Harold ain't sh!t.

I think its reasonable, he knew he wasnt shit

@bella24717 you're right. He knew he didn't need to try to raise that child.

Well he is a pimp. That’s about what I’d expect out of him.

That’s sad but anyway fellas, if you’re going to pimp, make sure it’s strictly white women. You only need two, and you can make $500k in a year, and do something else.

Very true!!!

Very true selling girls hate them.

Facts

Wrong

Lol

Agreed, it's plain evil inspired wickedness.

Totally agree. Also, Dilla is great

@@HiGlowie 😎🤙🏾

it's nature.. lions do the same thing 🦁

You sound stupid. ​@@dbeaufort15

He shoulda said cops. Cops are the biggest scumbags around too. Why? They have the power to be

He should of said dirty cops

Really? Not pedos?

@@user-jq3jp4pl4y that was your mom's answer

​@@BrothaJohn-br2hd - no difference.

Not just 80s… long before and long after.. there’s still red light districts everywhere. In Europe many places prostitution is legalized. Which makes it a regulated industry with safety checks and all. I don’t think anything is wrong with the oldest profession out there but it’s how our society looks at it. I mean it says a lot about a country that tries to control females anatomy but can’t fund proper healthcare or child care or education or anything else for that matter. I definitely don’t have high hopes for future.

never ending cycle 🔄

They ran away from home for a reason usually cuz they were being abused at home.

Agree 😢😢

its not the oldest profession, agriculture is the oldest profession and calling it so doesnt make it right. you harbouring spirits in you and before you say you dont believe in god, it came from the bible being call the oldest profession, nowhere else@@miss0petersburg

God gonna get him

And what about the other girl who said she'd still do it? You blaming the wrong one. Her family is the callous ones.

How is Harold the pimp any different than any other CEO in business?

Harold was pretty cold for sure but those girls knew what they were getting . They knew who and what Harold was and they liked him. Women often like the worst sorts of men and they often pay a huge price for that. He described her death as "Turnover" because to him that is all it was. He didn't care about anything other than his inconvenience having to get another girl to fill the void.

@@jdayala-wright8875 can’t think of a difference between trashy street business and professional business?

Shout out to Harold! That's Big Harold not the lit one 💪🏾 💯😁😅

Trauma is the foundation for self perpetuating trauma.

Straight into the fire when she met Harold.! 😮

It's terrible that her father did that but if you're strong, have support, but understand what's right and wrong, there's NOTHING that should send anyone to a life like this or any other illegal activity. " And lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil." 🙈 🙉 🙊

@@PabloHernandez-fm3nn Maybe at first she was of good character bud..🤷 But then unfortunately for her she met a predator called Harold who groomed her and gave her false love and support with ulterior motives..😳

@@PabloHernandez-fm3nn victim blaming. If she was strong enough lol this comment reminds me there is evil in the world hiding behind scripture. Isn’t god the only one who is supposed to judge if you’re going by those standards?

Agreed. There is likely a cycle of generational poverty and abuse. My own mother was a victim of child molestation. She wound up with my dad who was a domestic abuser. She had more resources than these women and wound up legally married eventually but it affected her children. I often think how lucky my mom was but still unlucky because it took her 25 years to leave my dad. It absolutely did color her whole life and self worth.

Also, how it affects males. It's obvious that men who are able to be a "pimp" had some kind of traumatic childhood themselves. It's not normal to be able to silence emotions when something happens to someone, or to willingly put them into harms way. It's not normal to be around children and put their mother's in the position to be harmed. Definitely not normal to see a person's death as "turnover" smh. I guess the old saying is true "hurt people, hurt people. "

It's not just sexual abuse. A child that is emotionally abused also has no self-trust, self-love and self-worth. A Hamburg study underlines that 83% of the prostitutes surveyed had trauma experiences in early childhood, of which 48% were cases of sexual abuse. Sexual abuse is horrific but not the only or main factor. Just like physical abuse, it's the message of not being worthy of respect, care and love that does the most damage.

