17 Raw Lessons About Human Nature - Steven Bartlett (4K)

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Steven Bartlett is the Founder of Social Chain, an entrepreneur, a podcaster and an author.
How to become a functioning human is a difficult skill to work out. Should I focus on achieving goals or inner peace? Can I become confident without being arrogant? Thankfully Steven has spent the last 2 years distilling a ton of lessons into his new book, and today we get to go through my favourites.
Expect to learn Steven’s equation for unbreakable discipline, the biggest lesson from dealing with mainstream media pile-ons, why there are so few actual practitioners in the world, how to stop being your biggest critic, why your weirdness is the ultimate competitive advantage, how Steven discovered he was riddled with fake ambition and much more…⁣⁣
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00:00 The Frame Matters More Than the Picture
07:33 You Don’t Get to Choose What You Believe
21:29 Why Self Respect is So Important
35:12 Most People Strategise Instead of Executing
47:51 Are You Driven or Being Dragged?
58:54 The Loneliness & Hedonism of Elite Achievers
1:06:30 Why You Need to Sweat the Small Stuff
1:15:09 Do the Thing
1:19:28 Pressure is a Great Privilege
1:25:02 Steven’s Experience Becoming a Person of Public Interest
1:35:49 Do Our Beliefs Limit Us?
1:41:42 Context Is Worth More Than Skills
1:46:25 How to Avoid the Trap of Mono-Thinking
1:58:12 Fame Changes Everybody Around You
2:06:20 Where to Find Steven
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@ChrisWillx 7 ай бұрын

Hello you beauties. Get a FREE 30-day trial and 2 months at 50% off from Epidemic Sound at share.epidemicsound.com/modernwisdom (use code MW50 at checkout) Get 20% discount on Nomatic’s amazing luggage at nomatic.com/modernwisdom (use code MODERNWISDOM) Get $150/£150 discount on Eight Sleep’s Pod Cover at eightsleep.com/modernwisdom (discount automatically applied) Here’s the timestamps: 00:00 The Frame Matters More Than the Picture 07:33 You Don’t Get to Choose What You Believe 21:29 Why Self Respect is So Important 35:12 Most People Strategise Instead of Executing 47:51 Are You Driven or Being Dragged? 58:54 The Loneliness & Hedonism of Elite Achievers 1:06:30 Why You Need to Sweat the Small Stuff 1:15:09 Do the Thing 1:19:28 Pressure is a Great Privilege 1:25:02 Steven’s Experience Becoming a Person of Public Interest 1:35:49 Do Our Beliefs Limit Us? 1:41:42 Context Is Worth More Than Skills 1:46:25 How to Avoid the Trap of Mono-Thinking 1:58:12 Fame Changes Everybody Around You 2:06:20 Where to Find Steven

@InspiredEvolution 7 ай бұрын

YEW ! Thank you so much for this INCREDIBLE CONVERSATION 🙏🏼 so much love for the work both of you contribute to this world 🌎🙏🏼🙏🏼

@hakeemhassan7030 7 ай бұрын

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@hakeemhassan7030 7 ай бұрын

😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊❤😊😊

@TheDiaryOfACEO 7 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for having me brother 👊🏾 hope people got value from our chat x

@AKA-kp3gd 7 ай бұрын

6:24 it would be worth trialing UHD, UltraHD, 2160p and others to see how they compare for click through rates. 4K is recognisable but also common.

@InspiredEvolution 7 ай бұрын

YEW !!! Thank you BOTH for INSPIRING my EVOLUTION 🙏🏼🙏🏼

@GiumeConsulting 7 ай бұрын

I am enjoying this episode, I watch DOAC a lot, and I wanted Steven to be interviewed 🙌🏻🙌🏻

@radientproductions9799 7 ай бұрын

absolute banger , like a Fred again show!

@marktossell8461 7 ай бұрын

Fantastic, helpful content, and the production quality of the video is epic. Thanks for creating this, Chris, and for sharing your wisdom, Steven.

@gnrbryham2305 7 ай бұрын

"The magic you are looking for is the work your avoiding" that is the best quote I have ever heard, resonating hard on that.

@mekailkamran03 7 ай бұрын

Sameee! This was one of the best bits of the episode for me

@trevorlei 7 ай бұрын

Where was this quote?

