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INFP's - So, you don't have meltdowns every week? Huh. That's weird.

INFP: Holds a grudge against all the obnoxious nuances of people. Also INFP: Worries everyone else also holds a grudge against them for their minor things.

My INFP's meltdowns involve saying "It's fine" while developing a stomach ulcer.

As an INFJ, I am so scared about when the time comes and I finally lose my shit.

As an INFJ - that is horrifyingly accurate 😂

As an INTJ, I would like to formally confirm that the moment of silence prior the technological carnage really spoke to me.

I love how INTJ’s meltdown is unrelated to society or people (like all the other personalitys) and is just because of a technological dysfunction

I'm an INTJ and I feel extremely vulnerable with how accurate this is.

INTJ is the creepiest so far in this vid. I mean, he said nothing, just annoyed, and suddenly came with a hammer. 😂

INFP. My pillows are deaf from me screaming into them.

The INTJ one needs to be a GIF. ABSOLUTE NEED.

As an INFP I can say that the very worst meltdowns of my life have pretty much been me bringing up every horrible thing the other person did to me over the past twenty years and how they have utterly destroyed my soul. Of course it takes me twenty years to finally get to that point.

Title should be FJ being a mood for 4 minutes straight.

Ouch ouch ouch. Yep. We INFP's hold EVERYTHING in until one minor thing happens that makes us explode. Yep.

As soon as he said “For the last 20 years I’ve been bottling up everything you’ve done” I immediately said INFP because......... that is me 💀😂.

INFP is super accurate. I cannot count how many times I’ve gone off on people. In my diary where no one can hear or see it.

Am I the only one who’s glad to see something else than about the US election?

No matter how sad we are, we ENFPs will always smile and do something weird.

Me as an infj having a meltdown: *shuts door and cries buckets* After the meltdown: *comes out of room and washes my face as if nothing happened*

As an INTJ I can say that the moment of silence is the logical brain reaching no other solutions.

INTJ is accurate, except that last part happens mostly inside our heads. Mostly.

INTJ: Why do Objects always insult me like this.

As an Infp, the bottling everything inside then exploding with anger is so relatable.

INTJ here, and I've been told by two partners that my silent rage is terrifying, and I really struggled to understand why. For me, it's just putting the lid on the pot before it boils over. I'd rather be silent than incoherent.

*Timestamps* ヾ(•ω•`)o 0:00 ISTP 0:09 ENFP 0:27 ESFP 0:36 ESFJ 0:50 INTP 1:02 ISFJ 1:23 ENTP 1:46 ISTJ 2:05 ENFJ 2:19 ESTJ 2:31 ESTP 2:45 ENTJ 2:56 ISFP 3:12 INFP 3:33 INFJ 3:51 INTJ

“Because no one has ever really seen me lose my cool before...” As an INFJ, I feel attacked bruh! 🥴

As an INFJ, this is truly on point. I want to maintain the facade that I am cool and collected, though I want to scream my head off at times

Review from an INTJ: Very accurate 😂 Love the touch of not saying a word, I never understood why people had to yell when they're angry when body language, facial expressions, and silent rage communicates anger in a much more impactful and intimidating way

I'm offended that you would ever think that I would tell someone everything that I've bottled up for years outside of talking to the mirror in the bathroom and yelling at myself instead and then getting mad at a Lego that I stepped on because I don't ever talk about my problems with the people I actually have an issue with

The problem with me (as an INFP) is that I'm mad about all this stuff but when it finally bursts out of me, I can't remember specific circumstances! So it seems like I'm just ranting about nothing 😔 But it's so important to me. Frustration.

As an ISTP I relate to this 100%. I don't get pissed off often. It's actually pretty hard to make me so mad that I go into a meltdown, but when you do, oh boy, you better leave me alone until I cool off. For your own safety.

You know it's INTJ when you see it

As an INFP this is so accurate. I may not show it but I remember Every. Little. Thing you have ever done. Ever. 😂

The INTJ meltdown is real. The collosal amount of annoyance when he closed his eyes.. I felt that in my spirit. 😂😂😂 - INTJ

As an INFJ, I literally had a meltdown because I was trying to keep in my frustration towards my neighbors and I broke down and cried outside their house. The twig literally snapped in my head. Its so overwhelming trying to keep it together and maintain the nice facade towards people you just honestly wanna yell at.

the istp hitting things is very true, and the method is very efficient.

3:52 as an INTJ, I confirm this is 100% accurate 🤣😂 My anger can only be described as deathly silence.

