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Other people: INFJs are so nice! INFJs: Bitch, it's a daily choice.

"Everytime a new INFJ is born, the gods toss a coin in the air and the world holds its breath to see how it will land." Amazing!

Sometimes, I fear myself because I know I have potential to be something. Luckily, I'm too lazy to be a bad person.

"They can literally become hitler" Me: *looks at my lazy backside lying around procrastinating cooped up in a room almost all day* Wait really I can?

As an INFJ myself, I notice it's hard for me to keep on one line of faith or expected-by-society behavior. I often get angry by society's stupidity and ignorance, yet I keep it to myself to not snap hard on people... Thank you for this video.

"Whenever we we see an INFJ that has nothing to lose and everything to gain from taking on an idealistic world view, we should ring the bell, much earlier than we might think" As an INFJ, that hit hard. When I think about if I have nothing to lose, I know it would not end well.

The scariest thing about INFJ is sometimes they were too charicmastic and knew how to influence people.

And now I rise from my sleep, and if the world knew, they would be afraid. - An INFJ

Bloody hell, I'm in the wrong job. Wonder where they are hiring dictators?

So this is why I feel so silently, arrogantly unstoppable. 🤔 😂 I’m torn between constantly trying to be the perfect, kind-hearted, quiet person and a fierce and formidable defender of what I feel is right and morally just.

I think my cat might be an INFJ...

Now I can understand why i get this very violent thoughts if triggered. Thank you for the warning. I'll take it as a compliment.

as an INFJ I always feel like no one understands. and your stuck there with your own thoughts... edit: it’s nice to have people on the internet though. INFJs and Ts are all over it lol.

As an infj, i mostly say " out of all the things in this world, i fear of myself the most". I know what potential do i have and what i can turn into if i knew i have nothing to loose. I totally agree with Dark side which i think, every infj have to struggle to keep in control.

I'm an INFJ and have serious anger issues. I also get irritated when someone is being dumb. I usually keep it to myself and don't show it infront of others...

I was somehow hit by the line "It isn't the strong, powerful men and women we need to be afraid of, it's the weak ones". As an INFJ, there are times where I want to change something in the system of how groups of people around me operate (popular people mostly), and even if I can't call myself as someone influential, I do have that drive to just do something about it, planning how to 'take control and make things better'.

My friend once told me that if I didn’t have such a strong moral code, I’d be scary because of my ability to manipulate, my ability to eschew empathy in favor of cold logic to achieve my goals, and my sort of appreciation for what you might call machiavellian tactics. Luckily, I’m a very kind and loving person (and have historically had crippling social anxiety so no politics for me ha ha), but I can easily see how this sort of personality can be so dangerous as a leader. It’s also nice to see a video about our dark, cruel side as opposed to just this continual ego stroking about how we’re sensitive beautiful unicorns. And it’s interesting seeing the INFJ reactions in the comments, just a lot of casual acceptance and pragmatism all like “yup, that’s how it is sometimes.” That seems to be a main way to tell the “real” INFJ’s apart from those who have been mistyped (mainly INFP’s)-if you make a video addressing the faults of an INFJ, the ones who get outraged because how DARE you insult their super special, beautiful type are generally INFP’s. The correctly-typed INFJ’s tend to hear the information and either quietly self-flagellate or nod along, curious about how to integrate this new knowledge without judgement. Of course it’s not this cut and dry, it’s just a trend I’ve noticed. INFP’s generally also wouldn’t be willing to sacrifice people (being focused on all of them as individuals) in order to achieve Utopia, whereas an INFJ serving Ni can make a LOT of uncomfortable sacrifices to see their vision become a reality.

