17 SIGNS YOU’RE MORE ATTRACTIVE THAN YOU THINK 😏

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17 SIGNS YOU’RE MORE ATTRACTIVE THAN YOU THINK // Want to know how to know if you’re attractive? These signs you’re attractive are the key. Knowing how to be attractive can feel intimidating but once you know the right skills it’s actually pretty simple. After these signs, you’ll be able to understand how to know if you’re attractive, how to be attractive to girls, and ultimately how to get a girl to like you. You’ll learn some body language, some psychology, and a bit about self-confidence. Ready to dive in? Let’s get started with 17 Signs You’re More Attractive Than You Think!
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@CoachMelannie 3 жыл бұрын

ARE YOU THE ATTRACTIVE GUY WHO STILL DOESN'T HAVE A GIRLFRIEND? LEARN HOW YOU CAN GET THE SKILLS YOU NEED IN MY FREE MASTERCLASS 👇 coachmelannie.com/masterclass/ P.S. Which of these signs surprised you the most? Tell me in the comments! 💭

@johncimino2802 3 жыл бұрын

Yes

@charlieswank8820 3 жыл бұрын

Yes 👍

@fredhamann3852 3 жыл бұрын

Master uragon

@davidthompson410 3 жыл бұрын

@Steve A sounds like u left it way too long so she's making u pay by appearing uninterested plus maybe she's genuinely moved on from when she liked u

@mrpowerfull100 3 жыл бұрын

You are freaking adorable.... What hair!!! Just beautiful... I think your correct on all your points.

@adamblair4470 Жыл бұрын

It's tough being a guy. We have to do so many things all at once. Wisdom, discipline, respect and authority.

@HansensUniverseT-A Жыл бұрын

Or you could be yourself.

@charli4815 Жыл бұрын

and then we also need to look like Thor or Cpt Amerca

@AmisCorolla Жыл бұрын

it is not, Just buy adventure bike and live your life.

@thebatman7730 Жыл бұрын

Not really. Just get your self a passion or a dream/goal and fully commit to it. That’s probably going to give you all 4 of those things without you even noticing.

@mtd1089 Жыл бұрын

@@charli4815 Not only LOOK like them, but ACT like them 💯

@stephenpenland278 3 жыл бұрын

I feel like this is the perfect map to getting friend zoned.

@CoachMelannie 3 жыл бұрын

Here are some videos about that. kzfaq.info/sun/PLsQq0KK7pJ-XdKzj6IIcUEdcSb4HimAAe God bless!

@notthebeaver1532 3 жыл бұрын

Yeah you're not wrong...😆😂🤣

@jonesey1981 3 жыл бұрын

Yea they save the friend zoned guys for after they’re done experimenting. So basically you’re right where you want to be for long term relationships. Not for scoring quickly. Different animals.

@llcooldrockindahouse4631 3 жыл бұрын

Tbh i don’t mind the friend zone and it’s not as bad as most people claim. To me the friend zone is like a sanctuary as it buys me extra time to better myself. See use the fz as personal time to get better. That’s what I use it for. I don’t use it to be miserable and incel like cuz that’s not my character. I use it to get better and make myself even more attractive. I mean I am attractive but I always strive for more. Also Melanie, might I add sign of attraction #18: always raise the bar for yourself. If you don’t raise the bar or challenge urself, ur never gona improve. It’s like that hamster on the wheel not going anywhere which fits with ur direction step. And also girls like it when the guy has purpose and direction. Cuz they wanna have the support and security as well.

@TheMan-ud2wq 3 жыл бұрын

I didnt hear her mention money... I mean come on, these things might get someone to talk with you but its money and status that keeps a woman.

@snakemont Жыл бұрын

1) Look People in the Eyes 2) Listen to People 3) You Smile 4) You ask Questions 5) Dress Right 6) You take Care of Yourself and Your Possesions 7) HEALTH is Attractive 8)

@Makta972 9 ай бұрын

Yeah I stopped @ nuber 8 too, she's so boring

@smoothlyrough512 5 ай бұрын

Only made it halfway through the video?

