The Rational Male: Positive Masculinity Q & A | Rollo Tomassi

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In Rollo Tomassi's second presentation at The 21 Convention Ten Year Anniversary special event he is joined by CEO of 21 Studios Anthony Dream Johnson for a live question and answer session on his third and most recent book release, The Rational Male: Positive Masculinity.
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@aydenisaiah3141 3 жыл бұрын

you probably dont care but if you are bored like me atm you can stream all the new movies on Instaflixxer. Been streaming with my girlfriend for the last few days xD

@mattfinley4544 5 жыл бұрын

Rollo is so damn passionate about helping Men...he's probably saved men from suicide. This man is a hero.

@lancelotray 4 жыл бұрын

he did, im one of 'em

@mattbabb. 4 жыл бұрын

Ray Hernandez glad you’re still around, brother. Let’s make this life worth it

@stuartkarlson4135 4 жыл бұрын

Best of the best this bloke

@RSidd 3 жыл бұрын

This might sound a bit too dramatic, but I'm gonna put it out there anyway. As a victim of childhood abuse and trauma, I had no male role model to look up to. I developed a very anxious and introverted personality well into my adulthood. I'd get these random panic attacks from time to time in the middle of the night in my sleep, like I'm in the dark and all alone in this world. It was just during one such episode recently that I saw an image of Rollo pop outta nowhere and I felt so calm and relaxed. Haven't had any such panic attack since that day for a while now. Still can't believe this actually happened!

@stuartkarlson4135 3 жыл бұрын

@@RSidd good for you man , now go do some boxing and learn how to fight and you will never have panic attacks.

@rainbowgoddess9091 6 жыл бұрын

As a woman I chose the red pill and it has made all the difference in my marriage. By embracing my feminine side I can enjoy my husband taking a masculine lead. I have become very conscious of the many masculine traits women were brainwashed to adopting as their own which only cause the sexes to drift apart. The red pill movement should definitely target more women to gain momentum - I’m happy to be a part of it.

@mohicanmowl 5 жыл бұрын

Lol what? Wrong side of the KZfaq lady

@russianspysleazeball1126 5 жыл бұрын

Rainbow Goddess Absolutely not,the last thing the manosphere needs is any female influence of any kind. Mgtow,patriarchs,Mras etc or any under the umbrella of red pill don’t welcome you. Help us by not inviting yourself in our community that way men can pay full attention to self improvement and enlightenment.

@Catholic-Redpilled-Spaniard 4 жыл бұрын

The fuck you guys on about?! Good on this lady for coming here

@Sirenity01 4 жыл бұрын

Rainbow Goddess you don’t know your own nature? How u take the red pill? Lol

@dennisvang402 4 жыл бұрын

Just curious, why do women always begin with "as a women..." in every redpill comment section, reddit post, etc?

@cowabungahgeoff 4 жыл бұрын

Red pill af. I got there around 27 and 28. I'm grateful to my pops, my early strong Male teachers, and people like Rollo.

@bam_94 6 жыл бұрын

All my primary school teachers were female except 1 , they all had shit temper issues The 1 male teacher I had was my favourite and happiest year of primary school

@coiledsteel8344 5 жыл бұрын

At near 70 now, i remember the Catholic Elementary School Nuns were good teachers, but some were "cruel taskmasters," resorting to corporal punishment. Wooden rulers hurt on 7 year old kld hands! The priests (fathers) were Betas.

@Yupster2501 4 жыл бұрын

My best science teacher when I was 13 was male, he made the subject interesting and because of that I got over 90% on the final test, however I don’t think the school system liked him so he got moved between schools a lot. Meanwhile one of my worst teachers was called miss savage, she once picked on me even though I did nothing wrong. She definitely lived up to her name.

@arthursalas8010 4 жыл бұрын

Ironically I can say the exact same thing.. that’s so crazy

@ducedevlstear2471 3 жыл бұрын

True ! I had 2 head teachers through years and they were the best !

@psychecellic 3 жыл бұрын

Valuable comment

@sendergreen 5 жыл бұрын

A friend who just went through a break-up sent this to me. He told me it makes sense to him. I agree with all of this and have talked about this to a lot of my friends. I've never had a problem with women, but I've also always been a powerful personality and extremely driven. I feel badly that men these days need a seminar just so that they can relearn how to claim masculinity. Never be ashamed to me a manly man and never apologize.

@EstablishedHeritage 3 жыл бұрын

Society teaches us from the very start to be the opposite so this is very necessary for 80% of us.