@ThrivewithJesus 7 ай бұрын

That is exactly that resonated with me and I know it is 💯 true

@rubenhemminga 7 ай бұрын

@@trevorlei 29:50

@majakastelec 6 ай бұрын

I felt exactly the same way. It's echoing in my head and trying to pinpoint all the things I'm avoiding and scared of, so I know exactly where to start.

@deliveryboy1978 7 ай бұрын

These guys operate on a whole different level when they are together. Need more.

@jeury-tavares 7 ай бұрын

1000%

@shravanmohan3644 7 ай бұрын

facts . both of them are locked in .

@kimonosandfingertape 6 ай бұрын

Its feels like a change in ones own brainwaves 1 min after they started talking.

@laurastrandberg4393 3 ай бұрын

Yes.

@janellebales4022 3 ай бұрын

absolutely :)

@Suiterags 6 ай бұрын

I think the quote Steven was referring to at 28:28 is “If you want to learn something, read about it. If you want to understand something, write about it. If you want to master something, teach it.”

@TarekAliFazle 7 ай бұрын

The road to sustained failure is the inability to fulfill commitments to yourself. Brilliant.

@user-dr3zo3cp2j 5 ай бұрын

Steven is one of the smartest people on KZfaq and his interviews are mind-blowing. Whoever he's interviewing seems to be on the same intellectual level and he's interviewing the elite of mankind.

@ionicoach 7 ай бұрын

17:35 if you're struggling with low self confidence, low self esteem, feel stuck or that you're going nowhere , THIS part is a must listen. It's about making and keeping your own commitments to yourself. Incredible episode, absolutely love both of you ❤️

@rithiksingh7490 7 ай бұрын

Love you too

@michaellaforte6964 2 ай бұрын

These guys are wise beyond their years. It’s taken me three decades of adulthood to piece together just fractions of all these insights. Young people today don’t appreciate the ease of access to this wealth of insight

@520cuban 4 ай бұрын

What's really refreshing is to hear two young men being honest and transparent about the dichotomy of success and suffering.

@dominiquemuller8410 7 ай бұрын

Steven is such a great listener - that could be the reason that he is so insightful and fastly grasps the meaning of a topic. Loved to see him get interviewed. Even more impressive that he is one of the podcasters that will give his guests the space, holds it and only adds to the person he is interviewing without interrupting or trying to hard to lead the way of the conversation.

@laurastrandberg4393 3 ай бұрын

Also added few questions in return. Totally enjoyable!

@karenlibretto4195 3 ай бұрын

I wish I could be so patient for an answer 🙌🙌 Steven is just what we need to listen to!! Awesome

@karenlibretto4195 3 ай бұрын

He still wants to learn 😍amazing attitude Marvellous topics & so inspiring

@GiornoJovani 7 ай бұрын

0:07: 🔑 The frame and context of a story or product is more important than the actual content. 10:15: 💡 To change our beliefs, we need to expose ourselves to new evidence and experiences that counteract our existing beliefs. 19:23: ✨ Keeping small commitments to ourselves can lead to positive changes in our lives. 39:13: 💡 The speaker discusses the concept of discipline and the factors that contribute to it. 48:38: 💡 Motivation can be driven by insecurities and the desire to outdo others. 58:54: 💔 Loneliness is a tax we pay for the complexity of our minds, and it stems from feeling different and not feeling enough. 1:08:25: 📈 The psychological impact of small gains on a team's sense of progress is crucial in business. 1:18:08: 🤔 The speaker discusses the strange behaviors people engage in when procrastinating. 1:28:02: 💡 The importance of focusing on what you can control and building a strong support network. 1:37:55: 💪 Beliefs and self-imposed limitations can hinder our potential. 1:48:13: 🤔 Feeling like an outsider in a group because of not fully aligning with their ideology. 1:58:58: 😔 The documentary discusses the pressure and anxiety that comes with fame and how it changes the way people treat you. Recap by Tammy AI

@TestAutomationTV 7 ай бұрын

stacking evidence is so important.

@myaowl55 7 ай бұрын

I now only need to spend minutes understanding the content of this video. You're a time-saver Tammy AI!