@222333aaaaaa 4 ай бұрын

@@Makta972damn 😢

@johndel2697 3 ай бұрын

Talking to ppl in real life is way better . But I'm sure you don't do that so that's why you here lol😂@@Makta972

@jonathanrose829 3 жыл бұрын

I already know I am attractive, It's my drool that makes me irresistible.

@brandongschwend7315 3 жыл бұрын

Let's givk

@dalehoward8352 3 жыл бұрын

LOLOLOLOLOL 😆

@Aslanreturn 3 жыл бұрын

🤣🤣🤣

@waynet8953 3 жыл бұрын

Did anyone ever tell you you're a dog!

@gamerkinetingz4135 3 жыл бұрын

@@waynet8953 😂

@xFlared 3 жыл бұрын

I'm the best listener. The only issue is that no woman ever talks to me.

@chumadoshi6987 3 жыл бұрын

Hahahaha man 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.... She's full of it... She knows you gat to be mean to get em chicks. Fc nice

@xFlared 3 жыл бұрын

@@chumadoshi6987 Rule #1: Don't ask a fish on how to catch other fish.

@eddieolson3226 3 жыл бұрын

Well maybe you gotta start talking to women. If your as good as a listener as you say then work on you and what you present

@camronreynosa4958 3 жыл бұрын

@@xFlared You do have to talk dude, but open with anything that can be short, concise and leaves popential for your targets input to get a convo started.

@waynethompson5955 3 жыл бұрын

Lol

@Metalkid1500 Жыл бұрын

I’m a 5’1 dude so any attractive traits I may have immediately goes into the garbage disposal 😂

@supaflywhiteguy7635 Жыл бұрын

I'm a 5'10 and 3 quarters dude. I feel you brother. Women only like men 6 foot or taller

@alexander63736 Жыл бұрын

@@supaflywhiteguy7635 5”1 and 5”11 are nowhere near bruh

@winner0loser2 Жыл бұрын

@@supaflywhiteguy7635 that’s not true. my short friend got a gf before I did, and my cousin’s wife is taller than him.

@hatbpto5180 Жыл бұрын

My best friend was the shortest guy in our school. Somehow he got with the hottest girls.. freshman princess, sophomore princess, junior... etc. He married a really hot woman from a rich family. I don't know how he did it though. He was kind of crazy and talked a lot.

@Metalkid1500 Жыл бұрын

@@hatbpto5180 not all men are created equal sadly

@DKomnicide Жыл бұрын

Watching this while shitting on the toilet

@CrossXseven 2 жыл бұрын

As a person who has severe autism I had to learn my whole life how to behave in a social environement, how my actions are received and how people react because none of these comes natural to me. Even if it is not to have a relationship, watching your videos helps me a lot to understand other people, their reactions, but also to understand myself and my self image. Thank You!!

@Impericalevidence 2 жыл бұрын

I was never diagnosed, however I do believe I have asperger's. I spent so much energy and time as a younger person learning what to do and when. Now, many years later, I am consistently praised for my understanding and "way". I always say "it's more than half intentional" in a humble manner.

@thecompletebasquiat6872 2 жыл бұрын

haha, me too. I have no idea what is going on socially, and like other ASDs, I choose "earnestness" and "just be yourself" advice, which is not effective. Sure, people may "like" you, but you provide no "social titillations" that attract people beyond a "hello."

@Cybersword1910 Жыл бұрын

@VasilBelezhkov Жыл бұрын

+1 undiagnosed here. I know what it is... Keeping artificial eye-contact, keeping some appropriate kind of 'smile', following a conversation which is spoken (and not written)... With all the respect to the lady who did the video - it's the Neurotypical version. We'd benefit more from an 'Autistic' one.

@B0K1T0 Жыл бұрын

@@Impericalevidence "I was never diagnosed, however I do believe I have asperger's. I spent so much energy and time as a younger person learning what to do and when." I had exactly this experience, so extremely grateful I saw it through at some point, with the help of very dear friends, and even ex-girlfriends (one of whom is now diagnosed with autism herself and we uncerstand each other so well on hindsight ♥).

@jo9354 3 жыл бұрын

Love your enthusiasm Melannie! Doesn't surprise me kindness is at the top of this list. It shows you care like nothing else can. That's the whole point, right?