@TGP109 Ай бұрын

ALL PEOPLE go through breakups, it's not unique to men.

@Gigatless 6 жыл бұрын

I can't get enough of the fact that Rollo got dressed like a Red Pill Godfather

@jugular911 5 жыл бұрын

I can't get enough of the fact that you can't get enough of the fact that Rollo got dressed like a Red Pill Godfather.

@thedude8526 5 жыл бұрын

I can't get enough that you can't get enough that he can't get enough of the fact that Rollo Tomassi dressed like a Red Pill Godfather.

@meadydoheny 5 жыл бұрын

@@thedude8526 I can't get enough of the fact that you can't get enough of the fact that he can't get enough of the fact that the OP can't get enough of the fact that Rollo Tomassi is dressed like the red pill godfather

@Catholic-Redpilled-Spaniard 4 жыл бұрын

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA. You guys are the shit; these comment sections are hilarious

@eatd1ckboom578 4 жыл бұрын

With the hammer of thor

@WisdomQuest-v4h 6 жыл бұрын

I’m 21 and listening to this talk was fantastic. I was aware of the red pill, but I learnt a lot more after watching this. I’m so glad that I understand this knowledge. Thank you Rollo Tomassi!

@brendan9540 6 жыл бұрын

Glad you dropped this gem and made it available on youtube, 21 Convention and the Red Pill with you guys at the helm is an excellent and overwhelmingly positive thing for men and masculinity. Salute!

@AquanautSt1 6 жыл бұрын

Dudes ain't it funny how things come together. The Interwebs + 21 Convention + The Rational Male = The Renaissance of Man ! Lets fuckin' Go !

@MrSam9810 6 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for this free upload. Thank you Anthony and Rollo.

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@appolo08 5 жыл бұрын

Hypergamy seems to advantage some women over other women just as polygamy seem to advantage some men over other men. Only a minority can benefit from Hypergamy and polygamy. Hypergamy and polygamy seem to be a destructive force to modern civilizations,

@mpa8336 4 жыл бұрын

When I was in college, in 1980, I was studying Arabic. I spoke with Arab students, to improve. One- a Saudi- a Hejazi, which is, I grant you, not as conservative as a Najdi- told me some fascinating things. This was 40 years ago. He told me there was a market place in Riyadh, where women would seek out men, often married women. The signal was a special way of playing with prayer beads. Now adultery is punished in Saudi Arabia with beheading. I couldn't believe what I was hearing. He assured me that yes, this was true. He said that there were doctors specializing in surgeries to "restore" virginity. Then. Even then, Saudi men were seeking out conservative women raised in traditional families, because they knew that urban women couldn't be trusted.

@ighedosaimadegbelo6371 3 жыл бұрын

Hmmm deep thought

@vrabo3026 5 жыл бұрын

Society will do everything they can to prevent you from being masculine and everyone will suffer for it but if you end up being masculine then everyone will benefit. And I'm speaking from experience. I couldn't relate to any of the guys in my school because of my conditioning as a kid. I was so fucking suicidal because I tried to suppress my emotions and thoughts and needs simply because of the way people raised me. And guess what? Everyone hated my guts for being that way and still kept telling me I had to be that way. I was so sure I was trans, that the reason my life was terrible because I would forever be associated to a being that is capable of war and violence and rape. 21 years old now and I started to actually accept my masculine side in a healthy manor and this is the first time in my life where I fell grounded and actually happy with myself as well as everyone else around me feels a lot more safe and happy around me. I can't figure out why people were teaching me to move away from being masculine if my life depended on it.

@LiftOffLife 5 жыл бұрын

You were being indoctrinated and conditioned to be a beta male that saw females as equals of men. Glad to hear you fought back.

@ZionMediaCo 5 жыл бұрын

Vrabo glad to hear you feel better and have figured it out

@eladbari 4 жыл бұрын

Question is...if females (without them knowing)- actually lose from emasculating all men...then who is the real beneficiary from doing that emasculation? Is it the government? Corporations? And what is their gain? They can keep their power? Maybe they indirectly get more money from that?

@dopescorpio 4 жыл бұрын

Bro, I feel like you should tell your story to a wide base of people so that people who are in similar circumstances can learn from you. You could help save lives like the homie Rollo

@danieleconvertini4996 4 жыл бұрын

@@eladbari economy 101. If more women get into the work force there is more demand for a particulary job. This way they are able to cut down the wages because of the increases supply for that job

@D00kerT 6 жыл бұрын

There's something that I find terrifying learning about hypergamy. I can't put my finger on it. I don't know if it makes me see women as manipulative and parasitic by nature, but I don't think thats it. They are doing it for reproductive reasons, but it still disturbs me..pisses me off.