@@carmenl163 full circle I attracted a pimp because of my own trauma at the hands of my father and I was not sexually abused. I was emotionally and psychologically abused and developed PTSD.

@@chelseamiracle128 It sounds like you developed Complex PTSD, which is the deepest wound one can get from child abuse. I'm so sorry to hear that.

me too but the odds were stacked well against him.

Such a beautiful little boy, I hope he was properly looked after and loved with a good family, this is so sad.😪

The sad truth is he was probably sent to foster family's that were in it for a check. Then went the group home to juvie to prison pipeline.

there’s a 50/50 chance that he ended up in good hands.

I watch a lot of documentaries and a lot of them are sad but this one is really gut wrenching! This one will stick with me! That sweet beautiful boy loosing his mom and being left in the care of this pimp and prostitutes. It’s one of the most heart breaking things I’ve ever seen!

I love those documentaries! I still watch them here on KZfaq from time to time.

I remember “ Pimps Up, Hoes Down”

I have a copy of Pimps Up Hoes Down. My dad was a pimp in Seattle, Portland, and Vegas when I was growing up. He kept marrying his hoes though 😂

Classic 😂🙌🏽 “the cotton club” 💯💯

Yep I remember it too. Can't imagine why they would want to be a slave

It made me sick when her Mother said she would be okay with her child being a prostitute when she grew up. Poor baby.

I literally wondered the same thing...

Beyond sad

@@magnus1001 right. I was so relieved to see that she had a boy. But still, she was smoking cigarettes while pregnant and probably rank liquor too. I hope he turned out okay, but something tells me with her as his mother (because I am sure the pimp "father" abandoned them both) he had a rough childhood. If he is still alive, he is just turned 40-years-old last year.

She grew up thinking that was all normal.

No it don't americans live on excuses u either do or don't do sumthn it's just easy t blame your past .money rules decisions & money is God...& it's great t have & shitty t not hav

@@edwintroy6957 You must understand human psychology to say what qualifies as an excuse. Thanks for your expertise.

​@edwintroy6957 Sooo.... there are no sex workers anywhere else in the world? Have you heard of the Red Light District?

​@@porshialacole6112does that make them an elite hooker?

Yup

Thank you. We need to hear from people with experience. My godfather was a pimp and he did for me than any other adult. He was a gentleman and a scholar. He spoke five languages and pimped on an international level. All the women wanted to be with him and the men wanted to learn from him. I was blessed to have him in my life.

I'm so sorry to hear you lost your mom like that.

@miapdx503 are you in Portland? Just a guess based off your user name. I moved from there to Phoenix 2.5 years ago. Folks be wilding out in the streets and didn't want my son caught up in it. I was sharing my experience growing up cause everyone's talking about what horrible lives the kids must have. I definitely had my share of troubles, but I have happy memories of my childhood. My stepmother was a square, and after she married my dad she didn't allow us to be exposed to too much. But the game was different back then and it wasn't what alot of people thought it was.

@arfriedman4577 thank you. I'm sad for her since she never really had a chance to live but I do it for her and I think that she would be proud. I loved her, even if no one else did.

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what he offers is something the women don't have- a perceived strong male presence. the women feel secure and taken care of

Yep, a total mine fck, 😢

​@@XTRABIG... if that's what they "feel" without logic there sadly mistaken.

@@elderfreeman4145 but it is real. he provides a sense of security for them. more than many have ever had.

nope that’s just her. no trauma is needed.

💯💯💯💯

I see the same thing in these plural marriages ..

They want to make anti-Blk comments, like it's the pimp's fault that her dad made her feel worthless. It's like Wuornos; what else was she going to do?

Did u close ur eyes

They also were ignorant in the things we know 40 years later. So just like how folks did t take covid seriously until it was them....they weren't worried about that then

HIV sticks with you like luggage.

21:16

@@Perfectpearl . Went back, nothing mentioned bout HIV/AIDS.