@ginakim5032 7 ай бұрын

Thank you for the summary

@mikeskinner0411 7 ай бұрын

“Game recognizes game.” Dude, excellent way to wrap that up. Love you both, keep it up

@RexWu 7 ай бұрын

This was a 12/10 level conversation

@williameberle4250 5 ай бұрын

Bartlett is right about us being ruled by our beliefs, but dead wrong about our being unable to change our beliefs. After decades of conscious, intentional struggle, one thought at a time, I can honestly say that the contents of my mind are completely different from what they were when I started, to the extent that the 25 year old version of myself would not be able to in any way believe that he would grow into the person I am today, and would have absolutely no grid for understanding my motivations. Not only that, but I'm able to drop my entire thought and feeling process at will, and simply be with what is. So, don't believe that you can't change your beliefs. BTW, The hardest part by far is choosing what to believe.

@plantpoweredpagan 3 ай бұрын

Your conscious intentional struggle presented you with new evidence about yourself which is what Steven was actually talking about. He never said that it's impossible to change beliefs. Interesting how we can hear the same thing differently...:) Your journey sounds amazing and expansive.... more power to you ❤

@helgahansen2242 5 ай бұрын

What a priviledge to be listening to this conversation. It’s like listening to a dance. Impossible yet it exists.

@richardmarknagy9225 7 ай бұрын

56:30 The Lonely Chapter. I listened to this bit twice because it is exactly what I am going through right now and it was such a relief to hear that this is something normal and something a lot of others go through when they decide that they need to break out of their comfort zone. Thank you Chris, invaluable episode!

@ameliaberry285 7 ай бұрын

Aka the dark night of the soul… interesting to think some high achievers never leave it….

@vibrationoftheone 3 ай бұрын

I agree with this I’m currently expanding into looking for new friends as I just graduated from school and there’s an unsaid thing about wanting to leaving and knowing well I’ve always had a loneliness chapter

@cultivateyourself 2 ай бұрын

I went through this in 2008. Followed by a dark night of the soul. It is a threshold. If you don't back out and survive it, you will really have something.

@veryfinance Ай бұрын

I'm going through this right now. Super focused on crypto and building my portfolio. None of my friends are into it but they're happy with their 9 to 5 lifes, but Im trying to get out of it.

@gratiaDei777 7 ай бұрын

Bartlett is great both as interviewer AND interviewee!

@breatheandthinkbetter Ай бұрын

when you're talking about production quality and then it cut to the wide view of you guys sitting so close to eachother it made me smile. Wasn't expecting it. Love you guys thank you for what you're doing

@rosamirandazegarra 7 ай бұрын

WOW two of my favorite podcasters together. This conversation was amazing, one of the best I’ve ever heard.

@mitchkim6763 2 ай бұрын

I’m time stamping the story of Chris Eubanks Jr at 23:00 because it’s so powerful. I have a habit of starting off strong, but have a tendency to slow down towards the end. I need to get better and I will. Thanks for this bit.

@forsaken_bacon 4 ай бұрын

There’s so much complex valuable information in these podcasts I have to watch them like 5 times before I feel like I’m doing them justice.

@bc3174 7 ай бұрын

Subscribed 6 months ago. The worst part of my day is driving to work. This has become my favourite part of the day. Love listening to Chris and his guests.

@InspiredEvolution 7 ай бұрын

2 of my FAVOURITE PODCASTERS in the ONE EPISODE 🔥🔥 LES GOH !

@geneveivanka6582 5 ай бұрын

This feels like watching a really pro tennis match. You both return the ball so swiftly, intensely, deep & sharp. I stop to check if it’s in normal speed or I accidentally roll it in 1.25 speed. As this is so so good. LOL. Originally listen to this before bed to sleep but it wakes me up instead. MORE PLEASE!

@cara.leo_ 7 ай бұрын

So much GOLD from this conversation. I took so much notes and gave me new ideas on the bigger picture of my life and what steps to take next. Especially about the part about driven by principle and curiosity, loneliness - the real stuff! These guys know what they’re talking about and have been through it all.

@GermanwithGerry 7 ай бұрын

I agree, this talk was bloody excellent! Would you be willing to share your notes 🙏

@thewillsfamilyaccount6486 7 ай бұрын

There is some magic made with these two guys being together! Nicely done!

@ninaratiu 7 ай бұрын

Two people whom influenced my life like no-one did! Thank you!