@CoachMelannie 3 жыл бұрын

So true! Thanks for watching! 😀

@Jen-qt6eg 3 жыл бұрын

What a wonderful world this could be, if parents taught KINDNESS instead of deceiving children with santa, tooth fairy, and Easter bunny, etc. 1 in every 68 children are under the autistic umbrella, most from negative reactions to vaccines, and a lot go undiagnosed until late in life.

@Jen-qt6eg 3 жыл бұрын

@@CoachMelannie thanks for your video, KINDNESS really is the answer!

@adipsous 3 жыл бұрын

"Kindness knows no shame." - Stevie Wonder

@normanaraya6534 3 жыл бұрын

Ok, according to your list I'm the perfect man and here I am, single, I don't get it 🤷🏻‍♂️

@CoachMelannie 3 жыл бұрын

Good for you! Allow yourself to be proud of that. However, I realize how frustrating it is to have so much to offer and still be alone. I help men just like you every day. As important as attraction is, it's not the whole picture. It's simply one piece. If you don't have a girlfriend it's because you are missing the other pieces. If you have any other questions about this feel free to email me (melannie@coachmelannie.com) or DM me on Instagram or Facebook!

@andytheindividual3862 3 жыл бұрын

Dont be a simp and stand around brother get to work!!!

@teemoleague907 3 жыл бұрын

Women like looks or money or your house. That's why they branch to other men.

@ninjanerdbjjandfitness9544 3 жыл бұрын

@@teemoleague907 not always. Women are hypergamous by nature. She may leave because she no longer sees you as alpha. It can be money related, but also it might be because you lack ambition, and you got fat and lazy.

@kb-rr1wb 3 жыл бұрын

If u stack that 💰 they will come👌🏾

@colepearson9497 2 жыл бұрын

Yes, I would love to get more of your perspective on the matter! You’ve very keen insight Coach Melannie!

@ashtonhettich9195 Жыл бұрын

Melannie, thank you for your videos! You have helped me in getting a girlfriend-- someone I've known from undergrad, and even dated before--and she has even started talking with me about 5, 10, even 20 years down the road! Thank you again for all you do!

@DarrenBocksnick 2 жыл бұрын

Nicely articulated... Your smile makes the message even more powerful.

@abeyo1 3 жыл бұрын

The growth mindset was an interesting one that I've never heard of before?! I've got a dating coach so I'm planning to go over that one. Thanks for your assistance! You're so kind and beautiful 😘❤ plus I think also "wanting to learn new things." That should be on the list.

@HughjazzBalz 2 жыл бұрын

🤟🏾👈

@user-zr6pl6nb6z Жыл бұрын

A dating coach? Seriously? Do you think people starting relationships in previous generations had to use dating coaches? Why are we making something natural become so damned complicated?

@kittykitty643 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your reminder! Sometimes a video like this is worth watching and SO VALUABLE! Thank you for your time and effort to help men who have been affected by other situations!

@jwill9877 Жыл бұрын

It's worth watching so you know what not to do. These women who answered the survey questions are speaking from the perspective of the bad boy who did them wrong. Not the 80 percent of men they don't even notice. They want Chad and Tyrone to be more nice not the guy she friendzoned who was already nice. Don't listen to fish on how to catch fish. Listen to the fisherman.

@tebo4681 Жыл бұрын

Never ever listen to a woman about dating advice. never. ever. to any woman, ever. consider this your one and only warning, for your own good

@sidlove5798 2 жыл бұрын

You totally rock! Thanks for the advice!! God bless you and your family.

@Gem3237 3 жыл бұрын

😍 I can agree with all this! A growth mindset is at the top of my list.

@indigophanta8288 3 жыл бұрын

There's probably a lot on your list, lol

@kamarrawlings6285 Жыл бұрын

Women are quick to say what they want but never what they are willing to give.Relationships and partnerships are 50/50.

@hlubmos2chah945 2 жыл бұрын

Bingo! Very knowledgeable Coach! Thank you.

@JohnJones-nq6pi 2 жыл бұрын

I was surprised at none of the 17 points. I need to work on several of them. Thanks for your positive attitude.

@sonerozkan1794 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Melannie , So sweet to explain this complex things with the simple terms ...well done friend

@CoachMelannie 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you! God bless 🙏

@davidb3738 3 жыл бұрын

I am now traumatized after having a 2 year relationship with an extreme female super Narcissist. It scared all desire to date or even try again for the last few years. Trauma avoidance still I think.