I most certain some of them was hiv positive.just because they're not talking about doesn't mean a thing.

None of them speak ghetto Ebonics not even the pimp

That’s what I was thinking. Isn’t that the allure of a pimp for these ladies, so they will be protected.

That's what I thought. I thought they stayed close while they did their thing. He didn't do shit. What am I missing?🤷🏿

It happens more than most people could possibly know…. trust me.

@@kacigriffin9335 I guess so has to be incredibly hard to speak about.

How could someone skip over something like that?!

@@Perfectpearl being super racist against black man they will acknowledge the pimping part but not the part where her own father raped her

​@@Perfectpearlright?! Lol. How did they even come up with that conclusion? 🥴🥴🥴

Are u working?

Better than the woman who was SA'd by her dad.

Children know , see and understand alot more than ppl give credit for ...esp those first 8 yrs

Whoa that's awful! You sound intelligent & insightful and I hope you're getting help with any residual damage. That would make me sick too.

@@MsNooneinparticular thank you. I study science now. cultural anthropology, psych etc I find it really helps in understanding the world and making sense of things around you. I love school lol

@@mleecthulhu yes there's studies that point. Towards how it changes not just psychological development but literally how the brain physically develops. The same as been found regarding abuse

Do you think the kids turned out OK? I would like to know what became of them.

I worked in mental health when I was in the military. My patients were civilian family members. The most messed up people were teachers and nurses (spouses) who thought the world could never happen to them.

​@@mrlevhil agreed 😂😂

Good for you 😬

Okay…want a cookie 🍪

@@mrlevhilevery time I have been in rehab or a mental hospital it was all teachers so I def believe it.

you don’t say that about asian women that worship white men

So sorry .about that .yes we are trying to stop this for years & continue to try "try " are you talking about yourself ? If so please hit me up .ill be there for you .this video is about years ago in america look for janiece riley .ill talk to you any time hun .​@@greaterthansolomon-vv4ho

They are adults born with free will.

But if you are hindered from an early age, it literally shapes your whole perception of life and love. People just do what they know.

@@FHIPrincePeter They're women that have access to information. What is a prostitute? What is pimping? When I'm involved in risky behavior to earn money, why do I choose to hand the money over to some slick talking overdressed parasite?

Where is being a prostitute glorified?

Not slaves they can go if they want. Its just rules same as a relationship unless the dude a simp and let her do what she wants. You wonder why a lot of women are single and can’t keep a man . They can’t follow the instructions of the man we lead you follow. We not equal.

It's not slavery if its by choice~not all pimps are "bad" or how the media portrays them. You can't just generalize a culture you probably know nothing about, just saying. It's not by force, it's all by choice. For everyone involved. And also not all pimps are abusive, "guerilla" pimps and not all hos are drug addicted, weak minded.

You are ignorant as hell. How is it slavery when they got a choice. 🙄

Touched a nerve too close to home👆🏼

A punk a s s b itch.. not a man

A man better than a father who touches his daughter

The government

I was just listening to that song in the car. Headlights was a smokin album. Olivia Lost and Turned Out was/is a classic.

@@empoweredselfishnesstv4102 Definitely Classic!

There is nothing wrong with biracial kids

@@Moonchild593 Who Said Something Was Wrong With Any Kids?

U did cracking on mixed kids that's who

No… just a Capitalist in Its Purest Form💯

@@MichaelBonhomme-zr3zsand capitalists are Evil!

Ryte coldhearted

Don't be fooled it's a lot alot of bad and good pimps just like it's bad and good cops.

It’s not odd. It’s life somewhere!

Unfortunately taking advantage of those weaker than you is the American way, and you can see it in capitalism as a principle. Hell, gas prices are higher in poor neighborhoods; and poor people have to endure higher interest rates than rich people.. as well as higher prices.

