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I get looks from girls with boyfriends even while they’re WITH their boyfriends in public. Kind of sad but feels great at the same time if you get that.

As someone who was gaslit by nearly every social circle into thinking i was ugly and insecure, to grow into my beauty has been so empowering. People either love or hate beautiful people, and it's sad.

People will stare at you. You'll get free stuff. If you work out & become athletic, the women that used to not talk to you are all of a sudden carrying on conversations. Girls will end up in your space.

When a woman is attracted to a man she will hold eye contact and smile. It will seem like you already knew her, like talking to your cousin at a family party.

The one about you saying that guys entering a room and being looked at are thinking that they have done something wrong is very recognizable.

To know how much a woman likes you, simply compliment her (once). The amount she is happy with your compliment is directly proportional to how much she likes you. Examples Fat man: "You're hot!" Her: "Get lost!" Hot man: "I like your blouse!" Her: "THANK YOU! Tee hee!" (primping clothing and playing with her hair).

The staring one hit me hard. I always had this pet peeve of people who kept staring at me, but when I reinterpret it, I’ve had a lot of successful outcomes

Another sign is if girls or people in general get nervous or awkward or shy around u

Aging has nothing to do with girls being attracted to you or not, I am 46 and I get looks and even flerts from girls in their 20s and 30s I don't know why! And they are doing it now more than ever , I guess the more confident you become with age the more they notice that

I relate soo much with the 9th point, sometimes i feel like people have really high expectations of me, and then when they actually get to know me and come to find that im just a regular human being with good and bad points... They seem to fade away quickly rather than slowly

A man needs to walk with a purpose. Women truly notice how a man walks & stands.

Really good video bro👍 this is great for guys that honestly don't know they're attractive Story time for anyone interested I didn't think/realize I was attractive until I was 19 working at FedEx. The reason why is cause I had *REALLY* bad social anxiety, avoided eye contact, and did my best to be unnoticeable in public (but I still made good friends with people here and there). There were times I'd catch girls staring at me then they'd look away smiling, they'd ask me why I sounded different from everyone else (I grew up in Texas and have a slight accent), would usually get quite around me, and then quietly laugh as I walked away (looking back now I think that they got the vibe from me that I was a chill/quite guy that didn't give fuck about anything and kept to himself). My guy coworkers would tell me stuff like "Yo that girl keeps checking you out man!" But I played it off. My first confirmation I was handsome was when a female coworker I was good friends with straight up told me that "Almost half of the women in the building think your really cute." And that "Some of them get hella jealous when they see you talking to other girls." And after hearing it for myself it gave me a *HUGE* confidence boost, and I gradually lost my social anxiety to where now its barely an issue. The end

One thing to remember tho, even if a girl does find you attractive, that doesn’t mean she wants to actively date or bang you. She could have a BF, or you may not be her type, she simply finds you attractive. Attraction doesn’t mean you’ve won the game. It means you have a play to make if you want to, if you don’t wait too long.

Been findingmyself realizing this, hits harder when i realize most abuse I recieved is from envyous men that are competative.

I am 6'5 a lot of people look at me normally in everyday life.

I needed to hear this today... Thanks

6 is so confusing to me. I get smiles, smirks, grins, giggles, to them losing it and laughing out loud. The other ones make sense but the laughing for no reason when they see you is weird asl. Ive made whole groups of girls sitting at a table go to talking to quiet and staring at me following me with thier gaze as i walk by but also I've made a table of girls who are sitting eating together, not talking, go full on laugh out loud! Makes no sense bcs in our men brain, someone laugh when you didn't make a joke is disrespectful! Also i get giggles from late teens and early 20s when i first make eye contact with them. Before i took that as them thinking i look funny but now i get it. They're feeling really happy, flustered and butterflies at the same so they giggle as if they just saw their crush

Great content thank you.

I’ve always noticed that I had to work too hard to keep the conversation going with women, so I know that I’m not attractive. It’s common sense, really, if this is happening to you, you shouldn’t need this video. People always tell me that it’s my imagination…I don’t think so.

This is some good stuff. Very consistent with my own personal experience. Liked and subscribed.