@constrictum 6 жыл бұрын

Dooker T How competitive are you?

@thetayterminator1436 5 жыл бұрын

Its easy to let that happen, cant be mad at them for doing what theyre programmed to do. Itll just keep you from getting better at finding your place in it all and becoming the best you that you can be.

@D00kerT 5 жыл бұрын

constrictum obsessively sometimes, other times not. It depends if I'm good at the activity/ subject were talking about. Im not competitive nor do I care to be in math competitions.

@Luke-qp9fd 5 жыл бұрын

Dooker T good ol inspector gadget 😂. I havnt seen that in yrs bud

@kovrcek 4 жыл бұрын

That's not it entirely. The scary part is that you now see through your own and female biology and social programming (mostly feminine) and that seeing makes you free from it or starting to make you free. You feel the tremendous freedom and power and that makes you terrified a little. He said that your old self is dying but better and more positive way to look at it is that you are being born again - a new man = with new life ahead of himself.

@bobleglob162 6 жыл бұрын

That's one of the reasons I quit the men's group I was going to. It was all sitting in a circle talking and lamenting. It was structured exactly how you would expect a women's group to be. It struck me as weak and passive.

@j-efaw 5 жыл бұрын

What would make it better?

@eduardohenrique8602 5 жыл бұрын

@@j-efaw dont just vent out shit. Actually change thyself and do something. Many times we as humans fear change. The only way out many times is through fear, not just speaking a out shit.

@j-efaw 5 жыл бұрын

@@eduardohenrique8602 that was a legitimate question

@mymixedbiscuit9159 4 жыл бұрын

@@j-efaw I think he gave a mostly legitimate answer. Don't just vent and continue as if something changed for the better.

@Wretchedrenegade 3 жыл бұрын

@@eduardohenrique8602 right but it's still ok to talk

@c.k.smalley2840 6 жыл бұрын

This is excellent. Thanks for posting it!

@morph6360 6 жыл бұрын

Excellent talk and Rollo is a LEGEND!!!

@kevinhamilton9920 4 жыл бұрын

Genghis Khan didn't start conquering until he was 50 years old and over the next 25 years conquered more territory than the entire Roman Empire did in 300 years.

@submit56789 3 жыл бұрын

Tartarian empire was pretty badass.

@beckaenkhtuya1081 3 жыл бұрын

Nothing irks me (as a mongolian) more than people who speculate and come up with ridiculous stories about Genghis Khan. He died at 68, not 75 as you are making it sound.

@submit56789 3 жыл бұрын

@@beckaenkhtuya1081 you're going to get real mad when you find out he was a red bearded blue eyed white guy...

@NadeemAhmed-nv2br 2 жыл бұрын

@@submit56789 you've never been to Central Asia have you? You'll find a lot of people with almond Asian eyes with blond hair and blue eyes or green eyes and other kinds of mixtures. If there's one way to describe that area, I would say it's European looking Asians

@fabricliver 3 ай бұрын

Roman Empire lasted 2000 years. Mongol Empire 70 years.

@K-reative-Nails 5 жыл бұрын

This is some amazing stuff, to put you to think. He's having some really good points here. I can really find myself in all he says. Thanks for sharing!

@codyherndon2097 3 жыл бұрын

Keep up the good work rollo. You have opened my mind in ways I didn't know existed.

@quagsire753 5 жыл бұрын

im 25, neet. All I can say is thank you. I've been suffering from anxiety, and this has just been a weight off my shoulders. edit* Jordan peterson was the closest thing that came to explaining my internal conflicts, but I was always skeptical about his idea of biting the bullet and doing what I'm told because he never explained the WHY. you've explained that WHY that I've been toiling over all these years.

@tahsin95 4 жыл бұрын

oh man, the way he relates red pill rage to basically the 5 stages of grief was spot on. He's 100 percent right; it's simply part of the process.

@fynnjackson2298 5 жыл бұрын

Solid talk! Appreciated guys!!

@creepshowbeats 6 жыл бұрын

rollo is the man, thanks for the talks homie.

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@diliphsingh1 5 жыл бұрын

Sort out the issues with Rollo. Men solves problems.

@titaniumrubber8472 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks man for helping and making young man's life better. God bless you.