@CoachMelannie 3 жыл бұрын

I understand and I am so very sorry! These videos will help you so much! kzfaq.info/sun/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA Let me know if you have questions! God bless! 😀

@PapeAveDonDadda 3 жыл бұрын

I know the feeling

@mymusicmysoulperfectlife1809 3 жыл бұрын

I feel that, i have avoidance trauma me too, 6 years with a narcisist girl 😒 but i have study psychology and sociology and philosophy and now im very good better than before

@keysoteriq2590 2 жыл бұрын

Well narcissist won’t be with you if you’re not attractive. They do everything to gain….

@richardzbikowski1337 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for your 17 points. Very clear. I appreciate my friends and the ladies i am associated with more.

@IAM_MATOS Жыл бұрын

Yes please and thank you!! Thank you for all the great information!

@creativethinker6691 3 жыл бұрын

I was attractive until genetics and my teeth started falling out

@Buckeye_4_Life_ 3 жыл бұрын

Well quit smoking crack lol

@LiathBahjatNorCal 3 жыл бұрын

@@Buckeye_4_Life_ 😂

@BasedMando 3 жыл бұрын

Wow, your genetics fell out? Damn, that's brutal. Are you still the same species? Or are you now, a horse 🤣🤣

@creativethinker6691 3 жыл бұрын

Had a lot of dental work done and they still fall out

@thetrickisirarelyrespond5945 3 жыл бұрын

@@creativethinker6691 its because dentistry is a scam. Removing teeth fucks up the foundation of the neighboring teeth- so inevitably they start to wobble and eventually fall out. Next stop Gumsville.

@Jefff72 2 жыл бұрын

I found that I had success when I was either working out, running, or just being active. I felt like it improved my mind where it gave me the confidence to not overdo it. In fact, I met my wife when I was running.

@unitechbusinesssolutionslt2823 2 жыл бұрын

Melanie you are amazing..!! This gives us all confidence to realize we are doing fine and just need to polish up a bit....

@1687rlopez Жыл бұрын

This was actually really helpful. Thank you!

@shinobimusic3247 3 жыл бұрын

I don’t usually comment on KZfaq/social media but I just want to tell you all watching to always love/believe in yourself. You do not need anyone in your life to validate and/or complete you! Stay gold kings!

@6120avon 3 жыл бұрын

This is a great list! So much of the dating advice out there centers around channeling aloofness and "alpha" traits. While there is merit to that line of thinking in the initial attraction stages, it will only work for awhile. Then you better have substance to back it all up, like what is discussed in this video.

@CoachMelannie 3 жыл бұрын

I’m so happy it was helpful! Thanks for watching! 😀

@ronaldboneslinger 2 жыл бұрын

This was written by a 14 year old indian in a click farm

@Colleens-Corner Жыл бұрын

You don’t have to be completely aloof or snobby but you don’t have to be needy either 😬

@adamgood5643 2 жыл бұрын

Great video thank you, It's really nice to know that there are some people out here still trying to preach kindness and niceness as a way of not just being a better person but as a way to succeed. Thank you bunches 😁.

@paulwayland2975 Жыл бұрын

Great video thank you smiley Angel😊

@taranmagee6144 3 жыл бұрын

Also I love how well all this useful information is presented. I definitely fall into the "clueless guy" category. It's nice to understand what women are actually looking for/interested in rather than just what society and media tell us. Keep up the good work!

@CoachMelannie 3 жыл бұрын

I'm so glad it was helpful! Thank you so much for your kind words 🙏

@johngentlemusic Жыл бұрын

Thank you for your sincere advice ma'am Melanie...I was happy to see that I naturally do some of the things on your list. I used to be an emotional fool who didn't what girl loved him and what girl didn't. But with nuggets like yours I am a more knowledgeable man and I still believe in christian dating,godly relationship and marriage. Thank you for helping us navigate through these murky waters. Thank you for bringing so much value to the table.