I am a Clinical Psychologist with 30 years of experience dealing with people. I was branded a INFJ quite sometime ago. I never really accepted that evaluation because placing 'labels' on people puts them into a box. It limits their potentiality and personal growth. At worse, it can destroy a individual's self determination and freedom. However, the Myers Briggs Personally Test is interesting but somewhat incomplete. I have never encountered a 'classical' INFJ before. Why? Because certain characteristics of this personality type have many subgroups some of which overlap other MBTI personality types. That being said I will describe the characteristics of how a 'orthodox' INFJ thinks, behaves and responds in strict accordance with the MBTI Personalty Test. Be forewarned, I find some INFJ 'stereotypes' rather funny. And will approach such in a humorous fashion. INFJ's posess a wonderfully sense irony and will immediately recognize the silly 'stereotypes' others have attrubuted to them.....So let's start breaking some myths about the INFJ Personalty Type When a INFJ gives you the dreaded 'Death Stair' they are not attempting to understand you. They are wondering if you're carrying a gun. Killing INFJ's is a pleasurable experience. Why? Because everyone hates a smart ass. INFJ's frequently experience 'Sensory Overload' issues. They love Forests, Parks and Woodland areas to recharge their batteries. Why? Because trees don't talk! A squirrel cannot complain it has 'Daddy Issues'. Pine trees do not suffer from 'gender identity' problems. And I have never seen a bunny rabbit strung out Crack Cocaine. Solitude is bliss. Never say to a INFJ, 'I do not understand', They will run away screaming or jump infront of a bus. No one understands them. INFJ's sometimes don't even understand themselves. INFJ's feel uncomfortable being around large groups of people. However, once you get them talking, they never shut up. Adolf Hitler, Martin Luther King and Gandhi were historical INJF's. You cannot win a argument with this Myers Briggs Personality type. They will always win... until they get shot. Why do a INFJ 'Door Slam' people? Because it's called a Coping Mechanism. They dislike being emotionally hurt. There is nothing strange about this behavior.. Some people become acholics others pill poppers. INFJ's will just run away and pretend you never existed. INFJ's have the psychic ability to absorb people's emotions. No. This is phenomen is called 'Transference'. If you continuously talk about your problems, a INFJ will unconsciously adopt some aspects of your emotional state. However, INFJ's posess strong identities which prevents them from going completely insane. INFJ's are the most honest, compassionate and sensative people on Earth. Not really. Mother Nature just screwed them up genetically. They're brains are hard wired to respond during crisis situations. A 'diehard' INFJ will instinctively sacrifice their life attempting to save yours. No questions asked. Why? I have no freaking idea. I didn't invent the rules. Ask God. I'm sure She knows. INFJ's think differently than others. Yes. They think outside the box. They live outside the box. They have never actually seen the box. What does it look like? Does it contain groceries? INFJ types are occasionally arrogant, cold towards others and aloof. This is actually true. Being omnipotent has its drawbacks. INFJ's have a difficult time sugar-coating the truth. Being overtly honest is their trademark. If they sense someone cannot handle the truth, they will lie to protect that person's emotions. INFJ's are stubborn yet will openly admit to errors in judgment or making mistakes. INFJ's think too deeply. They want to solve everyone's problems. They get frustrated when people ask for advice - then completely ignore their recommendations! They do not understand why everyone keeps making the same mistakes over and over again. Eventually, a INFJ will simply give up. The phrase 'People need to learn things the hard way' was invented by a INFJ. So was the 'unfriend' button on Facebook. INFJ's do not respect authority because they have developed their own Moral, Ethical, Spiritual and Cognative belief systems. Mature (older) INFJ's care very little about how people perceive them and less about the impressions they make upon others. INFJ's enjoy approval and acceptance (like everyone else) but infrequently compromise their princepals to simply fit in. Do not mistake a INFJ's confidence as egocentrismn. There is a difference. INFJ's are frequently interpreted as posessing a Narcissist Personalty Disorder. This stereotype is absolutely false. A Narcissist loves adoration and attention. The typical INFJ cares more about others than themselves, sometime to their own detriment. INFJ's dislike themselves. They feel alone within the world and misunderstood. Being a INFJ a curse. Consequently, a small minority INFJ's often experience psychological Depression, Alienation Issues and Avoident Behavior problems. The phrase 'You are your own worst enemy' accurately describes a INFJ's perception of themselves. The most admirable personality traits of the INFJ are (1) INFJ's are compassionate which makes them a easy targets for emotional exploitation and abuse. Never play 'Guilt Games' with a INFJ. They already persecute themselves (subconsciously) for being different. (2) They don't have the ability to forgive themselves for past mistakes, A INFJ's unforgiving 'Guilt Complex' is an integral part of their personality. INFJ's have occasionally been known to slowly kill themselves over time, believing they deserve such suffering. 'Hell on Earth' is their punishment and they willing accept it....sometimes. Not always. (3) Once you secure the trust of a INFJ, everything about them suddenly becomes clear. The stereotypes vanish. These are people you want within your life. They have incredible insight into human nature and will identify your weaknesses and lift you up from darkness. Seeing the world through a INFJ eyes is the greatest gift they can offer. It would be impossible to understand a MBTI typology without stating the negative traits of a specific personality group. The 'Dark Side' of a INFJ is rather frightening. Never test their 'Authenticity' or personal dignity. Do not play games with a INFJ. They have limitations like everyone else. A INFJ can determine your intentions or plans within minutes. Literally. This Hyperobservient behavior is quite unique. Avoid getting into heated arguments with a INFJ unless you are prepared to be intellectually, emotionally or psychologically castrated. They have cognitive resources almost beyond understanding. A vindictive INFJ will never stop until they destroy your life (this has nothing to do with physical murder). Such behavior is almost Psychopathic in nature (hence the concern INFJ's may be catorgized as possessing a Psychological Disorder rather than a Personality Dysfunction). Fortunately, INFJ's are not prone to violent behavior. They give up easily, This is where the 'Door Slam' or simply walking away from an argument comes from. Once they reveal their true inner nature, you will begin to understand why only 1% of the world's population are INFJ's. They are so dam charming. INFJ's dislike small talk, idle conversations, superficial people and hypocrites. Life is too short talking to such individuals (but they understand its occasionally necessary to be socially accepted) INFJ's are not spontaneous. They just pretend to be spontaneous. Their minds are always attempting to 'connect the dots'....when there are no dots! Avoid getting into deep conversations with a INFJ. They are walking encyclopedias. They will jump from topic to topic then back again to support a idea or theory. Male INFJ's are 'scattered brained' in the worst way possible. But there is method to such madness. The are searching for the correct answer to a specific problem. And 95% of the time they will discover it... or have a complete nervous breakdown trying. Occasionally, you will notice a INFJ acting mysteriously, doing unusual things or just behaving weird. Get used to this behavior. It has absolutely nothing to do with you. The INFJ is just going through a 'stage' or experimenting with something that interests them. Like building a Thermonuclear Bomb or discovering a cure for Herpes. Never tell a INFJ they have a 'Old Soul'. They are absolutely terrified of being reincarnated again. INFJ's are acutely aware that neither Heaven or Hell wants them. Why? Because God doesn't need the extra competition on who should run Heaven (Him or a INFJ) and Satan can't deal with a INFJ pestering him for all eternity....that would be considered cruel and unusual punishment. Aliens will never abduct a INFJ. There are some things too bizarre even for Extraterrestrials. Men of all ages, groups and backgrounds fall instantly in love with INFJ women. They give the appearance of a graceful dove. Pure and innocent. No. They are just horny guys. Beware. INFJ's have a difficult time forming a thought or idea into words. Yes. Someday... somewhere,...a INFJ will develop telekinesis and scare the hell out of everyone. So next time you accidentally encounter a INFJ, break all COVID 'Social Distancing' issues and hug them. INFJ's are a endangered species. Literally. Whatever purpose they were created for has already been accomplished. There represent only 1% of 7.7 billion people on planet Earth according to MBTI statistics. In my opinion, this Myers Briggs Personality represents the noblest aspects of humanity....Intelligent, Wise, Caring, Virtuous, Altruistic and Protective. And they have a excellent sense of humor (wink).