I'm losing a lot of weight at the moment. Set up a mini gym at home. Mainly for my health. Given myself a 2 year plan to fix myself. I was told by a randoom delivery driver (a lady) that I was a very friendly guy and had a beautiful face.) despite the fact I wasn't a fit man. That comment went a long way to lift my spirits. Now I'm 53 but I have been told I look 40. I have very few wrinkles on my face and have a very youlthful face. I decided to do something about my fitness and is in the process of doing that.

ive been having short term relationships whole time this helped

The second point is very good..i observed that too

It’s not wrong to be tempted by another persons looks, but it is wrong to give into it

I get stares at work every single day its interesting lol at first i was confused by it but im used to it now and its flattering people dont stare at what they dont find appealing

It's a very accurate list

Think you! Never knew that!

Smart good look man thanks for sharing beautiful video with great message. Love you all keep smiling. 😊😍

Yeah....I got none of those but it's comforting atleast to know they won't be looking at my imperfections

An interesting thing is that a woman will show certain body parts. For example, it’s known that a woman will expose her neck and turn her head slightly to someone she is attracted too. Also, a woman will show her bare soles to a man when she is attracted and comfortable. Like propping her bare feet up on a desk. They will NEVER do either of these things if they’re around a guy they’re creeped out by or find unattractive. Personal experience, I’ve had two girlfriends who used their feet to show interest in me that way. I’m now married to one of them, and she still uses her feet to signal that she’s horny. She wasn’t even aware that she was doing it until I told her.

I’ve been told I’m attractive multiple points in my life but I still get insecure everywhere I go because I’m 5’2”. So I KNOW people are sizing me up, probably talking about me and laughing in public, labeling me as a low value dude, etc… I feel very intimidated everywhere I go because everyone is always so much bigger than me

Good video I must be more attractive attractive than I think I am because I get most of these in your top 10 top 10😊😊

Great content thank

Always been a nerdy kind of guy, short and unimpressive. Over the years had some attention from hot girls occasionally, but I was so low on self-confidence and inexperienced that I assumed I misunderstood. In hindsight, realized that I may be pretty ok on the attractiveness front.

This is really helpful straightforward advice. Alongside of pure looks, how much difference do you think that internal confidence (swagger) makes?

thanks dude i like your content

Damn. I learn all this once I'm in a relationship. Just my luck.

As a 6'4 guy with lean body, dark hair, deep voice, high cheekbones and good jawline (decent overall facial symmetry), I would say most of these are true, especially the staring part, but since all of my attractive features are genetics not self made, i've been stared at by women and men alike my entire life so I kinda tune it out at this point. I purposly just assume they will stare so im not looking in their direction and just go on with my day because I find it highly annoying that I can never enter a room without everyone noticing any little mistake I do it makes you self concious and it is more of a curse than a blessing for the most part. Sometimes you just wanna be invisible and not be checked by everyone at all times. It kinda lead to me developing social anxiety. And sometimes I wish I was just ugly so I could go outside in peace without having peoples acting nervous around me all the time and staring. Just want peoples to act normal. That is why usually when I go out I dress down alot, dirty shoes, sweat pants, t-shirt etc to not stick out as much and to prevent peoples staring at me (atleast in my head that works). But the fact that most peoples will rush in to help you if ever are in trouble is the one boon that I actually like about being conventionally attractive. Everytime I enter a store if its a woman behind the counter she will rush in to offer her aid almost instantly if I pretend to be confused but not say anything, ignoring all her other customers that is kinda funny. If you are ever around a man and his girlfriend you will have the woman hitting on you infront of her boyfriend and the man giving you the stink eye and clammering onto his gf to make it clear that she is not single while she is pretending to be single, that is another funny interaction you have with peoples when you are attractive. The fact that you can never truely be friends with another woman without her either hitting on you or her boyfriend getting omega jelous is a big negative. Because sometimes you just wanna be friends with a woman because she have a nice personality so you will have to breadcrumb her to make her stay in the friendship at all times. I think there are both negatives and positivies to being attractive, but in the end I would say that the pros outweigh the cons.

I was always overweight, didn't feel attractive, and didn't have much luck with girls - until I was forty - at which time I had difficulty swatting them away. I think it was because I was very successful at my job. Most of the girls that were hitting on me were related to my job. Conferences and seminars where I travelled to a hotel and there were other professional women there was hot. I also learned some game, and sometimes just mirroring women sitting near me was effective. Of course as someone who wasn't getting it for years, it was hard to handle all the new interest. I was also a part time professor and every semester there was one or two girls who would do anything for me.