@henryleschen5141 3 жыл бұрын

Melanie your sincere advice and lovely delivery puts hope and encouragement right before me. Your fore-thought and Christian advice is willingly received so be sure I shall put into my day by day life plan. Thank you so much Melanie. Henry

@CoachMelannie 3 жыл бұрын

I’m so happy to hear that! Thanks for watching! 😀

@Sonofgod384 Жыл бұрын

Very insightful thanks for this 🙏💯

@bricebrooks609 Жыл бұрын

100% on point at 11:21 mins into this. actually on point throughout this video. Lifted my spirits

@jasonkeller6221 3 жыл бұрын

I believe this stuff is important after having a job, having a vehicle and your own place, plus showering daily helps, maybe having a sense of style 😉

@yankee2666 3 жыл бұрын

No, it's that eye in the middle of your forehead.

@dallasstiles118 3 жыл бұрын

Hierarchy of needs 😁

@dallasstiles118 3 жыл бұрын

Melanie talks about that stuff actually

@bradmason4706 3 жыл бұрын

Too sophisticated.

@briansnead4787 3 жыл бұрын

My blow up doll doesn't care that i don't shower...

@Ray-li9be 3 жыл бұрын

Loved the video. I have the woman of my dreams but could not understand what she saw in me until I watched your video. Now I know. The 17 things you mention I have always held close to my heart. I also strive to protect and support her when she has problems (rarely). Thank you for reinforcing my beliefs ❤️

@CoachMelannie 3 жыл бұрын

You are so welcome

@walterramirobeckmannvaca3309 Жыл бұрын

Thank you, a great checklist

@adriangray8212 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for what you're doing Melanie.

@truthseeker73able 2 жыл бұрын

For me it's never been about needing to attract anyone...it's about how to know she is worth it.

@man-yp1gb Жыл бұрын

Step one have a high paying job, step two look like you have a high paying job. Good looks doesn't cut it anymore.

@Karxar1as Жыл бұрын

You boost a lot my confidence, thank you

@johnwright4456 Жыл бұрын

You have some insights I haven’t thoroughly understood, and thanks

@mouraddaoudi3424 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you, think is bit difficult to convince a man you're coaching to get his dream girl, when you show up in his life with this smile,or you most be very good at what you doing as coach. Bless you😏

@ihatemyself9260 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you so so much for this video!!!! I had to take notes cause I feelt so much insecure about me but I know now that most of the times I am more attractive. I hope you have a lot of success on KZfaq and in anything that you do!

@CoachMelannie 2 жыл бұрын

I'm so glad you liked it! Thanks for watching! 🙏

@RobertWiltshire-jz2pi Жыл бұрын

Really spot on, thank you.

@Sindollx666x Жыл бұрын

Great video & I really enjoyed the outtakes at the end, very cute!

@expression883 3 жыл бұрын

Melanie, thank you - so grateful I found you for the first time just now, and beyond grateful for your warm, comforting, upbeat advice. You gently reminded me of things to be proud of and things I can work on. So helpful to be reminded, especially in these strange if not scary times to be dating. Thank you so much for a much-needed shot of encouragement and confidence. You're amazing, keep up your awesome work!

@CoachMelannie 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for your kind comment! It makes me so happy to know my videos are helping! God bless! 😀

@billybobs1705 Жыл бұрын

@@CoachMelannie there could be a million reasons why someone does not want to smile or think somthing is funny.....you are a shallow boring character not to mention the fact that you claim to have better channels on this subject makes you also arrogant. 👎

@reddrunners 3 жыл бұрын

This woman is beautiful inside and outside. Imagine if all women had her mindset, the world would be absolutely amazing. I just found her channel and subscribed. So grateful.

@CoachMelannie 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for being so kind. I'm happy you are here! Have a great day 😀

@reddrunners 3 жыл бұрын

@@CoachMelannie WOW! Thanks! 😊

@rob7296 2 жыл бұрын

She isn't real man

@socloseagain4298 2 жыл бұрын

@@rob7296 🤔🤔🤔

@Spydur0ne 2 жыл бұрын

Guys love redheads

@alejandromears2539 2 жыл бұрын

You are so attractive Melannie, I love your personality and energy. Incredible!!

@jsinger1327 Жыл бұрын

It's honestly an eye opener

@johnvonmartin7501 2 жыл бұрын

I do love the fact that dating takes challenge coz I do love problem solving. And I am a geek/ weird type. But presenting yourself as a who you are is what makes you naturally attractive.