We’re flattered *evil smile*

I've always thought to myself how scary my self-awareness and self-control is. I'm aware of moments when I'm so angry if I didn't have such control of myself, I could as easily lash out viciously if I really wanted to. I also then think as a result the main thing that stop me is me wanting to keep a good impression and society's view. Take those things away and there's almost nothing left stopping me. I only think this towards people who truly anger me which is pretty rare in itself.

This is the other side of the INFJ. INFJs are usually very self sacrificing, sometimes to the detriment if not in check. But the passion perhaps remain the same.

As an INFJ I've only been provoked into rage once (& it took ALOT to get me there), it was almost an out of body experience. Afterwards I was a bit scared of how terrifying I was. But the *truly scary* part is- I think it was only scratching the surface😬

My fellow INFJs do not fall into darkside... As I did this my depression later almost killed me 😣 We need to stick to the light. And yes, I think Deanerys was an INFJ, not ENFJ.

one small tip: never step on a weak INFJ because when he gets strong your name will be on the top of his list and he won't find it hard to see you suffering while he is just watching believe me I'm INFJ 🙂

INFJ here. ^ Around 5:00, I'd like to add that INFJ's are naturally highly inquisitive, perceptive, and defensive. They see through the haze unto the truth of the world as it currently is, and they also know the potential of the world as it could be. INFJ's tend to have higher moral and ethical standards than other personality types. Because of that, they have a strong sense of justice and can easily discern right from wrong, which lends this sense of justice to be one of their core values and driving forces. As such, INFJ's instinctively (intuitively) know when people or practices are shady, wrong, and/or at fault. However, this sense of justice has a tendency to go into a very dark place if left unchecked. Especially when an INFJ knows better and has more knowledge and/or experience in something, but people refuse to listen to them and understand them. As such, INFJ's have almost no tolerance for willful ignorance and idiocy or rude and unpleasant people. So when an individual or group of people willfully refuse to seek out information and the truth, refuse to listen to logic and reason, refuse to be helpful and constructive, and hopelessly cling to old ways due to familiarity and safety; it outright infuriates an INFJ. And having such a completely different mindset and value set than the majority leaves an INFJ feeling isolated and alone. This kind of treatment over a prolonged period of time becomes a poison that seeps into an INFJ's mind, and that is where an INFJ begins their descent into madness. A madness that turns every thought into a "me" vs "them" mentality. They begin to believe that the world is completely against them. That they utterly alone in their beliefs and values. That they are right, and everyone else is clearly wrong. They are clearly superior to the inferior flock of mindless sheep, content in their isolated bubble of blissful ignorance. And if these sheep will not regulate themselves, then one must do it for them. If the sheep will not change, then change must be brought about for them...this kind of eventuality, unfortunately, led to one of the world's worst dictators in history, Hitler. I think it's incredibly fitting that you used Daenerys Targaryen, The Mother of Dragons, at 2:25 as an example of an INFJ as many have often noted that INFJ's tend to have the personality and behavioral traits in which one would associate with a dragon.