@@davidsamuels6734 ...very true!...I do think it's all over the world people live lives like this and are taken advantage of!

he said thats how it is, turnover--one drops another one comes

AIDS and HIV werent a thing in the 70's

yes, @ 18:35 the one talks about getting checks ups. But you're right, "safe sex" wasn't really a thing until later 80s even 90s

In the early days HIV was still considered confined to the gay community

I remember back then and watching this I actually thought Harold was not bad compared to some, for one they had their own cars, even when she handed the money to him in the car and drove off I thought it unusual, that’s a form of freedom they had and the two girls going out to work without Harold but what surprised me most was the baby shower, those girls made fun of him looking at the photo album and he took it well , looking after the children, that was surprising, back then they would have seen that as a total hindrance, letting them have their kids and pregnant etc believe me, Harold was horrible but he wasn’t mean to them, you could see that

@@kimberleygoodings1676something tells me they were on their best behavior for the cameras. I don’t believe at all that’s how it really is. He said himself “you have to be a good actor”..

That's the part that took me aback. Just sitting there on that desk, waiting to be pawned off 😢

@@bosslady1188 ain't that terrible

​@@bosslady1188 probably saved his life

They GROW UP tough…

@@sonnycheeba4536 It's still wrong regardless.

@@Jordanm218 wtf are you saying the child shouldn’t have born.. we can’t choose OUR PARENTS.. it just MAKES YOU TOUGHER and not Gullible or a CRY BABY about things you can’t control

@@sonnycheeba4536no, you’re correct, WE don’t choose our parents but OUR parents DO choose HOW they parent and HOW they raise their children, WHAT they expose them too and WHO they have their children with. And anyone saying any different was more than likely a terrible parent themselves or raised by terrible parents and trying to justify it. Poverty is no excuse either because being poor doesn’t make you immoral and plenty of poor people have been and are excellent parents and raise children into amazing, productive, educated adults.

My dad did porn do I care hell no 🤷🏽‍♀️

ain't nobody buyin d

​@@cameron6249gigolos are a thing for a reason tho

@@cameron6249 they’d rent his mouth😂

He wasn't doing shit else, he may as well have joined them 🤷🏿

I used to get mad when people would say men should stay in their daughters lives. I lost my father at 3. I am perpetually at a disadvantage. There is an aspect of sense of self that comes from having a father figure. It is sooooo easy to get caught up in this if the gap in you is big enough. That said many many women are being pimped in their marriages thinking they are safe but they are essentially building everything for the "family" at her own expense. Soon as the kids grow up the man is gone. Staying with a guy building up a business etc then you get divorced. What I am saying it its not always so obvious. It's everywhere though. Look at Jeff Bezos.... that woman gave up time. Billions can never buy time. The cruelty is the time lost. It can never be recovered.

⁠ You sound like you come out of a place of deep sadness, jealousy, and a bit of bitterness. These so-called women that are losing out on life by spending years raising their own children. It’s their own family. What more do you expect out of life?. My father walked out of my mother while she was pregnant with me. I grew up being abused by a stepfather, and I don’t have a family of my own, but I have no bitterness towards those who do. And to bring up the woman that is with Bezos is out of left field. The woman is living off of a multimillionaire, and you somehow try to make her look like a victim.

@@doe729 that's your perception. I look in horror at some of the marriages. Maybe I touched a nerve. A small percentage of women actually get the love, support and fulfillment from these pairings. I know one lady who was happy when her husband died. She raised 5 kids. From the outside, her life looked perfect. Died at 88. She told me herself, her husband was a bastard and she is glad he died. So it's not jealousy. Once my eyes opened up I watch the married folks a bit closer. Probably 1 in 20 are happy. I would kill someone if I spent 25 years of my best life to be left at 53 to pick up my life all over again. Yes I would take the money but it can't give .e back time. What if she died the next day? She would have died a billionaire with a broken heart. You people will sacrifice your whole beings for money

