Totally agree. For me, that's how it would have to be.

Very True!

Amen. If a man is married he happy or he would get a DIVORCE.

Cindy Thank you for your comment . I agree with you and this is the way it should be !

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agreed

Men can always have sex with women without emotional connection.

Yep

Some guys really cheat simply because the chase gives them a rush and they like that

100% true👍

so true, women need to realize that it is the man that wins in the situation. he got to have 2 women his wife and girlfriend. The 2 women get hurt.

my dear let me introduce you to my doctor am sure he can help you out

I agree Crystal !

@@gavinjames6025 Sorry for you that you seem very unhappy. Maybe you need to talk to your Doctor. Stop judging those that you dont agree with. Have a nice life or get a life

@@ginnygoingfishingwatson6128 If there still with their wives...there happy. If they weren't they get a DIVORCE. 😉

@@CrystalDatingCoach they all cant be happy with their wives maybe it was never meant to be and they had problems from the start u see me and my old bf met when I was 23 he was30 so there is a great history there

😂😂😂 if they are separated for quite a few years likee me and my estranged husband thats whole different subject

Been there done that! A married man never leaves his wife no matter how toxic the marriage is.

What if the advances are unwanted and you want to make sure, before reporting a guy to HR. Why is everyone automatically assuming that the only reason women watch this video is to be with a married man, get a grip people 👍🏻

EXACTLY!!!! You're so on point here!!! Thank you for this!!

@@brandyheartqueen9326 not true, maybe not for you, but there are a lot men that did it and I witnessed it 🤷‍♀️

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Yes this happened to prince Charles. Forced to marry a woman much younger he didn't love. So many here don't understand natural human emotion. Some cheat because they not in love and met someone else. Everyone is different.

@@anony7170 This is true. When Prince Charles was a single young man, he was in love with Camila but she was already married at the time. At some later point in his marriage to Lady Di, Di found out about his love for Camila and they eventually got divorced. Then Lady Di dies, Camila got divorced and then she and Prince Charles were both finally free to marry and they did.

@@firegal2k the difference in his face on both wedding days says it all. He looks miserable on the day with Di, he's beaming with delight on the second wedding day.

@@anony7170 Yes, that’s true for an average citizen but isn’t British royalty trained to always look so straight-faced? So that’s what I thought it was with Di. I didn’t see his marriage to Camilla though. I’ll have to try and find video on that and check out his facial expression. Thanks!

Exactly!! If he's Married he's interested in his WIFE.

Agreed! Who wants someone’s trash?

Right!

😴😴😴😴😴 stories that touch

@@CrystalDatingCoach Not true in every case . Depends on how much his wife treats him I know this for a fact from. family

If they cheat with you, they'll cheat on you; it's that simple........just give it time!

@@pattiharvey2721 yes! In my opinion it takes Prayer and getting to know Jesus, there will always be temptation, and lust is never satisfied.

true

How about this... Married cheats with you. You date others and stop because He Still Is Married.. This continues On and Off as You Brake Off Relationship's. But He has a GF as You don't and He still calling You. 🙄 So You Go.. Single so why not?.. Then, It's 10- 11 years later he is divorced. Had GF's, and Tries calling you after not talking for 2-3 years. And in Single As Well As He. And He wants a Actual Relationship with You. Stepping Up, And Respectfully.

True

Marriage is not easy people make .mistakes and if they were sincere about their vows they wood try to stay married to grow closer and raise their children together and celebrate anniversaries.

People have made mistakes both partners or just one. It s up to them to decide if they want to try to stay married or leave .I had a very lonely life with just raising a family my spouse worked alot to keep the Bill's paid they re were no trips or cruises we cared for are family and I was always sick due to lung problems. I ll always miss my husband and the time we had and the family misses him.

Well Said!

Your very right but many times that other person is not willing to talk or go for counselling or do what is necessary to fix what is very obviously failing and falling apart in the marriage. A d not matter what the spouse is doing to try and put things back in perspective it is not working. The other partner decides to cut off the love life. There by rendering the spouse working actively to put things back together off.. now the obstacles are truly getting harder to work through. Even though the husband swears nothings going on the wife still has doubts. How could things go from normal love life to nothing? She had to have a Hysterectomy due to obvious issues Female issues and yes she tried everything possible up to and including female hormone therapy however when it gets to the point the husband wants her on that but, at the same time refers to her as the insane female bitch when’s she’s on these bc her mood swings are so bad and her PMS is already out of hand also due to age partially and menstraul issues