I never manipulate someone, I'm just helping them to conclude something as I wish. Does that counted as manipulative? I do not lie either.

This is a reality I have had to fight with as an infj. My parents are quite narcissistic. It's been a struggle being the only person in the family who could see through all the crap, what our family could be and so on, I was the black sheep. My brother had a PTSD attack and wanted to make it his personal mission to hurt my parents and I had a dark thought. I thought about how easy it could have been to use him as my own revenge tool against my parents, to show them the pain they caused us. In just a few moments I got his attention. Instead, I decided to forgive and used his example to show them that I was right about our family and to enforce changes for the better. An INFJ is standing on the edge, they may either jump over or stay on land. I would be lying if I said I never had those thoughts.

Being an INFJ, this makes me chuckle.

Use your power for good Dont turn to the dark side....

I had goosebumps as an Infj I feel all relatable.. not for what I'm now but what I can turn into.

This is the most in depth, AND taken serious, video I have ever seen on INFJ, and especially on the dark side of INFJ’s. Thank you so much for making this, I’m really amazed on how you were able to pick up on the similarities between Hitler and Daeneryes! Very interesting video and is fantastic! - from INFJ

it's scary how we infj's have a lot of things hidden from everyone else and chose not to speak up about it. we'd rather watch our predictions unravel right in front of our eyes rather than making a move.

I have two feelings in me since birth. Dark: feeling of overthrowing humanity and the world. Vengeance, conviction, and power Light: want freedom, equality, love and connection. It’s a constant battle inside because if you are slightly less than the other you know it won’t be good if it comes out. If you don’t want to fall into darkness, make good friends to remind you what’s important. Though that’s our second problem

The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom: and the knowledge of the holy is understanding. Proverbs 9:10

Thing is most INFJs don't have such lofty goals. They just want to live their lives doing what they enjoy.

This hits hard, a part I never want to admit myself. Some friends say to me "What's with that moral of yours, will you ever relax and don't try to do things morally right just once? You are no police!" They obviously mean this in a funny way but they are right, I have some strong sense of morals. What they don't know is what I can posible do if I don't follow them, how manipulative, cold hearted and ambitious an INFJ can be if they don't make some limits themselves. I really liked your video, it's very correct what you explained!

This is exactly what I've been thinking about when I watched GoT!!! I knew right away that denaerys was an infj because I could relate so much to her and understood why ended up being a mad queen, I have similar moments where I fear that I might end up known as an evil person to everyone I love and wanted to care for, that's why I'm never taking a leadership role until I have better control over my emotions. You're either Gandhi or Hitler, even Gandhi wasn't as good as people think he is but he still fought for a good cause

I think you didn't mention something that is really important for this subject: INFJ are highly empathetic people. Which means only a trauma that led them to madness (or a traumatic experience that showed them brutally that a certain thing in the system hurt people too bad and that it should be changed) could lead them to hurt others. Also, as an INFJ, I could tell that I sincerely wish the best for everyone - even people who annoy me, are cold or mean toward me etc - but as soon as someone is acting manipulative toward others, or generally toxic for our society, this person is automatically out of my life, and I advise my friends to do the same. I won't fight them or anything, I'll just ignore them, and (from experience) I think that's how most of the INFJs would react. And I'm sorry, but I don't really think your example was genuinely relevant, since before being and INFJ, Hitler was seriously mad and psychopathic. People often take him for example to describe the INFJ's dark side, but honestly, anyone who becomes crazy is a threat for our society, regardless of their mbti types.

Infj here: the feels of Jon and Dany. I've always understood them both...... damn you season 8

Same, I think I have 2 sides of a coin. I can be really quiet, patient and be understanding but if my values and principles are crossed, I can really have this angry, scary energy that even I don't know where it came from.

"Mad Kings and Queens that Changed the world" thanks for the compliment. You really hooked my interest up when you said that we're always dancing on the line between madness and greatness. It's like talking indirecty to my shadow. Good video!

Game of Thrones, a song of two INFJs

INJs: "we know, but hey!"