@@doe729, on the contrary, nothing could be further from the truth than your assessment of me being "sad, jealous and bitter." Can't even imagine how on earth you'd make such an extremely, fallacious conclusion. I'm not sure what defines a "perfect life." The definition can be subjective. But I think one example of a happy life is when one can accept life on life's terms. That's just one of many examples. As for my childhood, in spite of my father dying when I was 3 years old, I was lucky and blessed to grow up in a loving and nurturing family, starting with my beloved mother. I grew up around drugs, sex workers and the hustling culture, in general. I'm from South Dallas, in that area of Bexar Street. I've had many friends who were killed in that neighborhood. In some cases, when I'd hear gunshots, I knew who the gunshots were for. I've had friends of mine, who'd killed other friends of mine. Be that as it may, for these ladies and their children, there' this thing called "empathy." And that's what I feel for these ladies and their children. I've seen first hand what effects this have on children, when they're no longer children, becoming adults. I think if I had to make a choice, to either trust my own experience, or your gross misinterpretation of me being "sad, jealous and bitter", I think I'll go with my own experience and what I'd witnessed down through life. Not here to make any judgement. Just I wish the best for those ladies and their children. That's all that matters to me. End of discussion.

​@@triggabun you know what? I'm 60 years old. And while I've lived with a few ladies down through the years, in common law marriage, I've never actually been married. And the older I get, the more I feel that this institution of marriage is highly overrated. I've also discerned that we are systematically forced to marry, just to avoid legal complications and to conform with our chosen religion, if one is religious. But that what you were saying about the 88 year old lady is real. I know it's real! Because of patriarchy, women were socially/systematically coerced to marry. Especially back in the day.

One of the girls died within the same year

@@WayBackArchives She was living dangerously.

@WayBackArchavies Which Girl?

This is a fast money, dangerous lifestyle!!

@@platicasconyadyoficial9479Alice

😂😂😂

WATCH YA MOUUUF! 🤣

" Jerome in da h- h- house!"

His offspring is walking this earth......

Lol I was laughing and thinking the same thing 😅😂😂

You are kidding.....right?

@@georgejetson3648 Why would he be kidding? You don't want the kids to come out of this and have a better life?

@@stanleymasterson1135 You sound as if you meant to misunderstand what was said. Sure, right. Let's all sit around and do the thoughts and prayers bullshit so then you can feel like you've done something. There are no miracles and nobody is going to come along and rescue them, no matter how much anyone here want the kids to have a better life. Don't care for the truth much, do you?

I was looking for this comment . That tripped me out. I’m not judging anyone’s parenting but he was either hungry or tired. That’s normally what they cry for at that stage. Imo I don’t think she was mentally mature enough to handle motherhood. Over there playing games instead of tending to her baby…

And shawty sure was smoking a cig while pregnant 🤦🏾‍♀️

Some dont have the drive to leave and be on their own.

you don’t know that you’re just a beta male. you can’t understand how a man could get women to submit to them.

☹️

Explain? This shit was super tame brah

I understand, it was very depressing to watch

Dont ever leave the country you wouldn't wanna see wat goes on around the world

It should

This is real life , not no Hollywood movie . Grow up.

Even more pathetic they were both hoping the pimp was the 'Father' of their babies. These women needed serious mental help on top of everything else.

I have a cousin who's a product of that..in that world they use the term "trick baby"

Yea that’s insane

@@moorelance23how is he now

@crishnaholmes7730 he's actually a popular youtuber i would say his name but for obvious reasons I won't

I was 5. I miss the 80s and 90s so much lol

I was born in 83, I agree the 90s were probably best for me

What a weird comment. Good for fucking you.

She was killed on my 3rd birthday! 10/9/83! 😢

It's horrible, and I've never understood why pimping is so glorified. It's the lowest profession a man could have. But I always try to consider people's past that make them who they are now and obviously everyone involved in this documentary had a very rough beginning. I can't comprehend the amount of psychological damage being raped by your own father would have on you. And men prey on these vulnerable women knowing the hell they went through and are praised for it. It's too sad to even think about.

​@soft_serve_666 who the heck glorifies pimping-----in real life? In 2024?????