You have no other alternative. Drs have offered more Meds but have told the wife it will get worse. So the next choice is surgery to do the Hysterectomy… yes it’s time. He’s mad your doing it but she’s about to turn 40! Enough.. and then 3 yrs later she ends up w stage 3 Breast Ca so it’s a good thing she had the Hysterectomy or that would have spread to that anatomy too! And she would have died from that it was found out in pathology! He’s still angry about that! So no matter what happened it’s never made right and 18yrs later still no love life.. so you can understand why affairs happen from both stand points! That’s all that this person is saying!!! It’s not that you are looking to start something but you meet someone and a friendship happens and it blooms into more then what you expected it to be.. and a lot of times that truly turns into love. And sometimes the deepest love of your life. It wasn’t what you ever intended but just happens. In this persons opinion that’s not a bad thing and if the children are grown and married what does it matter? They move on and so does everyone else. That’s what life is about anymore. You can’t force someone to be happy if they are not. I’ve seen this too many times as a military wife!

For 6 months I dealt with this this man came out of no where and he looked at me with intense desire. I just chilled out when I saw him I wasn't a ***** I made it calm. I don't live with him so I not judging him. His wife may be a nuts case . 🙄😬

Well said and spot on!

How many wives does he have at the same time?

you said my thoughts already

Yes, Amen

@@margretwangari2066 I meant my thoughts exactly, hahaha. You caught me off guard. I thank you for taking the time out and comment. Nice to meet you! ☺

True that!!!

Need not be, you may not like biryani from a restaurant but does not mean u never like biryani s

@@ecnirp2ful that's right,he is out on tasting biriyanis, not love and getting married...he will never do that coz he is a cheater.

@@Indrani_Mukherjee19 why do u think like that, I dont want to name the product brand names. I became loyal to some brand products. I did not opt for new one again

@@Indrani_Mukherjee19 actually i am liking my office colleague though i was married. wife is creating lot of tensions at home, the colleague creates pleasure atmosphere. u should see what works for u. life is short enjoy and move on life. if my colleague allows i want to sleep with her. i dont know how to approach without breaking friendship. anyhow there are ways to get rid of pregnancy if she does not want like abortion etc. its mutual cooperation required.

Thank you I seen this and was like wtf

Thank you..that is also one reason we shouldn't just curse out the female he is cheating with or quick to call her names..he knows he's married and sometimes we don't know what he's telling the female

Asking about your life...saying nothing about theirs.

That'll lead you into some unnecessary drama. I don't even understand, why a woman/girl would wanna put themselves through that...!! It's simply dumb for them to do that..!!

Simply not true in all cases.

@@CatT1987 what about if it was a first true love that reconnected after so many years

@@kimberleypuddicombe6168 I think you misunderstand Kimberley. I was disagreeing with the person who started this thread (Heidi) when they said getting involved with a married man can only lead to heartache and if he cheats on his wife he will cheat on you. Cuz that's not always true. That's what I was trying to say and yes you're right what if it's an old flame who came back I understand.

@@CatT1987 I fully understand about what u were saying

A very good comment!!Love that❤❤

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Agreed! Cause she's involved with a married man. He's trembling and shaking cause he might get caught.

EXACTLY!

I think just in case you hear one day that cute hunk is married to someone else??

Maybe because you love a married man

Well u r here too😂😂😂🤔🤔🤔🤔

Exactly ah ah.i would keep away from married ma

A lot of married man are acting the way showed in the video and it makes you 🤔 and you there like am I being crazy or does this idiot think that I would go for a married man lol thanks to this video I know I’m not crazy and he indeed was hitting up on me, intuition never fails me, bless his wife, hopefully she will dump his ass and find someone who will love her

I came here for red flags… I am not great at figuring out when someone has a crush on me until it’s too late. Now to figure out how to draw boundaries without hurting people or looking conceited…

PERIOD-

🤔 No One belongs to anyone. Also, feelings change.

@@user-oc6mr1jr6s not a matter of "owning" or "feelings"; it's a matter of RESPECT, for one's self and another fellow. human.

What i am trying to say is marriage isn't for life for everyone. Divorce isn't terrible. Can't understand why People in theese modern Times Still seem to belive so.

@@user-oc6mr1jr6s amen

I ain't a friend of nobody's husband, but the couple.

so true. I randomly watched this video and got curious 😂

Some men won't some don't mind..everybody is different..everybody thinks differently..there are men out there who leave their wives for their lovers..I don't believe in divorce but marriages ends for various reasons..sometimes the person you marry turns out to be somebody totally different from what you thought..that is why people should not rush into marriage..but even so sometimes it's not until after marriage you see the person true color...that's just my view base on what I observed.