As an INFJ, I knew how much "darkness" I have. I know I'm a good manipulator, I know I can sound radical, I know I can be proud, and stubborn with my ideas and I can get frustrated with people with a closed mind. I also know that I could be cruel precisely because I know people and I know what can hurt them. I always try to keep myself on my moral code, I try to use these manipulatives abilities to see other manipulators and protect myself and others. I also think that INFJs are somewhat similar to Slytherins. We can be ambitious, with ideas and concepts that others could not see or even understand. We are cunning and good manipulators, and leaders but we can be drawn to darkness out of our ideals or the people that we cared for. We want to improve the world, but the concept of improvement is different for each person or each group of persons, so we can feel tempted to use our capacity to manipulate and to be seen as a leader to make others see our vision, or even, to impose it. The unofficial motto is "It is the end that justifies the means". We can see this also in characters like Itachi Uchiha from Naruto. He does something terrible, and evil, by killing almost all his family except for his younger brother. He is blind by his obsession with peace due to all the wars he lived that he was able of the worst things for this idea of peace. And even with this horrible act, everybody that knew his tragic story described him as a good person, as someone who thought as a Hokage when he was only a child. He thought about the "greater good". Ironically, Itachi, Daenerys and even Hitler share more than the INFJ type: the responsibility of being the leader and the symbol of their societies and ideas. I always think that, sometimes, INFJs tend to be trapped in these big roles, even when, sometimes, we don't want it. INFJ is usually described as the most misunderstood type because they are the rarest of them all, and I think part of this is because people do not tend to see us as "persons" but as symbols, leaders, friends, someone others can trust. In any case, I'm just wandering. I love this type of content! I have studied literature in college and I always like to see different types of analyses.

Before the MBTI. I used to be afraid of myself. How fast I could learn from someone, their weaknesses and strengths, how to manipulate them... Obviously, I never did anything to hurt someone (at least if they didn't deserve it). But still, I used to think that something was wrong with me. But after MBTI, as an INFJ I was able to understand myself a little bit better.

The dark side of the INFJ is really scary. Iv'e been there most of my life. Only after 32 I found myself. Next month i'll be 37. I wasn't joking when I said it was most of my life. We can be horrible villains after we have been shattered and lost everything... Fictional INFJ villains would include Ras-Al-Ghoul and Poison Ivy.

This is why I am afraid of myself when I get angry and determined 🙄😁

Video: You have a great capacity for evil. All of the INFJs in the comments: yessssssss 😂😂😂 [Disclaimer: I too am an INFJ and found this video inspiring rather than frightening. Heaven help us all.]

This concept has been one that I've tried to explain to people, being an INFJ myself and in comparison to my brother's gf. I compare us as being two sides of the same coin but to the opposite extreme ends of the same spectrum. Like you've mentioned, all it takes is for someone to investigate prominent INFJs to see the pattern of world-changers. You have MLK and Hitler sharing the same personality afterall. Very well done, I salute you sir.

As a person with low self esteem and social anxiety I'm feeling a little bit more confident after watching your video (not to rule the world of course but still, it really made my day!) Thank you🙏😊💕 Wow! Thank you for all the likes everybody!❤

The one thing that makes me laugh is that you will tell them what you are capable of or give them some hints but they will never believe you not knowing it's really just a choice you have made to not be their worst nightmare .

I was told by some of my friends that if I were to live in the days of the war, then my writings would have been one of greatest assets in rallying the nation. (Edited) I guess manipulating people's emotion is one of INFJ's oopsies 😅

It's crazy how I express this concept in my OC. "The Flame is unstable within you, but it is warm and it is true. It's these cruel sparks within you that move us forward, that guide you through the dark, warm you in the cold, help you at your worst. It is this fire inside of us that unites us together and connects us all. It is unstable, it is wild, it will burn. But like all wild things, it can be tamed. But if it is not it will burn until there is nothing left, in which it will die out. Only when it's task is complete or it's fuel has run out. But while we live, while you breathe, there is hope for us yet. The Flame is imperishable, for if it does not burn in us, it burns in the universe. Whether it is us or the next, the fire burns on, flowing like a river, flickering like a flame." It is not merely a concept to them, but a part of them, a part of them that it a tool they use for good. But if it is not used right it can result in severe damage.

I've always had this feeling that I was capable of instigating historic change... not alone of course, but I could create it. I have also come to know my own dark side. I know how violent I can think, how manipulative I can be. I know that I have the ability to be a second Hitler... I don't want to be that. I want to be a force for good. I want a better world and I have a vision for it. I just fear that the darkness in me will become something more than a tool to be harnessed, and take over to the point that I burn all resistance... I suppose all INFJs struggle with this to some degree. It's just crazy to think that we have this ability to change the course of history if we harness it correctly

As a INFJ, I love this video

Only 2.7 K views? for the best MBTI video ever? perfect editing, perfect narration, and accurate information. Keep it up Carsten, I am certain that you will grow big. Looking forward for an INTJ video.