@jonharper4478 4 жыл бұрын

This is great stuff. And you and Rolo had a great dynamic. Wish you two would make peace and reunite the Manosphere.

@leonardor.c.4049 4 жыл бұрын

Having read the first two books, it is as fulfilling to hear Rollo talk.

@philligzy4616 3 жыл бұрын

I feel the same way

@JKS323 6 жыл бұрын

About time. Was eagerly waiting for this.

@sonicfoxxmusic4281 3 жыл бұрын

Four months after watching this i was discarded by what i now know as an undiagnosed narcissist(hidden away..in a 20 year excuse for a relationship)...i divorced her with immediate effect and lost a daughter........ ..........don't know how to thank you guys. Fought through the divorce...Result 1 year later:50/50 split. Dealing with Parental Alienation now.

@awake2truth511 5 жыл бұрын

As a woman I find this seminar so refreshing...we so need men, real and positive men who embrace being men. TY!

@andypagakis 3 жыл бұрын

@@vitaminviter5088 yeah seek out woman who speaking out against feminism, they're extremely important for our future

@ducedevlstear2471 3 жыл бұрын

It would be so beneficial for women if they helped to build the men instead of pushing them away instantly after small slip. They are really digging a hole for them selves.

@alexnorcal3209 6 жыл бұрын

Divinely inspired leadership! 👍😎

@BigD751 5 жыл бұрын

The truth shall set you free.

@nicolem889 Жыл бұрын

Damnnnnn all of these are 2022 talking points. Crazy. The shadow elite owe Rollo some money.

@kylemccready5081 3 жыл бұрын

My therapist also turned me onto this it's been enlightening :)

@inderjotsinghh 3 жыл бұрын

Give your therapist a kiss.

@activitylog1655 4 жыл бұрын

Great points in this video I’ll definitely have to do a video on this

@benflava_redpillaware3814 6 жыл бұрын

This definitely opens a lot of eyes

@digitalbrand5510 5 жыл бұрын

Great vision here!

@alexanderworkchannel 6 жыл бұрын

Great info - Thanks

@pinosantilli8297 5 жыл бұрын

Life is always about POWER. Whether male or female.

@ourmodernworldofficial 5 жыл бұрын

Man this is so fucking refreshing to see! I have looked so long for people who hold the same ideas about trans being inspired by the radical feminization of society and so on. Good job guys! Keep it up.

@immanuel7776 5 жыл бұрын

As a young man I believe just as all men I been searching for the right answer about what's really going on. It's like a missing piece and even though you try at best to take an account to what your limited in regards of seeking out the truth it still felt like something was missing, after discovering this it has been made simple to me that coming to understand women and their nature is part of our duty as men. I'll be the first to admit I was one of these blue pilled men thinking love was unconditional but having to go through certain experiences and circumstances with different type of women I know have a sure footing who I am in all this. We might be terrified because change seems impossible but it's the first step that counts that will have you change period so guys out there who feel that they are far gone it's never too late!!

@TGP109 Ай бұрын

Unconditional love is for babies, period. Even women don't get unconditional love.

@horatioredgreenblue2130 6 жыл бұрын

Rock solid content.

@carlosfuentes2485 3 жыл бұрын

I’m almost 40 I didn’t know I was RP and masculine, I’m alpha and have a very submissive wife she’s happy in her role and I’m happy to provide for my family, now I know why I didn’t married my ex fiancé which had a lot of masculine traits

@TGP109 Ай бұрын

No, you married a woman who wanted children/family who's happy to let you work.

@brahmadasbyron180 3 жыл бұрын

55:00 That's right. The anger is at myself for wasting most of my life believing in a Hollywood fantasy and suffering the real-life consequences.

@TGP109 Ай бұрын

You, and millions of women who thought they found the ''one'', got pregnant and abandoned or cheated on.

@Mattsta2010 6 жыл бұрын

BINGO! Well done Rollo. I read the "Rational Male" and it answered a lot of questions i had regarding relationships. Rollo said "I joined the dots" Thats what it did for me. I always wondered why women could do the things they do...things I could never do. I consider that I have a sense of honour, fair play, loyalty, empathy. These are fine and noble......but 100% blue pill. Give them when they are earned. Rollos book hardened me the fuck up. The chat that my father never gave me.