@carolspencer6915 7 ай бұрын

Good evening Chris and Steven No words without sounding like a Granny and a Mum. In this wee moment. Just to say, my wonderful young adult kids should be paying attention to both your work, more than their Mum. I do continue to recommend though! But admittedly I have gained so much from your shared work and associated guests you converse with, whom share their experience and knowledge. Has been a lot of everything nearly, I have required over passing couple of years. Tough times! So wow, loving this. Grateful. Truly. 💜

@BrownestKoala 4 ай бұрын

As a 66 year old bloke who, by my own admission, hasn't done a lot of value in my life that I can be proud of, I find this interview in particular, but Chris's interviews and content generally to be a wonderful source of support. Self respect hit home here and the commitment to myself which I have been a spectacular failure at. I still don't understand how I've managed to be where I am as one of the more fortunate people in the world at the moment with mostly first world problems that I do my best to keep to myself. Thanks for providing such valuable information for the rest of us to draw inspiration from. Still many more years left to learn for me.

@ABCPilot23 7 ай бұрын

This episode was so content dense with the back and fourth conversations being so eloquently put that I had to keep rewinding to just grasp a concept that seemed to be delivered so effortlessly. I absolutely love watching two people who are genuinely passionate about the pursuit of knowledge discuss ideas and concepts in such a professional manner, but what else can you expect from two of the best podcasters out there! Much love from South Africa mate! ♥️💪🇿🇦

@katefagan633 4 ай бұрын

How many people immediately went and looked at the 4k in the title of this video 😂

@nkosanandebele7517 Ай бұрын

😂

@thecristinaovalle Ай бұрын

🙋🏻‍♀️🤓

@verykerrietv1027 Ай бұрын

Ahahahaa me!!

@franku3510 7 ай бұрын

29:50 The magic you are looking for is the work you're avoiding

@mattrebell 7 ай бұрын

This chat was great gents. Two great orators of todays podcast world simply chatting and letting us in the room 🙏🏼

@ObscureOcelot17 7 ай бұрын

Shoutout to Chris for highlighting Steven’s traps with lighting 💪🏽

@omarabuiqab 7 ай бұрын

39:26 this is electric. Also, you both like Fred again and see his greatness. Two very intelligent and inspiring individuals. Thank you for sharing.

@allkinds1069 7 ай бұрын

I hardly ever leave comments these days, but wanted to say how great this episode was, natural and truly insightful conversation. If this was the only one, I'd be content. Another one would be a privilege 🙏🏽

@upper9052 7 ай бұрын

I’ve bought both of Steven’s books and I can listen to this man talk for hours. So much knowledge and a simple way to convey it 😊

@user-hp6md8zl9t 27 күн бұрын

Lol best buy self Stevens books very inspirational man intriguing

@CristinaMacArthur 3 ай бұрын

I don’t know the last time I felt the way I feel right now after listening to these two. The insights given in this interview are - without exaggeration - life-changing. Thank you Chris & Steven. Wow. Replaying this again. Please reunite in the future. Much continued success to both, keep leading by example.

@pieknysmard 7 ай бұрын

If this episode was 34hrs long I'd get hospitalised in 2 days.

@28gold28 7 ай бұрын

I think this is your best podcast episode yet chris. Feels like two friends on a hike chatting.... 10/10

@believeinmagic18 4 ай бұрын

This discussion was amazing!!! None of my friends are entrepreneurs and don’t understand what you go through. I felt so included in the conversation. I’ve been a Stephen subscriber for the past year, and now I am subscribed to Chris 🎉🎉

@TheRealChristian25 7 ай бұрын

Man what a episode! 🤯 been waiting and wanting another pod with Steven as a guest and especially on the modern wisdom podcast! You two have climbed to the top 2 spots in my favorite list of podcasts to listen to and it will be because of you 2 guys that I start my own podcast with the goal of eventually turning into a full time position, and one day willingly and hopefully meet you both and manifesting you both as a guest on my podcast!

@BarKeegan 7 ай бұрын

I want to see these podcasts go on for the next 10 years, it’s the ultimate interview/ knowledge dispersal format

@apath2happiness 7 ай бұрын

Both of these guys have saved so many lives. Absolutely amazing gentlemen.