This was absolutely amazing. I now understand why I’ve been so drawn to the Mother of Dragons, Elsa, Loki- because they’re me, an INFJ, and I’m forever curious about who I actually am. Love your voice, love the intricacies of this video, and I was disappointed to see there weren’t more videos. But this was very well done. 👌 Thank you very much.

i need to see the dark infp

I absolutely loved this video! It's so hard to find resources that explain the dark side to types, without glossing over aspects of it or making it seem unimportant. I've always wanted to find something touching on this aspect of INFJs, and now I have! :) awesome video, can't wait to see more!

Here's an INTJ's message for all INFJs: Don't live by other's evaluations of "good" and "evil". Don't let them restrict you in your potential.

Being an Infj is like playing chess .you never want to be the king . You see ur self as the strongest piece , and every other player needs to be it's specific place to make u feel in control . And you already see 100 outcomes of this game and if you find it's not worth it you just play the game so u don't seem rude . But to you winning and losing in that game will be same because it has lost its worth to u. INFJ don't wanna be leaders but the are the best leader .

3:58 I love the "roads to Rome" analogy, and I totally see that in the way I (I'm an INFJ) problem-solve, as opposed to others who can't see the method in my madness. It's because I see the end result first and the steps along the way look disordered because the order of operations is sort of less important. There are many orders of operations that lead to the same result, so I can pivot in the process. I don't have to know all the "steps" along the way. Others get bogged down in planning every step.

Great video. C.S. Joseph describes the INFJ as the 'speartip of our race'. Makes sense that the spear does a lot of damage when pointed in the wrong direction.

In my wildest fantasies, when I'm truly frustrated, furious and have given up on humanity, there is no limit to the viciousness I would bring upon the world.. this video scares me a bit... I mean, not only do I have the same personality type as Hitler, but I also share a star sign with him 😱😱😱😱 The crazy thing is that what always triggers this blind hate in me, is crippling empathy. Just recently, when the fires were consuming the Amazons, there were moments I could feel the suffering of each and every animal, insect and plant being affected... And in those moment, had I had a dragon, I would have flown directly to Bolsonaro*'s house and burned it to the ground. No questions. No trial. (*Bolsonaro is Brazil's president, who openly supports deforestation through man-made fires). Luckily I have incredible friends that let me vent all this pain out and help me chanel my energies for rebuilding and finding solutions.

As an INFJ I think others can relate to this statement "I am the nicest mean person."

I’m in one of the lowest and darkest points of of my life right now where I have almost nothing to lose. Just barely over that point of no return. Throughout my life I’ve gone through some horrible suffering and injustices that gradually ripped my innocence away. I keep having so many violent thoughts against other people, and the world, but mostly against myself. My idealism and a faint glimmer of hope is keeping my acting these out at bay. I guess I’m thankful I’m too much of an introverted INFJ to be a leader lmao

This is so accurate sometimes I hate people so much for being stupid and arrogant that I want to become so powerful to do the right thing and put everyone in his place I could be so cold and evil if I want but I chose to not maybe not yet not yet...

This explains a lot, honestly. I’ve always felt like a leader, I may sound cheesy or exaggerated but I really do feel like it’s in my nature to lead people. I feel like if given the chance- I can be someone who can change, improve and really exert my vision onto people. In my class, however, I wasn’t known to be someone who can be a leader of a group project or an activity- so when I get the chance to be the leader, I always give the best that I could do to prove to people that I can be the best. Now people in my class know, but I feel like it’s not enough. Sometimes it also scares me how I can manipulate people so easily and persuade them while getting in their head subtly. I grew up being introverted, quiet and nice- people tend to trust me a lot because of those qualities. I know a lot of secrets that I can literally just betray everyone in my life in a snap. But i’m trying to be a good person, which is hard to do but I try to choose it everyday. But it’s still scary how I have the tendency to go mad and violent and how my thought revolves around that thought like it’s some sort of a backup plan.

I can't even get my cat to be loyal to me...

Man, I never knew I was an INFJ until now. And you are right - after being a shy, introverted but a daring & gutsy girl for years + after several failures to find the right person for me in dating, I said screw all that & adopted an ideal worldview to do better in my career. Drawn to my aggression, confidence and physique I soon gained an almost fanatical cult following who would pee in the exact same way I did if they knew how I did it. Glad someone pulled me back down to earth before I was overtaken by megalomania. I still have my followers, a close circle gathered around me as well who wanted to support my cause and all is going well. We make sure that we interact each and every person who follows us with empathy & compassion. And the results are incredible. It feels like I've gained a new family out of nowhere. And instead of planning to burn cities, we are all working towards uplifting each other in life professionally with better jobs, references, business advice and motivation.