And don't think all men take their lovers for toy..sometimes they end up loving them more than their partner..as much as we would want to deny this..it's the plain truth.

Nop I dont think so she choose someone Els cz her wife stressing him...most of Husband are not happy in their marriage cz once u get married u tell ur mind that u are married now....and u start forget what atrect the man to u....that's the reasone man start going owt

Wrong! my friend was married with a child and her husband left her, and divorced her for somebody else! Then he married with the new lady after 7 years he also divorced the new one 😂🤣🤣 but that can happen in any relationship

Have too met his wife? Would you like to? I think your playing with fire.

You can always have feelings for someone, even if they are in a relationship. Human emotions, my dear. But you ONLY admire them from afar. Don't take the chance of giving them a chance while they're with someone.

Heya I'm in similar situation love a married guy cos of his character. I have been travelling for many years with him and yes at times I feel he is my crush but I keep reminding myself he is married man and in no way would I be the cause of his breakup in his marriage. It's tough feeling but I feel now in this new year I will stop travelling with him and keep my distance from me

Bravo🎉🎉🎉

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Good Women LET Men hurt them. Stop collecting Red Flags!

Did you know about his wife at the beginning? I have a married man chasing me and wondering if this could be an arrangement that he and his wife have. Just because he appears to want to take so many risks with me, even find ways to invite me around like fix my car in his workshop at the house, things like that. I don't go

Iam attracted to him but very aware that I do not need to get involved either, I deserve a good clean slate to start from

He's a GOOD MAN? He got a Woman Pregnant...you act like she did all by herself. SHE got pregnant! Instead of trying to work it out...he's crying to you. He's wasting Two Women's life. Yours and his Wife!

@@CrystalDatingCoach 🙄 I can see that reading is clearly not fundamental with you. You missed EVERYTHING I stated, but it's ok. The 3 likes read it carefully, and know where I'm coming from. 🤦🏾‍♀️

@@CrystalDatingCoach Let me elaborate a little more so you can understand without jumping the gun, and seeing the parts you only want to see. Ready? Here goes: I was friends with this man long before he got married. Why he never let me know in the beginning how he felt for me, I don't know. But I wish he would've let it be known before he got married. We now live in different places. Despite his marriage, WE ARE STILL FRIENDS AND ALWAYS WILL BE! I harbor no ill feelings toward him. He dated his wife only a short time. Therefore, they did things too soon without really getting to know each other. I even asked him this myself. He is a GOOD MAN to think of doing the right thing by marrying her, because any other man would've bailed out once those words came about. And FYI, he does try to work things out with his wife when things go awry. There's nothing wrong with reaching out to someone who needs an ear to listen. So he is NOT wasting my time! I'm single and I've been abstinent for 8 years. I don't want anyone's husband but my own, if God sees fit to send a good one my way. And I do hope that he can work on his marriage, because they have a child who needs them both. People can't help what they feel and when they feel it, dear. You are not much of a dating coach if the only way you think is negatively

@@marchbabi323 Are you friends also with the wife? Does she know about you? If the answer is yes. Ok. If not. Why? If you have just a friendship...why hide it from his wife. Would you like your husband to be friends with woman you don't know?

@@marchbabi323 If you are happy...that's all that matters. Just don't lie...to yourself.

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Exactly

You got it.

Exactly

That could be one reason. However, not always. Probably not usually. These kind of men have an illness- it's sexual addiction, porn addiction and are womanizing. It's all misery. Finding another before the first one is gone is very harmful to everyone involved. Blaming the victims is not valid.

@@wcgreenefineart what about if it was about an old couple that always thought the world over each other but reunited

He's a Professional liar. Every time he's with you... He's lying to her.

Won't be a good excuse of having a hard time to divorce. If he knows he will be attracted, he mind as well divorce his wife now. No excuses in staying in that marriage just to cheat. If a man cheats, he will have a lot more hard time dealing with his wife. Once the divorce is finalized, it is no longer a wife's job to fix him.