This has happened once but I guy kept on eyeing me as if I’m a threat every time he was with his girl

I can't help but laugh. When I saw "The Disabled Casanova" in the background xD

So true 🙏

I got the most gawks from girls in my 40s. I was partly gray, somewhat overweight, so this surprised me. I had a trainer at work tacitly invite me to her training room (the smile said it all). Wait, didn't you see my wedding ring???

If a girls passes by you and at that exact moment she plays with her hair she is feeling you

I’m a good looking guy but don’t have many options… a lot of woman think I’m a player I guess. Many woman i find not attractive… i had a nice chick in the past but she wasn’t really stimulating me mentally. I’m also someone who works on himself etc. And when I’m out i see so many red flags so I don’t know where to find a quality partner that is available. What ate the odds to find an attractive woman who’s single and interested in me 😅… I’m 35 and didn’t had a long term relationship for almost a decade. I’m a bit concerned that i missed the boat although i still look 26. Anyways, i hope someday the law of attraction will bring me something interesting 🤣

Number is one opposite for me. Men look at me more than women. They have told me before, I am attractive. But I also noticed this one guy stares at me lot lately. And called me baby. Strange thing about him, is he is married man with baby. I am bisexual man. Called me baby and boy multiple times. And he also try to get closer to me. I also noticed him asking my friend about me.

There are no ugly people, only strange beauty, join the gym, dress well, gain self-confidence and everything comes by itself.

100% Truth

An 11th sign is when a couple walk by and they both like what they see.

If you don't know if you're attractive, you're not, trust me, attractive people are very well aware that their attractive.

I get many of these signs from younger women at work. It's helpful to know all this. Women my own age show little or no interest.

Women feel like I'm rejecting them or when I'm having a normal conversation they think I was shooting my shot, the whole time I thought we were building a solid friendship

9 is an interesting one

8 out of 10 has happened to me

I was at a restaurant with my friend. He's a good-looking fellow as well. A girl and her boyfriend were seated a few tables away. The girl kept giving me looks for a good 45 minutes until they left. I told my friend about it and how sad it got me that she was doing it right in front of his boyfriend but he asked me to tell him later. I was confused because why couldn't I tell him then and there, so I did anyway. As we were leaving, my friend told me that he didn't want me to speak about it because there was another girl very close behind me who was doing the EXACT SAME THING. I wonder if the girl behind me even realised after hearing our conversation.

Number 9 is the only tell tell sign, if its not dont bother watching this video

I thought that thing in the top right of that bookshelf was my index finger for a sec.

I get stare from gals and guys and sometimes girls do hair primping when they see me and sometimes they smile. I don’t get all 10 signs from gals.

I get looks from much younger women all the time, as well as women nearer my age, at least 6 today in a few hours.

I'm Oversea Chinese living in Europe, I do get a lot of friendly smile from female, always though because I am tall and slim compare to 95% of the people with exotic look, until Women start google me after a brief occasion of name exchange

I'm a 43 year old Man and I receive looks from Young and older women. I go to The gym since I was 18. That is very important.

i work as a cashier and if their girl order's the guy usually darts straight behind or beside

Strongly disagree with some of the points. You can listen to somebody because you are interested in ideas and understanding where the other person is coming from without any sexual context or attraction going on.

What if this happens but in "spurts" meaning that all of what you explained happens but in one month... then nothing until 4 months later....then nothing until 6 months....rince/repeat

In my youth, I got none of these and did terribly with women. Which made sense because I was skinny, shy, unconfident and introverted. I saw guys who effortlessly attracted girls and decided that I was going to be that man, no matter what. So I spent years improving my physique, face, charisma, confidence and social skills. I'm now in extremely good shape (6 pack abs, 17in biceps, V-Taper etc.), with an above average face, and a full head of hair. I get looks, double takes and outright stares from girls on a regular basis when I go out, and I get told that I look like an actor at least once a week. Yet... I still get the same end results. When I go out, no matter how positively the girls react to me, I go home alone every single time. When I show interest in a girl, even if she was giggling, smiling, making eye contact and looking between my eyes and lips, she suddenly loses all interest and starts avoiding me. It's driving me INSANE, because I've done all the right things, made all the right changes, get all the right reactions, and can SEE the massive difference in how people act towards me, but get none of the end results. It's absolutely maddening. Oh, and I'd absolutely help an old lady whose car is broken down, what kind of a**hole wouldn't?