Please do a video on CARL JUNG as he was the creator of the mbti (and an INFJ) loved this, crazy to think he had social anxiety and was an INFJ, which I also have. I can't imagine why he did these things :(

I am infj , I still don't understand my abilities and the special gift that I have as an infj person , but one thing that I really feel is my ability to encourage others with just my words and my advice, and what I feel the most is my ability to absorb other people's energy and detect atmospheric moments that occur right away. I will be very tired when a few days of my life to deal with other people, and I need the same few days to rest from outside contact, read anything, listen to classical music can calm my raging mind. I don't know that INJ can be dark, I don't want to be dark for others! but I still can't use my gift to become an infj, I always try my best every day! Thank you for this amazing video clip and explanation ! 💖

I find it very easily to manipulate others, but because it goes against my moral code, I will never go that direction. This makes it easier for me to warn others when they are being manipulated by someone else.

I always come back to this video, the introduction simply gives me chills , well done

The society failed me, my own country failed me, I've lost everything.. some people never learn.. I need to correct this imbalance.. I might have no power and influence...yet. but I will create a better world.. but only for people who are allied to me. *Maniacal laughs*

Understand Frodo, I would use this Ring from a desire to do good. But through me, it would wield a power too great and terrible to imagine."

So, as an german INFJ living in Sweden I know that way to many people underestimate me, but the once who have seen the extreme rare explosions I had know, I litteraly become the definition of evil and there is no stopping me. Good thing this hasn't happened in over 10 years and I have become more one with my feelings and how to controll my anger, but the rage inside is hard to keep in, especially when people just are stupider then I thought.

I'm a good person and I'm trying to be the best of what a good person can be but I do feel this darkness inside of me everyday, I fear nothing more than myself and the things it can bring... But everyday I need to spend sometime with my darkness telling it that it's not wrong but their is better way to live and it can be that. INFJ

As an INFJ, reading these comments, it’s quite relieving to know this that this darkness isn’t just unique to me, but also genuinely terrifying that there are more people with depths like this. I’ve always said to my best fiend who I trust to tell this stuff to, that if I didn’t have a self imposed moral code, there would be no limit to the carnage I’d be willing to orchestrate. It’s like forever teeter tottering on the edge of wanting to make the world into a heaven, and watching everyone burn and laughing while it happens.

Boy I went the opposite way in life. I absolutely cannot stand anybody telling me what to do. and I do not want to have to tell anybody else what to do. Anybody that wants control of other people makes me sick. In my imaginary Utopia, everyone is equal. Nothing in the society we live in makes any sense at all.

The accuracy of this video!! I low-key turn into the mad queen when I'm angry. That's why I avoid getting angry or just transitioning to my dark persona.

As a teenager, I legit felt that I was a villain, mood swings would lead to intrusive thoughts and craziness but after that phase, I feel more peaceful. Parents, if your teens are infj, they need help, else that will be the beginning of a villain story lol.

I am an INFJ and was emotionally bullied many times. There's no doubt that INFJs will have this thought tendencies as I experienced. It was a horrifying thought that any people would be afraid of.

"The Quiet Kid"

This video is so freaking deaking awesome!! I was born and raised in Germany and way back, when season 3 came out, I told my friends that Danny is giving me some serious Hitler vibes. The laughed and called me mad lol. I just discovered Mbti a few months ago (I am an ENTP, which means I am special) and this is so enlightening. I feel like it is difficult to understand the cognitive functions without reference. Especially those of rare types, like INFJs. Hence, why I really value your videos. I believe this channel is becoming one of the best Mbti related channels :). I am going to do something I rarely do right now: turn on the notification bell!

I often come back to this video to remind myself what I'm capable of. I've often had this unexplainable fear of my own potential that I have yet to meet someone who understands my fear of succeeding. I'm afraid that trying my best will inevitably hurt myself or others, like growing something I cannot handle. It's like with the innate power I hold, I could create a miracle or a monster. I've realized the importance of having a strong moral and foundation which I'm aiming to develop because I feel like my lifelong depression has muted this power and healing from it has broken it free. I aim to be strong enough to control this madness and to be a good queen.

this is so on point. as an INFJ I totally get what kind of destruction we can do. When life endlessly knock you out and you know how the other people are doing it to you. You know that you can destroy them in a second. we know how to to play the dirt 100 times better than them. But then I guess most of the INFjs have strong ethics. Our Ni Ti allow us to go deeper why we should not do that. that's why sometimes I fear myself.