@samanthasims7123 Жыл бұрын

Tbh same

@Kalel19711 Жыл бұрын

Yes more like this please. I'm divorced and 51 and I hope that God has a" special "next someone for me, in time. God bless you Coach 😉

@hump1953 Жыл бұрын

Great video! First time I have seen you and I will look at your other videos

@tadeuszsolowiej1522 3 жыл бұрын

Hmm, you are very warm and so attractive speaking with confidence, and assurance. Thank you🌹🙂

@CoachMelannie 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching! 🙏

@beachbum4166 3 жыл бұрын

All lies

@mr.irrelevant8826 3 жыл бұрын

Wow you have completely opened my eyes👀 you ma’m have a new subscriber

@CoachMelannie 3 жыл бұрын

Welcome aboard! I'm so glad it was helpful! Thank you so much for your kind words 🙏

@IssacBenAvram Жыл бұрын

Wow. Beautiful. Thank you. Definitely worth checking out. Holistic wholesome approach raising love awareness self esteem being giving and kind. Love it!

@Tlobbjoe Жыл бұрын

Love your smiles. Thanks for the content!

@becomingwealthy1437 2 жыл бұрын

Hooray for chivalry. Bring on the flowers, bring on the romance, bring on the eye gazing, this could be a long list lol Kindness makes sense. Brings to mind a saying. 'Always try to be nice, but never fail to be kind'. Nice that physical appearance wasn't really on the list, it should be heart that wins someone over.

@ebenezermowete9504 3 жыл бұрын

Beautiful!

@inkybehavior Жыл бұрын

Much love from stockton California. Such a blessing u are

@LeviAWilson 2 жыл бұрын

What an awesome voice! From your very first words I heard they gave me goosebumps. And being a vocalist myself (as well as a songwriter, musician and body builder) I've heard a lot of voices and yours absolutely incredible. Your boyfriend or husband is pretty lucky to get to hear that voice all the time.

@artoheino7315 3 жыл бұрын

Melannie, your 17 signs are absolutely spot on!! I am that person after the Dentist sorted my teeth, now with that extra confidence and good smile, I have so many ladies wanting my attention everywhere I go, even passing in the check out at the supermarket, I get that extra smile and gleam from her eyes and some nice personable comments. You are right, my age (65) does not bother the lovely ladies I meet (18-45), that is not what they care about. I love your videos, they have confirmed my life long philosophy that the great virtues of being a gentleman/chivalrous/kind/generous/happy/fun /creative/expansive/healthy/well groomed and confident are what all men should strive for. Thanks for being beautiful as well :)

@PatrickBateman07250 Жыл бұрын

Can you please summarize the points, please?

@aegisprotection4969 2 жыл бұрын

Enjoyed the video. Happily married, myself. The kindness one is interesting. Before I finally found my wife, one thing that a lot of women found attractive was seeing me in violent situations. That I was capable of defending things but I was never mean about it. And women worth being with recognize that distinction. So much is spot on... learning how to dress nicely, keeping a clean car and clean sink. Laundry folded. It doesn't have to be perfect. Just look like one cares. An interesting one that didn't go anywhere but still led to a date, a lady I knew saw me changing a diaper of a friend's child I was watching. But that has to be natural. It's part of kindness. I can't count how many times I have called my wife and said: Hey. I am going to be late. It's pouring down rain and there is someone walking. Let me see if they need a ride. And my wife adores me for it. (Side comment: I am careful about giving rides to strangers and evaluate each situation carefully. ) The eye contact one is.a tricky thing. Abused people don't like eye contact. Good video.

@mosesstewart7445 Жыл бұрын

Yes. I enjoy your words of confidence. Awesome.

@YoungTruthful18 Жыл бұрын

So good!!!

@kabukiwookie 3 жыл бұрын

This video was fun. I didn't know there was a thing as a Christian Dating Coach.

@CoachMelannie 3 жыл бұрын

I'm so glad you liked it! Thanks for watching! 🙏

@beachbum4166 3 жыл бұрын

Don't get confused. Christian girls are exactly the same as all the others. They only pretend for church.

