooth fairy, Easter bunny, etc. so I mainly tried to make my classmates believe there was no Santa; I came with very valid arguments and all they said was “Well you’re wrong! I hate you!”

i got in trouble for making kids cry when i told them the tooth fairy was fake. got into even more trouble when i told them to pretend she was real to milk money out of their parents until they become too old and their parents stop giving them money.

ENXP here and I told my class the Easter bunny was fake and all the neighbor kids Santa wasn’t real. Some kids were very angry with me for bursting their bubble XD

INTP here. When I was 7, my Aunt told me there was no Santa and I acted surprised lol.

I'm an INTP and I was the same lol. I also definitely thought everyone around me was stupid.

same! but... I did enjoy company and playing in groups.. ENFJ here :D

It was the same for me :) (ENFP 9w1)

Same... ENFJ here. I was extroverted, but bullied. Total misery. Luckily I had some good friends.

I'm an ISTJ who hates groups (ticks me off that everyone else benefits from my hard work), and who was the kid who told mom to "send it to them" when she told me to eat my veggies because of starving children in [insert name of poor country here]. Also, I have to know WHY she's telling me to do/not do something. Being told "because I said so!" never worked. I was the next-to-last kid picked (because the fat kid was last) but I never cared because I'd rather have been up in my room reading anyway.

@@kellynch hahaha sounds very similar to me actually! :)

Bro this is literally me right now 🥲

@@solancreates4535 right. Me too. And I’m 50 yo. Adulting sucks.

@@nikkip683 🖖🫡

Dang i have my first step to adulthood (teen btw), i never wanted to be one-

@@AlicornHana trick is to find the one thing that reminds you of being a kid. For me it’s dancing. For awhile I can take a break and just be the kid me. Spinning, shaking, and generally getting into the groove. It’s my happy place. Figure out where your happy kid place is and you’ll have an escape hatch from adulting.

Omg same here. Infj too lol

At 6 ? 😭 The only complicated thing when you’re 6 is how to collect every pokemon card in one week

I'm 40 and if something really makes me feel bad I cannot express it or understand because there is so much of it, so close to me and overwhelming...! After few days I am able to express what I felt. But too late. My ISTJ love is already comvinced I was just trying to escape a conversation instead of telling him clearly what I feel and/or need... what a crappy life 😑

As a fellow INFP, yep - I definitely relate XD

No one gave me dinosaur stickers, but I'm ISFP, and at 30 I still have a different world in my head and act out the characters

I kinda relate when my friends came over we would Act Out Storys With my Toys and Swings Like pretending they were eagles

I preffer playing alone in the woods or at our backyard too when I was a kid.

No one gave me stickers but I still zone out all the time. 😵‍💫

Yes.. TIme to process our traumas my man!

I never allowed me to ask anyone to do or give something for/to me cuz I knew very fast that I would just annoy them. .. My guys this is how u go Soloplayer irl

Soo true for me

@@orangx8575 that is literally my life

Yup. Had those nightmares too.

As an INFJ The “putting others first…” is always a priority for me, Even when there was like turns for entering the bathroom to shower, I waited till everyone pick a turn and i was the last one, I mean I don’t regret it but it feels like everyone should go before me idk why xD

There’s a tipping point, though. As an INFJ who was also the elder child, I took it on myself to look after myself to 1) make life easier for Mom, and 2) have the things I wanted. I got my first clock-in-clock-out job at 12 (illegal, but I didn’t care), working 8-12 hours on the weekend. I was proud to be looking after myself a bit. Fast-forward a few years, and “I have to take care of myself” had hardened into “I have to look out for Number One.” Which was, of course, me. I do not like the person I was between 15 and 35 (or so). My own mom called me mercenary, and she was right.

You can be the new teacher 😌👌

Same here in math. Teacher made me his assistant teacher, though.

I don't remember being interested in helping other kids until middle school? Elementary I just wanted to be the first to freetime and would feel dejected if I wasn't. Like how tf you finish before me, the class genius? Does this make me not the class genius anymore? Ofc I am cause half their work is likely wrong, that's why they finished so fast. 😤

@@monopolizedopamine JeAlOuSy iN A nUtShElL

All I remember about phonics was I thought it was pointless and boring lol

Yeah, I always loved my own world - everyone understood me there. Lol

Same, but also I'm sure that as an INFP you are painfully aware that every comment is an "As a #### comma space kind of comment. How did you muster up the courage to make one of your own?