@erichakim3452 4 жыл бұрын

Bless your dad.....with society the way it is, there are so many conflicting messages ....thank goodness guys like Rollo can speak for them

@andyshelly3473 5 жыл бұрын

its is always easier to fool a man than it is to convince him that he has been fooled ! just a fact to consider . PS i knew that you were going to say ( fly fishing ) before you said it . thank you for your informative work it really means allot to me and i hope many other men get this message as well .

@thecars570 5 жыл бұрын

Hell Yea Rollo!

@phillipadams3103 4 жыл бұрын

I think its important after going through redpill rage is too focus on channeling the new knowledge on doing positive things for yourself and get fit healthy and enjoy old interests! Enjoy the company of men and women but also beware of hypergamy and know the red flags of cluster B personality disorders

@TGP109 Ай бұрын

What about male hypergamy?

@heavinessofsaturn6515 6 жыл бұрын

Rollo is sporting the Mjolnir. Hail the olde Gods !

@Mattsta2010 6 жыл бұрын

I have a hefty one on my key ring....I swear when I grasp it i feel the power.

@theyetti90 Жыл бұрын

This actually aged pretty well. Too bad there had to be a falling out. This was good. I'm going to have to come back, take notes, and get at least the first book. 21 you recommend any of his other stuff? I'm not going to become a student of his, but there's clearly something here.

@Szycha8412 3 жыл бұрын

Good clip :)

@neddyf00 4 жыл бұрын

Anyone can make a short resume text of this ? importent points. I cannot understand english well. THANKS.

@brandonthomas75 5 жыл бұрын

I consider myself really lucky to have found the Red Pill prior to ever even getting married or anything like that. I see too many guys my age (24) and younger who have fallen for the feminine indoctrination., and a lot of them now are trying to regroup and figure out their next best plan of action. #preventivemedicine

@Flitalidapouet 4 жыл бұрын

It was so sad to see 21 Convention turn on Rollo Tomassi for a battle of Ego. Something that could have been so great !!!!!! Looking at this video a second time now, I can see the physical cues that Anthony was SUFFERING and very uncomfortable for not being the top dog. Look at his non verbal language. The guy is obviously suffering of all the attention being on Rollo when he is on stage with him. Rollo even tries to softens the blow by looking at Anthony often to kind of share the spot light. How could I have missed that the fist time I saw the video, Oh yea, I was only looking at Rollo as everyone else, and not caring for Anthony, as everyone else. He clearly was suffering from that.

@ElMundoDeSam95 3 жыл бұрын

Yes and the videos this dude uploaded talking shit about rollo was a very low blow....it shows weakness to wanting to destroy a guy that you used to idiolize because of envy...this guy ego is huge...i also believe they could have been good friends and they had a simple ego clash and they became enemies i believe is either one of those 2 options

@yonatan3001 4 жыл бұрын

Mind blown

@BC-hmm 2 жыл бұрын

59:00 - I’d push back on this: lads “crack open a cold one with the boys” and talk about life ALL THE TIME. Many popular podcasters (like Rollo!) are just men having conversations about life and not necessarily, say, restoring a 1978 T Bird.

@traderdoc 5 жыл бұрын

I have 1-itis so which book should I read first

@rolsonDotcom 6 жыл бұрын

Growing up I always heard the commercial "ACE is the place with the helpful hardware MAN!" Not anymore! Now it's "ACE is the place with the helpful hardware FOLKS

@terry9238 5 жыл бұрын

ACE is the place that drove the independent hardware store out of business.

@christisdone 5 жыл бұрын

man i feel like shit after listening to this man. just upset to learn all this shit. thankful tho

@DaveE99 4 жыл бұрын

Something I’d love to know what rollo thinks about ester perel. She’s a couples psychotherapist that has done spoke good work. It dosent jump in red pil, but was more curious his thoughts as a lot of men follow her I know. And I’m jumping into a bit of both eventually. Thoughts?

@mastersinr 4 жыл бұрын

Anthony has great bladder control been chugging water

@mattvdh 5 жыл бұрын

awesome presentation but please get a mic for the audience questions next time

@mcali-reviews5585 3 жыл бұрын

I don't even think there's even an audience or maybe only like 10-15 people that's why they never show the camera to the audience

@CambiaAhora 3 жыл бұрын

Love this man, no homo.

@babykosh5415 3 жыл бұрын

on point

@hugo3796 6 жыл бұрын

Concerning the last statement of Rollo : "women talk, men do" women - women interaction = talk men - men interaction = do So what kind of interaction would be "evolutionarily natural" for women - men interaction. Talk or do ?