@orangeandslinky 3 жыл бұрын

there isn't.

@billjackson8956 3 жыл бұрын

This surely is without color meaning that love is blind and love is what we all need. Great list. To be current, all lives matter and , blindly + deftly, goes without saying.

@CurtAndAdrienne Жыл бұрын

Put me in, Coach. I was watching your texting tips video earlier and I'm definitely going to try a few of them out.

@WaldemarvanWyk 2 жыл бұрын

I feel like coach Melannie is the biggest catch out of them all hehe

@Dario_Mazzella1975 2 жыл бұрын

Your a beautiful woman with a soothing voice. I never thought I was attractive at all but I guess I am after watching this. Thank you for the priceless advice Coach Melannie. God Bless

@azndrifter204 Жыл бұрын

For those who want to skip her long intro it starts at 2:58

@joshuamclean4588 2 жыл бұрын

Wow I see some of all of these already, and still apply the growth mindset: I see how I can apply them even more even if theres aspects already there. Thanks for the informative video.

@CoachMelannie 2 жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful!

@ronkrueger-capt_koron6112 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Melannie, I took notes and it will be helpful with me to develop the self confidence and improve myself toward finding that girl of my dreams. So far, I've liked all your videos and just keep doing what you are doing. 😊

@CoachMelannie 3 жыл бұрын

Wonderful! Thanks for your kind words! I'm so happy you like my videos 🙏

@Mrfacts00000 Жыл бұрын

Lost my confidence long time ago

@brianshields6374 3 жыл бұрын

I feel like these make it sound simple. But then in practice it seems hard.

@mr.fettesq.7705 3 жыл бұрын

There are a lot of contradicting messages from women advise givers on you tube. Just take the co census on topics they agree on. Peace

@CoachMelannie 3 жыл бұрын

They are simple they just take some practice. It's just a skill. Don't you think you (and your dream girl) are worth the effort? 😀

@sven_ampleforth 2 жыл бұрын

Hi Coach Melannie!! The sign number 8, Take care of yourself and your belogings; it was kind of surprising. I never thought a girl observes the stuff I use to see if they are mistreated or dirty or have missing parts. And smile is one of this traits I usually forget to do.

@timarnold9750 Жыл бұрын

Your Awesome,Thank You & Yes 🙏

@luingalls 3 жыл бұрын

Your list describes my husband of 18 years perfectly! They do exist. #1 on the list - he's a Christian! I wasn't one when we met but shortly after he started taking me to church (dates) I was baptized!

@johnfiveash6733 3 жыл бұрын

Yes! Melannie a very awesome and informative video. Thank you for the inspiring video. I had a very bad day today. Your video it really uplift my spirit. Your bloopers were uplifting to me. Once again thank you for the amazing and awesome video. Keep up with the awesome work. God bless you,family, and friends. Have an awesome night. Stay well and safe.

@CoachMelannie 3 жыл бұрын

I'm so glad it was helpful! Thank you so much for your kind words 🙏

@kryptonionknight Жыл бұрын

Wow. Thank you for this…

@johnpeterson5354 Жыл бұрын

Love your content!

@O_MontY 3 жыл бұрын

Please make a video regarding signs she might be getting ready to file an order of protection against you

@clarkoption1941 2 жыл бұрын

Anyone can do it whenever, so just live a life of paranoia or get one on them first

@ericperez7872 Жыл бұрын

😂

@gailsegal6843 3 жыл бұрын

Great video Melanie, From a middle aged perspective, I feel women want to be loved, respected, and taken care of (not necessarily monetarily) however, have our best friend want to enjoy doing things together. We want to compliment eachother with a respectful attitude, we want similar values, we want to put eachother first (after God, that is.) It's not as easy to find a good partner as you age because many of the good ones are already committed. Most importantly, we want to share a deep love, joy, trust, and commitment with a soul mate, therefore, grow old together as one. Many of us are in a bad relationship's but are afraid to move on, it becomes very difficult to transition the older we get because we develop disabilities, or medical issues, etc...not to mention it's hard for most people to afford to live on just one income. In my opinion, the ideal relationship is based on true love, (not based on sex), but desiring your best friend by your side, it's about sharing a similar faith, political views, laughter, responsibility, and family values....it's about putting eachother first, after God. What do you think?