I was pretty chill aswell, I loved to be creative and go outside, and if I do say so myself I was pretty smart. Which of course means that now the pressure to always get all A's is here

Ok you're not one

Yeah me too!

😭 as an ENFJ I basically did the same thing too like last year (15 yo rn) and the exact same thing happened.

@@FaceIsNotMyName ✊✊😭

@@marleybucy2605 😭

What if you decided to think hat you too are one of the "others"?

SAME!!!

That's brilliant (says an infj :)

Impressive indeed 👏

Lol! Nice! And sad... lol

I did individual counseling for my mom after my parents separated... even sadder. -intp

wow. impressive, that absolutely terrifies me but still good job. i tried to help others but instead i do too much and make them feel insecure :) -INFJ who is an NF spaggetti

As ENFJ myself I totaly relate, my parents also divorced and even befor I was always the one making sure they don't fight and that everythings ok but after for a very long time it was just me keeping things in chek

OOF i gotta say, getting the double whammy stick of ENFJ on top of "oldest child/daughter syndrome"... Y'all making me unspeakably happy that my parents' marriage is still going strong!

Also an ENFJ who went through my parents divorcing (even though they eventually got back together)... I didn't realize this was such an ENFJ thing...

@@shematite Me, an only-child daughter who is an ENFJ: 🥲

@@hassan8116me mean

Ayo same dude. My mom is an ISFJ and she's basically a walking pillow and my mom being ISFJey is pretty understanding but also unbearably traditional and is way too serious about rules and how things are "supposed to be" and my dad used to be an INTJ, now INFJ and is pretty similar. There's always a logical explanation for everything but also massive empathy.

I always asked for a reason but my parents would just do the "because I said so," if I ever asked what the logical reason was they would say I was talking back. So annoying.

@@raquelmyers9159 Ugh. Some aunts of mine did that and it was confusing and frustrating. Children are not stupid. They aren't small adults, so you can't expect the same stuff from them, but they are capable of logic.

Wow im very lucky because i knew i have a religion from an earlier age than that

Isn't that the word church in Spanish?

@@thomasdoyle9748 yes

I remember this time in elementary school when I told my friends “Some people’s humour is broken!” and then they made an entire argument, telling me “People’s isn’t a word, there’s no s and the end, it’s literally just people🤓🤓🤓” and it took me and entire 20 minutes to make them understand that THE S AT THE END WAS TO MAKE IT A PLURAL!!! And they acted like I was the dumb one! I still never forgot that day, and I still think they’re dumb af - An INTP that hates everybody

@@zELDApaya1989 oh my god. It's them that didn't even realize peoples isn't a word and wouldn't get people's which is a real word meaning something people possess. Now THAT is dumb.

I hate being an idiot -ENTP

@@zELDApaya1989 um ackshually 🤓the S at the end makes it possessive (along with the apostrophe)

I was also that kid who stared like Wednesday Addams, 8-9 years before the 1991 movie came out.

@@spirulinagirl4307 same, ppl think I'm cold or smth. I give off a "don't come near or I will kill you" Vibe.

We INTJs been parenting our parents instead of parents parenting us since we have old souls as a child I didn't throw much tantrum and never even have much toys I'd never say to buy one bc they're useless and waste of money I knew we were middle class family we can't afford too many things but they're the one being childist wasting money and being chaotic in public, social gatherings which kinda make me embarrassed......life is hard being an INTJ living with Extroverted Sensing Family 😂at least I'm Glad I have an INFP sister

@@aesv1per Yes. We have this fully unprovoked death glare as our neutral expression.

@@spirulinagirl4307 Yes. Then they ask you if you're ok countless times.

I did wish my family would move more when I was little but that was mostly due to me hating the grade school I had to attend.