Yes!! When I met him, he told me that he was married. I immediately felt a pain in my heart! I would never date a married man.... But as friends, we found that we both had something in common. The people that we were involved with are narcissist. I had someone stalking me for 4 years and his wife was so horrible to him that we began to understand each other on a different level. Still.... I respected him because of his responsibility towards his wife and his desire to care for her. But in the last few weeks, after constant abuse from his wife... This brought us together in a beautiful way. I believe he is my soulmate and I want to be with him forever ❤️

I am in a realationship with a married man . We started out as friends . We are in love and have found our soulmate in each other. Many people do not find their soulmate when you do there is no way to fight this! His marriage had fallen apart for several years before we met. His divorce will be final in March of 2021 True love for some never happens. We are truly in love and very happy. Think before you judge us .This happens many times i am sure !☺❤👄

@@ginnygoingfishingwatson6128 I do understand 💗

@@cherylthompson2731 My love had the same problem with his wife treating him like less of a man no respect for him. I want to thank her for throwing him away and giving him to me we are soulmates .I have a bit of a problem I am 15yrs older than he is .He doesn't have a problem with age. Love is more important to him something he has not had for many yrs We will be together in April of 2021 I can't hardly wait to start our life's together. I want to bring him happiness and be with him forever . Good Luck Cheryl

@@ginnygoingfishingwatson6128 May God bless you and him for many years. My story is identical to yours. He's what I waited for all these years. Don't let age bother you. I'm 57 and just now found my true love. Oh! The irony 💗 Be happy! Ct

He will surely leave you for someone else but I wouldn't curse the female..I would curse the man because he knows he is a married man and besides sometimes we don't know what he is telling the female..so...

Sometimes we are so quick to curse out a female and we don't know what she was told.

@@candycandy2110 do you not know what this title is ? Ok ? No both are to blame if she know he is married and he is in love with her knowing he's married, and if the man lies and doesn't tell her and she don't she is dating a married man, yes all the blame goes to him, but women do make it a fantasy to steal someomes marriage too, just like this video, I am judging no one, the video speaks for itself, the woman speaks for herself, God is the Judge and see's this video and says turn away from this sin. This is wrong if you think this I judging then you are wrong to even put all the blame on the guy, from this video the woman knows what she is doing, wants what is not hers, the video speaks for itself, if a married man is in love with me, I would be like bitch wtf you doing ? You're married and your punk ass coming over to me ? I would cuss his ass out, then I would say if I would tell his wife, cause if he do that to me, how many women is he doing that to ? I wouldn't want to be desprate for a man that I would take someone elses man.

@@candycandy2110 no the video speaks for herself. That is a bitch man stealing bitch she should tell him to back off and go home to his wife and kids before she goes to his wife and tells her she, what is doing, and you need Dr Phil for even giving me these comments.

I get what you are saying clearly..I meant no harm and I weren't judging anyone..you are so right too..sometimes some women do it on purpose like it's their job and pleasure in having a relationship with married men.

He went back to her, because she was the only one who would put up with his foolishness. Good for them. They deserve each other. You deserve peace ♥️

you deserve better 💯⭐️😅

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Maybe not. Married men fall in love too.

That's not how it is. That's how he decided it is. Only one suffering is you.

Amen to that!!

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Sorry to intrude but I can't help not to ask. Were you and your wife genuinely in love with each other?

@@andromeda3780 no, not from my part

@@milxasap7412 Thank you for answering me. I was expecting a glare of non genuine love is what brought you together.

@@isismorrissey9075 it can break a relationship or marriage so it's bad unless you're single of course. How would feel if your wife won't talk to you for for years" won't watch a movie with you or date you? Not even greeting you Good morning or good night? I already set borders & final warning. Next time he does that I'm sending him to jail. Last check when a guy flirted with my wife he almost raped her but lucky she escape. I forgot to mention she was my girlfriend back then before I married her. Hope you understand where I'm coming from. I didn't mean to sound rude. I'm sorry if I sounded like it. Thanks & God bless you!

@@isismorrissey9075 I forgot to mention I keep notes on events be it good or bad. Location, time, date & people around. It's recorded be it hard copy or soft copy. Thanks again!

Seperated is STILL MARRIED. That is someone's HUSBAND, period. If he's that unhappy let him divorce her n become single, THEN n only then should u entertain him.

Me too :-)

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I too

Amen. Thank you

Thank u .That's real.

Amen! Well said.

I believe love is God's construct, soul's search and arranged marriage is social construct.. Social construct maybe a Satan's call, Go find your love and get married.. Follow your heart, there the God lives.. Marriage is only love, like Shiv Parvati, their marriage is 1st love marriage in the universe.. In true marriage no one will cheat

🤣🤣🤣that part🤣🤣

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Exactly

Home brake hope ur happy

@@michelleelfazzate178 You have to be in the home in order to break it up so the actual “home wrecker” is the one in the home or the marriage.

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