Being confident is like a cheat code for real life

*Shyness is when you turn your head away from something you want* Jonathan Safran Foer

Charismatic celebrity: *exists* Charisma on Command: It's free real estate.

Whenever I'm nervous to introduce myself and talk to someone I always think to myself, "they're probably just as or even more nervous than me" and *believing* that I'll be leading the conversation always ends up with me *actually* leading it. When I started leading conversations I got more comfortable and secure with the people I talked to and my confidence level just kept going up.

1. COMMAND ATTENTION 2. SHARE THE SPOTLIGHT 3. FULLY COMMIT TO YOUR ACTIONS

If you're an introverted person: Play around with the volume and tone of your voice. Get more into your characters as you tell a story. Speak as if you expect to be listened to.

*Best thing you can do is get into more social interactions*

4:22 Bold of you to assume I already have friends

I struggled with this for 20 years, it stopped me from making videos and filming in public for so many years, until one day I just snapped and said, "F it" "what's the worst that could happen?" and then realized now that nobody even cars because they are all busy looking at themselves...

Spoiler Its 2 min of straight eye contact without blinking or saying anything

This video is going to POP for sure!! Man you’ve helped me so much that you’ve inspired me to start my own channel to help people overcome social anxiety and become the happiest and most confident version of themselves! Thanks and much love!

Confidence is never an easy 1-2-3 step. It's an long journey, but one worth taking.

Thank you so much Charlie for sharing! I think the hardest part to realize is that confidence is like a muscle and that we will continually have to work on it in order to maintain it. All it takes is a little courage! This is something I always try to remind my audience too.

This seems like a video on "how to grab more attention" than "how to go from shy to confident"

I think you should make a video on charlie from charisma on command he's charismatic af imo

If you’re trying to get your friends attention just start laughing, they’ll wanna know what’s funny

I love this channel so much. At first you might think It may sounds pretentious to give advices on how to improve your charisma but the way they angles their videos is so helpful. One thing that I have learned is that there’s not one type of charisma but there’s so many different types. The only goal is to find your own charisma. The one that helps you feel better being yourself.

What a POWERFUL trio to do a breakdown on! Awesome!

Yay I love the way Dwayne commands attention by being super nice and attentive to others, I resonate with that so much more than commanding attention on my own since I am genuinely super interested in what my friend groups have to say 😁 Thanks for sharing these various stances!!

These tips really do work. I am very shy and started doing a lot of these as a "character" 10 - 15 years ago and it wins people over (and attracts some jealousy....which is a confidence booster too). Be goofy and make others feel that they matter and you will win at life.

You should do a breakdown of how Kevin Smith tells a story. He tells extraordinarily long but immensely entertaining stories. I would love to see how you breakdown his storytelling skills and how he manages to keep the listener immersed in it.

I for real LOVE your channel! When I was younger, I wasn't that shy...but bullying took the confidence away from me. Now I'm learning to be the same old girl, what I used to be. And thanks to you! This channel has taught a lot!

2:11 yeah this tip is MAJOR. I've always been a talkative guy myself, and over the years have figured out better how to make space in a dialogue for the more verbally timid people in my life to feel encouraged to speak fully also. So that's what I can do for my part. But man it would make things flow a lot easier if shy talkers would JUST FINISH THE WORDS they were saying without pumping the breaks on their speech at every little utterance from a reacting listener. The excessive politeness gets boring when we keep lurching out of a discussion into pardoning each other and politely offering "go on" "Oh I was just saying I agreed with you.." "no really you go first!" Just talk over me ffs! lol it's not rude if it's just enough to hold your own and complete thoughts.

I’m still in the uncanny valley, unfortunately.

This was amazing, great balance in using all three as examples, each with their own unique strengths and yet applicable to all. I completely agree on being assertive with volume/tone of voice.

Jayden getting interrupted is basically a super power of mine 😣 New problem I face now is learning all these tips (and from other vids) and wanting to apply them... but I know I'll be thinking really hard on it all, obsess and probably end up overcorrecting or coming off even more awkward 😅😔

I'm always amazed at just how much these videos resonate with me. Thank you so much and please keep doing what you do.

Thank you man, this truly helped me out. I feel like I’ve been going towards the wrong direction, but this video gives me the confidence to KNOW I actually am going in the correct direction.