Me: ~is having a meltdown~ My boy Frank: I see you, I love you, and I completely understand

3:58 I'm INTJ and I can confirm this. Before we smash anything with a hammer, we must first take a moment to calculate whether the catharsis will be worth more than the value of the thing being smashed. 98.7% of the time the answer is yes.

When I started the video, I thought "if INTJ isn't entirely silent, it's not accurate." Sure enough, you never disappoint.

INTJ; insanely accurate, down to the closed-eyed, deep breath clenched face and the little flash of controlled insanity/murderous intent in the eyes at the end 🤣🤣🤣

So, ENTJ's meltdown is just any other day for us INTJs. (Which is also scaringly accurate, thank you very much.)

Frank, somehow you manage to get the INTJs to come out of the woodwork, comment, communicate, interact. It is a rare thing to see so many INTJs in one place interacting with one another. It is unusual to find others I can relate to so thanks for doing what you do. 😊 Appreciate your ongoing commitment, wit and humour!

Infp was so accurate, I always try to be nice with people so I usually prefer to stay silent when they do me wrong, and at some point I find myself too overwhelmed and I just freak out. And then when I calm down, the only thing I get is a bunch of regret and then I hate myself more than ever...

INFP: so you want to see me having a meltdown? Come when you have your entire day free.

The INTP overthinking text messages from people and having a meltdown is so relatable

INTJ, yes, that cold, ice-cold anger that finally burst up in physical violence, so accurate, poor videogame controllers of mine, I've broken half a dozen of them

3:26 I do that 😂 but only with very close people, like my husband or my family. And after like one hour, if that person didn’t read it I usually regret everything i said and try to delete it. But if they read it, oh boy, it doesn’t always ends well. Sometimes I just write the message but don’t send it till I calm down, so I can edit it before i regret or just don’t send it at all.

✨ *Timestamp for yall* ✨ 0:01 _ISTP_ *CRAFTER* 0:09 _ENFP_ *CHAMPION* 0:27 _ESFP_ *PERFORMER* 0:36 _ESFJ_ *CAREGIVER* 0:50 _INTP_ *THINKER* 1:02 _ISFJ_ *PROTECTOR* 1:23 _ENTP_ *DEVIATOR* 1:47 _ISTJ_ *INSPECTOR* 2:06 _ENFJ_ *GIVER* 2:19 _ESTJ_ *DIRECTOR* 2:32 _ESTP_ *PERSUADER* 2:45 _ENTJ_ *COMMANDER* 2:56 _ISFP_ *ARTIST* 3:12 _INFP_ *MEDIATOR* 3:33 _INFJ_ *ADVOCATE* 3:52 _INTJ_ *ARCHITECT*

"You all are so stupid..." INTJ here, but *man* ENTJ is relatable sometimes.

As an INTJ, our actual meltdown is when our typically excellent thinking and analyzing brain goes into overdrive, and "goes off the tracks", but keeps going and we lose rationality. Not by becoming emotional, but by being very wrong. Happens due to anxiety, trying to solve a romantic problem most commonly.

I think, as an INTP, that punctuation in texts is exceedingly important. I've often worried about the meaning of someone's texts because they didn't have very explanatory punctuation for what they said. I think it's funny that you had the meltdown over only having a period after "love you". I have honestly thought the same way.

"16 personalities comforting someone."

As an INFP writer, my meltdowns are immortalized in poems. Hopefully, millenia from now, my meltdowns will keep on giving lol!

As an INTJ, this is very accurate. I kind of lack social interactions so what I usually get mad on are objects. And that hammer thing was oh, if I was mad at my laptop I'll use an axe.

The ENFJ is so relatable it's like you stalked me during meltdown

"This isn't something you can argue your way out of" *ENTP.exe has stopped working*

So basically INFP's everyday life?