@thetayterminator1436 5 жыл бұрын

It would be a man doing while the woman tells him hes not doing it right lol

@TGP109 Ай бұрын

Really? How many diapers have you changed? Ever made appointments for someone else? Shopped for groceries for a whole family? Cooked for a whole family?

@oppressive1770 4 жыл бұрын

Some much truth here.

@fishertheadore6095 3 жыл бұрын

Really appreciate Rollo for His Honesty and candor when it comes to the Transgender issue, really *Appreciated.* It's really a Problem. But if He would *CANCELLED.*

@DaveE99 4 жыл бұрын

There was a video before where he mentioned hypergamy and moms and sisters and that guys are the romantics and believe in love answer stuff. And it wasn’t long ago I had been devalued and pretty much discarded by my n-mom. Trauma+hypergamy sucks. But alas, first you make your beliefs, and then your beliefs make you. Never count on love from a woman. When your own mother can pull that shit, it makes you wake up.

@alejmc 4 жыл бұрын

As a guy that has spent quite a few years learning this, I find myself at a crossroads regarding what to do next... I went through all the grievances, starting very young with books from the likes of David DeAngelo at that time (which was mostly PUA) but was too young to grasp it fully until the fully developed community we have today. I have had the horrid rejections, some bad close calls, suicidal thoughts and so on. I feel like just giving up and continue doing the things I like, at least for now while it’s “safe” to do so... but I feel is only a matter of time where not only approaching a woman is a hate crime, but also making a movie or a song about something. Look at the films and video games industries... the witch hunt is real. Also, I have come to accept that I’m very far from an ideal alpha male that women would insta-bang: short, mildly fit, fighting with tricks against balding and height. Being a decent average looking guy is far from enough... unless I’m willing to pick up the leftovers which I won’t. I really don’t feel the courage and have been growing scared of women more and more. What’s a guy to do nowadays and what’s the future? Any thoughts greatly appreciated.

@maximus9402 4 жыл бұрын

Lift weights and monetise your "passion". Become self reliant.

@TGP109 Ай бұрын

Few women ''insta-bang'' anyone.

@alejmc Ай бұрын

Wow, this comment aged like cheese. Pandemic years ended up being a great time for me, got in shape (running half marathons and whatnot now), learned to live with myself, learned more about what makes us tick as men and women, furthered my hobbies, been a bit lazy pushing forward a product idea but because I have become quite the money saver and finally very comfortable financially (inflation included). The main win is I sleep like a baby at night, discontent has melted away and am very careful of relationships as soon as they get a tad angsty or too competitive, not scared of jumping out of it. “Instant sex”: while I now agree, I’m still surprised of the things I have seen happen to a couple of extremely good looking friends from the most unusual suspects. But agreed, it’s still rare for the vast majority. The difference is it doesn’t affect me anymore at all. (Will likely be deleting this whole thread as it’s a danger if someone like HR or anybody with a knack to destroy lives gets to it. But appreciating the couple comments, completely missed the first one years ago.)

@4sername 5 жыл бұрын

Anthony Johnson's voice sounds like Dan Patrick's to me

@javiermgtaoism5702 4 жыл бұрын

After listening and reading Rollo's blogs and recordings; like many of the 85 percent that are Betas, I realized that to climb that Himalayas of information is an impossibility in just one lifetime. However, I now understand that I am with the majority out there. Tom Leykis made me angry but I could not stop listening; it was because I was so blue pilled. As I began to peel the layers of memes, I learned to love Tom like a father. Now, here is Rollo with a more civilized or diplomatic way of sharing things and I still shift on my seat for knowing that I have such a long way to go. Even if I had known about Rollo's books back when I was young; I was simply not ready for this kind of information. Thanks Rollo for giving us awareness that is very necessary to navigate life, dating and dealing with women with a more trained mind.

@divin777 6 жыл бұрын

@Rollo , would the third book come in an audio format? The previous two books I was able to hear them for the second time each and the connection with the women became way more clear. I felt those truths before at a gut level but as you said here I couldn't point it out. Now it's way more clear again. I wonder if the book "Positive Masculinity " will come also in an audio format. I like a lot that audible app 😎👍

@rob4643 5 жыл бұрын

I bummbed rollo wasnt wearing his beanie

@shokojimhollingsworth3940 4 жыл бұрын

100% my "red pill rage" was self-directed, as in "how could I have been so blind!?!?!?". Not angry at women, or hating them for being and acting true to their nature, but angry that I kept making the same BP mistakes until I was nearly 50.