Nice combination of the three stars to show how each style can be combined. watching and rewatching these videos all the time to gain even just a little bit more insight and something to try out to see what happens

*When you realize that people study professionally on interacting with humans*

This channel has touched and changed many peoples lives. It certainly has helped me immensely. I’m grateful, thank you. 🙏🏼

Ah, the holy trinity of confident comedic charisma

I’ve never nailed a high five, too many different variations

I love this video. I want you to analyse confident people more often like this, it's so entertaining!

Man i absolutly love your videos and your work definetly buying your course as soon as quarantine is over. Your a great guy. Charisma = being a better human being

I’m so glad I found this the day before I see my councilor. Gladly appreciate the mentorship!

*If you could be like Kevin Hart or the Rock, you'd be rich and KZfaq famous.*

REALLY nice summary! I am practicing all the time how to be s better communicator fron these tips, and it has been so rewarding ♡

Honestly, you are a life saver! You make me want to become a better version of myself :) Thank you!

Great advice! Confidence is the key to actually obtaining the things we really want in life. Always remember that people less talented and qualified are doing the things we dream of on a daily basis. Confidence is a game changer that makes what is seemingly impossible completely obtainable. ✨

Dynamics, dynamics, remember DYNAMICS! Building and breaking tension is super effective in any aspect of communication or entertainment.

That beginning hit me real hard, I'm 100% that wallflower. This is just what I need, and i would love more of it!!

I think you should make a video on Adam driver. Really love the he carries himself around inspite of having social anxiety

Wow.. what a combo talent mix?! Simple, highly effective and applicable from a lovable team. It just feels good to watch this video. Any1 else? Hands up guys and girls 🙌🏼🗣️👏🏻

wow, just yesterday, i was repeating myself to not fall out of conversation and it really helped)

when we create awareness of our thoughts and feelings, we can recognise what's making us feel intimidated, awkward, uncomfortable... maybe we are afraid to be judged! we first need to know ourselves and the stories that we tell ourselves so we can let go and make a change only to become a greater version of ourselves :)

great stuff!! i'll definitely try one of these! 😮

Damn you people from charisma on command, your content is top quality ! Many thanks. Will practice.

Dude jumanji the next level was freaking awesome.... Blew part 1 out of the water 🌲

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thank you for these video's you put up on your channel. i'v learned a lot from them. :)

⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:25 - #1: Command attention. 4:38 - #2: Share the spotlight (turn it back on the other person). 8:13 - #3: Fully commit to your actions.

Great video man!!

thanx. these are great videos.

Great video I hope to use these to my advantage

Thanks a million for your invaluable content... it is amazing

The most useful channel on KZfaq

Haven't watched yet, but I know I'm gonna benefit.

Keep going & moving!!! 👍🎄

The rock taking care of that butterfly is pure poetry

Thanks man!

This video is awesome! Can you do one on Andy Samberg soon, I feel like he’d be a really interesting study

Great video, yet again :D

Karen Gillan deserves a video. Everybody adores her.

Like always an awesome vid! 👍❤ some of these I just already do. I need a video on how to not overdo things or be annoying. I loved your vids on confrontation, because I think people discuss things too "heatedly"? I know I get too emotional most of the times when the topicis really important to me or the opposite opinion really harmful.

4:08 onwards, just look at Danny De Vito.

Sick vids bro Xx

Thank you . It was best content!

Has anybody else been getting unsubscribed? It’s happened to me for a few channels and I’ve had to subscribe to this one at least 3 times.

I speak loudly on accident sometimes when I’m exited on the things I’m saying and it works people turn around and listen... some people do point it out but it ends up uplifting the mood and making other people more energized and awake

Great, great video as always guys, but i really hope that you will one day do a charisma breakdown on Raymond "Red" Reddington from the TV show The Blacklist.

'the 2-minute rule' - 13 minute video

what got me out of my shell was watching videos like these then driving UBER. Helps a lot to just live in the moment, and have no hesitation in what you want to say

Hi, I like to start of by saying that I love your videos!!! They've helped me so much. The only problem that I have that there are barely any girl role models in your vids. Id appreciate it very much if you'll include confidend women in your videos. Thank you so much❤️

Thank you! 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

I've noticed that the lesser you fear being rejected as if you don't have a specific reason other than to have fun and just approach people with average confidence because at the end of the day... you aren't seeking their approval for anything you are only having fun and enjoying yourself because, once you have set the tone and the vibe, your "intentions" become more clear and the the more you are likely to be "invitied" into the(ir) group simply because of the fact that you aren't looking for a seal of approval or trying too hard you only want to have a good time. Most importantly... Confidence Creator has a very good point - "Confidence is not about they will like me. It’s about I will be okay if they don’t"

This is why I'm subscribed

lack of self-appreciation. And that can be based on real circumstances in life where you lost touch with your environment and yourself. These tips are undoubtedly great for people with the mind to apply them but I don't really know how to get started. I will try what I can.