I have an ESFJ mom and an ISTP stepdad. We moved a lot too and I have no regrets, just more friends! I even volunteered to live in Romania for a year. I ended up meeting someone and staying another year so he could emigrate to Canada with me. Now I’m married to a Japanese man and we’re thinking of going to Japan!

That's interesting cuz I'm an ENFP and I had a really hard time with the two times I had to move to another city. First because I moved far from my dad and later cuz I moved far from my friends.

That would've been me! We moved a lot when I was a child but in the same town. I wanted us to move to another city or even another country so bad! You were living the life my Ne friend -INFP

ENFP, mom ESFJ, dad ISTP. Yeah. I love the fact that I lived in seven different houses and five cities. Four schools. A lot of friends and stories to tell. ❤

Pareil pour moi. Mes parents allaient toujours au même endroit en vacances mais je voulais changer et j'insistais pour aller dans une colo différente à chaque fois.

For once I agree with FJ's depiction of ENFP. I wish he would realize that we aren't always "positive" and that we sometimes become pretty unpopular because we debate and argue as much as ENTP (even while wishing everybody would get along).

thats so true im a nefp but im not really popular and really that extroverted as see myself kinda in the middle but in this video i related bc i always wanted to move to see if life is better somewhere else@@LadyIarConnacht

SAME omg

Double standards were so common for me as well I hated them so badly

I have always felt very strongly about things being as fair as possible, probably because that was not my experience as a child.

infj here, what job do you do, sounds great!

@@rupinderh01 I work in childcare, with kids the age of 7-8, in the Netherlands. After school they come to us, so it's basically a second home to them. Sometimes i feel like a teacher, sometimes I feel like a mom, or a psychologist. And sometimes a police officer 🤣i love that you get to know each of these personalities as time goes by and find out what they need to develop. I'm actually qualified to be a art teacher in museums or in high schools but I ended up in childcare. But in child care there's a lot of activities you can do with the kids, such as cooking, painting etc. :) What job do you do?

@@cobimulder2433 that sounds great! It sounds like you are really happy :) Im an infj, enneogram 1w9, but have been confused about everthing my whole life. I qualified as a doctor but it was not for me at all, too stressful, I kept going when I should have left the studying the medicine degree 1 year into it, my self gaslighting confused me. This is so random, as I then I tried accounting which was so dry and boring, I left after 6 months. I tried diifferent jobs, latest is medical coding which is ok but not completely fulfilling. Im 43 now and still not sure lol! But I think I want to teach and mentor kids English-maybe older kids?, write stories, and I also want love art so maybe teach art too, or do art as a hobby-I feel like my imagination can't be contained lol, I have so many ideas. Coming from an South Asian family, money was always a worry, so I tried to find safe respectable careers. But I think I would finally like to do a job for me now but I m still concerned about pay though tbh:)

Pro 😎

You're not alone, bro. Same here.

Bro are you my clone?

Must be too much industrial waste in the tap water or something

ENTP here. I think it’s just you don’t meet the arbitrary social standards of “maturity” and your interests are considered childish. Probably anime, video games, etc.? Don’t mind them. Go with what makes you happy.

Definitely, i feel like i've become stupid

I'm also an INTP and when I was five my sister's friend tried to convince me chocolate milk came from brown cows and that made me hate him Although even now I'd probably be fooled by the lactose intolerant thing

@@Eldritch-thing I’m pretty sure they actually thought that milk allergy and lactose intolerance were the same thing, but I can relate with that

so tru:/

Honestly.....same. Although I wasn't exactly quiet and shy, the rest of this was 100% me. Still don't know how people make friends so easily, and I definitely had imaginary conversations and still do lol

I had lots of imaginary friends as well!! Also, I still talk to myself and I'm 47 lol. I think unless a parent is an INFP, they can't understand us at all. I didn't get the emotional support from my parents either. I got told I was "secretive", and not in a good way, more in a "what are you hiding" kind of way. I wasn't hiding anything, I just wanted to be left alone. My mother is ESFJ so there is NO way she could possibly understand lol. I have a lot of emotional issues and I can't figure out if its just who I am or if it had something to do with my childhood. Most of the time I wish I wasn't INFP.