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Man! This was great!! With all the dumb content about how to be an attractive guy, this was a breath of fresh air! Thank you!

Didnt tick any of the boxes

when people help me i only think that they pity me

I fully comprehend that the purpose of this video is to drive connections for your coaching business. I have no interest in signing up but I did want to comment because I am a person for whom zero of these signs apply. I am 58 and have more years within the dating scene than a 24-year-old (quite obviously). And in those many years, I have never had a single one of these things happen to me. I have to rely on intellect in order to find dates, and that can even turn people off.

Another one is if she's intimidated as you pass her somewhere. She'll look a bit awkward, go quiet. This is partly fear, but not because she sees you as a creep - this has happened with women who know me as an acquaintance and know that I'm not the neighbourhood psycho, and see that everyone around me has a good relationship with me.

Same here, use to get alot of looks from the girl's. Now that I'm older I'm invisible.

I get mostly side eyed by women. I dont know why. I am pretty jacked tho. And dont know if I am too jacked for them but wtv I like my gains. Guys that walk past me usually gives me a nod or a "phewwh" face. Is this good or bad?

For years I always thought I have done something wrongwhen I walk into any space cos people stare at me

Surprised you don't get ioi's now, you're a good looking guy imo. Sydney must have a lot of good looking guys tho.

Hey aren't u Dave Lee from Sydney Australia? I rmb your old videos lol 😂😂😂

I got all of the but still single

Straight to the point men too many segways

One girl looked at me last week..

If people hate you without even knowing you especially women. Youre attractive they will tease you and give you a hard time

I've been popular with women all my adult life but I've rarely noticed the double take maybe in clubs occasionally back in the day when they were open 😁

I will not look at a woman if she is with her bf and their walking towards me out of respect for her man. Because I know what it's like when I've had gf's and when me and my girl had to walk past attractive dudes, I hated it I was so insecure

this video made me laugh

I honestly don't even know anymore.

When a man with o without girlfriend see me... He always try to see me trying his girlfriend not see him. Do not know why am so attractive to men....

People treat me like crap. I don’t even care about if I’m a attractive guy.

Shaved my beard and I get more looks

I’ve been called handsome by a lot of people throughout my life. (That profile pic is me btw). I’m curious to see if anyone thinks these could be signs that I really am: 1.) I find that a lot of women of all ages are really nice and smiley with me in casual interactions. Even older ones 60+ (I’m 23). 2.) Sometimes women touch their hair or fidget either their clothing when talking to me. 3.) Sometimes women look up at me in passing for a couple of seconds. 4.) At my old job I worked the lowest possible position but a lot of the female employees who worked a higher position than me would sometimes call me “sir” with a friendly tone of voice.

A good personality goes alot farther than looks alone, dont forget that dudes, but dont forget, you do have to invest in hygene and your looks, men often arent taught this or they simply forget they become nasty, if you dont care about your looks and hygene, no woman will

Here in California you have to go by how many men check you out per day. (Cause California women just cant be bothered with men). Im being 100% serious.

I am disabled in a wheelchair, I'm 6' 5 200lbs fairly attractive (See picture)... What is that book in the background, The disabled cassanova? Even in the wheelchair I have women constantly touching my arms and smiling at me. I am not sure if it's out of pity...

😭 But everyone looks at me, not just girls. Guys too (yes, straight ones).

Facts😮, I'd rather work on cars or fall asleep earl. they use it to there advantage woman doesn't like honesty!

How can interprete girls screaming at me that i am pretty and then screaming oh maybe you are not that pretty while giggeling in the group

Most girlfriends boyfriends don't like me when they meet me lol They know I could steal her if I were an a-hole about it...

I only get low tier women interested in me, or chicks below my league. Does this still count?

but soemtimes i do feel like pplk look at u when u enter a room is soemtimes cos of how wird u look

I work maintenance in a slaughterhouse,a beautiful girl asked me if I used my conduet lock as handcuffs. I laughed and walked off lol

Girls always give me hard eye contact but I cant follow it up lol😅