@rudyfranco1009 3 жыл бұрын

That is exactly how I feel as a guy. I don't understand why it is so hard to meet someone. It is getting scary the more time that goes by.

@babyfacenelson2704 2 жыл бұрын

Sounds like great friend zone candidate

@gailsegal6843 2 жыл бұрын

@@babyfacenelson2704 that would be nice but it's virtually impossible to find a man who wants anything other than one thing - it bothers me that it's their priority.

@andyp91 Жыл бұрын

@@babyfacenelson2704 That term is ridiculous and over used. You're putting women on a pedestal like , pick me, pick me. eff the ones who are quick to judge.

@FireIceWind Жыл бұрын

This definitely helped me realize my attractive attributes even more im like wow!! 😀

@TheOcean777 Жыл бұрын

Great video. Quite the contrast to all online toxicity 😃

@donaldduck759 Жыл бұрын

I just recently broke up with my girlfriend of a little over a year, watching this video I can see how we both developed some of the unattractive things from this video, and how they split us apart, she’s really speaking facts here boys trust her.

@Ikeman59 3 жыл бұрын

So nice to hear from a Christian Dating Coach. First time of watching and listening to your video. You have a gift of communicating and teaching that makes people want to get out and be who they are make a difference in their lives and other people. Looking forward in watching more of your videos. What I have noticed is that women are always smiling at me and I smile back but am hesitant to communicate more because I know that they are not Christian and will not have anything in common. Do not want to get involved and have her liking me and then hurt her feelings.

@obithewan Жыл бұрын

Great video. I really like the blooper reel at the end lol. I hope to find my person soon. I like the insight you give in each video. Thank you for that.

@craigtudor2713 Жыл бұрын

Wow,I had most of the 17 attributes, very interesting and informative

@jameswalsh2427 3 жыл бұрын

O My God I can listen to you all day.

@maximusdecimusmeridious3784 3 жыл бұрын

She’s the ultimate hype woman haha 👏🏻

@beachbum4166 3 жыл бұрын

It is fantasy bro.

@orangeandslinky 3 жыл бұрын

@@beachbum4166 It's so nice to see some guys that are not simps and believes this long list of crap.

@parthssavla 10 ай бұрын

This is so great. Thanks for sharing these down to earth tips. You’re the best, I so wish there were more women like you!

@radiodude4282 9 ай бұрын

This is awesome stuff. :)

@TruckJulius 3 жыл бұрын

It’s an art fellas, it starts with how you feel about yourself. If you’re focused on “getting” and “having “ instead of building up yourself to “give”, you’re sabotaging yourself. Respect to Melanie, she’s helping you to build the best you not “get” something for you. This is where we are unable to use a fix all tool but rather be creative and become better men, Face our fears become better lovers! Better fathers! Melanie is definitely dropping a small piece on you but this one video won’t fix everything. Study and build yourself as you’d like and the women will chase you down... thank me later. Peace

@dougfrank8223 2 жыл бұрын

I am so glad I found your series - thank you for sharing your expertise with us! I'm a widower who has recently re-entered the dating world, and had a backlog of things to learn, so much of this has been part of my recent experience. Also: I'm impressed by your delivery. Your facial mannerisms, and /especially/ your voice modulation, is very effective. It also helps a lot that you're cuter than a box of puppies. ;)

@CoachMelannie 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching! I'm so glad it was helpful! 🙏

@TheBanana93 2 жыл бұрын

She got it lets put it that way.

@InNateWayz Жыл бұрын

@@CoachMelannie that's code for he wants to date you

@jpowell2603 Жыл бұрын

@@InNateWayz 😂

@sethsentertainmenttalks Жыл бұрын

This video is really helpful… I just finished watching and wow very interesting… thank you for sharing your thoughts

@gregfalco5278 Жыл бұрын

Good job as always. Like to learn more

@larrywelchko6136 3 жыл бұрын

My wife and I have been married for 26 years and we met through a mutual friend. I guess we were kind of meant for each other because when we first started dating we couldn’t stop looking at each other or keep our hands to ourselves. 3 kids later and some things have slowed a bit we are still very happy. I watched this out of curiosity