@user-nz4ux4cw2z 7 ай бұрын

Whose life have they saved, real question. What do you mean?

@hiiiroobee 3 ай бұрын

Steven's comment of how he chooses his tight circle for feedback is soooooooo resonating. Love that answer.

@bocaj1272 7 ай бұрын

Twenty minutes in an I am already touched deeply. I need to keep my word to myself and have that compound. Thank you Chris! Your podcast will always keep me engaged and learning.

@OLIAMOROW 6 ай бұрын

Good luck. I hope we can all avoid the hyper individualisation but not ignore all the good wisdom.

@rhysthomas623 24 күн бұрын

Read a lot of books. Watched a lot of KZfaq videos... This was like watching a decade long highlights reel of the champions League... Incredible value. This episode really is up there with the best stuff I've ever watched. Well done and thank you.

@sherry2478 7 ай бұрын

Chris never listened to one of your podcast before but listens to Steven’s - you two together are dynamic so interesting it felt like you were having a conversation in your living room about what each of you have learned and we were just there in the background catching pieces of wisdom from two masters.

@sharonrose3871 3 ай бұрын

Is a bit special - so much wisdom.

@SheidaRad 6 ай бұрын

Brilliant brilliant chat. Thank you both for bringing so much knowledge and inspiration, and especially for showing us also your vulnerabile side, which gives hope to many of us grinding to get there. ❤️

@ajsimms3683 5 ай бұрын

Wisdom is a by-product of experience and what we choose to learn from it.

@TACrawford 7 ай бұрын

34:32 I have thought about this so often and I really think it is both. A lot of wisdom comes with age for sure but some comes from our own deliberate searching. I feel like a lot is yet to be seen though... we are in a new era where wisdom like this is so wide spread and more accessible to younger people than it would have ever been before. In the past I don't think elders shared their wisdom with younger generations so much, they just lived it and expected the youth to figure a lot out on their own. In some cases it was even taboo to talk on certain topics (eg Puberty/PMS/Consummation/Mental health/Abuse/PTSD etc)

@mariannedeering5954 3 ай бұрын

This 65 year old artist wishes she heard this conversation 30 years ago... This is brilliant. I veered off course!

@wisdommindset8873 7 ай бұрын

I just bought your book today Steven The Diary of the CEO it's an absolute Gem I follow everything you do I've learned so much my mindset is amazing... Thank you brother

@MzCR73 4 ай бұрын

Two of my favorite people. ❤❤❤

@Watsondrolone 7 ай бұрын

One of the best podcasts for self improvement out there, so much value between these two modern gems. Thank you for blessing us all with your wisdom! 🙏

@chrisklugh 7 ай бұрын

great episode! Nice to hear and see Steven as a guest for a change. Think of all the things hes heard. Imagine the wisdom he hold now, and will gain in decades from now. Hes on track to being more famous then he could imagine.

@NotHereToBeAverageYT 7 ай бұрын

Keeping promises to yourself and owning up to your mistakes (even publicly).

@Bizzy_Bijou Ай бұрын

The combined knowledge both the speakers shared is beyond measure and should be in a book. Thanks for the great collaboration!

@princeizrael9554 7 ай бұрын

I love the mutual respect between the two of them. Given they both invited each other on their shows.

@justin_d77 7 ай бұрын

It’s back

@HuFilms 3 ай бұрын

As a somewhat 'professional' videographer, I love what Chris has done here with the setup. I'd love to work with a guy like this.

@twinkletoes7095 7 ай бұрын

Awesome chat gentlemen. My 2 favorite pholisophers conversating. Golden wisdom. Driven or dragged. Carrot or stick. Inspired or motivated. Positive or negative stimuli. Love or fear.

@donnakona1347 7 ай бұрын

Many years ago, I had a Christian therapist tell me GOD is not time. The therapist took me back to a time as a small child where I felt alone, scared and felt no comfort. He had me imagine GOD was there and he held me, felt safe and comforted. It changed my thinking instantly. The visualization of GOD and me DID IT!

@Venusbabe66 4 ай бұрын

Congratulations! You discovered the effects of the placebo effect. Men created the idea of God because they knew how effective it is to control people's brains.

@scottydoesntknow6901 7 ай бұрын

Does anyone else feel like they never had a giant motivation on why they took their life path? No feelings of proving anyone wrong or themselves right? Anyone else just wake up and do the best they can?