@@kmsleyang8972I was calculating my age too watching this 😞

⁠@@soft_serve_666Even as messed up as American popular culture now is, I did not know pimping was glorified in any way. I have seen a couple of former-pimp interviews and was surprised they dared to show their faces. I was cringing for this guy talking about his lowly behavior so matter of factly in the 80s. You detect an undertone of resignation and acceptance by society as a whole yeah, deeply disturbing. A man who lives off of a woman who trades her very precious self is a male, undeniable, but not a man. Don’t tell me about childhood abuse etc etc, I know a thing or two about that. It’s one thing for the people who do it, it’s another for the ones who live off of others doing this and acting like you’re a benefactor of some sort. Pfft!

Don’t share this you wouldn’t want your husband to find out about your past

@@Jewel_Screaming_Chango8387 He knows already smh lol 😆 😂 🤣... I don't keep secrets

How many housewives from 1983 are still alive?? 🤔 silly qustion.

@WeezyJeffersonYo How is it silly Weakly? If these women are in their 20s, they should be in their 70s. So based on your dumb statement, all housewives and husband's from 1983 are dead? Boy, I hate when you high school undereducated grads, comment. Overly opinionated, severely undereducated. Now. Don't respond with anger. Think. Write a well thought out response. I am counting on you, Weakly Jefferson. You can do it.

@@WeezyJeffersonYo Undereducated. Overly opinionated. 1983. All housewives are dead. Lol

@@WeezyJeffersonYo Question. Did you get your GED? You should give it another try.

@jahgirl8647 Wow. That is good to hear. Do you know of any others still around? Harold? The kid he didn’t want?

Yes me too

They’re dead expect for Harold

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Sounds like those low life guys living with their "woman". You can find him hugging her from behind in the grocery store as she pays for the food.

He don’t need to raise anybody’s children, matter fact children shouldn’t even be in his presence.

Because he would either trick him off when he gets older or show him “pimpin “pimpin

He was the father, she said he wanted a mixed kid.

@@linbee9461 Not the same woman.

@@linbee9461 that his child… maybe the last one was but def not that one.

na these women had a choice

Who is "we?"

​@@yaneverrknoFreud and Jung would probably disagree

Having 1 girl gets on a Man's nerves so it doesn't matter how many women a man has Polygny is better than monogamy.

Way better

we gon always want multiple, slow down

​@@IceburgPimp😂😂 multiple diseases

Correction women can work nerves for about 20-30 mins 😂 then after that silence is key 🔑

Go ahead and crowd source the funding and do the followup documentary.

That could be where Martin got the character from...🤔

AKA; 'murica even that far back..

the ones with men & children are worse

I thought the same thing.

I was thinking the same thing 💔 no wonder he was crying, he needed to feel secure 😢💔

Reminds me of that girl chrisEan

@@Kali2Htwn again, I thought the same thing lol

Yall really expect of a lot hoes😂😂😂

I was too!!! My heart was breaking over that...

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Could be he said his mom was a lady of the night and showed him how to do it too

Yessssssssss 😮

😂😂😂

Yooo fa sho

I get what you mean, I can hardly eat any of the ‘food’ in the stores and I don’t. I buy a few clean ingredients and cook but it’s a totally different kind of abuse.

Based post

Underrated comment 👌🏽

Did you have to sell your ass to buy it?

Pretty much in many unsuspecting aspects. We hand our taxes right over to the biggest pimp of all.

Lucky it was just smoking and not shooting heroin

Yes times were different there were no warnings on cigarettes and such back then. During these years we could go buy cigarettes for our teachers and they smoked in the schools teachers lounge.

Or alcohol.

Oh my gosh! Reality!😮

He’s a smart pimp fr, not making any differences in the women and children

Probably the Chicken Ranch documentary

American Pimp

That was a nice car back then!

can you elaborate on Great Society Act 1965? how is this an outcome? you could enlighten many..

i ran away from abusive mother was trafficked that night but never been high drunk in life rather die than be near a male like that ever again non-binary a-sexual 😷