100% same case with me, except I'm called a "cold hearted" and a "bad" boy by both my parents. Just IMAGINE calling an infp cold hearted or bad

Same here as well. One of my favorite past times as a kid was...talking to imaginary people. I still talk to myself all the time, and I've gotten so deep into this inner monologue within my head that I sometimes forget whether I'm thinking my thoughts or actually speaking them out loud. It can be a bit awkward having just been around other people and suddenly can't remember if you actually said what you were thinking. Also there have been times when I can be invited to sit at a table with a group of people who know me in college, and, after several minutes where I just listen to them somehow doing that mysterious thing called socializing, I would forget that I was even their. Btw, I'm not insane 😂.

INFJ but same. Except the anger issue. My mom tells me that when I was 3-4years I had an imaginary fairy friend I used to talk to. I even have monologue now. It often happens that my one aquaintance meet my another aquaintance through me and soon they become friends and I am excluded. Concluded socialising is an art I am not good at.

He really did look like a child, that was really cute!

I totally agree! This was the best. He should do the personalities as kids more!

@@Ananalias yes, he did!!!

Every time my dad complains about how the world is doomed I say "but you made the irresponsible choice to have offspring".

Saame I'm intj and I don't know how.

Same. But after I've met a couple of people who could not swim I feel much better.

I am here to learn about the frienemy, seems they don't know bicycle. Nice. I don't either. -An esfp jumping into the convertation to make it small talk

@@isiajahhhahahababblvjylvjy1034 I know how to ride a bicycle and also how to swim.

OMG on point I was the biggest crybaby and many kids did not like it saying you can not take a joke.

It wasn't great at all 😭 Actually I'm happy I grow up to be more aware of my actions and my feelings.. I got throw a lot to be here :) Infp

Lol my exact experience. I was the most shy, sensitive kid in my class and would cry at the mere thought that I might have done something wrong, and yet would fight people if I thought their morals weren't right. I like to think I was cute and innocent as a child but in reality I was probably really annoying

Sounds in kind of a way like myself as a older version in high school and kind of like the crush ( older version in high school) that gave me the hardest rejection possible ( I have ever gotten) ( one week ago) my friend says I was being overboard by never ever wanting to have a crush or date agian. It would be perfectly fine if they friend zoned me but it really hurt them throwing me out of there life like yesterdays garbage, blocking my number after telling me not to contact them anymore and them running from me when they see me in school perhaps texting them " I see you as someone I am really close with but yours is different in a way that confuses me" was not the best way to tell them that I like them. My 2 of my close friends (half) that knew since November 2021 (2 months) said I should tell them they said the worst thing was they would just see you has a friend, but they ran from me so I don't text or approach them anymore. I realised I liked them back in August 2021 after getting to know them and have them in some of my classes since August 2020. ( I don't know what to do and hate someone finds me creepy but don't want to push it.) I didn't choose to like them one day it happened over a year. By there mind, personality, face that drew me toward them not there body. I don't want to have a crush again after this ( I told them in January 2022 after two close friends told me I should since November 2021) I told one how bad it went and they said sometimes it goes bad sorry for convincing you to tell them. But I just don't know what to do if I should tell one friend I have who is friends with both of us that it was a mistake I forgot that sentence was at the end of my five paragraph text with little grammar. ( I copied and pasted them the wrong text not seeing that text at the bottom) need some advice please ( I know I liked them since I would think about them feel my heart start racing, and my stomach get butterflies around them.( this doesn't happen with any of my close friends) I just enjoy there company want to be there for them and talk to them.

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Correction: Antisocial are like or just like a Sociopath. Meaning- they can be selfish, not talkative, manipulative, and averse to the society of others.

@@user-mr2sy9io3v yeah i guess i just mean asocial rather than antisocial, from what i understand asocial is just not wanting to engage with people thank you for the correction

Can relate to that sooo much!! Me as an ENFJ to have to admit, I also had tons of these kinda situations!! Sometimes I also tried to write letters, so they don't keep fighting and so on. But probably also did it with other people and not just my parent (#childhoodfamilytherapist)

SAME. my parents lost me 3 times, almost got me killed 5 times...fortunately they had the laziness and money to get a nanny for my siblings so they were never lost or in the hospital. Some people shouldn't have kids...unless they can afford to outsource it. I am INTJ, my siblings are INFJ and INTP.