@gavinreadman 7 ай бұрын

You’ve already achieved goals that you said would make you happy Damn, truth

@korban007 7 ай бұрын

This the fastest seen Steven B. Go on a rant. But then again he is the one being interviewed this time. Has allot to contribute for sure!

@SURYAAkr1998 7 ай бұрын

Steven is talking too fast lol

@korban007 7 ай бұрын

Had no idea he had that agility in talking about something. Normally he reserved very strategic in questions asked. He had to be on his feet for Chris.

@nathyncostello7514 7 ай бұрын

I love listening to both of you individually, together is magic. With regards to commitments that you keep with yourself, Steven Covey junior’s book “the speed of trust” talks about the first layer of building trust and keeping promises to yourself. That’s my favorite book - thanks again gents for a episode!!

@QuintinAndSasha 7 ай бұрын

I love that book

@GlareBoxTV 6 ай бұрын

Steven Covey also talks about integrity (keeping commitments) in The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People.

@starclone4 6 күн бұрын

Thank you Chris and Steven.... You guys have given me something new to think about, and work on !!!! 👍🏻

@markwalton3367 5 ай бұрын

Despite a podcaster interviewing another podcaster appearing a little suspect, this podcast does contain a lot of useful wisdom. It presents these two podcasters in a much better light than I normally see them. They are likeable guys but I would like them more if they were scientifically literate and did not put Joe Rogan on a pedestal. The only times they make science references are when they are doing paid advertisements for "health" supplements.

@mp9810 7 ай бұрын

I've just watched 3 episodes back to back. You're killing it.

@charlesgreer388 2 ай бұрын

My jaw was dropped this whole podcast. And I'm only halfway

@-DailyInspiration 6 ай бұрын

to everyone who is watching this video. May your life be filled with boundless abundance and prosperity! May opportunities flow your way, and success be your constant companion. Here's to a future brimming with wealth and joy. Keep believing in your dreams and working towards them. You've got this! 💗

@brys.3131 7 ай бұрын

Hey just wanted to say thank you so much for this. I've been really struggling this year as have many I'm sure. Background of childhood abuse/neglect etc. Recent major depressive episode and a lack of self confidence that has been with me my whole life. Anyway although I've always been into exercise and eating well and positivity, etc. this year something changed and I took the short slide right down into the happy ball pit of hell. Suicide attempt, lost my job, the whole nine yards. But today... I got up early and went for a long walk (haven't gone for one in ages), planned my day out, took care of business and adhered to today's goals. I feel so much better. I feel like maybe I can do this. As a small reward to myself after dinner, I had some carrot cake lol (one of the best things to exist!), but only ate half instead of the whole thing like I usually do. I'm a huge pot smoker, but have decided to only smoke on the weekend instead of every damn night lol. My sleep last night was much better and I feel more energy already. Thanks for this encouraging video guys! I feel like I can do this. WE can do this! Don't give up! Everyone deserves to give themselves another chance. Cheers!

@hm2011100 7 ай бұрын

I’m going through something similar - a life crisis involving losing my beloved home & workplace & life as I knew & loved it. I know how much it takes to break the pattern of self-sabotaging behaviour & am inspired by your productive day. Keep going, life IS worth living though we sometimes can’t see it. And know that you are not alone. I am walking your painful path too as we speak ❤️🙏🏻

@stvbrsn 7 ай бұрын

Sounds like you’re learning (teaching yourself, to be more precise) how to be your own best cheerleader instead of your own worst critic!

@chanson8508 7 ай бұрын

Best of luck to you 🙌🏾

@joannedibben2352 6 ай бұрын

Hey there I hope your doing better give yourself many chances if you stumble get up and give yourself a chance again and again long walking episodes I've found are great for clearing your mind and upping your energy levels a day at a time wishing you every happiness❤

@pedropabon4714 7 ай бұрын

One of the highest quality interviews I’ve watched. It was an insightful back and forth! Thank you for the deliverables and takeaways with a lot of the topics gentlemen

@ventsislavamancheva8562 5 ай бұрын

By far, the best and in the flow conversation I have listened to in quite some time. So many gems in it, so many truths, so much wisdom. Thank you Chris and Steven for being authentic, curious and willing to share your process and internal progress with us ❤ having a face to face conversation with both of you goes into my bucket list 😊