@Davidrodriguez-rz1sp 3 жыл бұрын

This man saved my life. Took the red pill at age 23 and never looked back. So many mistakes made in my past as a high school kid who didn’t know how to be a man. But now that Rollo is in my head 24/7 things regarding women have never become so clear. They are the most predictable creatures in their behavior patterns.

@TGP109 Ай бұрын

It makes me laugh that Rollo is teaching men to be men when, if you didn't have a good job 50-60 years ago, a girls parents wouldn't even let you date her. Why is having a good job and a future so difficult?

@jeffa964 3 жыл бұрын

Does rollo ever reveal his entire head?

@pinosantilli8297 5 жыл бұрын

You just said Rollo that monogamy is relatively new? Then why up in arms if a woman want to leave you? And hypergamy up?

@randommanny7659 6 жыл бұрын

I am not bitter. But it is really frustrating hearing all your life how to behave to find someone and Puff.. You eventually find out that it was all a huge amount of bull crap! Naw scrap that, I am a bit bitter

@zenden6564 5 жыл бұрын

Being bitter yes I understand, you was robbed, have a listen to YT Ronin Man, he'll take you to a better place.

@RexApplegate 4 жыл бұрын

It's not funny, but I did laugh out loud at the cluster B disorder purple to red pill transition, because that's what I did. I cannot thank you guys enough for the extent to which you are helping me unfuck my life. Better late than never.

@derwandschauer 6 жыл бұрын

Did anybody ever bring bipolar personality disorder in connection with hypergamy?

@RolloTomassi 6 жыл бұрын

We've got an upcoming Red Man Group talk that will be dedicated to BPD women. Stay tuned.

@derwandschauer 6 жыл бұрын

Rollo Tomassi good.

@derwandschauer 6 жыл бұрын

Rollo Tomassi I was diagnased when I had my first relationship problems with 20, but it just feels, knowing what I know now, that it was a switch from beta to alpha male (mania) and back (depression). Since I know about the red pill, it is completely under control. I have words now for it.

@fredflinstone8750 6 жыл бұрын

I was just reflecting on that

@suspicionofdeceit 6 жыл бұрын

Roger M I believe Anthony Johnson has a few videos dedicated to it.

@yungavelle 3 жыл бұрын

I'm 33 no kids, in law enforcement and in the process of becoming financially free. Im just now waking up to this after a relationship of interest ddnt turn out how I'd hoped. I can't help but feel idk frustrated? Disheartened? Like how do I navigate my way into a healthy relationship with a woman and what does that look like? Is it even worth pursuing and at the same time I feel the urge to have children with the right woman...anyone else can relate or provide some insight?

@MasteryOrder 3 жыл бұрын

Have a value system and keep your word no matter what. Pay attention to people's intentions rather than their status, looks or current position in life. A good character builds great relationships. A good relationship is one in which both of you develop at the individual level for the common purpose of building a family. It's a hard path if you choose it, but worth it in the end. Hope it helps to some degree. All the best to you!

@danieljones2435 3 жыл бұрын

Get out of law enforcement might be a good help.My dad was a LEO. That prof has got a bad rap with women. Same w military and corrections.

@bb-us4ew 2 жыл бұрын

Most cops I know are alpha males just read listen and apply it won't happen over night it took me 4 years to shake off the blue pill condition good luck on your journey !!

@yungavelle 2 жыл бұрын

@@bb-us4ew listened learned applied. I'm thriving now 🐺💪🏽

@JA-zs7fw 4 жыл бұрын

few men are real men nowadays. as a gay guy I always look for masculine guys

@Mr.Eminem 3 жыл бұрын

How can a gay guy judging who is real man lmao

@nelson983 3 жыл бұрын

U are a feminine woman who has been confused and brain washed,,o feel for you

@baddogkelevra1 5 жыл бұрын

My boy Rollo rocking the Mjolnir. So funny that one of my favorite guys got his name from one of my all time favorite movies, L.A. Confidential.

@MrSamwiseable 5 жыл бұрын

As a beta male for my entire life, I scratch my head at the fact that I've slept with as many women as I have. I was a virgin until 20, when I decided to stop believing my parent's lie that Christians should wait for sex until you're married. I started trying to have sex with as many women as possible. While my "bodycount" isn't high by any means, I still scratch my head as to how I've gotten laid so many times with the beta mentality. It's not supposed to happen that way I thought. This is in now way a shot at this video, but now, after becoming more "red pill" aware, I'm not entirely sure how to go forward with women. I always believed the lie that women eventually will like the "nice guy." It should be noted that I was raised by 7 women: my mother and my six older sisters. I had nothing but estrogen around me while I grew up. Anyone have any thoughts?