7:16 "high fives are actually an easy way to spread positivity" 2020: *Indeed*

Could you please make a video on James McAvoy? He’s incredibly charismatic in a very unique way! I want to know how he does it’

*A flower blooms out of dirt, penetrating through asphalt.*

Here before 1k views! Thanks you for the tips :)

It is really interesting how it varies what society appreciates or at least tolerates/sees as confident/positive based on culture/age/gender/looks. For example some of your suggestions would be viewed as attention-grabbing and bad style in many european places. Also I think some of it is only accepted in men, not in women or some gets strange/creepy when you are older.

Shyness is such an obstacle to fulfillment! It's so sad that a mental limitation like this one can prevent us from reaching the happiness and success we deserve!

This video comes over like how to be like the 3 main Jumanji members

00:50, wow little Kevin makes Jack Black look big.

I see The Rock in the video, I hit like. Great video Charlie! Any chance on doing a video on Henry Cavill? His charisma is so chill and laid back.

shyness is the biggest wall to your success

Bro Charlie never misses an opportunity to play that Jayden clip.

this guy actually really knows what he’s talking about

This is a really good content...Nice job Charlie. P.S. Let's breakdown Jamie Foxx's charisma

Can you do a video on Cliff from Once Upon A Time In Hollywood? He's one of the most chill characters ever and I kind of admire that aspect of him.

How do you respond when people say something mean or rude to you? Specifically, What do you suggest when people are being derogatory towards you at work? What do you do if you are being blamed for something you didn't do at work? How do you respond when you are being written up at work?

Real confidence is to say "it‘s okay that i‘m the weirdo in their eyes" and to keep ist cool. Real confidence is, to Act like you want Talk about that what you want and don‘t overthink, what other people could think of you, if you reflect your inner outwards. The Main goal of a human should be to work on your character, shape it in the best way you can and the easiest way to shape it is to avoid to be to people in that way that you wouldn‘t want that somebody else would Act and talk in that way to yourself. And at the end to love and push your self, if you cannot push yourself then push others, they will push you up for gratitude. And by the way confidence can easily be pushed by different things like: - Your appearence ( if you are good looking, so work on your looking and make the best version about it) - Knowledge ( who knows more, can talks more and is trusted&listened the most by others, so go get some knowledge for example by reading ) - to be brave( braveness comes from Trust in your self in something and trust to yourself comes from experience in something and experience comes from "to do something often“ , for example if you are shy at talking to women, than talk everyday to women that you DON‘T know and everyday you get better in it because you get to know them and your inhibition threshold gets lower day by day. Kevin hart wasn‘t always so calm on Tv and by the way he isn‘t funny every time, but the thing is, he tells mostly jokes that he finds funny, so when people don‘t laugh sometimes, he doesnt get down because of it, because he doesn‘t fear to fail, failure is the most important things in the live of every confindent human, because failure Build you up, if you accept your failure and try it again next time, but in the better way. So please don‘t talk and think so superficial about confidence. Nobody have to be to liked by everyone, be your self and don‘t be someone else‘s copy. If you are loved by a few people, that‘s okay, they love you for that what you are and that should be way more precious for you. If you want be happy, be confident If you want to be confident, be positive. If you want to be positive, find your inner peace. If you want to find your inner peace, don‘t do negative or shameful things. Life is short, so it isn‘t so worthy to be shy to strangers

I'm not shy at all and this is still helpful advice

My problem isn't drawing attention! It's knowing when to deflect and when to lean into my awkwardness. Being super awkward in every social situation is literally my thing.

once i get enough money i will join this university for sure

For me, who grew up painfully shy, its not about how to grab attention or get everyone to pay attention to me, it was about how to avoid all of that. So the issue I have is how to become comfortable wanting to grab the attention and not avoid it. I even find it hard to write about but, my face would turn red as a fire truck at the drop of a hat. That in itself was a very strong deterrent for me to even put myself in a situation where there was a chance I would be singled out. I would become embarrassed just because it was obvious to everyone that I was embarrassed. I always thought that if I could somehow block my face from turning red, it would allow me to at least begin to try and overcome my shyness. As I have grown older it has faded somewhat but, I have missed so much in my life because of it.

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I'd need a specific exercise to speak loudly and repeat myself cause even thinking in my head I get too nervous to do that.