@Dontletthemdullyoursparkle 5 ай бұрын

Omg exactly I wish we could get rid of the way people are stifled and kept in their box for fear of the negative reaction from jealous people. I'm so scared to lose my natural instincts. Thanks for raising this

@maletenance 6 ай бұрын

You both are so impressive and the ease with which you delivered and bounced off of each other, during the video was so complimentary and engaging. So much of what you spoke about confirmed what I am feeling, going through, and doing, and more importantly I learned so much about myself. I need more of these illuminating conversations. It's absolutely invaluable. Kudos to you both and your teams who put it all together.

@andrewhind2152 7 ай бұрын

Best podcast I’ve listened to, been a real eye opener for me. So many lessons and ways that I can improve that I’ve been able to take from this. Thank you.

@JdotSewell42 2 ай бұрын

What an incredible conversation. My biggest takeaway from this conversation is: accountability. Especially for yourself. Kudos! 🎯💯🔥

@theartistjodievans 7 ай бұрын

I LOVE Steven’s show. I found the short vid and had to subscribe and come here to watch the full length. Now I am a fan of both of you. Thank you! 🙂

@RachelleEnergy 7 ай бұрын

Listening to my two favorite men on the internet🥰 Love this! I need to find friends like them.

@jamiebeaumont4489 7 ай бұрын

My favourite podcast episode of 2023 👏👏👏

@nickyholiday86 7 ай бұрын

You can’t choose your beliefs, until you realize that you can influence them.. she wasn’t using hypnosis alone, but regression therapy based on attachment and psychodynamic theory.. other than that fine point, love this talk!!

@lesleybrady3948 7 ай бұрын

Commitment to self helps me a lot! I’m a HIGHLY warm person.. I’m amazing at doing things for everyone else, my friends, family (with boundaries) and they would do the same for me.. however when it comes to doing for myself… BLANK! .. I wake up everyday and say how can can I show up with COMPETENCE for myself when no one’s watching today! It helps a lot!! Xx

@alisonforrester4612 3 ай бұрын

Ive listen to this more than once and will continue. It inspires me in so many ways to change, to be better, to understand how to move forward in a more productive way. It’s the best podcast I’ve listened to.

@walburgaefuetawung7828 7 ай бұрын

Steven, life is meant to be lived. Just live.

@tizamhango1114 9 күн бұрын

Thank you so much for this conversation. It's really been enriching.

@heidimartin859 5 ай бұрын

Thank you! It drives me bonkers when people talk about the beliefs that I choose when what I believe is completely out of my control!

@jackiemccann4853 3 ай бұрын

So many gems of wisdom- found this podcast addictive listened to it everywhere I went this afternoon - just couldn’t put it down till it finished! Brilliant observations, insights, advice etc etc etc! Love the honesty and integrity of the whole thing 👍

@Clip7heApex 7 ай бұрын

Fantastic. Both of you have wisdom beyond your years.

@Joseph-fw3kh 7 ай бұрын

Hey @chriswillx , constructive advice here! you have a really good podcast with really good guests, I do like listening to your podcast a lot but I feel like you could let them expand on their points a bit more, maybe ask a few exploring questions to them and then talk about your point as I feel now you always let them state a point or story then come back with yours and I’d really love to hear more about the guests on your show too because they are only there for one hour, top quality podcasts and I tell all my friends to listen to you!

@judithdevries 7 ай бұрын

I've been mostly watching the podcasts of these guys lately .. so this can't be anything else than amazing... Gotta sleep right now, but looking forward seeing it tomorrow 🎉😊

@ricocutz 7 ай бұрын

The 2 greatest interviewers on KZfaq. What a collab.

@petebarber6778 3 ай бұрын

Sensational to have two open and brilliant minds spend time together.....for us! Thankyou.

@sharonsteedly1950 6 ай бұрын

Thank you! This has brought me an understanding as to why I am so different, and the clarity to work toward coping with the somewhat permanent "lonely chapter."

@Venusbabe66 4 ай бұрын

Same! 👍 As a 57 year old single, divorced, child-free woman, who's a carer for my elderly parents, I can't see my solitude status changing.