I'm an INTJ, and that is pretty accurate. Whenever something gets on my nerves there's just the death glare of silent rage. When I was in highschool, all I had to do was look at my fellow students to get the message across that they were ticking me off by putting their feet on the back of my desk and shaking my desk while I was trying to work. All I had to do was look at them, and they took their feet off my desk without a word. When I'm angry, other people realize it when I look at them. Resting death face, I guess. But if it becomes an issue, I have to explain to people why I am angry with them, and if no one lets me explain my reasons or logic for being angry at them, I lose it, because it's hard for me to understand why they don't care 'why' I am angry with them. And if no one is there, I tell myself out loud why I am angry with them, and how to fix the person's behavior. But if I take it out on someone my anger usually comes out as a twisted form of passive aggression. Though honestly it's the small things that make me angry. There can be chaos, drama, everybody crying, people talking about stressful topics and such, and I just work through it all. It's small little things that get on my nerves, slowly building up over the week until I either take it out on someone with passive aggression, talk it out with someone I trust who won't question me every second, or I release the anger and stress by doing something productive or fun. It's similar to when I'm sad. I recognize I'm sad and what is making me sad. Thinking about it makes me more sad, but then I question if I should keep being sad, and then I recognize I hate being sad and miserable, until I finally do something productive or fun to make me stop being sad. Encouraging words from family often helps. My INFP dad is better at that than my ISTJ mother. My mother tries to console me by telling me it could be worse, and throws harsh realities of the future at me. My dad just listens and gives me hope for the future, or empathizes with what I'm going through by relating to his own experience with it. I know my mother is trying to help, but throwing the harsh reality of what could be worse at me is not exactly helpful to my current situation, and often doesn't even relate to the specific issue I'm dealing with or decide to open up to her about. ISTJs are often thought to be cold and insensitive, but my mother really does think she is helping me by listing off ways it could be worse. Like somehow telling me how bad it could be makes what I'm going through now seem less bad by comparison. I know she thinks of it in a way to cheer me up, but it only makes me more upset to think about how much worse it could be. Instead of seeing my situation as better by comparison, I instead end up thinking about the worst. She tries to help, but it just stresses me out more in the process. I had a talk with her a while back about it, and I finally said "You keep throwing all these harsh realities at me that I'm going to have to face one day, and I already know. But it's not helpful to what I'm going through 'right now.'" She gave me a puzzled look, but I could tell she latched onto the part of it not being 'helpful.' "When I open up to you, all I need, all I'm looking for is some encouragement or kind words to help me feel better and move on." My mother continued to look at me, but she was silent for a moment. "Like how?" she asked. "Well, you know; like 'I know you're a very smart girl. I know you can get through this.' You know, just kind words like that. Just encourage me instead of throwing harsh realities at me that I already know will become relevant one day," I said. "...I'm not really very good at that. But I can try to be more encouraging." -mom. It was the first time I'd actually reached this kind of understanding with her. INTJ daughter focused on what's in her head and ISTJ mother focused on reality and what's around her. ISTJs aren't insensitive or cold. It's just that they show love with a practical sense of logic that can come across as cold. Like maximizing the worst you'll face later to try and make you feel better about the problem you're having right now. Even if it's not exactly comforting, I think it's important to understand that when they do that they're trying to help you, even if it causes more stress to the person they're trying to help. I think a hard part for ISTJs is learning to be more encouraging and supportive with how they show their love and care for others, adding more warmth to their words, and focusing on the here and now instead of projecting so far into the future. For INTJs, I think we need to sometimes realize people don't always want to be 'fixed' and instead just want some encouragement and sympathy. It's very hard for me to just 'be there' for someone. I always try to fix their issue with a solution, and if there is no solution, I feel helpless and don't know how to make someone feel better without feeling awkward. Like, if I can't help you with your problem, then how can I help you at all? With time, I've come to realize sometimes all I have to say is 'I'm sorry you're going through that. That doesn't sound fun. I hope you feel better soon.' I try to show I care instead of jumping straight to fixing their problem. Like my mother, I can come across as insensitive when someone is upset and my way of 'helping' is to try and fix the problem without offering any sort of comfort to the person first. I have been told, by a creative writing instructor, that I was lacking in empathy, and when I heard that I was indignant. "I don't read to 'feel' an emotion. I read to learn something, or to find some valuable lesson or takeaway, or because it is a topic I am interested in. I don't read a book to feel sad, or angry, or depressed. Yet that's all my peers seem interested in writing about in this class. It's just a competition to see who can write the most tragic life story, without anyone rising above it or having a deeper message to it." I find it hard to empathize with people, especially strangers, because I don't know what they've gone through. Most of the time I fear I would say the wrong thing, make them even more upset somehow, or intrude on their privacy. For all I know they want to be left alone, and it's not really any of my business. But I have at least tried harder in recent years to show more empathy for my friends and family. If they tell me what's wrong, I ask if they're okay, how they're feeling, and how it must not be fun to go through that. And I mean it. I just had to be willing to listen to their heart before I listened with my head.

My sister is an infp and what he said was so accurate! she bottles everything up until it comes pouring out in a stream of frustration and hurt, and she will bring up every single bad thing I did to her in the last ten years.

I don't have a meltdown. I literally just melt down. 😂😭

As an INTJ and programmer, I knew the hammer was coming the moment I saw the computer

my first INFP meltdown happened at 15 y/o. I talked back a lot (and was always grounded) but had never actually yelled at my parents b4. We all sat in stunned silence for an hour inside that car. I thought for sure i'd get beat up afterwards but nothing happened and none of us ever talked about it again.