@@HisameArtworkOh, I'm sorry to hear that! I hope you and your siblings are safe now. Well, my parents are really toxic and make me feel like burden. More power to us though...💪✨

I just internalize it and learn from their mistakes.

@@greatwavefan397 Exactly ! Need to break those generational cycles!

@@ananyawable5728 they are not as bad as my friends' parents who most were alcoholics. but we did get kinda neglected. I suspect my mom is an esfp or estp and my dad some kind of jerk TJ. I'm surprised they are still married.

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That's adorable... And a little weird.

For me usually she doesn't even realize that. And then Dad comes to me (different time of course) to tell his side of story.

@@Alexandar358 it didn’t seem strange at the time, but as an adult I’m super weirded out by the number of adults who had these types of conversations with me.

@@kimberlycuthbert2510 Classic INFJ. That's why it's my favorite type outside my own. (INTP)

This was me except my mom never understood that she shouldnt' be weighing me down with all her emotional issues. -intp female

I remember like in 1st class I was looking out of the window it was the end of the year I was thinking ohh I am gonna be in 2nd soon then I'll graduate then I'll have a job like what I am an INXJ Btw

@xraf32 I'll try to live up to your expectations

well i relate but im an INFP

INTP here too. I used to be ordered to go to bed, but I had *a book* to finish. So I got my flashlight and went to read under the blankets until 3 am, paying attention if someone got up, turning it off, waiting until I heard no sound, and turning it on again. I was caught only twice, I think. 😁

@@hassan8116me My son is an INFP and my husband is INTP. Since my son grew out of the crying phase, they've been best friends. (Very similar)

INTJ children can be all of them.

I'm literally INTP and I'm one of the dumbest kids 💔

As an INFJ, we seem that way because we grew up too fast. There were things we could understand very early on without the help of parents

@@Seraphim- i know

Meanwhile the INTJ has already created an archetype for every personality and switches between them to get certain responses.

It’s nice to know that there’s another INTJ who doesn’t seem to relate to a lot of other INTJs. I’ve done research into the cognitive functions and general traits of each of the personality types so ik I’m INTJ, but I don’t feel like one. I figured the notion that INTJs are cold, calculating, emotionally detached, and hate people was just a dumb stereotype, but lots of people have said they relate to memes and stuff that build off of that stereotype. Maybe the fact that I was raised by an INFP mother and grew up with an INFP brother has something to do with me not relating to other INTJs (especially when it comes to emotions)? Idk

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Me✋One of my bffs in high school admitted she was afraid of me before she knew I meant zero harm whatsoever.😅😬😪

Yes, as an INFP, I have been called rude for being shy. It's, unfortunately, a common and very old problem. President James Madison, who is believed to have been an INTP, was very shy and many people thought that he was either mean or just very aloof. It was a similar scenario with Thomas Jefferson. So, we're not alone in this.

Especially in religious settings. "If you're not praising God, you're rebellious."

@@greatwavefan397 Oh, I can relate to that!

"You are a science teacher, you look for proofs! Why should you tell us to do this without telling us why?" ...Except that's in my imagination, and I can't stand up for myself.

Hehe ssme

Same here. But I am an INTP because I used to do that earlier, not anymore.

Oh yes. This was exactly what every interaction went like when asked to do something. I argued purely for the sake of it- without realizing that I stood in the way often of very simple requests

ENTP is likely nicer, kinder, and never shot someone pointing out their logical flaws. ENTP prever to joke about others failing logic using their intuition. Im thinking that ENTP here, is more likely to be an INTP

I played by drawing imaginary characters in my old notebook, I said they were characters that were part of me, joy, sadness, love, kindness and bad idea, They all had their designs and they helped me sleep, they were like friends. If it weren't for that, I would be worrying about the day I would die or things that didn't make sense that worried me, I used to cry about this

I was wondering the exact same thing. I don't think INFJs have a real or typical state of infancy. They're just too aware and not carefree whatsoever.

Haha, same -INTJ female

And then when someone would try to make an excuse and then we called it out again 🤣