@cronostrigger6401 4 жыл бұрын

if you are good looking and naturally good with words you will attract woman but doubt they will stick around unless you have something of value

@venkyramaiah9146 6 жыл бұрын

How do I counter the arguments from feminists about hypergamy.. And their argument is in the lines "if men can always go chasing more beautiful women what's wrong with women going for men with higher social status..."

@21s 6 жыл бұрын

Hypergamy is dualistic, covert, and hidden. Men loving beautiful women is overt and well known. - ADJ

@venkyramaiah9146 6 жыл бұрын

21 Studios this surely helps.. Thank you

@terry9238 5 жыл бұрын

More women are now open about hypergamy. That hasn't made men any happier.

@GamingTranceSeer 4 жыл бұрын

@Millenial Subutai Women are more likely to pass on genes though since they have always been reproductively valued. For example, what about all the men fighting for Gengis Khan who never had a woman to be with? Many men in his time didn't get to pass on their genes, but you can bet almost every woman who wasn't killed gave birth at least once.

@DivineMasculine0101 2 жыл бұрын

Mjolnir chain around his neck ⚡

@izak-jn3vi 5 жыл бұрын

I was hoping i get some info about positive masculinity - I got none. I want to be a husband and dad - i am not interested in being a player. How to do it with the Rollo's knowledge of the female psychology?

@GamingTranceSeer 4 жыл бұрын

Tom Leykis has some talks on it. Paul Elam too had one about the constant power struggle women push.

@trailcat71 6 жыл бұрын

Are there resources for raising a boy to not be a defective girl?

@justlloyd7881 4 жыл бұрын

29:30 Glad I'm not the only one who suspects such...

@richardview1281 3 жыл бұрын

Rollo looks like Brett Favre's older thinner brother.

@richardcasey7521 4 жыл бұрын

I have been red pill my entire life. I’m 73 and have lived my life exactly the way I wanted. My girlfriend lives a mile away and understands my red pill beliefs.

@eyedoodle 5 жыл бұрын

Male speakers I deeply respect: Eric Edmeades kzfaq.info/get/bejne/mrqXecR4ta3Kg4k.html Joe Polish: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/jNyBjNqA0d6UeI0.html

@wukong203 6 жыл бұрын

I am a male science teacher, and I don't know how to teach boys. Do you have any idea? Cause the school system expects a classroom to be in order and to be quiet. Boys are expected to glue their butts on chairs. Girls actually are doing better in school.

@MrKevin486 5 жыл бұрын

That's because the entire education system is geared towards female nature and how females learn and totally ignores how males learn. The only way to defeat it is to NOT follow the curriculum. Problem is then you dont have a job. This is a serious issue.

@cronostrigger6401 4 жыл бұрын

i agree girls have been doing better then boys in the last 20-30 years. woman have not been a minority in education in the time frame. males are graduating in much lower rates. and still woman get preferential treatment

@Lucid_Waking 5 жыл бұрын

Has anyone here taken the Other red pill?

@christofeles63 5 жыл бұрын

Granted, all characterizations of gender-based attitudes subserve the program (emancipation from the female interpretational prerogative). Nuance interferes with this project, which is strategic and ideological. But where does this leave all the temperamentally atypical men? Just in terms of MBTI personality inventory, the only categories in which there is a statistically dramatic divergence between cognitive styles is the NT type, with ca. 18% being male and 7% female, and the NF, with 17.5% female to 10.5% male. What may be true on average regarding how men communicate, only sometimes applies to individual men. In other words, there are a significant number of men with high affective/empathic intelligence for whom authenticity is absolutely essential, even if they are, in the bigger picture, a minority. Which is not to say they do not share the goal of putting a check on growing female hegemony in the media, education, human resource departments, and social work.

@philligzy4616 3 жыл бұрын

We should invent an actual redpill you wouldn't believe how many people around the world need this. I'm from Uganda btw, you wouldn't even expect a comment from Uganda but that just highlights my point. A friend of mine, a fellow Ugandan, introduced me to Dr Tomassi Rollo and I've been hooked since

@MasteryOrder 3 жыл бұрын

Inventing an actual red pill is looking for a quick fix. You have the resources for what a red pill does in front of you when you look in the mirror. Make the choice to be strong and take action. All the best to you!