I just remember my colleague told me that whenever I say something she can feel that everyone's listen to me well, that they're all ears. I don't talk too much but they said that the moment I talk, they always tend to just shut up and listen carefully. I know myself too much that when you say "manipulators" it did hits me. We stand for what is right for what's true. I have this "honesty is the best policy" (that even if I try to twitch the word they will just think it's the whole truth, I do this if I know that something's not going right if tell them the truth) and "want it all or nothing at all", just try to think that when that two collide in the worst way possible tgen that's the dark side of INFJ.

I am an INFJ and I always joke with friends saying if I ever turned to the dark side that I'd probably be rich and take over the world! This video was perfectly done I subscribed!

this is why i invest myself in stoicism, not completely, but a lapse of sanity. i always try to keep myself in check, because my anger brings out my villainous instincts to destroy what i feel like doesn't fit with my ideals, or completely crush someone in ways. though my bad side would take over sometimes, keeping it in check will suffice.

Another thing I have observed is when I'm using my introverted intuition to solve for something, I actually experience some kind of dopamine rush. My brain experiences pleasure when I'm in that particular mind state. So, not only are we INFJs seeing the better world, but our brains are rewarding us for it, which might make interventions by others futile. We're getting high off of it, essentially.

I love how dangerous this video always makes me feel! Oddly, I do fear myself less now lol. This resonates with a thought that has haunted my mind for years, years I thought I was becoming a villain.

Cheers for that great vid. I am an INFJ and know how dangerous my feelings can become. I can honestly say, Now above all my greatest fear is myself and what I am capable of.

Bravo! Please make more of these videos? This has been one of the most interesting videos I've watched concerning the INFJ personality type. I would be very interested to see videos created for all the types. Thanks!

Wow. This video is fantastic! Thank you for the depth of thought you put into this analysis; I couldn't look away! It is a dizzying revelation to know an INFJ could turn into Hitler or be like Jesus Christ; I literally feel dizzy after watching this video. I have seen many Christian INFJ's comment on this video, and that fills me with hope for this world. I know what I am capable of, if I can get past my fear, my anger, and my lack of trust in even myself. All other INFJ's are capable of the same. I was granted the incredible fortune of seeing Jesus and God for who they truly are. I feel such anger and such love for every person in the world, and it often brings me to paralyzing grief, sobbing in my bed, because I feel the world's agonizing pain (the pain of every person who is lost, afraid, or feels utterly ignored or unloved), and I see how this world could be whole and without pain or sorrow. In the newer Murder on the Orient Express film (I don't recall if this line is also in the book), Detective Hercule Poirot remarks, "I can only see the world as it should be. And when it is not, the imperfection stands out like a nose in the middle of a face. It makes most of life unbearable. But, it is useful in the detection of crime." The problem is...I don't know where to begin with this knowledge, and I'm terrified of wasting it. It's too important to me to let myself ruin it. In the same way, the true character of God is a perfect balance between logic and emotion. He knows justice more than we could ever comprehend and does what is necessary for His creation, but He loves so deeply that He will hang on to each of us like the purest parent and lover, no matter how many times we turn our backs or reject Him. An INFJ is similarly capable of mercy and love, but we have to temper it with logic, which is a very difficult task for us. Thankfully, I married an INTJ! And though we could turn out to be a terrifyingly villainous couple, we also balance each other with logic and love, hoping to improve the world with our united Ni but complementary Fe and Te. Thank you again for the video! It truly was breathtaking and clarifying!

INFJ here. This is brilliant!

I’m an INFJ and this video seriously struck a cord with me. I see so much pain in the world, in my personal life & the news/social media/etc. It makes me sad, but I’m never hopeless. I have this vision of making things better, and I know it sounds dumb, but I want to be an english teacher. I’ve had some seriously influential teachers in my life & I want to be that for a kid, and help them and educate them and just do little things that they’ll remember forever. That will remind them there is good in the world. Other times, the anger I can get inside of me honestly scares me? I don’t usually show it - at least never ever to it’s full extent - unless it’s raising my voice more than usual. I’ve never said something mean or hurt anybody, and I don’t think I ever could, but sometimes I think about it. I hope nothing happens to me that makes me have nothing to lose, because at the moment I have a lot, and without it I don’t know what I would do. Like others have mentioned, it’s usually at people’s willful ignorance. Nothing makes me angrier than that. Sometimes I’m angry at my siblings, sometimes it’s the world, but boy do I get angry. I thought I was the only INFJ like this because nobody ever talked about it. I really loved this video. Like a lot of other people are saying, INFJs are usually just depicted as ever-so-lovely, beautiful people with the purest of minds. But there’s more to it than that under the surface that nobody acknowledges, so really, thank you for making this

The intro is freaking scary. Damn. I'm scared of myself... Jesus please lead me the way. Btw nice content. I hope your channel blows up

Yes! It's annoying that I know what is best before the group even starts discussing different approaches to a problem. As an INFJ I already know how things are going to end.