INTPs : *over analize messages, doubt of the whole relation they shared with the concerned person, review the last month to know if they've done anything wrong, think they are a terrible person, cry, question everything and fear the next interaction with the person.*

The INTJ is always so accurate...

Holy crap, that INFP one is accurate. My brother (an INFP) got really mad at me, recently, had a rage-fit, and started bringing up stuff that happened 10 years ago (like this ONE TIME I didn’t let him sleep over, after he had gone out partying) 😂 Edit: Just got to the INTJ one. Yup, that’s also accurate. 👌 - INTJ

I've watched a few of these sketches today, and the ENTJ type matches one of my old co-workers completely. I guess I know that now. The INTJ one is accurate, up until we realize how much it'll cost to replace the computer and either destroy something cheaper or scream internally for the next hour.

INTJ was mostly likely in his head along the dozen of dozen's of other Potentional scenarios that could happen, but if parallel worlds truly do exist then every scenario did happen.... right?

Intj: click click click click click... SMACK

INFJ Meltdown is legitness me. Me: I'm not crazy *Has the crazy eyes look* I'm fine. I'm Okay. TOTALLY NOT FREAKING OUT!

As an INTJ I can confirm that I do as a matter of fact get mad at random objects.

You absolutely portrayed the ENFJ PERFECTLY! … I was literally saying most of that a few minutes ago 🤣😂🤣

yesterday i has a mental breakdown in class and forgot my camera was on❤️thriving edit: thankfully i'm infp, so no one noticed🥰

As an INFP - all I can say is accurate - down to the warning.

Okay but I'm ENFP and this is exactly how I act when having a meltdown.

As an ISFJ, I can attest that this is 1000% true

As an ENFP I do one of two things- 1) "What I'm never depressed, I totally didn't have a mental breakdown this week. I mean would someone having a bad time be able to sing Happy from Despicable Me? No!!" 2) Dark humor jokes to cover up the fact that my pain is real

As an INTJ who works in IT, you nailed it. I had that exact reaction when my computer didn't return from sleep mode this morning after locking it to get coffee. Minus the hammer, but the facial expression was dead on! utter annoyance at something that shouldn't have happened slowing down my plan of action without a word said.

4:03 lethal forces

ENTJ here- loool you know you’ve broken us when we can’t insult someone with a witty, clever remark 🤣🤣

ENFP here, you hit the nail on the head. We don't like letting people know we have issues, but sometimes, we want to let people know in a subtle way. During a meltdown, it would be more like what you did.

Yes! The ENFP is spot on😂 Only, the talking sock would be a multicoloured mess💀

as an infj I can calm myself a lot of the time, but there have been very few times it's gotten too overwhelimg and I end up losing my temper for like one or two seconds and it usually ends up being kinda extreme during those seconds. I can calm myself down really quick so it's like a tiny tiny glimpse of what I'm feeling. I mean I've never lost my shit in front of anyone but my close family and I'm literally terrified for the day when other ppl see me lose it but until then ig i'll just continue dying on the inside lmaooo

My husband is an ISTJ and your depiction of them was so painfully accurate that I couldn't help groan laughing. 😂😅😐

The INTJ one is scarily accurate

Yeah that about sums it up (INTJ life amiright)

It’s cool how you got inspired by the inferior function and stress grip Hahahaha. This is so accurate - INFP

I am an INTJ and i laughed so hard at how INTJ reacts in your video because It's relatable. Usually when I get mad I count till I calm down. If not, stuff like this happens 😂

I had that ISTJ rant this afternoon. INTJ here. Also I don't break my things. I may want too, but I want my money more. There is always a cost benefit analysis going on in my head.

Hack : Invest 5 minutes of your time to cry privately in a bathroom stall instead of wasting half an hour failing to repress your feelings and looking completely insane ! ✨

Istp is such a mood. I’m glad to be apart of that family~

I just can’t get enough. Ty ... Infj

"No one has ever seen me lose my cool before" - well, being locked down and alone most of the time has surely made it easier to lose it more frequently.

the enfp one is too accurate... it's my life in a nutshell... - this was written by the sock puppet gang

Lol as an ENFJ when it said "back to crying in my bathroom" ....I felt that

🤣 These are great. Thanks

as an INFP who's very close to snapping at the moment, this is very accurate

INTJ hit me hard, i literally throw everything when im having a breakdown. then regret it later

That last one is so me but my last laptop, the keyboard was turned inside out cuz I hit it too hard.